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geosegun:
@ Busta; but if you are dating a guy. he can give you money even if u have getting married to him. enh. If he doesn't give you ll say he is stingy abi. but you that does not give you are trying to play safe, right? if everyone keeps to himself /herself where do you think the relationship will end.
come-off it lady. forget about your past experience and move on. for the fact that the other guy f^ck up does not mean another guy will do same.

ti a ba ni ki adiju ki eni buruku fi koja , ti eni eni rere yio fi koja ao kuku ni mon.
I strongly believe you understand the proverb right?

Don't get it twisted.

1. I can only speak for maself and not all the ladies on here.
2. If you read ma post well, I basically was talking about my past experience and I clearly stated that I wasn’t saying hers might be the case
3. I can’t answer your question becos I have never depended on any guy before in ma life to make it through in life. Thanks to God and to my folks
4. My post read “I once dated a guy”. Obviously, this is was wayyyyyyy in the past and I am def over it and moved on. Stuff happens and it is either you let it weigh u down or you learn your lesson, dust yourself and move on. I did the latter.
5. I have absolutely no clue what you wrote at the end, looks Yoruba but got no clue what it means.
6. You might not and don’t have to agree with me, but that is my opinion all the same.

aisha2:
She is squating with an Aunt, she is tired of squating, she works hard earns a lot she deserves to have a place she is comfortable,, I never said she should rent because of him but she should rent because she needs to enjoy the fruit of her labor, life is short, i know how fustrating it can be living under someones roofs especially if you are working, you come back all tired after dealing with diff kind of people and instead of getting to rest you still have to deal with a different set of pple with diff expectations. She does not deserve to put her life on hold till he gets a job.

True dat!

Then again, once she acquires the rent or a place, he will start coming by and proly move in with her since they are engaged and all. Then what happens? She is left to pay the bills, cook his food, give him moeny to job hunt around . . . it definately boils down to the same thing.

I definately know that liing with family can be very tedous. Then again she can squats with friends or maybe find a room mate.

Hell Nahh,

Do you?

Cos they were never taught during their "Home training and Life lessons" that one good turn deserves another.
Funny thing is that not all Nigerian men are like that.

I once dated an akata guy that has "zero" mentality on what it means to put ladies first, common courtesy, or treating a lady nicely. My bf now is nigeria born and breed and he treats me like a Goddess. Opens the door for me when we go out, hold my shopping bags, buy me stuffs, take out for dinner dates, pulls the chair for me to sit, helps me in the kitchen to cook and clean up . . endless. Some women do have them!!

Growing tired of each other? Either of the party not trying to make any effort.

Nope. . .

Ever had a "near death" experience?

I WILL NOT ADVICE YOU TO RENT A PLACE FOR U BOTH FOR NOW COS THE WHOLE WEIGHT WILL SIT ON YOUR HEAD. . . Unless of course you guys are already married which you are not. . . Its only going to get harder for now.

My advice, remain where you are (with your aunt) and let him stay where he is (with his friends). This way, you guys can save up enuff money until he gets a proper job and you both can rent a place and afford a proper marriage.

@ Topic, seriously, how is this anyone's cup of coffee??

Nope

Do you like Dogs?

The earlier you find a way to tell your mum's step bro . . . the better for him to move on and accept fate.

How you do it, I am not sure. Maybe tell your mum, your sis or an older family member.

What is wrong with having fabroids?
There are surgeries to have them removed these days . . .hey, as long as you love the person, why shld fabroids come btwn y'all?

Ma own 10cents

1. The relationship is only 6months old . . . what will happen when y'all are one year? You will prolly be kicked outta your house for not paying your rent. Yeah you love him and all that but I always tell girls no matter how much you love someone, you always and ALWAYS gotta put yourself first.

2. Giving him money all the time does not help him but makes him even more lazy. Times are hard but a man gotta be a man at all times. When he gets desperate, something will definately pop up.

3. I once dated a guy and was so crazy about him. took some money outta ma savings to help him buy a car. He was jobless and I also gave him ma credit to hold unto incase and whenever he needs anything . . . guessed what? it was maxed out. Barely 3 months later we broke up. I can't take the car from him and can't get my money back and left with huge debts and gbese to pay up. I am not saying this will be your case but this is something I will NEVER do again (give a guy money). I am sorry but unless we are married, I definately ain't shedding no money for a guy. If you are broke I will support you in the best way however possible.

LORDZIDANE:
POSTER
ARE U MARRIED IF YES (THANKS 4 SLAPPING HIM)
IF NO (U SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE DAT)

IS HE A MARRIED MAN IF YES (SAME AS ABOVE)
IF NO (SAME AS ABOVE)

Yup . . . Agreed!

Nope

can you cook?

Yes

Do you?

Nope

Do u like Lady Gaga

Yes, was young, silly and naive then. . . and oh S-T-U-P-I-D

Have u?

How true is this new pls?

Hotter than hell? any idea how hot hell actually is?

Yes, Occasionally

Do you work out?

Ferrero Collection . . Yum

LOL . . . don't forget that some of the stars above actually gain or loose weight easily for movie roles.

Nope

Do you or did you ever watch the TV series "24"??

Definately not aware of this trend

LMAO . . . isn't this supposed to be on the joke section?

Hell Yeah

Do you play chess?

Wumine:
trying to sleep

Me too . . .trynna sleep!!

nahh . . . not in Africa and definitely not in Nigeria.

Ok