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HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 4:10pm On Nov 13, 2014
aboki2000:
I only wanna know the full meaning TEHN simple !
At least you do now.

jaybee3:
Account details
Nigerian Account: Please pay to
Name: Oyewale S. Oyetunji
A/N: 0026812459
Bank: GTB
Add DJDOLA as reference
Paypal: Please email ehelpersnetwork@gmail.com
Hallelujah, finally. Phew.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 1:26pm On Nov 13, 2014
remsonik:
Team A is still working on modalities on how to transport him from eruwa. We are trying to get ambulances that can be of help as transporting him through a public park bus/car might be risky considering the rigors of lagos ibadan expressway.
We have also established contact with Reddington and the kidney unit and we will furnish the house with our report on that later.
Good progress.

Also see if you can get a "second opinion" from the receiving Doctors of whatever hospital he ends up in. This would help reduce costs, make sure he would not be subject to further blood tests he has already done and would reduce his risk from radiation from the imaging equipments...


It is well...
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 1:17pm On Nov 13, 2014
colossus2:
Do you remember the option ABC?
That's what's happening behind the scene.
#decipher?
All I was saying is that with the two differential diagnoses on the ground from two separate Clinicians, a final diagnosis/third opinion needs to be in place with the stage and percentage of the conditions would be known, so that any red flag, false alarm, false hopes, contraindication, comorbidity, etc could be ascertained/explored...so the urgent patient care management the OP needs could kick in ASAP...and so that people would know what they are donating for...
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 12:47pm On Nov 13, 2014
jaybee3:
I've sent you an email
Let's deal with this emergency first. Y'all can work on the logistics later and I can see that Seun was nominated on board as well, bravo.

So let's roll on with the donations. Counting down 3,2,......


EDITED @Jaybee3

This is about DJDOLA. Time is of the essence, and there is no time like now... Worry about the family dog and kitchen sink and whatnot and whathaveyou later...
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f):
jaybee3:
Can you please send me an email => ehelpersnetwork@gmail.com so i can discuss the rationale with you
Yes sir.

But again I repeat, this is an emergency, DJDOLA needs funds to start rolling in asap, TEHN is transparent enough and have never been found guilty of embezzlement, drop TEHN's nominated account details ASAP.

Let's get the ball rolling...before I kick it in your groin. Grrrrrr



aboki2000:
op get well soon !
BUT PLEASE WHAT IS TEHN ?
TEHN is a charitable body founded by Nairalanders for Nairalanders and friends of Nairalanders ON NAIRALAND. They have been in operation over a couple of years and have helped raised millions of naira for good causes. I will find links of the kind of help they have rendered and post this on another thread for your perusal, in order not to derail this thread Sir. Thanks.


@naijababe, shey because they exempted you from staying dia because of the face-me-i-slap-you-accommodation dia, which would be prejudicial to your fresh Ajebutter skin, don't worry, TEHN's next project would be to raise funds to convert the rooms to duplexes to your taste tongue
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 10:45am On Nov 13, 2014
Me I am joining Team somebody-wake-r231-up-from-bed-with-a-drop-kick-to-furnish-nairalanders-with-TEHN's-account-number-on-front-page-so-donation-can-commence-RIGHTAWAY...This shouldn't stop budget being worked on or finding out previous balance.

This is an emergency, you can use TEHN's account, since it's tried and trusted as tehn has raised millions before and not a penny went missing.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 11:51pm On Nov 12, 2014
colossus2:
You guys keep it up and keep playing behind the scene roles angry
Na today una know say Nigerians like feferity and bureaucracy and protocol...since early this morning people have been asking for what's up/how to donate/where to donate oh...a whole day don go...hian


Dem never jam. When the "upload everything before we donate one kobo" crew enter, dem eye go clear cool
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f):
cool
bebe2:
WETIN DEY BOIL UNA BODY?

pple calm down we re all here for the good of the guy.

its getting to the point where we re now scared to say anything for fear
of being shut down.

no one has all the answers.
Did you quote the right quote? After all "Jesus take the wheel" is a feelgood saying!

Gboliwe:
Where did you see Eruwa's results and diagnoses?
Dialysis was mentioned on the 3rd point listed by naijadeyhia or is dialysis used in the realms of dentistry or fishery undecided lipsrsealed
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 10:34pm On Nov 12, 2014
In the other news, is there now a clear diagnosis on ground, because LUTH's tended to Oncology, whilst ERUWA is leaning on Nephrology...


This is a clear disparity that needs to be addressed surely, incase anything else is being missed out...
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f):
naijadeyhia:
Please there is a reason for selective words and guarded information. nobody is deliberately withholding any info meant for NL its just that "we" have some who speak without discretion here. So bear with "us".
NOTED cool

Hmmm, na wah oh, I thought the reason given was information was previously withheld because of the potential effect it could have on the patient.

Again, noted cool
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 8:44pm On Nov 12, 2014
bebe2:
hmmmmm

why is reddington being ignored?

cant we start investigating reddington now?

if he is going abroad, why india? why not germany?
Jesus take the wheel sad sad sad
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 4:53pm On Nov 12, 2014
olu4life:
Best option so far... Pls house wats ur take on this?
cc Gboliwe Caracta Chaircover
Cc Ifyalways to hook you up with Doctor Joe or whatever his name is at Reddington Hospital.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 4:42pm On Nov 12, 2014
olu4life:
Thanks so much for this info
cc Caracta Gboliwe Busybody2 Chaircover et al
Way forward pls? UCH is definitely out of it
He should get an ambulance and go to Reddington Hospital.

Mr Gboliwe should update his best friend Mr Cramjones who promised to foot the bill. Another Nairalander also promised to allow DJDOLA use his medical insurance.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 4:38pm On Nov 12, 2014
jaybee3:
I know Iyalode

There are other ways we can help if ever needed. That's the message i'm trying to pass across
I have nicely told people to carry their politics away from this thread. This is a life and death matter here...All DJDOLA needs is a credible Doctor/Hospital and for him to survive this ordeal first, so anybody that knows what help to render should do so, instead of repeating ad nauseum that TEHN woulda done this or that...


Once the OP's health has been stabilised and he has been given a clean bill of health, then people with an axe to grind with Seun can state their concerns/frustration...This is not the thread to roast Seun alive.

And we have to be careful we don't frustrate those already helping as they are trying their best too. Thanks.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:59pm On Nov 12, 2014
olu4life:
Sorry to take u back. The last I checked u clearly stated u can't help Brian cos u peeps don't handle medical cases again. So y saying otherwise?
Olu4life, it's okay. God sees, God knows, God cares...

I wish Brian safe flight tonight. May God be with him. Hope the surgery goes smoothly and I wish him safe journey mercies back home.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:54pm On Nov 12, 2014
Caracta:
Yes. I have also made some calls. We have to move him to UCH. The doctor said his kidney is badly affected. The good news is that the fluid has been drained so his stomach is flat now. The doctor mentioned he can relieve the symptoms. But I suggest we move him to UCH.
Have the Radiographers, blood bank, etc at UCH resumed from their strike?
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:52pm On Nov 12, 2014
jaybee3:
We don't have any new medical case that we are working on but of course we are always happy to help if and when needed.
We will look at ways on how to assist with this case as a matter of urgency if needed
Politics and wordplay don't work with me Jaybee3. Fear God.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:40pm On Nov 12, 2014
Gboliwe:
Now I am liking Marcjane all over.
She must have passed her WAEC English summary very well.
When she came up, she just told us : Donations continue, no derailing" cheesy and we wanted to eat her up.
At this stage, that's the next step since its now strictly on a "need to know" basis.
Thank you.

Obviously the diagnosis on the ground is bigger than what the Doctor Egunjobi originally suspected, hence reason for her comment for donations to continue. This is enough info for the house IMHO.

You have done very well Miss Marcjane. God bless you. A Nairalander has promised to foot the bill, thanks.


aisha2:
They handled Folakes case, kept donors informed, ensured she had what she needed and even when she died used the rest of the money to help the family set up.
Post is here in the health section
Okay, lemme rephrase that. TEHN is not currently handling medical cases.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:32pm On Nov 12, 2014
aisha2:
Oh tehn
[size=14pt]Has TEHN started handling medical cases again?[/size]
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:14pm On Nov 12, 2014
Caracta:
God bless you.
God bless you too dear. Take time to collect your nerves. Marcjane's post is self explanatory enough.

(((hugs)))
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:08pm On Nov 12, 2014
marcjane:
PLEASE KEEP THE DONATION COMING AND WE MUST PUT HEADS TOGETHER NOW.NO DERAILING OF THREAD AGAIN.
Thanks babe for reassuring us that he is still alive.


Thanks to Caracta, waliyllahi and gateleo too.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 10:16pm On Nov 11, 2014
Waliyllahi:
d dr is a renowned rural surgeon and a role model to some of us. i just dont what his diagnosis was or proly its nt d kind of end stage cld's we see here often times here in uch.
There is 2 of the OP's document uploaded on page 3 of this thread. Or perhaps when you get there, you can ask for the paperwork at LUTH to get an idea of what was done compared to what the Doctor in Eruwa is investigating.

May God go before you guys and may His protection be with you guys till your sojourn back to your respectful base. Amen.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 9:43pm On Nov 11, 2014
Waliyllahi:
Lols, u dont expect me nt to know what to ask. im nt goin dre just for visit bt fact findin. [size=22pt]we (medical students) go to that same clinic for our rural/community medicine postin experience usually in final year.[/size] i want to know d doctor's mindset abt d prognosis
Some good news at last, phew.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 9:41pm On Nov 11, 2014
Idowuogbo:
Chei!.This wOman and narratives hen, your commentary na die. grin
Na the e-Doctors wey diagnose over 10 medical condition for DJDOLA alone dey make me update thread oh because of the fear he has spread...


Now DJDOLA carry hin slippers on top head run go bush hospital before dem add heart attack join hin liver condition, dem dey para again...
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 9:29pm On Nov 11, 2014
Gboliwe:
I am hopeful, very hopeful it won't be as scary as some are making it seem. Its possible sef that the doctor who was handling him at LUTH is a student doctor sef. I don't think a specialist handled his case at LUTH. These student doctors can sabi know how to scare somebody. I choose to believe this because its calming to my soul.

I remember when I was ill and went to a hospital to run a malaria test some years ago and because I didn't want to self medicate, I asked not only to run malaria test but to see the doctor. The student doctor then took my BP and shouted chei! Just the shout alone could have killed me. Then again he told me " so you stay alone, better find somebody to be staying with you incase you have heart attack in the night. Your bp is very high 140/100 and something bad may happen to you when you are alone" (paraphrased). I didn't know a thing about BPs then and to be honest, I almost died. Lol. Anyway, the point is, some of these doctors know how to exaggerate a case. I pray that's how it is in this case and that our bros will be out of that place stronger.

You didn't reply my mail.
You are a clown cheesy cheesy cheesy

There are different kinds of CLD, many of which do not require liver transplantation, so I believe DJDOLA would be fine. The Doctor that saw him at LUTH is a qualified Endocrinologist with a speciality in Diabetes. He was born in UK, trained in UK before relocating to Nigeria, so I guess he was working with what LUTH had...


Nigerian Health system is actually good because it is modelled on US style, whereby they run you through many tests at once to diagnose what the issue is, hence reason it is expensive. It's their over-medication I don't like. Unlike UK where they do diagnosis by exclusion, lol...unless you are nearly dead here, no matter what you have, na paracetamol you go get and the Doctor would have already written out the prescription before you finish stating your symptoms. After 2 weeks you get antibiotics, and the diagnosis no dey pass "it's a bug going round"...some people wait two weeks to get appointment to see GP, and it's not rare to spend years on waiting list to see a Specialist. Or is it the one that the qualified Doctors will be flipping through their book in front of the patient to narrow down the symptoms to a diagnosis. Our A&E nko, if you are seen within 10 hours, it's your lucky day, and don't be surprised to see yourself spending hours on a stretcher because there is no available bed. And just pray not to fall sick after 6pm and on weekends because na student Doctor go attend to you...and if it's a serious case, they have to start paging Doctors most of whom would not respond, so most time they have to fly in a Doctor from Europe which takes hours...and pray this Doctor speaks English...I hail NHS
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 8:27pm On Nov 11, 2014
bebe2:
Well, I had quietly decided to take a step back because of the way the family were behaving and a few pple did d same.

Now , if he goes to Reddington, lets say they charge 3m. Can nairlanders not raise dat money?

Social media is a powerful tool and we have it.

But the op is at risk of losing pples sympathy if his family does not refrain from doing as they pls wit his life.
No please don't give up please.

The OP discharged himself from LUTH when he ran out of funds, came to NL to seek for N25k to go back to LUTH for further tests, instead got a lot of horror stories about LUTH, was told UCH and LASUTH are better...but the people in charge of imaging such as Radiographers, etc, have been on strike over two weeks meaning he would not be able to do scans, blood tests, etc...he asked over 20 times for referral elsewhere...got no cogent response because everyone was still brainstorming...


Reddington Hospital's name came up...but calls of "he shouldn't be at home/he should be on a ventilator/no hospital in Naija can handle this case/he has to travel to India tonight" drowned out this option...in the end DJDOLA out of fear opted for this Clinic at Eruwa...
FamilyRe: Where Are The Majority Of True Nigerian Men? by Busybody2(f): 7:56pm On Nov 11, 2014
naijababe:
I am not a fan of stereotypes, so in general I often avoid people who like to use labels. That particular trait has and I believe will continue to serve me well.

I love black men; in fact I love Nigerian men kiss kiss kiss. When I was shipped to Britain at 18, I knew within a few years that nothing but a cocoa brown of the naija variety would cut it for me grin. Some of my friends were keen on white men because they wanted biracial kids and they supposedly make better husbands. I was having none of that, it had to be a nucca and a naija nucca for that matter, it didn’t matter if he descended from the east, west, south or sahel. All I wanted was a naija man with his usual special brand of swag and ‘toasting!’ grin Certain lines are particular to Nigerian men, I have not heard non-naija men use those lines grin

If I am interviewed today and asked what mould of men I consider Nigerian enough to be married to if I wasn't married to my true Naija hubby of course , my first answer would be King Sango of the old Oyo Empire, he may have been arrogated all sorts of mythical powers but any man who could marry women as strong as Oba, Osun and Oya was no weakling and certainly didn't need to demand respect from his wives. From contemporary times, I can only think of the Late Rev. Oludotun Kuti, husband of Mrs Olufunmilayo Kuti and father of Olikoye, Fela and Beko Kuti. Rev Kuti in particular is ultra-special because he made all his marks in education while his wife Mrs Kuti was all about politics, a mean feat for their times. The other man that comes to mind is Dr Ekpo, the husband of Margaret Ekpo; in fact the history of NCNC as a political party would not be complete if the names of these two women’s were omitted, what Mrs Kuti did in the West, Mrs Ekpo did in the East. Two strong Nigerian men married them and did not stop them from achieving dreams; the fear of their wives stealing their thunder apparently did not come into play.

The history of Babangida’s regime as terrible as it was will not be complete without mentioning Maryam’s mark. She is behind the creation of the ‘Office of the first lady’, maybe someone here can convince me that Babangida simply could not control his wife. We can't possibly have forgotten Stella and Turai so soon; strong women even if their strength was to our detriment. I have heard many oral accounts of the rifts between Awo and Akintola being largely fuelled by their wives, might have been hearsay but mama HID and late Mrs Faderera Akintola were no pushovers even if the office first lady was non existent.

The truth is that Nigerian women have always been strong and independent even if there are good and bad kinds. That some women are all about money is not new, many of our musicians sang about it, I remember the apt descriptions of some women as a kid as being 'Olorunsogo' women, but the men who coined the that term also described their opposites as 'Surulere' women.

Has the world changed so much that some of our men only want ‘yes’ women as wives? So much so that strong women can only be described as rude and disrespectful. I can’t think of anywhere else where Nigerian women in particular are bashed as they are here on NL. Some of these men need to start taking responsibility for their behaviour. You are what you attract after all.
Having used all my brain cells finish to read and assimilate all these ogbonge big big English words, na to siddon look remain or go practise my a,b,d so I go fit reply in Yoruba language embarassed embarassed embarassed




shocked shocked shocked shoot, procastination will not kill me. First thing tomorrow morning I promise biko, dang, I'm sowwy embarassed embarassed embarassed
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 7:16pm On Nov 11, 2014
Gboliwe:
Maybe its not as bad as it seems
The prefix "chronic" does not mean a patient is at death's door and I claim this is not DJDOLA's portion in Jesus' name. "Chronic" in medical term means a condition that has lasted more than 6 months, whilst its "opposite" acute means something that started suddenly...

Some CLD don't need surgery, just medication or maybe a lifestyle change...so hopefully DJDOLA would be back on his feet before the end of this week in Jesus' name...


colossus2:
Okay dear. Thanks
Thanks for understanding Sir.

How is your best friend Justwise cheesy...don't wanna derail this thread...we will jam later preferably on his section. Its been a while since I looked for his trouble he looked for my trouble lipsrsealed
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 6:47pm On Nov 11, 2014
colossus2:
No dear you didn't get the point.
Okay now let's say he requires 1k to get there, how do you send money across to him?
Okay he drops his account number, 5 persons deposit into that account.
We need someone closer to that location.
If I stay in that location and I don't have money to visit, I don't think I have to request for fund. That's why it's called volunteering.
You rather missed it. He "volunteered" SELF and TIME, which was all he had...That is a very commendable thing to do...Everybody on this thread have been giving either in cash or "kind" eg prayers, words of encouragement, someone even volunteered to use his own car earlier on this thread and only requested for fuel...so its not our place to knock back and dismiss ANY offer of help in a disdainful manner.


Besides whomever eventually gets this errand might still need a financial boost depending on where they are setting out from and how long their stay in ERUWA will be...
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 6:02pm On Nov 11, 2014
Caracta:
Update.

Test/Scan result is out. Can't remember what he called it. Something like CD abi CTD (no vex, I don forget). The doctor said he can treat him just as he has done with so many cases. Treatment starts fully tomorrow. The doctor told him not to pay a kobo until he has been fully treated. He said we should please let him remain there.

However, one of the volunteers together with Mynd (probably) will pay him a visit tomorrow so we can be double sure.
It is well. May God continue to empower you and strengthen you Miss Caracta.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 6:01pm On Nov 11, 2014
colossus2:
Wonder why transport fare should be sent to whoever wants to assist. It's not like going down there would exceed 1,000naira...
We all know how Nigeria is, and how wide the gulf is between the haves and the havenots...Someone on this same thread donated the last N100/N500 they had left on them to DJDOLA's cause, this money was meant to be for their feeding that night...


@Toonice, may God bless you abundantly for your kind gesture and for volunteering your time.


TheCongo:
Merci maman.
Thanks Sirree.
HealthRe: I Need Help by Busybody2(f): 3:32pm On Nov 11, 2014
TO WHOMEVER IT MAY CONCERN - You know "yourselves"


This is a "very sensitive" thread and should not be used for the politics playing out here...This thread should not be the platform for any "i told you so" ish...


It is well...

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