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pretydiva:
Two made men

What make you called them "mad me"

My friend was called from home for a job which over 100 people applied. The day he went to the office, the woman said I know you will be great because I have heard much about you (connection) . The guy got the job same day and salary was negotiated yet he didn't bring any CV or documents.


He has been working for over a month now, the HR reminder him last week his file is empty that he should please submit his CV and credentials for documentation. There are over 100CVs in the HR office waiting for attention but who send them?


Job in Nigeria has gotten to a level that you need more than CV. Grace and connection do the work.

drsugar:
Love from a lady without sex is a scam. Love from a man without spending money on you is also a scam. #TakeOrLeaveIt

You stated nothing but the nac.ked truth.

HenryDion:
Am independent but single.. From the quoted, It's not all women that discourages their husband from tapping into opportunities and please, don't generalize it. Op feels concerned, she wants to be part of whatever deal the hubby is making cause they are in the race together. His engagements aren't a secret, but the wife not having a little glimpse of what's going on within will no doubt feel isolated and at some points, come to a false assumption. Like i said earlier, communication makes all the intentions and desires known.. If they were not having any issue via communication, this thread won't exist. Whatever you're doing, carry your wife along unless she doesn't care.

You have a point. Your opinion anyway.




The last time I carried a woman along in a risk decision business, she always crumble the whole thing.

Different stroke for different folks.

HenryDion:
You seems to allow your feelings take the wheel which is so lame. Am not against engaging into other forms of biz to remain financially buoyant.. But doing that without carrying your wife along shows of a man who lacks destination and vision. It's not always about the money young man, it's about making the right choices without your commitments paying the negative price.

As a young man, it's not everything you involved your wife. That is the bitter truth. Most will discourage you. Women aren't too good when taking some risky business. It is better you run alone sometimes.

What is the wrong choice the man has made now? Please are you still staying with your parents or you are fully a grown man? If you are fully independent, you will understand better not to talk of a man with family.

Women and nagging/ complains...


Your husband don't have enough money, they will complain...

Husband has no job, they will complain...


Husband involved in others business to make money, they will complain...


Husband come very early from work, still complain...

They come late... complain...

The man is too good in bed, still complain... not good same thing.


His dickson is very big... they will complain..

Truly you can't satisfy a woman.

HenryDion:
I think communication is lacking in your relationship.. You courted him for 6 years and yet, communication is an issue? I really don't understand ma'am. You both need to sit down, watch the beautiful stars and then talk. If he's not ready to initiate a conversation, please do. Through that, intentions and desires are made known.. What are your visions? What about his? How are you both working toward it? His current lifestyle shows of a man without a destination. You're a helper, help him go to the right path.
And again, being a full time housewife isn't cool. i mean, who does that in this century? You are here for a reason and your purpose in life isn't all about raising kids or mobbing the floor. Talk to your hubby about getting a job. You need to have your own priceless experience and touch lives in any little way you can. Time has gone when the female gender are been tied to the kitchen.
Wishing you a blissful life..

What do you mean with his current life style has no destination? Do you think everyone rely on their salary alone? Life is about choice. I am a single working class guy. I run MMM, Ultimate cycler etc. It's my life and I am not complaining because it is fetching me extral cash.


Do you know what rich and wealthy men do to keep their high financial life going? They involved in different kind of business not salary alone. The man is trying to keep the family going, you are there saying he has not destination. Do you know what it takes to run a home when your wife isn't working?


Let the man be... Life is a risk.

Everyone can't be you

HenryDion:
I think communication is lacking in your relationship.. You courted him for 6 years and yet, communication is an issue? I really don't understand ma'am. You both need to sit down, watch the beautiful stars and then talk. If he's not ready to initiate a conversation, please do. Through that, intentions and desires are made known.. What are your visions? What about his? How are you both working toward it? His current lifestyle shows of a man without a destination. You're a helper, help him go to the right path.
And again, being a full time housewife isn't cool. i mean, who does that in this century? You are here for a reason and your purpose in life isn't all about raising kids or mobbing the floor. Talk to your hubby about getting a job. You need to have your own priceless experience and touch lives in any little way you can. Time has gone when the female gender are been tied to the kitchen.
Wishing you a blissful life..

What do you mean with his current life style has no destination? Do you think everyone rely on their salary alone? Life is about choice. I am a single working class guy. I run MMM, Ultimate cycler etc. It's my life and I am not complaining because it is fetching me extral cash.


Do you know what rich and wealthy men do to keep their high financial life going? They involved in different kind of business not salary alone. The man is trying to keep the family going, you are there saying he has not destination. Do you know what it takes to run a home when your wife isn't working?


Let the man be... Life is a risk.

chiefojiji:
it would have been better if e dey move backward sef.

it's already at the back of backward.

I pray it move sideward someday!

Boss you funny ooooo I swear

Nigeria is really in a sorry state. I was a kid when my father said Nigeria will become great again till now as a full grown adult, I have seen no difference. We are still saying, Nigeria will be great and things keep getting worst.


The elites will never want the poor masses to survive in this country. It is just to find a way and get to the top or you keep getting oppressed by the so called elites.


Unfortunately, we don't hear song like this anymore to remind our cluess and selfish leaders the terrible state they have put the nation. Modern Artiste even keep praising them. " it is really unfortunate "


If something isn't done urgently, Nigeria will collapsed or revolution will be the the option.

God save this Nation from parasitic and dreamless leaders.

Oyinkhansolamie:
I wasn't harsh. his reply was just upsetting

No wahala...


But don't let people's actions control your emotions.

lmbnicegirl:
congrats, ire akari too(may the blessings circulate) serious person should pm me so ours will be the views.

I know you aren't serious. You are just looking for attention I guess

Oyinkhansolamie:
y will dey reply u wen u r not fit enough.u should be d one ashamed

That is too harsh babe.


Calm down.

Blurryface:
Bros only you?

I come against any monitoring spirit as I move into december.


Guy you find your own now... they are plenty here.

ireneony:
with your ogbolo eye ..
i see

Madam take it easy now... watin the guy do you... Na person babe ooo



Check your details...


You look cool... so you have been that lady I have been looking for?

My search has ended today.

NkayTiana:
Aint so tall o,just there and am not skinny biko

Ohhhh... anyway I like what I saw.


Don't you think we will look good together?


Let's give it a trial.

esthel:
Ehen...adesua so u met ur husby here.....i will neva ignore pms from nairalanders again my boaz shld locate me now.

Hahahhahah.... you are funny.


No pic, how will he first get attracted before locating.

laeffizy:
My elder sister met her husband on Nairaland as well. This was in 2009 and they got married in 2011. Maybe il meet my mr right here, or just drag mr wrong right....hahahahahahah.

Yours might just be sanding by...

zolapeperenpe:
Congratulations OP. May God bless your union. *runs to your thread to look for husband*

No need to run dear...

The hubby has been here waiting for you.


You are welcome.

imiekeri:
I love my edo culture. ..happy married life dearie

Are you from Edo state...



If yes... probably Edo North...

Captain6:
Who wan send you PM self? See as you resemble insect

Guy you nor get joy ooooooo...


Na person babe you nail like that?

Donnyperry:
Hello dearie, can i send u a PM? I really wanna tell u something important

Guy you better keep it to yourself... Na my woman you wan tell something. which kind thing you wan tell her when you nor fit talk here...


We are getting married before match next yr... abeg tell another woman the thing.

NkayTiana:
And am here still searching for him

Waiting patiently for him to DM me

If you are the lucky guy say hey!!

If you ain't say nay!!

Teeeyana says so!!!

Wow... you look great I must confess.


Tall , skinny and trendy... I ve been looking for your kind for a long time. I ve always been meeting short ladies but am a tall guy. I just have this flair for tall ladies.

Am I welcomed?

Uniqueness01:
Happy Married Life.....Una Children go too fine.




Time to start reading and replying PMs

Hmmm...

You are damn gorgeous. If they asked me to choose between you and beyounce, without thinking twice, I will choose you.

Filashade:
Yes some how it is better. Yes I hope to live in Nigeria hopefully after saving up in the next 5-8 years. I want to settle down etc.

Lool there is nothing special about the UK. I already feel like an outcast and yes they are racist too but they dont indirectly say it to you. Their actions shows it.

Sure why not, I dont mind

That's cool.

It's done. I hope we have ample time to talk more later in the day.

Filashade:
Aww thank youu. Lool. I always jump to conclusions a lot. Pardon my manners.

Yes it would be nice. I like meeting new people every day. People from different cultures and tradition.

Lets keep in touch and thank you. I hope to get 2:1 hopefully because I dont think I cna get First Class because I work full time as an engineer so its really tough and First Class is way out iof my reach.

Ohhhhhh....

Combining work and academics isn't that easy but I heard it's better overseas than in Nigeria. The learning standard and environment there is also a plus that might favour you. It will only take much effort and time from you. I pray you get what you desire.

Are you sure after experiencing the good life and comfort over there, you will come back full time to Nigeria? Most of my friends that had the opportunity of running their masters in Canada, US and UK never thought of coming back to Nigeria. They gave so many reasons to stay back but racism is another challenge they are faced it.

I can never tell. Maybe you have a plan. Hope I can send you a PM?

Filashade:
Looool. We are still here its just Men these days just overlook some women. If you met me in person I normally have a angry sort of look not because am upset about something but because while growing up life has just been hard and unpleaseant so you might think "Oh she is the typical black woman. When you talk to her now she will want to fight you. See how angry she is already".

But when you get to know me you think otherwise. But yes we still exist.

I am hoping to come to Nigeria sometimes by the end of next year as I need to finish my computing degree next year August and so am preparing to come over next year by Gods grace. Amen.

But wait oo, why you want to see me na? I hope it is not what I am thinking? If it is, I no want no wahala from my partner oo.

Stay Blessed

Hmmmmm... You sound interesting. yea, there are some ladies that look hostile facially but when you get personal with them, they are so lovely and friendly. It is better than the ones with an angelic facial expression but the opposite when you get to know them.


Please what are you thinking? Lol. don't think too hard. I just want to know this unique lady with a different perception. I like meeting people especially the ones that have distinguished themselves in certain aspect of life.


I perfectly understand what you are thinking... it isn't bad to think about it but give me the opportunity to know and meet you when you come back to Nigeria. Don't worry, I won't come inbetween you and your partner or try to cause chaos in any form.


All the same... Success in your schooling over there.

freecocoa:
Girls of nowadays don't even have small shame, smh.

Most of them have covered the shame with make-up....


The rate at which most ladies beg nowadays, you will be surprised... Asking a girl out for date now is terrible. She will just show how hungry and immature she is...


I took a lady out last month. We eat and talked about ourselves. After everything, she went downstairs, collected two big cakes, a large size bread, and chin-chin say it's for her people at home. I just nodded my head and pay for the items. Even the lady selling was just shaking her head as she was forcing it in her bag. As we came out of the place, she said no money on her, that I should give her money for transport fee. I was just like... God what kind of low-life did I associate myself with at the first place. I left her there and went home.


Didn't call her again then after two weeks she called to inquired what happened I never asked after her anymore. Most ladies are not cultured on dating etiquette.

Filashade:
Yes I am Half Nigerian half Jamaican (was born in Lagos, Nigeria but lived in Ja and now in the UK).

Ur suprised a nigerian lady can say that? Why?

Just send those girls over to the UK and I bet u £1,000,000 they wouldnt even ask u for money coz by then they would have upgraded.

Asking a guy for me is what we young girls here call desperation and being shallow. Its best to hustle and save and enjoy ur life than waiting for someone who has worked their hard earned money so they can give it to u for free to do what? Buy Brazillian/Maylasian hair?

Please ehhn, the girls over in Naija are not serious, just send them over to UK, we will train them for u.

Stay Blessed

I am just perplexed and short of words... I still can't imagine we have ladies that think straight. It's so obvious you didn't grow up in Nigeria from the way you sounded and reason.

Dating a woman here in Nigeria is a huge responsibility. You indirectly take care of almost all her needs and when you become broke, they find excuses to cheat and move to the next guy with a bigger pocket. Though not all ladies here because we still have very few that are self dependent but they are very difficult to find here.

Please when are you coming to Nigeria again? I will love to see you.

RETIREDMUMU:
that is typical ajepako girl____>>>bold 2.


such girl must av a poor background, wey Im dey solely feeds her parents with the guy money.



dem plenty for dem FLAT HEAD area







Meanwhile

Keep shut jare... I still rock my curve 2. I have other higher phones ( blackberry Q5 and andriod) but my main line is in my curve 2. I just can't let go of it....

That has nothing to do with her financial status. Reason before you talk.

Filashade:
Some guys on here saying women want Money abi wetin una call it?

Why una love generalise women so? Na all women love Money? Kilode?

Arent u guys tired of repeating the same old stereotype. If ur girl ask u for money all the time just tell her to go and Kick Rocks or u yourself are attracting the wrong sort of girl. Stop being flashy maybe next time they wont ask you for money.

If girls these days are still asking their guy for money in this 2016, they are not serious. Just sidown there and wait ehhn, when hunger kill una you go wake up.

Rubbish and nonsense.

Is this coming from a Nigerian lady?

mmb:
any update on the interview outcome. the one held in october?

I really don't knw the one conducted in Oct.