₦airaland Forum

ritababe:
love?

Leave the girl jare... she is still very young.

When she grows up, she will understand.


Love isn't enough to hold relationship together.

Pottijef:
Love is all that matters

You are still a very young girl...

Go and face your books...


You don't know what the OP is saying...

So what should we do? His life... His property. If it's what make him happy...



My sitting room isn't bigger or finer than his but I am happy with what I have for now and by the time I get to his age, my sitting room will be far bigger and better than his...


Not hating... his sitting room is awesome. life is in stages so i'm not intimidated by it. 10yrs back, he wasn't having such sitting room.

All we have to do is double our hustling and pray to God for dive favour...

deedrizzie:
Now sir, i agree with you completely... and you could hit the nail on the head more... i opine that each camp should have a consultant GP (general practitioner) on ground... assisted by the many corper doctors present. However, i still feel qualification and what is what is secondary, FACILITIES need to be improved... i mean, bro... see those toilets! I've since lost count of the various bacteria that can give rise to countless pathological conditions from looking at those photos. God Bless Nigeria!

I understand what you are saying. Facilities are inadequate in most NYSC camps and the condition of environment is very poor.

It's all due to bad leadership of the country.

People just creating unnecessary tension. MMM has not crashed. The system is just on a pause mode.


I know the media and government will be disappointed come January.

deedrizzie:
Now... "experience" is not a word I'd use lightly in medicine... but baba, really.. do u have an idea how hard it is to graduate from Medical school??...mediocrity can't survive.... I'm not saying mistakes can't be made oo... but imagine, you go to school... longer than the average person, and someone comes to tell u that u know nothing about yr job?... Haba!

I didn't say they know nothing about their job. I only said they have not gotten enough experience to handle complex cases. It cut across all disciplines. Experience is a function of time and specialisation. Corper doctor are fresh graduate and they should be assisted by an experienced doctor who has been in the field for years.

There is different between being qualified and an experienced person. You might be qualified but not experienced in that field. If you go to teaching hospitals, corper doctors or doctors from medical schools are attached to a main doctor. There is a limit to what they can do. Most of them make careless mistake because of their naivety which have sent many lives to their graves.

sleepyeyez:
see where they got the idea from.

naija and copy copy eh.

U dae vex ooo

larrygal:

Experienced on my foot....
Corper doctor
....most of dem don't know anything aside malaria and typhoid
I rem during camp wen my bunkmate has difficulty to breath...I guess a seizure ..D corper doctor was abt giving her one injection related to asthma sha...we were so fortunate a matron was around if not na anoda story

Hahahahah

They are forming experience... I can't even allow a corper doctor to give me injection talk.

Some don't even know where the true veins are located.

deedrizzie:
@OP....i sense the passion, and i share it too. However, I'd like to correct the statement that corper doctors are "FRESH GRADUATES"... THIS IS 100% WRONG. As they have already gone through the compulsory 1 YR HOUSEMANSHIP/INTERNSHIP TRAINING at a TEACHING HOSPITAL, after induction. So that's 7yrs of medical training BEFORE NYSC, so please, we may blame the system and facilities...but definitely not we doctors. Thank You

So you guyz are experienced doctors?

Mr man calm down... most corper doctor don't even know what to do when they see complex cases.

They only know how to treat malaria and body pains.

AngelsAndStars:
just imagine, they beg at any given opportunity, no shame at all. once they put makeup they have arrived. funny part is they tend to do it authoritatively.

how can you use your transport money to buy wedding cloth and expect a guy you hardly know to assist you. she even had the guts to tell me that. as if am one little boy who never see woman before. and she claim you have a bf.

after that I cursed myself for spending on her(spent over 10k together just for two hang outs)

na only God go save person. which kind wahala be this.

Boss the mata tire me tooooo

AngelsAndStars:
Gbam.. I met one in illorin where I went to do some projects. spent on her just for fun sha, cos we met co incidentally in a hotel where I go chill out after work

came to Lagos, months later she was asking me for money that she needs it, that she used her transport fair to buy wedding cloth. WTFK

after posting her she was still calling me, on one faithful day I was around Alaba international and no access to site for my work I was angry and almost frustrated drinking my 4bottle of star

the idiot called me. see as I vex. called her told her I have the money but I can't give her, I told her it will be stupid of me to give her the money. b!cth.... and she had a bf(i even doubt)

awon werey

That is how most of them are... they just see you today and find a financial burden to put on your shoulder when they don't even know how you like your life.

I once meet a lady sometimes last month in a wedding reception. Average looking tall lady. I went to meet her and chatted for few minutes before we exchanged contact. I took her so high with charisma. On the monday of it, we were just chatting and I asked hope you have eaten? She said no that she has no gas in her cooker. Then I asked her go get gas or use a stove, she said she has no money. That she has been looking for money to refill the gas since morning. I just pretended I didn't hear her... We haven't even meet for a date oooo. The next day she demanded money for subscription that her data is almost exhausted. I never told her my financial background when we first meet ooo whether I am rich or an average guy. She just see me and for her mind I don catch mugu.

Three days later she told me to borrow her 15k to do her hair. I was like Wtfk. I was so annoyed. Immediately I told her I don't have she cut the calls. From that day my respect for her fall to -1. I now saw her like a cheap woman so I cancelled any formal date in my mind. I deleted her no and block her on my whatsapp. She then called to know why I did such...I told her never to call my line again.

Woman should try to respect themselves sometimes. Not a crime to beg but know the person first.

GentlemanUnltd:
This is the obvious bro. Imagine the one I take as my number and even wish to marry, she stays abroad, left for abroad this year, even though she is in abroad, she told me today that she wasn't feeling OK, I asked her what I problem was and she said she needs money to settle some of her family prob here and I in Nigeria that recession is also turning from a rich to poor man should help give her family the money here in Nigeria. Can you imagine such rubbish?

I have been following your comments. Women are really problematic. You can't be with them for one full week without settling a financial need.

You need a girl today, in two days time, she is already demanding money for hair and make up kips or want to change her phone. Sometimes I ask myself, what if we didn't meet? How do you meet your needs before we meet?

Most ladies date to cushion their financial needs. Forget about those pretence called Love. I have dated 10 educated and enlightened ladies, even the rich ones still need it.

What I learnt is for one never to go out of his way to please a woman.

Joavid:
No one needs to pet you. you need tough love and it's your parents fault. Psychologically, you're still a teenager - that's why you spend on irrelevant things you can't account for, you have no savings, you still live with your parents, you still masturbate, you don't even pay any bills.

You stopped growing when you were 18.

Your parents need to kick you out of the house because yes, they have failed ( like seriously, are they not ashamed to have a 35 year old son living with them) and you on the other hand refused to train yourself.


silly boy!

please, forget marriage for now, there is nothing you can offer a woman on the guise of marriage, you'll only turn her to your maid.

This guy go strict oooo...


Chaii...

The truth is really bitter.

FortuneTeller:
I can tell you from experience marriage is not always exciting. You will become bored, tired, hateful, and irritable at times. It does not matter who you marry, such feelings will happen the longer you are with your spouse. However if you find yourself hating your wife, seeking to beat or kill her, leave and find yourself. You won't find the fairytale you are seeking, but your child's mother will be alive.

Marriage isn't easy I swear... I have been working on myself for months now and learning new things before I say I do...

I know I have my own problems, just pray I find a woman we are compactible. I don't think love is enough.

Relationship and dating are just too complicated sometimes.

When we need a girlfriend, a wife material will come but won't take her serious and now we need a wife material, girlfriends keeps coming...


God direct us to the woman that will make but not mar our destiny.

Jailerrr:
Op you try OK, no one is worth dying for,if you avoid me,you get d Bleep up,no time! I change my parade sharply... who love help sef?hahahaha highontinz

Don't talk like that...

Love mightn't have helped you but has helped others.

Just pick the points you want and walk away.

kenonze:
I pray that all of them should make heaven

Hmmmmmm



This your lap can wake a dead horse...

YGF1:
indeed

National Health Maintenance Organization (HMO), due to expansion in its business activities, requires the services of self motivated and target driven individuals to fill the position below:

Job Title: Sales Executive

Locations: Lagos, Abuja, Port Harcourt, Bauchi, Enugu, lbadan, Ilorin, Abeokuta, Kaduna, Kano, Lafia, Minna, Edo, Onitsha, Owerri, Aba and Sokoto.

Responsibilities

Excellent communication skills to convince prospective clients
Being result oriented and ready to meet set targets
A well organized person who is also a good team player
Ability to work under minimal supervision
A good knowledge of any of the listed locations
Ability to speak the local dialect of the chosen location will be an advantage

Qualification

OND, NCE, HND or Degree any discipline.

Remuneration
Salary + Robust Commission

Application Closing Date
22nd December, 2016.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their applications and resume to: human-res@outlook.com indicating position and location.

Oga abeg stop quoting me, I am not looking for a job. Even if I need job... not those ones up put up there...

YGF1:
you re wrong bro
what of Guinness, steel company , Mikano, and some other coy who are still trying to establish there biz in Benin?

The truth is these. always see beyond.
someone made a testimony at Dunamis church yesterday. He was jobless for 4years, He got His job here in Benin with a private coy
for 5month He built his house, and yesterday He brought his official car.

My brother, I also work with a private coy in Lagos and i head too department. for 1years i cant even buy a land..and i don't smoke,drink humanize and i eat once at work.. so?

God is too powerful than your opinion...
All i know @Kenny, Never stop trying, Do not be discouraged. you might not know when you will get your own divine job..

I grew up in benin and work in benin as well brother. I'm not telling you there are no jobs in benin but you can't compare it to lagos. It's not even up to half. Even in Borno state, there are jobs and small industries.

The point is that Benin isn't an industrial city. Most of the companies you mention up there do their recruitment in lagos then post you to other cities like benin. Even banks does their recruitment in lagos. You want to talk about NPDC or IDSL in benin, you get employed from Abuja.

People have different sources of getting money. The fact you are working in lagos doesn't make you better or earning more than someone in benin but more of the jobs are in lagos . That is my point. Almost all the banks, companies and industries in Nigeria have their headquarters in lagos. Even most businesses thrive in lagos compare to Benin because of the industrial nature of the place.

KennyAyodeji:
Lol! U make money in Benin, and also spend. No City or State u don't spend money, even Lagos, u make money nd spend money. Benin is just like Lagos, I have lived in both

Benin is not like lagos or near lagos and can never be like Lagos.

I still repeat, Benin is a place mainly to spend your money.

How many industries or factories or companies do you have in benin or edo in general? How many top vacancies have you seen in benin? The vacancies you mainly see in benin are hotels, schools and sales rep. Is that the one you are calling vacancies where people do earned good money.

Most people doing well in Benin are either government workers or those doing their private business.

folasayolyn:
lol there are now waterproof make up

The one on ur dp is what? Water or fuel proof make-up?


Madam that make-up is too loud... fear God.

Everywhere now is make-up house or school. Of about 10 ladies I asked what they do, 8 will say they are make-up artist.



Ladies and fake identity... reason I don't woo a lady especially at night.

YGF1:
lol

So let start bringing it back

I ve done the little I can...


Benin is a place to spend money not to make money.

dollyjoy:
They probably request for money that way because you presented the image of a wealthy guy before then, to impress i think!

You might be correct... the fact still remain that most girs see dating as a means of lively- hood and better monetary package from their guy. It's just what society has made them believe.

antoni28:
Mine was phone call...

How long did it take for you to be invited after the test?

KennyAyodeji:
Hmmmm Benin @last. ThankS

Jobs are running away from benin

Laveda:
I don tire to read relationship matters.

Can we talk about money?

Oya come along now...



So how do we make our millions?

God bless my parents and bless me more to take good care of them.

DorisK:
Yet when I went to my uncle's friend's Friend's office to accept me. I was sent back to go and bring my qualifying certificates (All my three Results) and after that went thru an embarrassing interview where I was asked why I couldn't make common 2-1. I was taken but wasn't placed on salary till I proved my worth. Its not always the same everywhere. Grace helps everywhere though

You have a point.

YeyeGirl:
Lol.. Nna gbafuo biko Lol.. Nna gbafuo biko

I nor hold you oo

YeyeGirl:
Lol. who u be Lol. who u be

Chaii... so you are denying me because we are in a public forum. you forgot all we did in private... it's okkkk

YeyeGirl:
C as him neck long like d left leg of that statue of liberty... well sha!!! money gud!!!! If him wan woo me sha, I go accept!!! Egodinma...

So you won't accept me abi... after all we have gone through.