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Hi Guys

Please I will like to seek your opinion on a matter.

I have been trying to conceive for about 4 years. I got pregnant this year and I am currently 18 weeks gone.

I applied for American Visa two days ago and get an interview date scheduled in September 24 (For Abuja In Fact). The sad thing is that I will be around 34 weeks by then which leaves with me about 1 week/ or less to prepare and leave Nigeria (and that is if I eventually get the visa).

I am a little worried that the fact that the travel date and the interview date are so close may reduce my chances of getting the visa. My plan is to ensure that everything I need is ready even before that interview date such that if I am granted the visa I can leave immediately without stress.

I have started speaking to a doctor and he has accept to treat and deliver me while I am there. Alternatively, is there a chance to get an earlier interview date?

Im doing my acca now and lookin forward to being a great auditor in future. Im 21 and just concluded my nysc. I got a job to be an audit trainee to be paid like 70k and another one with a bank to be paid abt 125k. someone close to me is tellin me to take d'bank job so dat il be able to afford to complete my acca cos d'person sponsorin will cease to do so when i work but on the long run i want to be an auditor please what do i do?

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I find it verry hard to say no to people especially if it is someone dat is that is poor, My sister says i give too much and sometimes deprive myself please z it a bad thng?

Please what is the pay like for entry-level in guiness nigeria.

The woman kept sayin somethng like " do you want to live a life where i will be the one carryin and solving my family problems" instead of the man

Ive been datin this guy for like 2 yrs nw thou we have had upz n'downz, 2010 has been a very wonderful year for us, I have this elderly woman that i pray with and all and i just told her abt my bf and asked to pray for us and the next thng she tells me like some days later is to let go off the relatnnshp, that God doesnt want me in it and all dat, I kept askin her if she actually heard from God or if she just said so because i told her that the boys parents r divorced and she told me that she wont lie to me that God doesnt want me there, This relatnshp is going sweeter by the day and im lovin him more, Ive prayed, cried and fasted and now i dont know wat to do.

If you value ur relatnship with her explain to her very well (women cld be like dat sometimes), But u r a good man

Poster dont feel bad just forget abt A and C and gve B full attention, It will suprise you how much youll grow to love him. This kind of poo happens to all of us at sone tyme or the other, Dont feel too bad abt it just concentrate on makin your relatnshp with B and ul be glad you did

My dear you have collected it already and there is nothing dat u can do abt it, Somethng like dis once happened to me but myself and d guy were friends before he started askin me out, I also bought gifts for him to even thngs up, Buy him somethng nice too it doesnt have to be as expensive as the blackberry but if you can afford it why not?

I like this guy but he is short n'not cute, I started datin him like 2 years now thou i had broken up the relationship a number of times and even double-dated he still always found it in his heart to forgive me and at a point i just had to change my ways break up with the other people i was dating to concentrate on him and im greatful cos he has brought me closer to God. Im just scared cos he is not as financially matured as the other people i have dated, im willing to wait but im afraid its taking too long,

I lied dat i had appendictis and sincerely i dont know why i told those lies,

I lied dat i had an operation, dat i didnt see anyone before him, dat i didnt date a guy dat i dated wen we had a break, i told many lies

When i started dating him, i didnt know we were going to go far wen i realised dat we were gettin serious, i decided to open up to him and relieve myself of all the lies i told him. But he seems lyk he doesnt want me anymore or should i just be paitent.

please I need sincere answers, are handling and smooching sins against christ and can they stand in as fornication ? my boyfrined will never agree not to touch me is that a basis enough to call it quits, we have been arguing abt it for 2 years

i have to make a decision on either to face my ACCA squarely or my 40k payin job, im just 20 n have written ACCA up to the stage where it is now gettin serious. and i nid time to face it squarely what do you think i do?

im just 20, and just graduated from the uni, while i was in school my dad use to pay for everything but all of a sudden he has refused saying that im a graduate and old enough to take care of me. i am writing a professional exams, wrote the last diet and did well so now ill need to continue, so i decided to do some business abt four of them but the profits are coming in slowly and i dont know what else to do should i just be paitent or are there other business idea, small businesses.

He doesnt cal regularly, he always wants to pick a quarel, he went offlyne, off-fb 4 abt 10 days witout explanatn, he says he was away 4 health reasons, he wil kip me waitin 4 a lng tyme n stil tel me dat thou he is sori, he wont convince me nt to break up wit him, yet i forgave him. He tels me dat im ful of drama n dat i complain a lot even if i just tel hm hw he wrngd me quietly. Wat do i do abt it. The issue has stolen my joy.

my boyfriend has a big problem with me having male friends, some of these male friends have helped me thru tick n thin i dont get it, anymore. I am a very friendly n lively person, i love to live my life helping people, but he will say that i am not friendly and that these people will hurt me. its getting too much these days.

i asked for an advice not a stungereedee

there r 2 guys that i like and im having problems choosing one,
1st one---- short, light skinned but i dont like his face n i dat disturbs me cos i cant even introduce him to my friends so i keep annoying him at every slight oppurtunity n getting on his nerves but i can swear that he loves me die
the 2nd one-- tall, cute, all i ever wanted but happens to be very arrogant and hardly ever calls even though he is richer than the first guy is, please which do i go for?

i am a 20 year old graduate, i have two men in my life, there is one that i know loves me but cant stand his looks so do everything to frusrtate him, i got entangled on the internet n we had already started dating by the time i meet him so every little thing he does is an issue for me, the other guy i have only seen once n i really lyk doesnt live in nigeria, hes from a wealthy family n im makin plans to visit him but he has not said anything abt money to pay for me fare or for my passport, i dont even know if i like any of these tow guys. and the second guy is already fallin in love. what do i do i need to do something fast and gett my mind to my professional exam in december

@ kugba- i asked for your opinion and didnt beg for your inhumane comments,

i have a boyfriend dat lives far away, n there is this other guy that lives close to me that i have fallen in love with, i dont want to be break my boyfriends heart n i cant date this other guy cos he doesnt have my qualities n he is still in the university. so wat do i do?

what is being a virgin got to do with her ill state, ridiculous dude. anyways if the sickness just started recently i think its just that u guys have not found out what is wrong with her take her for an overall test, and be paitent

this girl is a comedian, she is very funny,, im laffing. you better concentrate on your marriage or else you will end up being frustrated

just like in every other game, the sharpest player wins

love is neither for the rich or poor na for those wey get the mind

oh men so the man shldnt do birthday, you dont you celebrate your birthday and what has madam re branding got to do with it. let her enjoy her life

the orange guru- GT, they are just the best, but you see that red olodo called UBA, their customer service is so poorrrrrrr, they blame you for everything that happens to your account even when it is not your fault, ATM is not customized. they just dey do anyhow