I like this guy but he is short n'not cute, I started datin him like 2 years now thou i had broken up the relationship a number of times and even double-dated he still always found it in his heart to forgive me and at a point i just had to change my ways break up with the other people i was dating to concentrate on him and im greatful cos he has brought me closer to God. Im just scared cos he is not as financially matured as the other people i have dated, im willing to wait but im afraid its taking too long,

buttie:

I like this guy but he is short n'not cute, I started datin him like 2 years now thou i had broken up the relationship a number of times and even double-dated he still always found it in his heart to forgive me and at a point i just had to change my ways break up with the other people i was dating to concentrate on him and im greatful cos he has brought me closer to God. Im just scared cos he is not as financially matured as the other people i have dated, im willing to wait but im afraid its taking too long,

Ur type r d reason kidnapping and robbery are on the rise.*joking* If u luv him, stay wit him. If not, move. Dunt stay wit him out of pity.

The question would be DO YOU LOVE HIM? BECAUSE IF YOU DO THE PETTY CHIT YOU JUST NAMED WOULDNT EVEN BE AN ISSUE,

LOVE ENCOMPASS EVERYTHING AND WITHOUT IT YOUR LIFE DOES NOT MEAN A HILL OF BEANS,

WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE LOVE OR MONEY?

buttie:

I like this guy but he is short n'not cute,  I started datin him like 2 years now thou i had broken up the relationship a number of times and even double-dated he still always found it in his heart to forgive me and at a point i just had to change my ways break up with the other people i was dating to concentrate on him and im greatful cos he has brought me closer to God. Im just scared cos he is not as financially matured as the other people i have dated, im willing to wait but im afraid its taking too long,

What do u mean by financially Matured?

poster

you know i will not respond because i can't think of anything to say beyond raining insults on you so i'll reserve my advice

@poster go marry who efcc go soon catch, silly statement,financialy matured,  . dont u know we dey economic melt down. go marry moni,
the thing is u dont love d guy u just pity him. prove me wrong

You can't say one reason why you want to be with him, so when you marry him you will still cheat on him and look down on him

boomii:

Let me try and unconfuse you,you are only interested in his money and you don't love him plus you are trying to pity him cos he has a forgiving mind.

I believe you can see a clearer picture now so sort yourself.

Thanks. You've said my mind.

Yet another naija guy-turned-mugu story

@OP: As poor/uncute as you think your bf is,
you don't deserve him, you deserve something worse. smdh.

Please, Laho, Biko and [Insert the Yoruba version here], Let no one deceive You into thinking Love covers everything. Covers werrin? Leave matter Jo.

You have a right to plain about a short and poor boyfriend.
Place Your criterion as high as You want . . . .Just have something of equal value to give in return, that's all.

follow the rich one and dont waste yourr timu.

short and not cute hmmmm tough call
does he have any redeeming feature at all

@poster
if he is so wrong and poor then what attracted you to him at the first place?! and what possessed you to date him?!

Follow your heart

Follow your heart

It's not all about follow ya heart,,,,,,,,,a girl like her type doesn't have anything like heart.

The fact ramains that her disgraceful immoral behaviour 'll certainly do her more harm than gud. Mind u, its a tall task 4 a right thinking man to change/alter a bad habit, let alone an indecisive brat like her type.

Her behaviour equally explains why most of them live in perpetual pain.

However, some of the indecent gals in every society crave such life style whilst the indecent and myopic boys too enjoy driving dem crazy. LIFE GOES ON.
But as for u gal, I CAN SEE DAT U ARE REALLY CONFUSE due to ur shameful life style. And ur best and only option is to go 4 rehab.

una well don!

It's not all about follow ya heart,,,,,,,,,a girl like her type doesn't have anything like heart.

The fact ramains that her disgraceful immoral behaviour 'll certainly do her more harm than gud. Mind u, its a tall task 4 a right thinking man to change/alter a bad habit, let alone an indecisive brat like her type.

Her behaviour equally explains why most of them live in perpetual pain.

However, some of the indecent gals in every society crave such life style whilst the indecent and myopic boys too enjoy driving dem crazy. LIFE GOES ON.
But as for u gal, I CAN SEE DAT U ARE REALLY CONFUSED due to your shameful life style. And your best and only option is to go 4 rehab.

una well don!