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corisande:
I got my waist trainer today. and also got to see the seller( Young sexy mama) cos we stay in the same city.

She even gave me and my sis xtra discount sef!
Thanks byvan!




*I can bet my left nyassh she's the one wearing the waist trainer in the pics up* (amebo.com)

I always thought this Moniker was male , thanks sweet .

PumohOnline:
Hi byvan03, please do this and you cant go wrong.

Log in to www.pumoh.com
On the top right corner click on sell on pumoh
Fill in the necessary detail in the provided field
You will get a confirmation e-mail in your mail box
Click on the link to confirm your store
Post your products on line and you are good to go.
PUMOH!... shopping like never before

I have done this, posting the product is the issue, it brings out a new registration page that I have already filled and received its confirmation.

ifyalways:
Biko, is Moca sick or something?

She lost her baby and deactivated .

Still on sales!

cococandy:
I see it.
Nne things dey happen.

But how are you guys able to trace the similarities in posters to identify their alternate monikers?

That's one thing I'm never able to do.

Very easy, every individual's syntax /diction is different, when you read them for a while, you can always fish them out. My younger sister's class mate saw my posts and gleefully called my sister to announce that she knows her NL monicker. When my sister asked for proof, she flashed my posts before her. Probably because we have similar way of expression , very easy.

If you hide behind another Monicker, I can easily fish you out. Tell me you can't always fish out that monicker called Television, even if he hides in another .

Cococandy https://www.nairaland.com/2549195/duped-jennylov-nairaland

GHoJes:
Not viewing, i mean with this moniker, then in my last convo with her here i told her to erase her spots if she isnt jenny, she ran since then. She may still come to say she isnt but we cant be easily decieved by her anymore.
I also hope we are wrong but its too glaring.

I just pray that lady gets settled .

cococandy:
What r you people talking about?

I'm sorry my amebo could not resist.

Lol, I will take you there, bia na shopu lingerie.

GHoJes:
Unfornately, i think we are right. It is "clearest" in the history, even the fullstop. She was here all morning but ran immediately i called her out.

You saw her ? Viewing?

GHoJes:
This place is dangerous. Saints are the devil we are seeing.

Isn't the grammar here clearer?hope we are wrong.

GHoJes:
Can you snif what I'm percieving/Op...jennyluv here..
Cc Byvan03
Maziomenuko
Godenruby
Queenfav
Gboliwe
Olu4life
Colussus

I sniff am wella, Chai!!

Sales have ended, any order unpaid after Monday(14th of September) will be cancelled, you will have to re-order and it won't be on sales basis anymore .

For customers whose payments have been received but item ordered is out of stock and they don't need a refund, if I don't contact you after the agreed time of delivery, please don't hesitate to make contact. thank you all for your patronage .

Still on sales!

Start waist training today....

adesbreath:
J


Now your talking, your first post was too direct and u dint reason this way. We should always be positive and hope for better things, and also know how to embrace change and come out at the top.

The post was direct and simple for anyone that chose to read and comprehend it for what it is. You brought your what ifs dimensions which is of no relevance to my original post. My post talks of what is, not what ifs.

bukatyne:
I thought side chicks are known to do them or why the saying 'do it so He doesn't leave you for another woman'?

You just cornered this person ,i doubt if an answer will come forth .

adesbreath:
In order words your friend and lover cannot stop being ur friend and lover after marriage... it's only God that gives us grace everything can change just pray it wont.

In the right words, marry that friend and lover for starters, if change comes, take it from there but start with the right foundation first. We tend to disturb God a lot, his grace is already sufficient for all of us.

You don't get married to a beast because the friend and lover you could have married might eventually become a beast. Take each beautiful day of your life as it comes and don't live in "what ifs", what if this hideous change you anticipated never came? What if you live happily ever after? Are there no happily ever after? Did every marriage end in tales of woe? Do the right thing first, it's not your duty to sort out tomorrow, why worry about tomorrow when no one is guaranteed tomorrow?

Jahblessme:
Everyone's home is different.
If a woman feels like its just not her cup of tea to dish out food,it's who she is.Does that make her a bad person?NO.Does that make her home less happy than yours? No.
If the man grew up in a home where his mother dished the food and gazed adoringly at her husband while he ate every morsel,it's understandable that he'd expect to see the same replicated in his home.
If 2 people like this jam whats the solution? They must meet mid way or resentment will build up.
I'd be offended if i'm told 'I wont eat because service is not complete'..wtf? Some other person would laugh it off.I'm not also one to be bothered if food is rejected...I grew up seeing my dad doing this very often so i became immune to it so if i was the wife in this situation declining to eat would be wasted on me.
In our home we eat together most times,sometimes he dishes for me sometimes i dish for him..Depends on what's happening.I may just not be in the mood to fix anything and he takes over.Does it make his blokos shrivel?NO.Does it make me grow a blokos?NO.Point is we are serving each other happily.

Forcing someone to do something makes the person more resistant and resentful.We shouldn't force our expectations on others.That your father or ancestor did it doesn't mean your partner will want to do it.Happiness of a home is dependent on compromise and every member feeling included.
The fact that someone may view this as a form of slavery is up to that person affected,after all everyone comes from a different place and from different standards.If Ms A feels she's too busy to dish food or sit around chatting,i don't know her situation so cannot judge. However,meal times are a good time for a family to bond. If she feels she has to provide 'service' by forcefully dishing the food and waiting on him hand and food while he eats,its easy to see how she won't want to spend extra time in his company.. If such an act does not come from a loving place,its useless.

I grew up watching my dad served hand and foot in this kind of manner,it was a chore to my mother. Ofcourse I resented such an act and knew I wouldn't be forced into doing such a thing.However,I went and married a man who is so chilled and didn't make a big deal of serve me and watch me eat.It just flowed for us cos I know he'd do same for me and the kids without batting an eyelid.

Different strokes different folks.If a man lovingly leads by example,or kindly shows what he likes, his wife will turn into certified mugu for him.
Simple as ABC

Impeccable!

bukatyne:
Make sure it is VS o!

LOLs!

It is well

She can dye her old panties to red, he won't know .

Must every little argument end in insults? The worst part of this section is the unnecessary insults . If you don't pull out early enough better be prepared to baptise or be baptised with fire .

bukatyne:
What would you have her do?

It might be minor or inconsequential to you but see people talking about dishing the food so that the husband doesn't look outside?

I will have her wear red bra n pant to seduce him out of the spirit of wanting his food to be dished for him,so that he doesn't look outside, inside and around .

SAMBARRY:



it is necessary. The alfa and pastor needs to know

:oThat means America must know! .

;Dfamily section....still as fun as ever! .

edwife:
If it happens the way you put up here,i categorically tell you that no man in his right sense will stay put and waiting for you.
So such woman needs to check herself for marrying such a fellow.

For me it even all about fun,eating together,feeding each other or serving him- no big deal.

Now you get the point!!

bukatyne:
I am even thinking sef..

If the man is ready to eat, is there a need to serve in coolers?

Why not just dish his food in a plate?

Before someone begins to misthink

Believe me when I tell you that I missed that part too,may be not dishing in a cooler first shows lack of respect .

bukatyne:
I read some things here and wonder if there is a manual shared somewhere..

Remember that who should greet first in husband and wife thread years back? I stumbled on it one day

I 100% agree with you, that cliché 'courtship is different' is very wrong.

Abeg, let them carry go

;DThat thread about who greets first, very unbelievable thread i tell you! One will go nuts if you take anything read here seriously.

Maybe there is a manual, talk of robotic marriage,union of the clones .

edwife:
I will never understand some women ,really? how does serving a man you love and call "better half" a problem?

How long does it take self?

Lol, but seriously dear, imagine setting the table in front of your husband, wanting to dish the food then you heard your baby wailing like there is no tomorrow, you thought he had fallen from the bed. You dropped the plate, rushed into your room, picked the boy and stuck his natural pacifier into his mouth.

On returning to the dining, guy man still sitdon dey mope at plates ,waiting for you to dish into a plate for him, is that natural? If a man really loves his wife as himself, chances are ,he ran into the room with his wife or he started sorting out himself while asking "wetin happen?".

There are things that will never be an issue if only people marry for the love of me + u =1 "us".

U

Ewuro4:
Right on the money jare.

I suppose bold all sef.

How are THE BOYS madam?

They are good dear and the big girls? Hope they are cool .

bukatyne:
Hmm so so true

That's why I used to ask 'Did he/she not know before marriage' until ....

They know wella but longer throat/desperation dey wear some tinted goggles, so to see am nah war.

When such flimsy thing becomes an issue, then something is wrong. I mean is natural for one to pull out a plate and dish food that is set right in front of him, it is still very natural for a wife to pull out a plate and dish it herself for her man, either way it goes shouldn't be a problem in a healthy union.

If a woman actually brought this out as an issue for discussion, I doubt the efficacy of her brain box .

SAMBARRY:
fasting and prayer nko?

Talking to his Alfas, Pastors and Ancestors nko

bukatyne:
Sometimes, they marry their friends and somehow the men think a 'husband' is different from a 'friend and lover'

I heard a new wife saying 'he is trying to show he is a husband' when they had issues

That is the origin of the popular cliché 'Marriage is different from courtship'

Stuck up mentality, "that is how our fathers did it " mentality, I believe the signs are always there from the beginning, let them enjoy whoever they married abeg.

Some women claim they married their friend and suddenly he changed to....people can say anything when they choose to cast blames.

Why can't people be spontaneous, flow with the tide, just be comfortable with themselves, just serve each other for the love of "us".....

SAMBARRY:
I'm surprised I've not read you need deliverance

It might still be on the way .