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So she no fit carry something destroy that generator handle? Mtchewww.

Your sister shouldn't ask him, she might be overstepping her boundaries. Except ofcourse her boss doubles as a lover,then she is asking is madam not as PA.

You are a house husband, yet you expect her to come home and sweep after you have spent all day doing nothing. It shows you are a dirty man too, good the woman is no longer interested. She can't play a wife and a husband to your stupi*d ass. None is yet smart enough to consider when this woman returns home from her hustles, all they have to offer is insulting her tribe.

Truth be told, the fair version is really appealing to the eyes. People get mind sha for beauty palava.

Holla if 300.

YemyTemmy:
No domestic chores involved since househelp and nanny is responsible for all the chores, weekends the husband mops the floor since thatz too hard for the wife to do. He allowed the wife to work cos she complained of boredom and the need to exercise her brain.
She hardly cook and the husband pardoned her for that cos she leaves very early and gets home late (though the husband is not the food type, he trives mostly on bread and pasteries have no issues with that)

If this is true, then she is unreasonable. The man should let her take care of herself with her money and stop enabling her by footing transport bills. He can't punish her without appearing irresponsible as she is not a kid. Let him do his part as a man and leave the rest. Leave the house girls salary for her to pay.

I will need a breakdown of the domestic chores this man helps his wife with before I can comment.

Just don't my make another baby while you figure out the answer to your question.

Educated illiterates full this country, expired sperm indeed .

Brownbarbie97:
He reported to the police beforehand that he saw blood in the guys bathroom and gave details about where the body was disposed.Hes innocent

Innocent or smart cover up, being the first to report doesn't mean he is innocent .

Both guys aren't honest, criminality is nothing new to either of them. RIP to the innocent soul.

ireneblush:
Thank you

If this man decides to accuse you of seducing him, nothing you say will mean anything anymore. Your sister will hate you and everyone will believe you are lying against him to cover yourself. Speak while their is still time .

ireneblush:
even up till now it's still like a dream to me. the wedding is on 18th

I advise you speak to your father about this, let his not believing be his problem not yours.

Those asking why she didn't shout, I doubt if you have ever found yourself in a dumbfounding situation before. Shouting is actually the last impulse that comes to someone that is stunned. Not every body shouts at the doff of a hat as the brain is yet to process and accept the reality of the situation before them.

You are a disgrace!! Leave that woman alone before you kill her with STD or your fist.

ireneblush:
its real, not cooked up. dad won't even believe me, like he trusts this guy so much that he gets him involved in his private business.

This is dangerous ,open your mouth and clear your conscience . He is not yet her husband ! Open your mouth now or regret it when he is done messing up both your sister and your entire family .

I think you just flew from frying pan to fire. He can't treat you any better than he treats his kids and ex wife.

If this name calling hurts you this badly, what happened to your own mouth? You are too emotional and people like you will hurt a lot in this life. Toughen up, it will do you good. In case you don't know, no one has a right to abuse you verbally or physically in the name of husband or horseband and you have no right to abuse anyone too except in self defense . Better wear your big girl's pant and drop this whinny baby attitude for your own sake.


What upsets you so about mother in law tagging along? If you married a mama's boy, you need to start getting comfy with mama in your face all the time. You are bit too emotional, work on that. If a pan of poo is thrown at you, just throw it right back and feel better. Life is too short to be all whinny and sore over irrelevants.

bukatyne:


The problem is not the age you marry, it's who you marry and your aspirations in life. It is also your mindset towards marriage. I see a lot of peeps see marriage as an end and so want to 'chop' life, 'discover themselves', build an empire etc. before they get married.

Marriage is both of you coming together to build your lives.

Many people have after marriage and kids launched into a fanastic career. I opened a thread earlier on Danielle Crittenden 's opinion that women marry early (to young men), have all their kids and go to build a career than attempt to build a career first before marriage.

Building a career takes years circa 2yrs so why would I want to start at 21 and be running at 40 to have a family when I could marry at 25, build my family (stay home/ work normally without the pressure of building) and launch deeply at 35 till 65 if I like?

@Fun: I never saw jumping dicks, drinking and excessive partying as 'enjoyment' so I could marry at 20 and still enjoy my life.

Again, I will say the right time for everyone is different.

Lol @ jumping dicks, on point!

Show me a man that always want to know where you are ,what you do ,who you are with ,I will show you the th
worst of cheats.Don't frustrate yourself with this ,atleast you now know who you married .

Wife beaters really should think twice about this wife battery thing .The day she loses her mind, you might be too still to fight back. Divorce is better than death !

You actually opened your boobs for pastor to view?

I don't believe this story, only the couple know exactly what broke up their marriage ,certainly not TV nor Channel.

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Is it that all the women within that vicinity could not join hands to pound that idio*t to pulp?

Chai!! Illiteracy is just too bad!

First meeting is with a bottle if hot drink only .

Men and fish brain, another empty head said he should go ahead if she is decent. What decent woman dates a married man and what decency seeking man commits adultery?

OP mind you that the nairaland Pseudo intellectuals won't be there to twist and turn their 1+1 logic when sh*it goes down. If it makes you uncomfortable, listen to your gut and sort this out .

I don't care for political correctness, no male, molester or not will baby sit a girl child for me. Better safe than sorry.