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oh you don't know me. i'm devastated. disowned and disgraced in public. who is a man slut? what did i do to win that crown ?

why ? you wan carry one do money ritual?

omg did you just call me repulsive oyin?

Outstrip:
Treetop thank you for breaking it down

I won't pretend to be an expert on the dynamics of marriage.
I understand your angle of approach to the issue, believe me.
I wouldn't advice my sisters or aunts to marry into a family where they are not wanted.
With that said, I don't subscribe to the African mentality of "my family's way or no way at all"

Treetop20:
oh please!
this isn't the case. why would anyone want to marry into a family that
doesn't want them? it doesn't even seem like the guy is willing to go through
with the marriage without the support of his mother. some mothers out there are plain EVIL

I'm not disagreeing with you at all.
Is she getting married to the man or the family?
Times have changed.  Family support is crucial, but it isn't the be all end all,
I understsand why she walked away.  The man doesn't seem to be very sure of what he wants in my opinion.
If your family is the kind to hold steadfast to stupid, unsavory traditional bigotry and you decide not to be a part of that, you reserve the right as a man to walk away firmly from it with your head held high.
You lose your family support if they decide to disown you but your bravery should be applauded .
I never said it was easy though.
This man does not appear to be bold enough to take that risk.
The woman did the right thing I suppose.

justwise:
Please no matter how much u love your bf use protection, please.
Now to the issue, no its not normal, there should be trust in a rela/ship, without it then there is no point staying together.
U need to have a serious chat with him abt his insecurity, talk to him with every sense of seriousness. its not fair the way he treats u ONLY if u have given him the reason to, maybe lied to him b4 about where u are going or cheated on him b4, in that case, u shouldn't blame him for checking on u.

What he said.

Give him an ultimatumm. Tell him you can't marry him if he can't trust you.

It doesn't have to be a dead end if this dude is 100% sure that's the woman he loves and wants t marry.
He needs to be certain if he wants to live his life separately from his family. That's where the struggle is in situations like this.
I don't blame her for taking a hike though.

i'm singing again

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i don't see an expensive diamond ring on this finger

abi o yo. do i resemble your boyfriend
sun kuro fun mi jare

love love love love love


love to love again
the one-legged lover
love is blind
love is money
love is cooking
love in america
one twin one lover
love has gone
love left again
love has died
love tomorrow
i can love again
where is love
love has disappeared
the garbage lover
in love with a mallam
mallam bature the love doctor
love goes mad
abule love
and so much more

TheSeeker:
C2, don't try to conceal your emotions or it'll bring you down

it's better i conceal my emotions because if i reveal am she no go like the result
na so so dislike dey there

FL Gators:
Oga o, see as everybody just dey love each other up and down.

Where's my own love?

here it comes
which kind of love is your own? theseeker is waiting with his 12 pack, ready to give you all the loving you need.
i will be in charge of setting the mood for y'all
playing bob marley, i wanna give you some love:
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i suck at these kinds of things

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THE AMAKA:
how the hell did my name get in this conversation?
keep my name OUT!

I agree jare

I didn't get paid yet

Hopefully this will do
https://www.shopcreativegifts.com/birthday-cake-tower.jpg

Money is not always a problem solver. Heck, sometimes it even adds more weight to your problems and brings its own added stress. These young men are blessed with making too much money too soon and they just can't handle all that luxury.


Beasley
https://images.sportsbybrooks.com/7/e/7eb194edbf89d040bcd8d0da1258ee6f_supercool1.jpg

At least he's getting help now. He's very young and can recover from this. Hopefully he will come out of it a much stronger person.

Late happy birthday shortstuff

amosexy:
Ope yes only has boobs with no ass . . . to me dats incomplete.

lmao na hin be say na half-caste be that o boy you wicked o

[quote author=Jeni-Y link=topic=313691.msg4414471#msg4414471 date=1251136587]Some advice and replies I get here is very ridiculous.
I will never do this again, post any subject on a site.[/quote]Yeah yeah, what were you expecting to have your potbelly rubbed?

You should have known that not all criticisms would be constructive.
Best of luck in the future, AND STAY AWAY FROM YOUR BEST FRIEND; YOU ARE MARRIED.

naijacann:
I'm 15/m and i can certainly date a girl much much older, OMG, that would be a fantasy fulfilled.

You can get a chance to fulfill that "fantasy" in the later future.

Maybe once you turn 18, dating a 36 year old hot milf (twice your age) wouldn't be out of reach for you.

Poor guy. Maybe he's going through a rough stretch in his life.

He's always high, I can tell you that much.   That nigga is Lamar Odom's younger brother.
Pupils always dilated.  I saw a photo of him where he was accused of taking pictures with a bag of weed on his dressing table.

Poster, try some of those MMA/UFC style pindowns
I tells ya they work wonders. He wouldn't dream of going anywhere

i no dey do that kain love abeg anti mi kunbee, i no be pedophile

I'm not afraid.
I would be concerned about many things though,

Like giving my full trust to this person
Love not blossoming but instead dying out; growing apart
That after all these years I just wasted my time
etc
etc
etc long list of things would run through the mind

Above all else though, I leave it all to God to sort things out.

I know a lotta people do it to get a sensual feel from the kiss or allows them to concentrate only on the kiss.
Others don't like staring their partner in the eyes while kissing.

Dude, if you want to keep your eyes open, I doubt you would get shot for it.

Topic finally died down

I don't get it  

Why don't you date from a younger age bracket then?  That wouldn't eliminate your problem anyway.  I doubt it has muchado with their age.

Come on, don't date that little girl.