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I don't know. It really depends on the situation. My wife doesn't need to be a professional home police or babysitter either.

lmao the nba is unpredictable. the games must be played.

the east is stacked. santonio and maybe the denver thuggets are the only two teams i see posing a threat to the lakers.
the boys with the whistle also have a say in how a lotta games swing. The coming season should be exciting.

Hopefully the LaLa will repeat! Wade needs to polish his recruitment skills

awww

I can see where you're going with that. Drawing a parallel between the two is far-fetched and absurd - my opinion. The form of coercion you just mentioned takes place all the time among parents and their children. You know there are always times as a kid you don't want to do something but your parents force you to. If an american male child says "whassup fool" to his father while greeting him, I would expect him to rebuke the child and deal with him severally. Even if he doesn't discipline him, it's within his obligation as a parent to show him a "proper" more-polite way of greeting - maybe a "hi dad, hello dad," something like that. For the Yoruba people asking you to prostrate or kneel down is how that respect is shown to those who are your elders.

The point is that as a a grown ass adult, you would get to decide who/not to prostrate or get on your knees to greet. If you don't feel like it's a custom you want to continue then stop it. Just know that those elders will have a bad image of you in their minds. As long as you don't care then it doesn't matter. Your stroke, your choice.

netotse:
dude u're the one that needs the back watching. . .like i said i'm an edo boy, wot i didnt tell u tho is that i hv 5 grandmothers(i'll sort u out from 5 different directions. . .lol!)

on all other matters i plead the 5th!

  i surrender. make una carry go

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=83388.msg4272038#msg4272038 date=1248961397]whatever allows you to sleep at night i guess. weirdo lol
gators was right abt u after all[/quote]with all the bump n grind, i don't get enough sleep these days. i woke up at 4:30a this morning.
who is right about what? stop speaking in matrix scribble about some imaginary mannequin that doesn't even exist ibeg.

netotse:
na wa o. . .i always thot prostrating was a slam dunk issue in naija o!. . .

@C2H205
man i dey fear u o. . .i cld almost believe u know me(u called me somefink similar to wot er'one calls me)

@er'one else
its 'netotse' y'all might as well spell it right if u're going to keep on mentioning it!

Lol
OooOo did I really? Better watch your back. I'm watching you watch your screen.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=83388.msg4271933#msg4271933 date=1248960330]rotfl me sef i dey fear that boy lol no be only u

edo names are very difficult as u can see. lol[/quote]All 4 legs are now present. I can see that you (lovebird #2) are here to assume your rightful throne right next to your edo prince. You can as well pretend I'm invisible. Don't let me disturb the exchange of electronic charges between y'all.

Oh well, what will you say of female circumcision? Practise it, because it's part of our culture?

Ndipe, I don't see the bridge that connects female circumcision to prostrating.  The former is a criminalistic action; a heinous crime that should be outdated.  The latter is simply a way of saluting your elders.   One is an involuntary bloodshed and is usually done without your consent, while the other is voluntary, requires no bloodshed or forceful action.  If you choose not to prostrate you choose to walk away without a bride, simple as that.  We don't always have to feed our culture to the dogs in favor of the white man's overglorified approach to life.

Ndipe, I see nothing wrong with prostrating. If you don't want to do it then don't marry into the culture.

pure crapshoot

Ndipe:
Prostrating should be an outdated custom.

yah the grass should be blue, not green.

see as mr crackle dey mad because his bad back won't allow him to prostrate.

why am i being indicted here? this is netsose and oyinda's show. i am a bedside observer hoping to catch some fun, just like you are.
oyinda is a notorious flirt on nl. i'm curious to see if her charm will infect neto

very direct advise.

johnnygan:
I'm not gonna criticise friendship wit an ex but i would like u to learn from my experience.
For almost 2yrs my ex broke up wit me on the basis of testing other waters but i was not told about that thou. Apart from the pains of breakup, she continued to land me in pains.
For example, she could do almost anything and got away wit it. Maybe that shit happens cuz i'm still single ever since then.  We might decide not to date any other on the basis of ex - shit. Thats another pain entirely. Belive me, love bond is very strong. I know u still feel something for him, and thats why he is still yo friend within the time frame. Don't get it twisted here, you are talking about months and i talked bout years. Yours was 4-2months. Mine was 2yrs and friendship of pain continued since then. Once u loved, its hard to let go but we differ as humans thou. Pls kick him away finally boo. Don't let him do any shit and get away wit it. You will not see him as your ex but a guy u once loved. So he will do shits and walk away clean and nice leavin u downcast. Let me tell u one more funny shit that happened. While our friendship continued, i remained a good pal to her elder brother. When my big brother arrived from uk, he gave me a very expensive mp3 player. Its a tech, anyone would die for. Guess wat, my ex borrowed it and misplaced it. Till date, she adds insult to injuries wit her insults today, sorry 2morrow. But the relationship Btw me and my big bro crashed rapidly on the basis of carelessness.
He's gone back to uk but hardly calls me. I know it will pass but i'm only giving an example here boo.
An ex feel they could always eat their cake and have it. Let yo ex know that he drank his juice and there's none left in the cup.
Not just for u honey, u re also doing it for all ladies out there.

abeg shut the Bleep up joh

rubbish

i'm glad i knew that

a lot of things taste nasty and we still eat/drink them. this is no different.

how is flirting my job when you are actually the one known to be a flirt.

i only came here to enjoy the show, don't incriminate me for your crime abeg. you better tell them all that you don't take nl seriously.

pele i forgot you like flirting just for kicks. today seun tomorrow albert next tomorrow abbey
you better hope they can all prostrate like yoruba culture demands
i don't need coffee to function but this summer i've been drinking more of it

what's wrong with drinking caffeine. abi are you going to start flirting with me too?

it keeps me chippy. i'm even getting ready to drink my iced coffee.

where is netotse come and get your bride

Cut him off joh. It's not healthy. I think you should give yourself enough time to get over him before even trying to salvage any kind of friendship with him.
If you continue with the friendship, the cloud of confusing emotions will continue looming over your head, it would be harder for you to have strong feelings for someone else, it would be easy to have sex with him, etc

nice! topup is back. sweet cherry

sorry o oko iyawo ma binu.

who say i dey go warri? ki lo kan mi. i dey here the sip my mountain dew dey enjoy your flirting. have fun. i'm sure neto is a good guy. sounds like a keeper. he will make a good husband for you.

Ibukun love. You are growing up like I thought you would o

lol

xqwysyte:
lmfao

this your username get as he be o

Se in your own dialect it's igbe. onigbendi.

i'm disappointed

i amu the most incredibu out of naija strate from naija o.

Lololo see as oyinda de ta pio pio. oyinda invite me to your wedding o.

And somebody please don't get me started on Boston's old ass trophy buying rugged team.