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It wont' make them change their ways. Maybe it will make them have some pity on their african sisters in the diaspora. Since they are now begging to settle for second-place. lol

what's wrong with african queen? even the european girls be feelin' it. don't hate.

na condition make crayfish bend. if u were in a black woman's shoes, u will be forced to be independent as well. too many useless men around that are up to no good. even to build a successful african student org on campus, u will find it's the girls that are usually doing all the work.

all that one wen you dey talk na proverb, abeg save me from the yeye conditional speech.  
they are always eager to blame their bent crayfish backs on innocent men, instead of accepting responsibilities for being frigid uncooperative partners.  it's 50-50 sha.  I guess these men too recognise the useless women.  maybe that's why they are not going after them. but no be me talk am sha ooo

LMaoOoOoo no need to worry about growing up to become a constipated, old, angry, frustrated and bitchy old woman without a man.

You are a strong, independent, successful black woman. You don't need to have a man in your life

LoooOOOooL

japro, i'm sorry but wt& is pile? do you mean pi?

p.o.c

severally?  very very unlikely. no and hell raised to the power of no. baby-killing should not become an overlooked habit. when people are having sex carelessly, not thinking about the possible outcome of their decisions or the effects that those decisions can have on their future, i think they deserve whatever tough luck crosses their paths.

you sound very angry and bitter . rough childhood?
abeg carry ya ghetto ass trash commot persin face make we hear word joo.

predictable buffoon.  over here droning and bitching like the diseased female dog that you are.  lame schmuck.

keep shaking your damn big ass head then and see if that spits out your admin pm button.

Maybe if you calm down from your agitation you would get the help you need.

Na waooooo see spamcylinder excercising authority of the mod. sexy

I don't see how this is a great accomplishment. Most people can get back with their exes if they so please. But thee real reason most won't do it is because there's no reason to believe what previously drove them apart won't haunt them again.

OP, have you sorted out whatever issues caused the prior break up between you and this guy? Anyhow goodluck.

Abi o @ Negro, Tough to say which is more important that the other. I'm of the opinion that they are all linked together and must work in sync. Be it Love, trust, communication, compatibility, respect, etc.

rokiatu,
we can agree to disagree.

I used to think that too, until I really met trust.  Once you lose trust a healthy relationship is basically impossible.  If you lose that trust, the love will have a hard time flowing fluidly. IMHO

Dude tell her to Bleep off.

Or do what Balrog has suggested

Balrog:
Hey dude, realise the girl is using you. Best thing is to use her too. Play around on her. Don't hide it. Girls always want what other girls have, that way being seen with her makes you more attractive and other girls will want you more. When you "let them" steal you from her this will hurt her and make them happy. Ha ha.
Don't think she'll change, tears are a womans best weapon (possibly more than sex).
Truth is she won't like you treating her like this so why should you put up with it from her.
Using her is the only way to escape with your dignity and maybe some new girls  

Lol@LeWeed LeBusted for LeToking

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[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=299403.msg4228605#msg4228605 date=1248249916]there u're exhibiting the characteristics of the typical wrong guy smh i bet the cigar dude used the same lines on her. lol[/quote]It ain't about me using lines or trying to sweet-talk her.

It was analogy explaining that there are guys who mean and do what they say, and then there are guys that talk the talk but can't walk the walk.


And since the former fits me to a "T", I figured why not use myself as a befitting example.

Also, might I add that it would be very silly of me - and even hypocritical - to pretend like it would be easy for you to walk away from the situation and pretend it doesn't exist.  I can assure you that I've been in similar situations before and I have a rough idea of how difficult it can be to deal with disappointments.

The best gift you can give yourself is to reward yourself with someone who would treat you right and appreciate you for the beautiful woman that you are.

And of course I can go on and on and on typing bits and pieces of long-winded posts basically knocking on you, trying to persuade you to adopt a different trend of choices.   But I feel like all of that would be futile and unnecessary because you a grown ass woman who knows what to do.

You're always falling for the wrong guys? And yet you say there's nothing wrong with your taste in men. Have you thought about revamping your choices. Maybe try moving in a direction different from the one you're accustomed to.

The game of love is definitely very dirty. If you are lucky enough to be blessed with a genuine dude like myself who would not only make a commitment to be true to you but also stay true to that commitment, then you are truly fortunate. Otherwise, you would end up going back to the drawing boards, getting kicked and bounced up and down and around by people who don't have your best interest at heart.


Sure you can't always control how you feel. It's easier and possible in the earlier stages to prevent yourself from developing feelings for the asshole. And you know he is an asshole. There has to have been something about him that attracted you to him in the first place.

Of course she was in one. you would be surprised by how many dumb ass motherfuckers are out there that people are having to deal with on a daily basis. Yet it would be very difficult for them to snap out of it because of the stupid feelings of attachment they have developed for these people.

Love's a dirty game.

aloy emeka i'm surprised you have some expertise in this deparment. what can i said

Tracey, I for one would question your taste in men. But I stop just short of doing that because I have come to realize that we all have different tastes. There was the awkardness f you having to find out that your prior boyfriend knocked up your homegirl, and you were still in the process nursing thoughts of welcoming him back into your life. Now with you having to deal with this I'm short of words. I just think that with the caliber of men you date you should have seen it from a mile away that problems like this would arise.

If you have gotten the cigarettes from him once before, why exactly did you refuse to get them now?

If the guy can ditch you like that over a puff of smoke, I doubt he really cares that much about you anyhow. But what do I know?

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=299403.msg4228434#msg4228434 date=1248246939]lmao[/quote]Why? it ain't funny.

I personally think some women fail to see how the responsibility for the failures in their relationships falls squarely on their shoulders too.

I don't mean to brag or nuttn

Tracey121:
OH Thank God there are still ppl with sense of humor in this world

You're welcome ma'am

loooooooooooool this woman sef.

40 calling herself an overegoed bitch. indeed