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Sorry madam Kobojunkie

Kobojunkie:
1. So, because things are not working perfectly in Nigeria, we should not require that people proceed rationally in dealings with each other?

2. The realistic Traditional System of marriage in Nigeria insists that the man, in exchange for godhood in marriage over his woman, retain the position of sole provider to his family. It follows that should the man decide to step down from the position of sole provider, then he should rightly give up on some of the benefits he had previously enjoyed.

You may be OK with a life of suffering — carrying your weight and that of another on your head —, but not all women want that sort of suffering for themselves, and they are right to feel that way.

3. Traditionally, this man is supposed to carry that bill for the life of the marriage. Having his wife take on part of his role in the marriage without him giving up at least some of the benefits he enjoyed for over 15 years amounts to his wife losing out in the arrangement. That is unfair! A partnership arrangement should be followed up with a partnership agreement.

Kobojunkie:
Why should they be doing any more than they have already had to do before now?

Kobojunkie my love,stop misleading women,you re in a sane country where things are working perfectly,the govt even offer shelter and free Meals.


Now let us be realistic....this is nigeria,most family are struggling,i assist my husband,he didnt compelled me,i do it just to ease the burden from him,because that's the essence of being married.


This man has carried this(Billing)for 15yrs,it will not be out of place for his wife to assist with some bills,if she contribute the heavens will not fall.

Please,pray,fast,talk to God on her behalf,look sexy she might change her mind.













On a serious note,the way nigeria is going,wives that are working/doing businesses need to supportive their husbands.

sheycrown:
lol. To think I actually thought it was you when I saw the plates. I had to go back to check the monicker. BTW welcome back caaz

Fada lawd

Thank you Op....kisses.













Lolx.



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Its my husband duty to pamper me,care for me,Asked how my day went,spoil me with gifts.....because I m his priority.

zoer:
You kept mine?

Hey see my luv....what happened to your number?its always saying switched off.

The northerners jux left this group chat.









Ejiri gi na ime moto.

Natbrowny:
Male 35k
Female 25k

Slightly Negotiable.

Tel me ur location, I'll send you to my contact in a Market close to you

For kpukpuyeke...ok

sonssyo:
Sunday rice is here

My luv for Redoil stew nor be here o.

Please return my plates
I use to have these plates....sadly I can't find not a single one

Sunday Rice
She-kiin peppersoup

Breakfast



Chicken peppersoup

We4all:
He probably inherited his father's dull brain. If that is the case...otilor. Just identify his strengths and encourage him. He still has a long way to go and it's too late to give up on him.

Haba madam,this is too harsh nau.

I don't know where to buy ducks from....

Why always putting blame on the parents?Do you know there re kids that are determined to be useless no matter how hard the parents tries to impact them positively?



Smh.




La click,la bend.

Kobojunkieee:
The kain nonsense people, particularly women, dey endure in the name of marriage, dey always give me the shivers.

Is it true, though, that the woman only has 4 months left to live? Why pursue divorce when she can simply abandon the marriage altogether and go find peace elsewhere before her end? Or is securing a divorce from the man part of her bucket list?

She wants to quickly divorced herself from the narcissist.

And you re sickindahead,some usernames sha

columbus007:
These women... They always plays the victim card, I on trust em

If she were to be your sister,i m guessing you will not spill this trash.

One thing I can tell you for free.....fear anybody man/woman that attends deeper life church.

beerner:
Igbos are very many in the Army. my wife is an Igbo woman from Owa Alero, Asaba and once in a while we host her colleagues that are also Army officers too and they are mostly Igbos.

Igbos are more in the Officer Corp.

does it even matters if the BoG must be Igbos ?

Shatap,owa alero is not in asaba,you and lies are inseparable.

People are calling you out for scamming Someone stephen

Jesus!!!!!

PARADIZEPRIEST:
NA only from middle belt to north you can cook stew with 5k you can not try it in Lagos or delta states

I m in delta state asaba

Watianoengineer:
Is this ground nut soup?

Its the remnant of this soup

Breakfast