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StephenP:
As wrong as this sounds, it is pretty funny. But damn, why is virginity that important?[/size][size=13pt]

It';s debo, he'll do anything branded a virgin

StephenP:
[size=13pt]LOL! As long as you don't tell me, you're not in the mood during the honeymoon session, I am cool.[/size]

So, the date is set I want a one million dollar wedding

LadyT:
Cadet are you going to be Stephens 3rd of 4th wife?

His one and only, we already picked out the ring Dnt be jealous

debosky:
you love my name don't you? I can make you scream it if you want

but nah, you're too 'modern' for me. . . I want the chick who will call me 'Daddy' properly groomed from the village

what is there to know? she cooks and cleans, and is a virgin. . .thats all I need to know

LMAO. . . funny, very funny! "Daddy" ko, Papi ni. Yes, I am too modern, too fresh for you

StephenP:
[size=13pt]That's what dating is for. Until I know every little thing about her, I am not slipping any ring on her fourth finger, left hand.[/size]

Don't worry baby, am buying a plane ticket so we can get to know each other. remember, our wedding is in 3 months don't let me have to kidnap you, I dnt have the energy this time around

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=130768.msg2206592#msg2206592 date=1209515372]7 pages of posts in one night!!!

[size=18pt]Una Well done oh!!!,[/size]

don't u guy get sick of the constant bickering[/quote]hahahhaha! Blame it on debosky

bawomolo:
shh who??

says me

@Bawomolo and Debosky
You guys berra be joking! You're joining the list of distasteful Nigerian men!
Bawomolo, you're already on another list, Obo



_{~SINGING~ Eru Olorun bami, eru Olorun bami o, O n toba ti pinu lokan re, ko se ni to o ledaduro!}

debosky:
compatibility folks! that is the name of the game - marry a man/girl that suits your temperament, not some crazy chick who'll go burn your TM's and scratch your Lamborghini over a fight or something

@ Rad

what about S&M beatings? are those allowed

Obo, so you're worrying about lamborghini when you should be worried about solving the fight?

LadyT:
@Morenike

StephenP:
[size=13pt]LadyT, I agree with you to some extent. But some women deliberately make it so hard for their men to live in peace. Did you see "Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married?" Remember that woman that would constantly argue with her husband for no reason? Some women are actually like that. I think everyone needs to work themselves; the guys should know everything does not have to end physically and women should know when to calm down and hold their tongue for peace's sake.[/size]

That movie was so sad! kai!

bawomolo:
it's not stalking if there's no restraining order. am safe

I can ask one from seun, you know

Obasanjo. Artistic in Government corruption

StephenP:
[size=13pt]LOL! Is he the one stalking following you around?[/size]

Don't mind him, he doesn't know am engaged


You yourself, you're lucky you're fine, unless I would have told you to stop following me around

LadyT:
WAIT!!!!!!!!

EVERYBODY WAIT!!!

Look if you marry a typical Nigerian guy Radiant my darling you aint cutting no shrubs.

Look before screaming and shouting the odds what kind of guy are you marrying?

Most guys will see themselves as head of the household.

If a woman marries a guy like that don't start snapping neck when he wants to flex his muscles and put his foot down and scream he is boss.

I'm not saying some men are not just plain bastards who beat women up.

But others have such big egos a modern woman who be the wrong woman.

abi o. Some men are just plain bastards, period

debosky:
I can't have this?

someone must've told you I was interested - read my lips I don't do drama I get enough of that from the TV

but Rad I might consider. . .I do like me a feisty mama

Now that's what I like to hear. Wish bawomolo could do the same

Where's mr tyrant? am missing his post na

bawomolo:
ha ha, abeg oh, i hope i never cross your path. cadet the dominatrix

Lucky you, I bite!

bawomolo:
that's right tell him, it's mines debo .

you need help

More like why are Nigerian men so disgraceful? Oops, I meant most Nigerian men

debosky:
@ Rad

YES I am wife hunting straight from the village - urbanized chicks like Cadet are too much trouble - they NEVER shut up

I want a girl who will worship the ground I walk on and treat me like the King I am, I'll take care of her of course, as long as she doesn't have drama episodes

Emi! debosky, me? Am the one with the drama? next to you, my episodes dnt sale! And BtW kick rocks, you can't get this anywaz!

Radiant:
Where d'u live?. . . You talking about back in the days I, bless your knowledge.

abi o,


Imagine, some are even encouraging the slap. Thank God sha there are Nigerian men here, dnt have to go to Nigeria and bring back a goat

bawomolo:
wha's with all the tough talk from the ladies, in reality most of yall would go siddon for corner and cry

You seriously don't know me, apart from what I show on Nairaland. I dnt pretent, and I am not tought, but that does not make me stupid. Back in the days I use to fist fight, but am out of it. I slap biarches who are out of control, but I dnt slap the men. But one thing is, If my husband dares to lay his hands on me, little by little, my trust for him will fade away. And what is a relationship without trust?




And there are just men who just shame the male population. Haba, most of Nigerian men here just depress me, disgusting!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=130768.msg2206459#msg2206459 date=1209512308]AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]The Lord will continue to bless you for that. You're the best Amen!!!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=130768.msg2206453#msg2206453 date=1209512222]It's kind of funny how we can separate the good guys from the bad guys on this thread.
Any man that hits a woman, in my opinion, is a coward.
Any woman that hits a man is just darn stupid.
Hitting doesn't make the marriage or relationship better. It just makes it worse because soon the love among them becomes fear and fear will definitely make the partners both unhappy.[/quote]Preach it sister! That's just it

jennykadry:
good rubbish to bad radiance

LOL. Thanks! I can count on you

StephenP:
[size=13pt]She has no one. She can't run to her husband's family because they would force her back to her husband's house. She can't go home to her family because as far as they are concerned, they have married her off and have had their bride price so she is no longer their "problem". Yet, she has 4-5 kids she needs to feed and protect. It's so depressing.[/size]

Thanks, one more reason why I dislike Nigeria's political/ social system Haba, God save me from this distasteful Nigerian Men!

chisimdi:
thanks alot but 2 b honest wit u am much happier now dan before,and i'm loving life to the fullest.

I love the attitude. Good radiance to bad rubbish, or how does the saying goes again?

StephenP:
[size=13pt]I don't agree with you. Some men seize every opportunity to beat their wives. For example:
Wife: Darling, I got promoted at work. I might be working late.
Husband: What?! *Beats her*

Wife: I had a baby girl
Husband: What?! *Beats her*

Wife: I want to go to college and get a better job
Husband: No
She begs
He beats her.

It's really got to stop.[/size]

Sadly this happens most often in Nigeria, and who is the wife suppose to run to?

chisimdi:
Well i 've been reading all your quotes and unfortunately am a victim of such circumstance.i hv 3 young boys and i culdn't bear my children watchin deir mum crying continously, so i decided 2 move out of d house our kids.Rite now i stay in dublin,while my hubby stays in nigar.

I am deeply sorry for the unfortunate event. But madam, at some point, that is the only alternative. Plz, dnt let the kids get expose to such abuse. It just breaks my heart that some women will stay in the marriage just because of love and culture, and even worst when the children are affected by the separation. But what can we do when the man is heedless? I hope your situation turn to a better one

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=130768.msg2206404#msg2206404 date=1209511298]Girl! I'm not stupid enough to hit him!
That's where the broken bottles and knives come in.
A woman should never fight a man with her hands.[/quote]I like the way you think

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=130768.msg2206380#msg2206380 date=1209510746]Me ke?
Lai lai! I'm a very aggressive female. Before a guy kills me - he has to take away my spirit. It will probably be him that ends up in ICU or the mortuary. Although - i pray never to be in that situation.[/quote]Big big mistake! Babe, Dnt ever hit a man! Esp. if he's bigger than you! I tried it once when I was younger (am always in trouble , man), that taught me a lesson. My cousins also taught me never to raise my hand on a man. You might think you can do sth now, but dnt try it

4 Him:
Real men wont slap a woman,

High love you for that statement. That's what I've been trying to say! *phew*

bawomolo:
in an ideal situation, one should work away but u are asking for trouble if u physically instigate someone.

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We're talking about husbands and wife. Not just BF/GF . A man physically abuse the mother of his children? Haba!

LadyT:
Cadet I would never dream of slapping him in the first place. I don't want my face to be slapped into a deformed shape!

Yea, hope not.

bawomolo:
then we would settle our differences with words or angry sex . there's one thing i know, no woman is slapping me or else,

Or else you'll slap her back? That makes you a real man? Fight wrong with wrong?

Sad to say, even my mom that's in her late 30's won't say most of the stuff I hear here.

4 Him:
smart idea.

I seriously fear you, sometimes. that's not a compliment