I'm not mincing words when I say this is one of the best thread I've seen so far as regards advising guys on nairaland, I hope guys take to this instruction and be the macho man in a relationship.
@enshi what skills do u have what certifications have u gotten, the beauty if ur course of choice is dat there're endless certifications and skills u can hone dat makes u stand out in d labour market or better still be self employed, for instance there are countless jobs for programmers online. wish u all d best.
The thirst for power,control and respect as often made some people to clamour for post and position that they feel elevates their status from mere citizens, to people of higher status in the community, this as always been the case from cradle as teens are attracted to the bad boys and some resort to joining cult groups,clubs for big boys and girls on campus, man o war kegites. I do laugh when i see man o war students, the stress they undergo to gain respect and to be revered among their fellow students, would you allow yourself be flogged and punished by a girl for any possible reason?