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Pkingman:
On her relationship with me at home: She is a perfect partner.. Very friendly and jovial, respects me.. Despite her busy schedule, she still takes out time to keep the home running.. Cooks and does chores, without bothering me to assist.. I hate domestic chores ..we have no maid because she said she doesn't need a maid. My mum and hers take turns to visit and assist.

On Intimacy... Good.. Top notch.. Na she dey rush me sef. We play, pray and laugh.. We even watch football matches together. We both support Arsenal. We hardly quarrel.

On social functions : She isn't the very outgoing type.. More of an indoor person but we attend dew occasions together and she acts just okay... Not cold, not overly excited.. But if we take pictures together, she will never upload that but will rather upload her personal picture.

On gifts : I don't know if it's because she has her own money and can easily afford anything I buy for her.. She has never asked me for anything, even cash I give her because I believe I have to. She only says thank you, no excitement at all. Is this how independent women act?
I complained about this to her parents and siblings.. They said that's how she is.. But I don't feel good about this.. It's so not feminine. As if I am not adding anything to her.

On changing my attitude towards her : She doesn't even want me to put her up on social media as well.. So if I stop that, it won't bother her.
I can't just start giving her cold attitude at home.. No reason for that. Besides, she may just enjoy the space and shun me.. That will be to my own detriment because she sure knows how to keep to herself and mind her business while I can't .

My concern is that my friends, relatives, colleagues show off their partners and celebrate them online. They take pictures and post.. They use their spouses on their DPs.If I don't do same, won't people think my marriage is having issues? And my wife being the reason for this just doesn't sit well with me. I am uncomfortable about it because normal women don't behave like this. They are proud of being married. They are usually crazy about their husbands and look for every opportunity to show them off,display gifts and all that... How many women will husband buy new car for And they won't show off online, at least on whatsapp? Even though she already has a car she bought before we got married, I thought this will be different, being a new car and a SUV...Haba!

Bros ur case I'd a special one since u enjoy thus cordial relationship with her at home,

But u should able to read between the lines that she's hiding u from someone, or some people
Me thinks she was in kind of a long relationship with someone and it didn't end well cos she wanted to get married to the other guy
The best way to tackle problems, is to have a dialogue, inasmuch as I don't care much about public display of affection or validation from social media, it's an esteem booster for some folks like you, sit her down, have a heartfelt conversation with her, tell her you really despise are cold demeanor, if she remains defiant, baba trust me their are things you can do, she can see you are trying your best to win her attention, and there's a funny way the mind works to make her despise u the more I would just give 2 a glimpse of what I would do of I were in your shoes.

1.Frankly i wouldn't send her anymore, i would never care about her reaction to any action I make and would also never seek validation from her, I don't advocate cheating, but trust me I would spend nights outside, I would look for a prettier lady that I flaunt on social media and i wouldn't gI've a damp if she notices or not, even if she starts getting jealous I swear I wouldn't stop
2. Bros u are the man in the relationship and not her friend don'tlet her get u by the balls, don't let her know all about you, and don't do stuff to impress her again

The present IGP is a disgrace after the old Sars was disbanded to foster some sense of decency to the already corrupt police force


His ego made him bring back this special robbery squad

IGP the blood of kolade is on ur head!!!

Grant pardon to someone that didn't show any sign of remorse,

Someone that has stoked up the flames of disunity in the country

That didn't even ask to be pardoned, and still keeps making empty threats

If not that some of us have been blinded by bigotry and tribalism we'd see that the guy is a scam and just a tool to propagate a political party's agenda

A biafra or death
B. No election in biafra
C. Vote for Atiku

I actually wanna see what would be the narrative now


I dunno why people don't address Buhari as Jubril again, or has Buhari been resurrected smh

I funny smell was oozing after using d loo during a church vigil

To make matters worse the young boy that sat next to me was just covering his nose and shaking is head


And one babe dat I was 4orming 4 was also a sufferer of the smell

Walter Onnoghen shot himself in the foot




People that live in glass house should not throw stones



You know ur slate isn't clean and that the president didn't want u as a CJN and u still aligned forces with the opposition, u deserve the punishments being dished on u

Zach Orji and clem ohaneze should be ranked higher on that list, but u tried, cos Kanayo I Kanayo deservedly placed on top that list,


If I see that man for night aswear I fit run

It beats my imagination how people take this kid in an mans body seriously

9 years, they deserved to be punished but 9 years is too much

I don't support what she did in anyway but the other lady was cheating on her husband

i hate having to troll on NAIRALAND requests, but frankly your written English puts a very big question on the fact that you claim to be a lawyer ,"am going", "we have a good opportunity", "will it be??" "carrier instead of career" frankly am disgusted especially in your second post, my candid advice for you would be to improve on your spoken English if you wanna stand any chance on passing the IELTS exam you wanna write
graceajunwa

Celebrityblog:
A video of Miami-Dade Police officers manhandling a black woman has gone viral on social media leading to outrage online.

The footage shows police violently arresting a black lady after she reported a man for threatening to shoot her.


Watch the video below and see reactions after the cut....

Source: http://www..com/2019/03/outrage-as-miami-dade-police-officers.html

I really weep and bleed in my heart after watching this video, those officers are saatanic and devlish...... such wickedness

and the lady did nothing wrong

BiafranBushBoy:
Is Buhari aware?

I have no RIP to type.

He was among those that killed people in Rivers and in the South during elections.

Mtchewww... Next

You are a kid that lacks all sense of humanity and reasoning

We really suffer from amnesia in this country


Maurice Iwu had all his election results before the election proper,

Iwu is not just the worst INEC chairman, but one of d worst political office holders this country has ever had

herzernIsHere:
SouthWesterners need to wake the fuçking up!!

PDP does not mean well for the SW region and by extension Nigeria.

Let's see if the Appeal court will overrule this ruling.

I dislike Pdp as well and believe they have also nothing to offer, but as a student that schooled in OAU during Aregbesola's tenure i must say Aregbesola is a devlish and wicked man, owed salary for months and still slashed it by half, after bail out funds, he even had the effonterry to say he wouldn't use the bail out funds to pay salary, but rather he would initiate projects where he would embezzle, The Oyes program for example is one the most idiotic programs ever, paying graduates to cut grass in a forest, who does that

The biggest hypocritical and sycophantic Politician



A bigot that has no respect for people, but pretends to be humble

shadrach77:
Bloggers will never do well. The bride didn't push her. She only came to the dance floor and tried tapping her to leave so that she can take over
Bloggers and exaggeration sha

God would bless u for this comment, people jumping into conclusions because of the misleading headline

Ive successful tried to keep my relationships away 4rm my parents, until i engagement, but ...



There was a time i was nearly caught with a lady i was getting intimate with,



Mom was hitting the gate, and lady was nude, ... I would always respect dammy 4 wat she did, I didn't tell her b4 sge dressed up an ran outside the other gate like a mad cow, in d fastest possible way I've ever seen a lady do,

Our shop tenants were just laughing when I came out, cos they knew what just happened

Believe this twitter lady at your own peril



Most of dem wey be olosho, na wetin dem dey talk to just trend

When Davido and Chioma's relationship was out a guy came out and called her a skrep, a cheerful giver and Animashaun, I guess the guy was right all along

donstan18:
Tinubu. The only man who is ready to deceive and betray his people in the WASTE for his presidential ambition.

"WASTE"?? To think I always admire the way u commented makes me cringe now



Calling an entire region waste, because some are not politicaly aligned with your views just shows how immature, tribalistic and small minded you are

You're just a kid with access to a keypad and data, mynd44, lalasticlala do something about this hate filled child

This is insensitive ill-advised and extreme equating the man that was responsible for a whole world war that led to the killing of millions to his president for political advantage,


It's more despicable coming from a celebrity that you'd expect to know better than to fan the burning flames of hate just for political gains



I really dislike Buhari and Atiku as well, I believe they have nothing to offer nigerians, its a shame that a celebrity that shouldn't be partisan, would stoop so low to spread propaganda, Charles Novia you just lost a fan

Inasmuch as its commendable to dabble in work most ladies wouldn't venture into....



We should stop celebrating mediocrity, in a sane environment I dont see y dis should be a big deal, guys do this everyday, if she dosent work, ...she shouldn't expect to feed and survive.. shikena

Samakus:
That's the word they use to blackmail ajebos into submission. My dear, that prank doesn't work on me. Before you even say it, I will tell you that I'm a weak man and not a real man. What else are you gonna say. I must not submit to your whims and caprices. Nonsense.


No be only weak man, na feeble Man.

God would bless u for this, she didn't even criticize the lady's attitude

I really dislike people throwing words around to sound intelligent and smart




I do not support washing ur dirty linen in public, but i dunno what pushed him to act in that manner, I'd never judge someone based on what I see in social media

baliyubla:
Awon Ole.

APC a party of bigots and ethnic supremacist.

Shame on anyone associated with the likes of Tinubu and APC.

Spits.

P.S The poster below should try to understand context. When Igbos call Hausa’s Aboki, the don’t necessarily mean friend, same thing applies to Tinubu here.

Coming from a supposed elder statesman is unforgivable.

Seun I dunno y this tribalistic comment is not yet deleted, inasmuch as u hate apc, must u immaturely try to twist words to suit ur perception of someone


He even said igbo kwenu afterwards, how is this even a leaked tape


From the noise of a large crowd there, you'd know he was addressing a large number of people

Lalasticlala, seun if u were gonna push this to frontpage. At least change the title, you guys should not contribute to heating up d polity


I swear I don't like Tinubu at all. but how did he insult Igbos here, he even said igbo kwenu afterwards

LuciferPastor:
Temmy is not a virgin as advertised. Her recent irritation stems from the fact that she expects you to have fvcked her by now but you are a wimp so she is repulsed by your touch (which ultimately leads to nothing). She is also into BDSM / rough sex.


Bolanle is a desperate menopaused Evening Newspaper. Asides pocohantas, Evening Newspapers always act nice & loving but hers is worse because she has attained menopause. What are the odds that she will bear fruit? A barren woman is useless.

Lastly, I'm concerned about you bros. You seem to have a very underdeveloped brain. It's hard to believe a man of almost 40 typed this & I don't mean grammatical errors / construction.

There must be a reason you attract losers.


*spits

Inasmuch I know you're an attention seeker that spews thrash most times to remain relevant...

I must really admit you hit the nail on the head and gave him the bitter truth besides insulting pocohantas,

holywater24 she's irritated by you cos you couldn't read between the lines and know she's also sexually active,

And theres more to what meets the eye when dating a 39 year old lady, cos they tend to be humble cos of desperation, try to know y omobolanle hasn't gotten married, u might be shocked when Pandoras box is opened

Buhari - senility has set in


Atiku - a desperate thief



Obasanjo - a big hypocrite selfish and cunning person



We are doomed in this country

why would a girl that as been cold to you expect valentine gifts

the one that tried it with me got this honest response :

kemi: pls babe dont forget my valentine gift
me: sweetheart i would have loved to give u a sweet gift but babe those privileges are for ladies i have something romantic with
kemi: ah ahn me nko
me: honey we both know you haven't gotten to that level yet na if i give all my friends i would go broke