I've told my family if I'm caught washing my wife's pant and she's not incapacitated in any way, take my pics to a Pastor cos I've been used spiritually
delectablegyal Men own it when they are tagged promiscuous or fuckboys unlike ladies that continually deny it, so they're are also talked about, but do not see no shame in it, you no why
A key that opens maby doors is called a master key. But a door that is opened by many keys is virtually useless and a promiscuous one
This thread is just proof that people hate this Efe guy not his music, I'm not a fan if Nigerian music in anyway, but I well informed to know that this track is above average by Nigerian music standards
Anybody that supports the man is retardd, the man is clearly a rscist, and has a double digit IQ asking lame-ass questions, I really wish I can repl the man in person
The shameless woman as zero self worth and a disgrace to her family and this visionless country, I wish I could unsee this
Very violent and stupid family I must say omg the most annoying part of the video is the part when she breaks something on the guys head but the lady recording says don't hit a woman
Ishilove: Lady Di is 60 now, meaning that she was about 20 when she gave Charly Boy that ultimatum. This, to me shows that she already defined what she wanted out her relationship with him, even if he hadn't yet made up his mind. I have never been a fan of casual dating, i.e Dating For Dating's Sake. Define what you what when you are going into a relationship so that you will avoid stories that touch much later. Right here on Nairaland a user complained that his girlfriend who was already giving him wife benefits was 'rushing him' by requesting for his house keys. Meanwhile he is chopping the punna and enjoying the domestic help she is rendering, but when she indicates she wants a degree of commitment, he comes online to complain that he is feeling pressured. So why then are you 'dating'? Wanna eat your cake and have it?
Some men will give the excuse of 'getting to know each other' to suck every drop of your youthfulness before moving on to the next.
Note the bolded. Charly Boy was already enjoying wife benefits in the relationship. This is the reason why women should never give too much of themselves to men because it will make them complacent. This is also why a man will turn a woman to Lady of the Ring, or make her abort all the children God gave her, and then when he meets someone else who has her dignity intact, will dump the aforementioned with lame excuses. If you're even unlucky, you will read about your 'darling boyfriend's' wedding on Facebook. Despite being only 20, Lady Diana knew what she wanted out of her relationship with Charly Boy, and when he became complacent, she took the bull by the horns and gave him the ultimatum that reset his brain.
DON'T EVER BE ASHAMED TO DEMAND DEFINITION FROM YOUR PARTNER. People say a woman who knows what she wants and demands it from her man is 'desperate'. Will you say Lady Di was 'desperate' at age 20? Ladies never, and I repeat, NEVER let anyone waste your time. Don't let anyone give you hope needlessly and then does not follow through. Do your research and prayerfully inquire about your partner before you go far in that relationship, and if he is dragging his legs, give him the 'Diana Ultimatum'. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being proactive in your relationship and don't allow anyone tell you it is a thing of shame. Go for it. Just go for it. The result will be very enlightening in all dimensions.
Again, this where definition comes in. But then again, people enter relationships for a variety of reasons; some for the nacks and others for the long haul. Be wise. Don't be a time waster, neither should allow your precious time be wasted.
I'm guessing he took a step back and reviewed his relationship with this lady and came to the conclusion above.
You know, sometimes all it takes is a little, or in some cases, a firm nudge for that special person in your life to take the bold step. This nudge opens their eyes to what they are toying with because it is very easy to take people in your life for granted and you don't know what you have till it's gone. When you find your soul mate, hold fast to them because for so many, lightening does not strike twice.
40 years on, the rest is enviable history.
You see y ur advise isn't realistic, is that most ladies today in the same age bracket of lady v, feel they are hot commodities and wouldn't look a guy that takes them serious twice, cos they basking in that euphoria of youthful exuberance
The fact that couples venture into relationships for the wrong reasons like sex and money, as always been the bane of many relationships lalasticlala mynd44 seun let's give this a wider coverage to get views from different people.
The quest for happiness and fulfillment today is an endless task, the decisions we make in our younger years would determine the the kind of wealth, friends and relationships we find ourselves, so we are very meticulous about choices we make with regards money, friends and relationships we venture into, no one wants a parasitic relationship with either friends or the opposite sex, which brings about the question, what do you have to offer in a relationship?, I for one would cut ties with anyone, if you are all about what you tend to gain in our relationship, and you have nothing to offer be it a guy or a lady.
What makes a relationship stand the test of time is what we bring to the table, be it positive or negative energy. Many ladies today are indoctrinated with the mentality right from the time they reach puberty, that their body and physical attributes are more than enough to start and keep a relationship, some ladies believe just being there when you are not so financially buoyant and not cheating is more than enough, and this has being the wrong yardstick for determining a responsible lady, we hear statements like, “I was there from day one” or “I was there when he had nothing” and what did you do to better him?. This problem stems out from the fact that ladies and some guys do not have well laid out and outlined roles or things to offer in a relationship, besides sex and money.
This is evident from the video below, where the lady feels that her ” pu..sy is more than enough offering for the relationship” when there are “3 billion pus..ys to pick from”, so I am making this a open question What do you have to offer in a relationship ?
lalasticlala mynd44 dominique Rocktation farano seun
Daeylar: Hmmm. Is that so? Then who are Nigerian men insulting when they make their one packet of indomie jokes if all Nigerian ladies have that mentality you speak of?
Also, I hope you come out to caution your fellow men against their One packet of indomie jokes, or fanta and sharwama jokes Which they make against ladies who don't ask men to spend enough on them or pay before sexual encounters or is your own just to bash the other side? Those who ask you to spend money?
Because it is this same Nigeria that will hate a girl for asking for money before sex but will insult a girl who doesn't ask by calling her cheap.
Cause I can see that Misogynistic Nigerian men don't care if a lady asks for money or not. They just want to insult her regardless. If she ask for money or demands that you spend she is an olosho. If she doesn't, she is cheap and it just takes a packet of indomie.
That is kiss and tell
The issue with guys kissing and telling may happen irrespective of the fact that he beds her with little or no change, or a "packet or indomie", so your stance is that he should spend more on a lady so she doesn't lose on both ends abi
Ladies also kiss and tell, so guys should seek revenge for the " one minute man" taunts too right?
u make it seem like though putting a big price tag on a lady's body is a proof that a lady isn't cheap, that is prostitution no matter how u try to spin it
I would find it very hard getting married to a Nigerian lady, cos they are indoctrinated with this mentality that u gotta spend enough on them, or pay before sexual encounters,
This gal takes it to a whole new level, making it seem legitimate and their right to demand for money in place of sex
Deckline the guy that said you were bible zoned really got me laughing
Frankly you've being friend-zoned and the only way to get out is to ignore her and start doing the opposite of everything you've being doing to her
Don't be nice to her, don't call her, date a lady prettier than her, ignore her calls(say your girlfriend was upset seeing her call, that she disturbs you too much)
Xisnin: It is good to know that you only harass good-looking women. What do you hope to achieve by trying to engage one of them? Tell them they should stop the campaign against sexual harassment? What a scum!
I'm not the reason you aren't logical and educated enough to sense sarcasm, I don't support harassment in anyway, but I'm more upset with ladies using this to trend by conducting a fruitless protest, which logical reason was to taunt those traders and make video recordings of them, when they we clearly jesting, the real sufferers of harrasments do not see it as an avenue to trend
Muscomide: You are the dimwitted one here with your misogynistic Neanderthal views. I have witnessed these predominantly Igbo traders groping and harassing innocent young girls and it is not pleasant. In saner climes, these perverts will be arrested and prosecuted for sexual harassment. Shame on you. You are most probably guilty of such abhorrent behaviour.
I don't like to engage your lots in any meaningful conversation, because you lack every sense of coherence, I have also been harassed by this same "Yaba boys" in question, but I don't go about taunting them telling them not to touch me with placards, which i clearly know wouldnt achieve anything, I don't have anything against them expressing their grievances, infact im kinda sympathetic to their plight,
the time and place and mode is 101% wrong, it's like women going to a girls hostel and chanting "Prostitutes leave our husbands alone" and expect them to change, you could even see that the policemen never took them seriously
Do they know anything about Feminism you need to watch the videos and read their tweets to see that they're bitter disrespectful ladies that just wanna trend
What do this dimwitted lots aim to achieve, trying to incite people going about their businesses, to think they were chanting "Yaba boys stop touching us"
And those guys were just jesting, it's like going to the a bar and chanting "drunkards leave our daughters alone"
Too much holywood has caused this,
Quite frankky I actually wouldnt touch this not so good looking ladies even if I'm paid to.
Modified: I even tried engaging one of them in a conversation, but they lack any sense of coherence, and are just very bitter, abusive and disrespectful ladies.