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Smartcitizen:
It depends on what you want to hear in any conversation but believe me when people say truth is bitter and most times it comes from your perceived enemies.


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JAWBONE:
Very stupid question.

Buhari and his APC goons fabricated the story about Saraki's involvement in that bloody Offa robbery.

All because Saraki refused to be a rubber stamp Senate President like Lawan or Akpabio and his eventual defection to PDP

That is where I began to fear APC propaganda machinery.

Those APC media boys can give you a crime you didn't commit just to destroy your reputation while defending the real criminals.

They have tried it with Peter Obi and failed, that is why they hate Obidients so much.

Their lies and their grip on social media is constantly destroyed by Obidients

The accusation against Saraki is false but the one against Akpabio is true. Why?

Because User Jawbone on nairaland says so

Smartcitizen:
I'm not the one who called them coward just like people use to call Cameronians.

When having a conversation try to have a direction. Unless of course you're a troll you can continue being scalar

APOPTOSIS:
Tinubu is smart no doubt..
....na him wife I get beef with.
I still don't believe BUHARI would govern better than Tinubu. Tinubu is resourceful.
IF anyone thinks Tinubu isn't smart, that person needs brain surgery.
Tinubu is the most consistent politician both in and out of power. It takes higher intelligence & certain hypnosis to manage humans around you.

They cannot understand that someone they like is craftier than they'll ever be. Calling him unintelligent is a smear dictated by their underdeveloped egos. Tinubu remains one of the smartest men in Nigeria

Tinubu is the most cunning Nigerian president since 1999

Smartcitizen:
You are a very big liar.

It takes cowards to make one who left power long time ago to be so powerful.

Just like what most dictators are doing in places like Cameron and some people useless African countries.

Why is this only happening in the region where people are called cowards in Nigeria?

If the south west was a country, Tinubu and his family will rule them for life.


Cowards......


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I really want to believe you're saying all this for cruise and not because that's your real opinion

chucks185:
Tinubu is not smart, he's just an evil man

Underestimating your enemies and people you dislike reveals a lot about your intelligence. Do you know the level of intellect it takes to control the kind of men in Nigerian politics that Tinubu controls?

And before you say it's because he has money, doesn't Atiku also have money? Lol

Good luck, bro. Going by the items in your cart, the rodents in Aso Rock are finished. I can feel trembling in the rat world.

Oga, OP, you're not her boyfriend. You're her office. And the purpose of office na to dey pay. I'm sure she's giving it up for some dude somewhere. Pele.

jenniferajeboh:
1:Listen to her

Why? What if she's talking about stuff not worth listening to? What if I'm not in any mood to listen?

2:Ask her what she wants

Why should I be concerned with what she wants? How about she does what I want? Which is, not nag!

3:Share the chores

Lol. Ok.

4:Stop over promising

Ok.

5:Spend some time with her

The last thing any sane man should do is try spend more time with a nagger.

Nagging women should be ignored or booted out depending on the temperament of the man in question and severity of the nagging. Why should I appease a terrorist?

Mcowubaba:
Baba CaeserVelli
She dey call the whole Nairaland moderators for your head
Mehn, the painment in this thread can cause suicide

Babe, you no call Obasanjo, Tinubu, Abacha, Buhari, Danjuma, Ambode, Trump make dem come ban am.. ,

That little, bîtch? I done see am and I done return the favour. Typical woman, they look for trouble and cry foul when they realise they bit more than they could chew. She think say I be her papa mate.

Benita27:
Shay you didn't see the part where he tagged all girls prostitutes?, or you were too quick to defend with your attention seeking coloured comment?. Those of you who keep comparing Nigerian girls to their foreign counterparts haven't crossed the shores of Nigeria.

You've been ignored!.

You're an idiot. I challenge you to quote in bold any part where I tagged all girls prostitûtes or forever perish in hell.

Secondly, whether we have crossed the shores of Nigeria or not is moot. We compare Nigeria's healthcare, road network, political system, judiciary system with its foreign counterparts all the time. Nigerian women are not any special. This is done to benchmark against high standards. If you are too daft to know that stop commenting when your superiors are having discussions above your intellect. Daft bimbo.

VanBommel:
haaaaa!!! Haba na

You no see where she mention my mama and papa? I believe in not suffering a witch to live.

Benita27:
You must be classless to even attempt fùcking a girl you'd turn off your room light just to satisfy your urge.

My friend, shut up and stick to things you actually know about. Beauty is beauty and konji is konji. Don't equate the two.

ShyCypher:
Pained Slay Mamas are really reacting to this post.

They are using "maturity" & "IQ" as excuses.

If the beetch was "matured" & had a high "IQ", she would have agreed to meet him once or make it clear she wasn't interested (& stick to it). That's what every matured lady I met did.

Why all the childish format only to show up in the end?

Is she in Jss3?

They are all talking trash because they are all guilty of such behaviour. They would call themselves good girls but their cupboard are filled with stinking skeletons.

TinaAnita:
You may think that you have succeeded in teaching her a bitter lesson but what you don't know is that an innocent dude would be made to pay dearly for your action. She would sure take her bitterness out on someone else.

Repaying evil with evil never solves a problem and it can't right any wrong. if what you did makes you feel better then there is a serious problem.

Your ill action only proves that you aren't better than the so-called slay queen.

A vengeful person is a dangerous person as you can't mess with him/her and go scott free.

I would like to point out a few things from this comment of yours:

1. Not paying her back in her own coin would embolden her to repeat this behavior with other men. Fact.

2. The only reason she would pivot this behavior on someone else because of OP's actions is because she herself is a bad person. She would know by now that OP did what he did because of her previous actions. If she has a good conscience, she would take stock and behave better in future, if she behaves worse the OP is not the cause. That would be her true nature, in which case OP has succeeded in getting some closure for himself.

3. His actions don't show that he isn't better than the slay queen. They show that he is the kind of person who doesn't like being taken for a ride. If more people were like OP, users would be more considerate in the using. You think OP is the first person she tried this with? No. She must have been doing it before and been getting away with it.

poseidon12:
Yep. You got it right. It would be necessary to find out what the average IQ of the general population is so we know exactly where our problem is coming from and how to provide solution.

The most painful part is that these people have the same number and power of votes as I. Quite unfortunate.

Smudge:
I was the only one who voted for him in my community when he ran for presidency. Everybody was looking at me like a fool. BT that's how things are in this country. Leader is wicked but we followers are wickedly wicked. 200 million mumu

I'm sure those same people are now regretting and pouring invectives on those they elected including Uduaghan.

There's a saying, "the people deserve the government they get." That statement couldn't be more apt.

Nigerians can be very stupid. Look at the pathetic and unfortunate responses on this thread. One clown even said Utomi spoke too much grammar and favours Uduaghan's bomb words. But Uduaghan's words are bombs of misfortune.

We deserve the leaders we get on this country. Spits.

rosalieene:
You are an idiot.

The earlier guys stop seeing ladies as sex objects, the world would be a better place.

You may be right about me being an idiot but, you also sound like you've got a price threshold after which you think your panties deserve to drop and receive a thorough lashing. Don't blame me, blame your very own comments.

rosalieene:
exactly! he just wanted free p***y because of meagre 3500
Broke poor nigga

How much do you drop your own pvssy for? Must be pricey, I believe.

RaggedyAnn:
It hurts when people show this kind of commitment towards constructing a response to a post, only for it to completely miss the point. At least the other guy was brief. No offense but, ignorance is a lot more decent when it is expressed economically.

My comment acknowledged the bearded guy's advocacy for a man to be taken care of (financially)by a woman, in a bid to flip the tables on them. And I painted a picture of what that ultimately looks like (since men seem to think women have it easy), welcoming the idea of men turning themselves into 'wifey-men', if that's what they wanted. And now you're claiming that such men don't exist? Really? When this thread was started because of a comment that implies exactly that.

It's pointless, really..........

Thanks for your thoughtful response.

funmisticqueen:
pussy might be for majority of the women, and definitely not me. I am on my way to the top and it is by working smart and being in tune with the will of God.

I'm sure the will of God isn't for you to spread tour eggs all around, no pun intended.
Furthermore, the exception doesn't make the rule. Even as an exception, would you date a broke dude? I think not. Why not? Will all irresponsible men be poor? Will all hardworking men be rich? So, I ask again if you would marry a broke but hardworking and responsible man?

Why wont girls date older men, because the younger ones are still finding their bearings, dont know what to do with their lives yet or are still being irresponsible.

All part of growing into the kind of older men you like.

Girls will always gravitate to stronger men either physically, mentally, intellectually or spiritually.

Erm, this would be preaching to the choir.

I personally dont date anyone less than 10 years older than me.

Hardly surprising.

I work my ass off to be where i am today.

Good to know.

I am a slay queen but you hardly see me posting photos of camel toe to feed the porn addiction of irresponsible men.

Lol. You sound like you've got a chip on your shoulder. I believe no one requires you to do this.

I cannot invest too much in a relationship with someone i dont trust and my trust has to be earned. Most guys just assume i should give it to them. Even when i am in love, my sense is still working 100%

Again, you sound like you've got a chip on your shoulder but I could very well be wrongly assuming that you're overreacting to what I think shouldn't be that big of a deal. Everyone with a good shoulder on their head should know trust is earned not automatically bestowed.

funmisticqueen:
If I fall in that category of women earning above 200k, my man had better start earning above 500k.

No problem with this.

Only dumb girls tell their men/ husband their full salary cos history has proven time and time again that when you feed most nigerian men he becomes lazy and looks for a way to scam you of your money and marry a side chick.

This might sound true but is a little more complicated than you make it sound. The main thing that makes a man leave a woman he financially depended on is the see-finish phenomenon. Most men with pride will bide their time, take the ensuing insults and move on to a woman who will respect them, usually a woman who still sees him like he's Jesus. It is not an idle admonishment that women be submissive to their men. Of course, their are unscrupulous men who only see the money and not the woman but, honestly, see-finish leads to more of such break-ups that any wickedness. A man needs his woman's respect more than a high-paying job.

See the o ye faithful parole doesn't work o, send your man to work hard and never give him handouts from you.

Again, sounds true but really is too simplified. Yes, don't encourage him to be a leech, and be wary of guys that have no qualms asking for money. In fact, don't give him money unless it's for something really important.

However, you cannot be spreading your eggs everywhere like a lizard and still expect him to stay when his money comes. That would be tantamount to playing yourself and, believe me, most guys know when you're seeing other guys or, at least, encouraging them or keeping your options open. Don't play yourself.

If the economy is so hard, how come girls are making it.

Simple. P U S S Y.

Even in our homes, the female child gets more money from parents and relatives than male ones because she is being protected. Female dependents in Nigeria spend more money than male dependents. Women almost never lack airtime, data subscription, body cream, hair cream, etc. How many men can nonchalantly call up people to send them airtime or credit their accounts? You think women get these favours because of their super personalities? On the contrary, that wound they have that never heals is a magnet for material things.

Think about it, university undergrads use hair extensions and enhancements that run into tens, if not, hundreds of thousand of naira while their male counterparts are struggling with something as basic as food, you think its because these girls are hardworking? There is a reason why girls date older men, these are the one that can "maintain" the lifestyle they dream of.

So, I repeat, P U S S Y is the reason.

Shalom.

RaggedyAnn:
That's alright. The emergence of this phylum of men is a good and welcome sign. It balances the distribution of social power to have these dependent men.

He should just be sure to read the remainder of that particular memo, if he's bent on turning tables: be sure to keep yourself pretty; keep your ass and gut tight, pluck your hairs, soak yourself in perfumed oils to smell good everyday, spruce yourself up in form fitting clothes that show-off your assets (because women are visual creatures), and accept that you're expired goods at thirty-five, no matter what. But not to worry, bae will still take care of you and the kids. She'll leave you enough money for feeding and trips abroad, so you'll have no cause to complain when she goes after younger, prettier dependent men. Because, suddenly, it's in a woman's DNA to cheat. And you'll accept it, because you need to be taken care of.

You'll learn to accept other things too; like a big bellied woman with a loose pussy and poor hygiene. Because now, the true beauty of a woman is the size of her pocket. You'll marry older women, because you'll prefer them to be 'made' and able to sustain your lavish cravings. This will make wealthy older women a sought-after specie, and people will ignore the cracks of age and droopy breasts, claiming she ages like fine wine while a guy (whose belly bulges by an inch over his belt) ages like milk. And because you don't want to give up your lifestyle, you'll let your woman disrespect you as she pleases. You'll realize that the ego of a woman is fragile and needs constant cultivating. You'll become a prayer-warrior to protect your home from side-kicks; you'll raise the children and take the blame if any of them turns out to become wayward............

And eventually, it will be decided that the system of patriarchy is a grand conspiracy that has overrun its course; you'll decide this to discredit the Bible's claim that men have indeed been cursed to suffer and sweat for food (Genesis 3:17). And alluding to the pre-historic matriarchal religions and the highly organized matriarchal societies in nature (honey-bees, lions, killer whales), you'll support the claim that God is a woman. It will be entertained for a century to give women an edge for being born the 'right gender'. Lol!

If that's the agenda of the dependent man, I don't mind it. But it's definitely not the feminist agenda. There's no denying that it gives feminists a shorter distance to cover for equality, when men are running backwards...... Still, you are on your own with all this.

No of fence bit, the guy who called this comment trash is right.

When you realise that women were designed to be cared for, you will understand that a woman will never truly desire a man beneath her status. This is the way of life.

Women look for a mentally, psychologically and financially superior male to settle with, and she will always resent him of he falls beneath her initial valuation of him. In other words, she will eventually get tired of a fukcboy.

On the other hand, men will always gun for younger women, especially Nigerian men that have enough testosterone to share among the rest of west africa and still have surplus. Divorces will rise like the death toll during the bubonic plague. Once omoboy is financially set he will bounce. You can take that to the bank.

Men are not made to take orders from their lovers, unless the ones who have been psychologically damaged by subpar upbringing. Funny enough, women despise such men naturally, and men revile women who don't respect them. It is simply an unsustainable relationship dynamic. That is why the patriarchy exists in the first place, it is the correct, natural order of things.

In closing, boys are wising up now. They have realized that the women of this generation are not worth the sacrifice men are expected to make for their wives and lovers especially now that the economy is in the doldrums. Women are saying marriage is overrated and are acting like it is, and men are catching up. Why should I slave for an ingrate who can give me nothing but pvssy I can get freely without the commitment? Think about it... You think it is an easy thing to be expected to be responsible for the welfare of other people? Men do it out of responsibility, a responsibility that the patriarchy thrusts upon them. It is extremely hard being a man, that is why women hate men who force them into being the man on the relationship. I hope you know that the leading cause of divorce is finances? If the man doesn't earn enough the woman begins to lose desire.

Jara: Men would gladly live and fvck in cardboard boxes if women didn't want houses.

Take note.

pocohantas:
Mine isn't funny. I like the Disney cartoon Pocahontas, in order to avoid unnecessary mentions...I intentionally altered the vowels placement.

...I am looking for John Smith, I hope he doesn't alter his name too...making it difficult to find him. LOL

Howdy! John Smith, here. We could make this happen.

The man received almost a hundred of slaps as passengers (mostly guys) close to the seat registered their annoyance on his face. He was pushed away and punished to join standing passengers.

Hahahahaha. Buhahahahahahhaa