agbonkamen:
what is wrong with some of you? Learn to read before commenting. You just displayed a high level of foolishness. Smh

Foolishness you may call, as for me; paternity fraud is a sin against humanity. Nigeria is the international headquarters

Themandator:




Who Sabi you?

People with levels married foreigners and Nigerian women didn't die na anonymous fellow on nairaland go come be there headache



Don't reckon I'm a lady..


Ten years in the game as husband

So what's your lamentation about?
Continue with your GAME as husband. My advice for you is GO DO A DNA TEST FOR ALL YOUR CHILDREN

bentenny:
The interesting part is if the woman was not sure and may have played away match,she would have confessed not knowing the baby wasn't even hers in the first place!
Promiscuous Ladies who intend getting married soon...a note of caution;
No fling before you get married
No last knacking with ex before you get married
Do not visit your ex to see him one more time before you get married
Bad guys....abeg leave the babe way wan go marry
No talk say make I use this last knacking as payback😄😄
If she say she wan just see you one last time,abeg tell her to go back to her soon to be hubby
And please,if a married ex calls you to just see for old time sake,abeg tell her to go back to her husband!

No be lie

adesegun121:
Husband is AA, wife is AS. 3 months after they had their first child, they found out their daughter was SS.

At first, it appeared like a joke, a very bad one. Medically, that isn’t or shouldn’t be possible. They conducted the genotype test in four medical labs, and the result came out the same.

Husband and wife decided to have their genotype test again. Results were the same.

Then it became clear what was happening. Husband ain’t the father of the baby. He secretly had a DNA test and it was confirmed he didn’t father the baby.

Amidst the confusion, he asked his wife if he fathered the baby. Wife wouldn’t confess. She insisted he fathered the baby. It’s just obvious that whoever fathered the baby is AS which resulted in the baby’s SS.

They went for a paternity test and it was glaring husband ain’t the baby’s dad. Wife still insisting she didn’t get impregnated externally. She went ahead to do another DNA. Result was the same.

Wife became a shadow of herself. Husband got crazy. Their home became a “once upon a time.”

Wife kept researching how possible it was that her husband didn’t father her baby and the baby’s genotype is SS.

Then she told a friend of the whole matter. Her friend just felt she’s using female’s antics. “Take responsibility,” she was told. She kept swearing and swearing. Her friend told me of the whole drama.

I kept thinking about how this would be possible. Medically, it was impossible for AA to birth SS. Coupled with the DNA results, it was glaring. But wife claiming innocence and swearing on her life was a whole different thing.

I thought of what could have been. Then I arrived at a conclusion: if wife is innocent, then she’s not the mother of the child. I immediately called my friend that I’ve found a possible solution. MNA (maternity test) to the rescue.

They went for an MNA, and test revealed she’s not the mother of the baby. Babies were changed at birth. Long story cut short, they involved the police and investigations were carried out.

Multiple tests done “here and there.” They got their own baby back – AS. They returned the supposed baby. Hospital was sued for the negligence and trauma.

Wife was so displeased her husband didn’t trust her. They settled and made up. They just had their second baby – a boy. Husband stayed with wife in labor room and monitored everything. Once bitten, twice shy.

At times, so called paternity fraud is change of babies at the hospital.

SOLUTION TO THE ABOVE PROBLEMS:

1. Advise your male children, to stay with their wives in the Labour wards, as their wives are delivering.

2. Advise your female children, to insist on their husbands staying in and remaining in the Labour ward, during child births.

The world of today, are full of people with evil intentions.

Together we can make the world a better place

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/how-can-husband-be-aa-and-wife-is-as-and-baby-is-ss/

Miracles of adulterous wife!
This is why I can't marry a Nigerian woman.

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Nonywendy:
I have been dating this my girl friend since 2017. She made me fall and believe in love, she ticked all the qualities I desire in a woman. When I we started dating she was in her 200L, and everything was going on smoothly. Now this is where the issue lies,
When she went for service in another state, I started noticing some changes, wen she comes back home during holidays I used to go through her phone.(note: she has access to my phone and I too).
So one of those period I realised she is seeing another guy in the state where she is serving. I confronted her and she opened up to me and confessed. I forgave her.

Then after like 4months again, I later noticed she is also seeing another guy different from the initial one I noticed, she denied that but I had to do my deep investigation and got an evidence, she opened up again, at this point I broke up with her and moved on. After like one month she came back begging for forgiveness, It took me time to heal and I forgave her.

Then this last one that broke the camel's back, I noticed she traveled to the state where she did her youth service for something and all this while I thought she was staying with her sister, not knowing she was staying with the first guy she dated while serving whch she apologised. She stayed with her for three good weeks. How I realized was, I called her line one early morning arnd 3am and a guy picked the call asking me who I am. At first, I froze cos I haven't been in that kind of situation, I calmed down and explained everything to the guy, and the guy also told me she has been with her for the past three weeks and that's the girl friend too. I was shocked. I have broken up with her finally cos I don't think forgiving a cheating partner is worth it.
The first time she cheated, 90% of my friends advised me to dump her ass and move on but I had to forgive on the basis of nobody is perfect, but this third time is a no no.
Now she has been begging and asking for forgiveness that she has really learnt her lessons. At this point I'm just so mad that I don't want to forgive her.
Now the big problem is that I'm always seeing her in my dream, I have not really moved on cos it's not easy for me. I have loved her for solid 6 yrs plus.
Note: all the family members from my side and her side are fully aware of our relationship and have approved but they are not aware that I have broken up. If you are my shoes will you forgive her for this very last time or will her cheating continues?
Your advise and suggestions will be well appreciated. Thank you

Move on

Never you trust a Youth corper, even if she's married

Yankiss:
Chei. This is really tragic and heart-breaking. She was not even on medical visa, which meant she was probably hale and hearty. What could have contributed to her death mid-air? The airline has a lot of questions to answer. Why did they just dump her in Cairo without contacting the family? They should sue the airline for negligence and explanations on what really happened to her. It looks suspicious.

The airline did the right thing by contacting the consulate. That was in INTERNATIONAL FLIGHT, not DOMESTIC FLIGHT.

GO0DHardDick:


U dey mind the e-diot runz girl with her poverty stricken family? It's not as if she's a virgin to start with. I pity the young man for going into debts just to please a parasite who has been eaten by guys before

The most annoying part is telling the guy I KNOW MY DAD WONT BACK DOWN, IF YOU LOVE ME WHY NOT DO IT.

if na me, I for waka, make her papa marry her.
She'll live to regret that statement

For 15 years?
Well, I can't judge him, people have different ways of solving their problems. But I think he is a good man to wait all years.

This isn't a side chick but he married her and paid brideprice, sincerely speaking the families of that lady and that of your husband are fully armed awaiting your negative reactions.

For your good, it's either you stay or you move on, raising any problem will definitely bring war to your territory.

In addition, for this man to have his children from his new wife and still lives with you tells you what?

Ehinjuola:
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Your greedy family has milk the young man dry as if he married a virgin and you're sounding as if you don't know what the problem is, please shift.

Penguin2:
Tinubu is showing disdain for the Armed Forces, I hope they don’t return the favour to him someday.

First, he appointed an ex police officer to supervise them as NSA.

Now he’s going to appoint a civilian as Minister of Defence.

From my knowledge of history and power, this is a recipe for disaster.

But what do I know?

like seriously?

Dreamhighnow:
Oga leave Niger and fix the problems ravaging Nigeria

Too many issues at home

Is Tinubu alright at all?

And beside you cut their light before sending first delegation. Who does that?
Mugu man

Abi baba is afraid of coup in nigeria ni. Lol. If you perform well there won't be coup but if you keep leading the counter astray....you are on your own

aren't you aware that that madness will affect all the neighboring countries?

Chineloani:
So, the final awaited Ministerial List was read at the Senate and the following Bigwigs of the APC were missing:
1. Femi-Fani Kayode (FFK)
2. Ganduje (Former Gov. Of Kano)
3. Festus Keyamo (SAN)

Could they have done something wrong or they lack the needed capacities for any Ministerial seat?

What's your opinion?

These guys are polygamous politicians.

NtoAkwaIbom:
Nice profilling
One thing about Tinubu
He keeps his promises...
He rewards loyalty, and he knows how to balance conflicting interest...

He could as well give Gandule Chairman of the party and give Kwankwanso the minister position...
Wike sha, is smart, he gave Tinubu a taste of his power by giving him the state in the presidential election, yet holding it back as bargaining chip, by putting his men all round..
Bete Edu is very passionate about women.
The Naptib boss could also bring in the zeal and passion to helping refugee and the IDPs
Then don't be surprise to see Ambode as a minister,(will prefer fashola though) David Umahi could sha do well in house and development though ..

I am from Akwa ibom and I am sha disappointed in the guy fielding our slot, bitch is neither a bad as crowd gatherer nor a technocrat...


Anyway, I hope n pray for people who will be passionate about being outstanding and successful in whatever portfolio they occupy .....

Las las to stay long in politics, let people know that you will always keep your words.... Na y those wey been know been dey ready to go far and wide for PBAT.

What about him?

ublight:


My question is this. How can such a commissioner be heading touts, imbeciles, uneducated morons parading in uniforms? Don't we have people like the commissioner who can be at the lower ranks?

Those characters you just mentioned there are all he needs to run a state. It takes a demon to control Nigerians. Even in deliverance ministry, Nigerian demons are more difficult to cast out.

ublight:

I can tell you that in that station, only the commissioner was civil, well mannered, respectful, lawful. Infact he is the embodiment of what the police force should be.

Every high rank police officer are all calm, even the military. Until they're proved.

lovediehatelive:
So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.


In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.


So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.


Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.


This time he refused to go to bed.


I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.

The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.

This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.

Is this how kids of nowadays behave?

Irresponsible parents.
This is why we have mannerless children, teenagers and youths everywhere.

No child would dare this nonsense around me.

I'm sure it's pitbull

Filmdirect:
You have a right to concern. Most people here don’t understand marriage and treat their wives or understand their wives through lenses of antagonism, rivalry. God never blesses such and many times after the man dies those left behind struggle deeply. I was married, my name is on everything, he died…I’m managing everything the best I can for our children.

It’s a shame when men don’t realize their role as divider AND protector. How do you protect your wife and family after death if you exclude them from properties? We will all die. We like to think we will be old, but death can come earlier. In addition, many don’t have wills.

From the responses here we have a society where the meaning of marriage is lost to many. Wives are treated as the enemy and property, and with this, trust, respect, and companionship will not be enjoyed in that home. Instead, because there is an inner need for intimacy within every human being, a man will seek that outside not realizing that he as the head contributes to what he lacks inside his home. God’s order is from the head down. If the head leads wrongly his house will suffer, now and fatter his death.

You have a right as a wife, not a servant or girlfriend or mistress to want to be included on that land. Marriage is not your thing or my thing or my money or your money. It is the two shall be one. Anything that is not in line with that commandment opens the door to the fruit of rebellion and disobedience; strive, distrust, cheating, disunity etc. look at what his actions have sprouted in your family; accusations, pain, distrust.

The seed has been planted by the head. Just be wise going forward. Tell him why you feel the way you do and if he still doesn’t care, slowly get your own assets just in case.

It’s sad.

Wait a minute, are you saying you know the woman more than her husband? That man has his reasons for that, inasmuch as we haven't heard from the man this your sermon isn't necessary.

Women are manipulative, they're expert in gathering pity party, I refuse to fall for their manipulative acts.

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

I don't think you should bother over that except you have an ill-motive. Your greatest concern should be to fight for your marriage/children, not some kinda selfish interest.

ISS want to use SA to kick off WW3.

Franzinni:
He tried to play the tribe game and lost ... Infact he is lost the chance to be governor of Lagos forever!!! With that tribal card he played

Forever!!!!!!

That was a terrible mistake!

Fut9ure:
Apc and tinubu is a disease..the worst election so far in Nigeria history. Imagine ballot box snatching was rampant in this era...taking us back to old age

Wetin concern Tinubu for that dirty and underdeveloped state?
Is Uzo Kalu dead?

Amaechi and Wike are traitors!

My observation

Nigerians are like slaves that love their chains, their captivity is everlasting. Tueh

yarimo:
Shey labour party no contest ne ? Just asking for a friend

That isn't biafrauud republic na, that's Nigeria Delta.

Zeddyzed:
Everybody knows that one thing Tinubu knows is economic development. The nation will definitely be on the right path to economic growth in the next few years

I support Atiku, but instead that desperate biafran traitor let Tinubu win.

yerokunphilips:
We are looking up to HIM to help us again and again in Jesus mighty name.

God has nothing to do with human politics, because he's a righteous God, and there's no righteous man among politicians, they're all criminals.

This is human thing, let's not drag the Holy One into our shit

Omihanifa:
Who takes RCCG serious anymore in this country?
Same church that dayo Israel is a pastor, same church that tinubu wife is a pastor

Same church that Osibanjo is a pastor!

glathis:
When the real protest will come, just like the tsunami, everywhere will quake. INEC is playing with fire 🔥

Nothing will happen, Nigeria is ready for any miscreant. It'll be social media noise as usual.

helinues:
Nigerians or some disgruntled youths?

That bleached madman with dreadlocks should be teargas. See his legs like roasted plantain.