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If you don't want your children to be liars you better don't allow them read Lai Muhammad statements. As we can see, the moment a journalist asks him to explain why things are not working in Nigeria, his answer is always the same.
BBC: Why are you black?
LAI: It is Jonathan
BBC: Why have you not eaten?
LAI: Jonathan
BBC: Why is your neighbour fighting his wife?
LAI: Jonathan
BBC: Why is the network not available at the moment?
LAI: It is Jonathan of course?
BBC: You and your party promised to pay unemployed graduates N5,000 monthly but you are yet to do that. Why?
LAI: You see, Mr. BBC, eemm, Jonathan is the cause
BBC: During campaign, you and your party said there is nothing like subsidy. But why are you still paying the subsidy money?
LAI: Walahi talahi, Jonathan is the cause
BBC: You and your party promised CHANGE. Where is the change now?
LAI: Walahi, you will not believe me. Jonathan is the one hindering us

If you don't want your children to be liars you better don't allow them read Lai Muhammad's statements. As we can see, the moment a journalist asks him to explain why things are not working in Nigeria, his answer is always the same.

BBC: Why are you black?
LAI: It is Jonathan
BBC: Why have you not eaten?
LAI: Jonathan
BBC: Why is your neighbour fighting his wife?
LAI: it is Jonathan
BBC: Why is the network not available at the moment?
LAI: It is Jonathan of course?
BBC: You and your party promised to pay unemployed graduates N5,000 monthly but you are yet to do that. Why?
LAI: You see, Mr. BBC, eemm, Jonathan is the cause
BBC: During campaign, you and your party said there is nothing like subsidy. But why are you still paying the subsidy money?
LAI: Walahi talahi, Jonathan is the cause
BBC: You and your party promised CHANGE. Where is the change now?
LAI: Walahi, you will not believe me. Jonathan is the one hindering us
BBC: Why are Nigerian workers not yet paid?
LAI: You see! It is Jonathan
BBC: Is Jonathan still the president?
LAI: No
BBC: Why is there scarcity of fuel?
LAI: It is caused by Jonathan
BBC: Is Jonathan the Minister of Petroleum?
LAI: Nooo. Buhari is the Petroleum Minister
BBC: Why are you always shouting Jonathan's name? Or are you indirectly campaigning for him against 2019?
LAI: Eemm. Nooo

I just tire for this man o

Every woman should be concern about the health of their vagina. A healthy vagina is actually acidic and has big amounts of good bacteria that help in fighting against infections and keep the pH level normal. Also a healthy vagina will discharge small amounts of secret to keep itself perfect, likes salvia for cleaning your mouth. Any kind of imbalance of these normal conditions may be the reason for vaginal infection or vaginal disorder.

How do I know if my vagina is unhealthy?
Warning Symptoms and Signs:
■ Red, inflamed, painful agonizing mucous membranes
■ Burning and itching in the vulva and vagina
■ Abnormal bleeding
■ Bleeding after sexual activities
■ Dry vagina
■ Large amounts of discharge
■ Appearance of lesions
■ Odor

Here is how you can keep your vagina healthy:
Protect vaginal PH balance without douching
Douching can harm the vagina’s pH levels, weakening its acidity and making great environment for bacterial contaminations. Normal levels of vaginal pH are between 3.5 and 4.5. If your vagina has strong smell than you should see a doctor. A douche will just hide the smell and will not heal the problem that’s happening. Don’t use harsh soups inside the vagina or on the vulva, because it can have bad impact on the pH balance.

Avoid junky food
Tragically, fast food can truly distract from the bacterial equality of your vagina because of bad microorganisms and sugar-love yeast. Dr. Rebecca Booth says you should simply stay away from sugar, basic carbs and concentrated fruit drinks for better vaginal health.

Maintain a healthy diet for vaginal health
Maybe you doesn’t know but nutrition diet and drinking lots of fluids are very important for your vaginal health. Indeed, some foods may be fascinating in healing vaginal healthy problems. Yogurt and cranberry juice can help in avoiding and treating any yeast infections. Also if you have a dry vagina, than you should eat more soy products, because they contain some sort of estrogen that can help to normalize the dryness.

Practice safe sex to keep harmful bacteria out
Using condoms during sex helps to prevent any sexual transmitted diseases, like, genital herpes, syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital warts and HIV. Some of these disease, like genital herpes and HIV, doesn’t have cure. What’s more, some other similar to HIV that causes genital warts, can also leading to different illness. You should change condoms when changing from anal or oral to vaginal sex, to avoid presents of destructive bacteria into vagina.

Do not be a smokestack
If you are a smoker, than not just your lungs are asking for breathing fresh air. Booth says that nicotine, tart and even smoke can influence your bacterial party, which can prompt scent and stopped up pores in the vulva. Forget about smoking cigarettes so your vagina can inhale simple.

Avoid antibiotics if you can
Some woman are more exposed to yeast infections, and oral antibiotics can really make yeast to multiply. If you must take some antibiotics, than drink more yogurt, kefir or other fermented foods that keeps yeast away from your vagina.

Treat infections when they arise
There are three basic types of vaginal diseases: bacterial vaginosis, trichomoniasis and yeast infections. Yeast infections are caused by some sorts of organisms, bacterial viganosis is caused by extra bacteria in the vagina and trichomoniasis is sexual transmitted disease. Healing these diseases is very important because if they are not treated can lead to hurtful, painful and genuine conceptive healthy problems. Each one can be treated with oral or relevant medicaments.

Choose clothing carefully to stay dry
Dr. Rebecca Both says that vaginal skin is very sensitive. Because of that we must wear natural material, for example, 100 % cotton or silk. Synthetic materials has allergens and chemicals that can cause an irritating reaction.

See your gynecologist for preventive care
Going on regularly gynecological tests is very important for keeping your vagina healthy. Every woman should have her gynecological test by age of 21, or within three years of being sexual active. Gynecologists are prepared to analyze disorders and problems that can hurt the vagina or your reproductive system at all. Gynecologists also perform Pap test, which can see changes in vaginal cells that may show the cancer.

Rinse it only with water
Today the intimate hygiene gels are very popular in the market. But, they are not recommended by gynecologist. You should use only water.

Be careful with the soap
If you still want to use soap to clean your vagina than find one that will not change the pH values. Also it is very important that it doesn’t dry your skin. Doctors recommend soap with olive oil.

01). Avoid being or appearing to be needy.
Being desperate or clingy is the COMPLETE opposite of playing hard to get. Develop the patience to let things develop at a pace based on someone else's interest rather than on yours. Don't let the fact that all your friends seem to have that special someone make you impatient; instead, pace yourself and take it easy it just isn't your time yet and there is no deadline on pairing up with another person.

Don't initiate contact. Let him be the first to come to you. The person who makes the first move is always put in a weaker bargaining position than the person who chooses whether or not to accept it.
Don't be the first to call. Let him call you. Remember, men like to know that you're interested, but they still like the thrill of the chase.

Don't be the one to set up the first dates. Instead, give him hints if he needs nudging along: "My friend just bailed on the camping trip, so it looks like I'm going to be free this next weekend."

02). Enjoy being single.
If you're busy enjoying your life as it is, playing hard to get will come naturally because you'll have too much going on in your everyday life to be easily available. The bottom line is that if you're happy, and carefree, people will notice.

Go out with your friends. Don't be a wallflower. It's hard to play hard to get if you're never out on the town. Do fun things that make you happy and you'll stop wondering how to play hard to get and start living it.
Meet new people. Go to social events, join clubs at school, ask your friends to introduce your to their friends. Really take interest in those people. The more people you know, the more credible your busy schedule will be.

03). Be as vague as you can get away with.
The key is to keep the other person asking questions so that they can find out more about you. For example:

If asked what you did last weekend, say "I hung out with some people I know."

If asked what you're doing this Friday, say "I'm not sure yet."

Use a lighthearted, flirtatious tone, and smile. You don't want to sound completely uninterested or flippant, so even if you keep your answers short, keep them sweet as well.

The habit of never quite answering with the entire facts can be a useful habit to start even at the beginning of a confirmed relationship, as it lets the other person know what will happen if they pry too much! This lets you maintain your boundaries.

04). Don't make yourself too easily accessible. If he or she calls you, don't answer all the time, and wait a day or two before calling back. A good rule of thumb is to wait about twice as long as they do before calling back.

If the call is urgent, for example, if they want to make plans for that night, consider ignoring the call; it'll show the person that your time is valuable, and if they want to get together, they need to plan accordingly. (Of course, accept that sometimes a spontaneous date can be romantic and fun, but that's not the main subject of this article.)

In terms of texting, it's generally a good idea to avoid responding immediately.

05). If he or she asks you out, don't make plans right away.
Say "maybe" or that you're "not sure" and that you have to check your schedule. Ask them to get back to you later in the day, or the following day. And occasionally, say you can't make it because you have other plans. Of course, if you're interested in this person, offer to make plans on a day that you're supposedly free, whether it's the day after or the next weekend.

06). Be a free spirit. Whenever someone gets clingy, pull away.
Shy away from firm answers or commitments. Try to leave as many options open for yourself as possible, for as long as possible. Expect anyone you date to follow the steps in How to Tame a Free Spirit. It's also helpful if you know how to spot the signs of a clingy person, including:

They constantly email, text, or phone you even though you haven't responded to anything. They'll even call to say "I missed a call. Was that you?!"

They always call first. Often it's before you're even up.

You have observed that they don't seem to do much else in their life, apart from hanging around you. When you ask them what they do, they can't really tell you anything else other than going to work or studies.

Insecurity stalks them like a hunter follows prey. It's also clear from talking to them that they have a happiness deficit with respect to their own life and sense of life's purpose. Related to their insecurity is the need to agree with everything you say.

You can spend hours telling them the dullest details of your hobby or work and they sit there, riveted. It's not likely you'll have the patience to test this sign though – you're too busy!

07). Don't rush into a relationship.
You're almost there, but you're not quite there yet. Make sure that for the first couple dates, you follow some of the steps here:

Don't settle on one person right away unless you know they're the one. Again, playing hard to get will be easier if you are actually hard to get.

Tell him that your other dates with guys so far has largely fallen flat. This will let him know two big things: 1) that you're dating other guys; and 2) that you're a tough cookie to crack.

This is a classic ego boost for a man. You're assuring him that you're exactly what other guys want, but that he has a shot at getting it. He'll want you even more.

08). Reward him along the way.
Give him small reminders that his conquest is worthwhile and that he's not just wasting his time barking up the wrong tree. A little encouragement goes a long way, but be erratic with your encouragement so he stays on his toes.

Text him something like: "You're sweet. That was a pretty nice date. Let me know when you want to try it again."

Long notes or love-letters are generally a little too gushy. Instead, leak some selective information to his friend about how "things are going pretty well so far." He'll tell his friend what you said.

Give him a kiss when he least expects it. Don't do this if you haven't kissed before, because you want him to make the first move. When he's sitting down reading a book, or walking along, go up to him, look him in the eyes, and give him a smooch. His heart will race and he'll be even more invested in you.

01). Keep the girl on her toes after you meet.
To keep her on her toes, you can call her out in a joking way, by saying things like, "How much pink can one person really wear?" Or, "I've never known anyone who is so obsessed with her cat." Joke around with her and let her see that you appreciate her without all-out complimenting her, and you'll only intrigue her further.

02). Play it cool when it comes to calling or texting her.
If you want to play hard to get, then you don't want the girl you like to feel like you are at her beck and call. If she calls you, don't pick up on the first — or even the second or third — ring. Let her feel like you have something more important to do. Though you don't want to look like you're too booked to care about her, you may not want to pick up the phone every time she calls, either. Give it a few hours to let her see that you have a lot going on.

Don't hang around the phone and annoy the girl you like by texting her what you ate for breakfast or asking what she thinks is the meaning of life.
Who says you have to focus on talking to just one girl at a time? Instead of lingering over one person, use this time to be free and explore your options.

Don't respond right away when your interest texts you. Go make a sandwich and wait fifteen minutes to respond, even if it's hard to wait. If she calls, let it go to voicemail and wait a few hours to call her back. If you really want to answer the phone, at least wait until the third ring.

03). Once you exchange phone numbers with her, let her call you first.
Of course, she may not do so, expecting you to make the first move. After a certain amount of time has passed, you will have to decide whether or not to abandon your "hard-to-get" strategy. You can eventually call her first, but let her call you first the next time. You have to make it clear that you won't be doing all of the work. If she just expects to wait around for your call all day, it won't happen.

04). Don't open up about your feelings too fast.
Wait to let her bring these things up. If you start talking about these topics, she may feel uncomfortable or like you're coming on too strong. The longer you keep a girl desiring your words of affirmation or affection, the better it'll be when you finally decide to make your move; also, of course the greater the risk that she'll decide that you're simply not interested and move on. At this point, revealing that you were playing "hard-to-get" all along and are actually interested in her isn't likely to meet with an enthusiastic response.

You can let her know you like her in subtle ways, such as giving her compliments or saying that you like hanging out with her, but you shouldn't say anything too extreme or intense, like, "I've never met a girl like you" or "I think I'm really falling for you," or your act will be over.

05). Don't look available all of the time.
Though the girl you like will quickly get bored if you act like you only have one free weekend a month, you don't want to make it seem like your schedule is wide open and that you would drop everything to hang out with the girl at any moment. If she invites you to hang out somewhere, you can tell her you're busy and suggest another time to meet. Or, if you're really eager to hang out, you can accept the invitation but make it seem like you have a busy week coming up after that. Find a balance between being around enough to get to know her and not looking like you have no social life.

As a rule, if the girl asks you what you're doing this weekend, and it's just a day or two away, you may not want to hang out. You don't want it to look like your weekends are always free — this may lead her to wonder why you have nothing going on on a Friday and Saturday night.

06). Don't break the touch barrier too soon.
Of course, if you want the girl to like you, then you'll have to show her some affection. But at first, you may not want to put your arm around her the second you sit down at the movies, or try to hold her hand when you're on a walk together. Wait until you've hung out a few times, or at least spent a few hours together, before you make a move. If you come on too strong before the girl is ready, then she'll be turned off. You have to find the moment to surprise and excite her with a bit of physical affection.

Taking your time — within reason — will keep the girl guessing because she'll keep wondering whether you like her and what you want while you're together. If you put your arm around her the second you pick her up for a date, then your intentions will be clear.

07). Don't linger too long at first.
After you hang out with the girl for an evening, don't stall too much or delay leaving. If you hang around flirting with the girl and looking into her eyes, she'll see that she has you hooked. Instead, make your way for the exit and let her know you had a great time. Stick around long enough that she's happy for the company, but not for so long that she wonders, "When is this guy leaving already?"

This is true both for your dates and for when you run into each other in the halls. If you jump into a great conversation, say you have to go while the conversation is at its peak, not once you're running out of things to say. This will leave her wishing she could talk to you longer instead of struggling to come up with ways to fill an awkward silence.

08). Open up to her little by little.
The trick to playing hard to get is to keep the girl interested while making her want more. If you reveal everything about yourself to her at once, then she won't feel like she has to do any work to get to know you. You should make your relationship feel like a challenge, and show her that you have to develop trust in people before opening up about the things that matter to you, the things that make you tick, and your fears and doubts. Every time you hang out with the girl, let her in a bit more.

The first time you're together, you can talk about something innocent, like your hobbies or your dog. The next time you hang out, you can tell her a bit more about your friends and family. The third time, you can talk about your dreams for the future or something else she wouldn't realize about you at first glance. This will make her see that you're an interesting person who is worth getting to know, instead of someone who tells her every little thing at once.

09). Don't be mean or rude when playing hard to get.
Don't go overboard on trying to get her jealous or talking about other girls you like. She wants a mysterious man with power, not one who's a ladies' man and a jerk to her. This is especially pointless if you really are just going after one girl instead of trying to appear mysterious and elusive to a number of girls. There's a difference between playing it cool and not coming on too strong and just being downright mean. Make sure that you never play hard to get at the expense of a girl's feelings.

You can joke around with the girl as long as the jokes go both ways; don't make her feel like you're teasing her to be mean, but to flirt with her. If you put her down for real, she won't be interested.

10). Don't be completely open about your plans.
If you have to go somewhere, don't tell her every little detail about where you're going and what you have to do. While you shouldn't lie that you're going out on another date (or be open if you really are going out to womanize), you also don't have to tell her where you're going every time you have to leave. If you have to celebrate your Aunt Gerta's retirement this Saturday, just say that you have plans Saturday night. This is both telling the truth and leading the girl to wonder about your exciting weekend plans.

It's a fact: the more busy and mysterious you seem, the more the girl will want to be a part of your plans. Don't let her know that you're only busy because you have to babysit your little brother; if she imagines you going on an exotic date with a celebrity instead of taking your little brother to pee wee football practice, then all the better.

11). Reveal your true feelings little by little.
After some time has passed, come back to her and let her know you're still interested. Ease up on the cold shoulder that you've been giving her. Come around a bit more, and be more sensitive than when you started. You've nudged your way into her heart already and you made her want you more than she would have if you didn't play hard to get. It's important to not make her wait too long when you play hard to get, otherwise she'll become frustrated and move on. Leave her hints and keep her locked into liking you.

If you tell her how you feel little by little instead of being completely secretive about it, she will appreciate it all the more. As you come to like the girl more, you can be more honest about your feelings. She'll see that sticking it out was worth it.

12). Make sure you don't take it too far.
The important thing with playing hard to get is to use good measure. As you journey down the road of playing hard to get, make sure she is still interested. You don't want to overdo the game; if you feel she is losing interest, then encourage her to pay attention to you, and pay more attention to her. Remember, it's a game, or if you prefer, a dance. If you act like you're completely unavailable and not really that interested, she will move on to a guy who is more open with his affection. You should let the girl know that you're interested without coming on too strong.

If you put off hanging out with the girl for weeks to look like you're super busy, then she'll start to look for someone with a more flexible schedule.

If you never compliment the girl or give her any indication that you like her, then she'll start to feel snubbed. It won't be any fun for her if you don't give her anything at all to work with. Think about it: would you keep hanging out with a girl who doesn't act like she really cares about you at all?

13). Know that the chase is never over.
Even if you've snagged the girl of your dreams by playing hard to get, you should always keep the relationship interesting by continuing the chase. This doesn't mean that you should be secretive about your feelings forever, or that you should act like you're busy when you're not, but that both you and the girl should feel like you have to work for each other's affection. Keep your relationship fresh, exciting, and interesting long after you've both said how much you like each other.

It should be mutual, of course. If your whole relationship is based on the girl trying to chase you while you remain mysterious, then she will tire of you quickly.

datagigilo:
To early

DATAGIGILO IS A CRIMINAL.

DSS & SARS are looking for him.

He has defrauded so many people of their MTN N1,500 cards.

If u know his whereabout pls lets know. Seun pls help! MTN has already published his name as wanted

Akadaworld:
BEWARE OF THIS GUY!!!!!

He is a fraudster. He is not selling any data. Once you send him recharge card via his 07031350573 he will ignore you.

No one knows his name, address or facebook id.

I have already reported him to the DSS. They are working on him.

In case you have issues with him, please forward it to me so I can add it to what I have submitted to the DSS. Thanks

YOU ARE VERY VERY RIGHT. HE IS A FRAUDSTER. HE COLLECTED MY MTN N1,500 CARD & refused to send me the data

samofson:
Amaechi is not a common criminal. PDP needs to call a spade a spade.

You cannot associate someone of his timber and calibre with the word 'common'. That is an insult to the time, effort and skill he used to deceive and loot the polity of Rivers State.

A state like Rivers which is supposed to be contesting with Lagos in terms of infrastructural development can only boost of mediocre progress in its welfare. Amaechi's criminality can never be classed as common.

Please get it right. Give honour to whom honour is due. Amaechi has every right to sue PDP for this character assassination.

GBAM!
Oboy! You are a baaaad guy...lol...yes

A strange number 08102335764 flashed me this morning. I quickly called the number back and the man at the other end identified himself simply as a Road Safety Officer, without giving me his real name.

I asked how I may help him, then he replied by saying a road accident just occured on Lagos-Ibadan expressway, and that he got my number from the phone of one of the accident victims. I quickly asked him to use the accident victim's number to flash me so I can identify the person. He didn't even allow me to land before he said there was no credit on the victim's phone, that is why he used his personal number to flash me.

Then, I asked him to send me "Call Me Back" through the accident victim's number. He didn't allow me to finish before he said the accident victim has exhausted his 5 free "Call Me Back" units. He quickly asked me to send him some MTN call card so he can load the accident victim's number and call me.

I asked him how he got to know the victim's number is an MTN number since there was no credit on it, he could not answer that.

I also asked him to give me the name the accident accident victim used to save my number on his phone, he could not provide that too.

That is how I sensed a fowl play and cut him off, and he never called again.

My dear Nairalanders, please beware of these people. They are everywhere, using all manner of tricks. Most importantly, beware of 08102335764.

Long Live Nairaland
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