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PoliticsRe: Nigeria’s Top Trading Partners Q2 2025 by CalmElder(m): 8:26pm On Sep 16, 2025
vincenteger:
So we are not exporting anything to china

We need to do better.
The Chinese are involved in illegal mining here. They do it themselves.
They contracts that Julius Berger, Schlumberger, PW etc once did is now handled by their contractors.
FamilyRe: Can I Still Get Married After Stroke And Have Children by CalmElder(m): 2:07pm On Aug 29, 2025
Caaz:
There's a guy on nairaland here called Sunnyrado...he needs a wife,try get intouch with him.


I m elated reading from you.
Can the guy take care of her until she fully recovers before getting a job?

She needs someone with at least a fairly well paying job.
RomanceRe: My Response To That Simp That Sets Aside 25k For His Babe Every Month by CalmElder(m): 12:12pm On Aug 23, 2025
Nothing wrong in providing for a woman, if you can afford it.
Men are meant to provide, while women support him and manage resources.
This has been the custom right from time.

No matter the level of civilization and exposure, i feel the traditional man and woman relationship remains the best, where the man provides and she nurtures. Nice balance.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is Something You Wish You Learnt Earlier In Life. by CalmElder(m): 3:03pm On Aug 15, 2025
DoctorStanley:
I definitely "don't have a passion for medicine"
Wish I studied something I'd travel around the world and have a lot of fun. That's my passion.
Make a career change out of Medicine? Easier said than done
You must be brilliant to study medicine successfully.

Take a course in tech and you will pass in flying colors.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is Something You Wish You Learnt Earlier In Life. by CalmElder(m): 2:56pm On Aug 15, 2025
DoctorStanley:
Easier said than done. Suppose broke girl is the only girl you "love"?
I'm in my early 30's and a medical doctor and I wish I studied something else.
I wish I knew not to study something simply because it is prestigious and in vogue
Early thirties?

Young man, you have enough time to change to what you prefer.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 12:21pm On Aug 10, 2025
DAramis:
https://go.uopeople.edu/full-scholarships-nigeria.html

Hello Sir, I saw this link in another thread about online university offering scholarship. If you have access to laptop and you can be determined, you can register and obtain associate degree (or bachelor degree ) from them.

Computer science is one the courses being offered Sir. Just wish to share the information as seen.

Remain blessed and do have a lovely weekend.

NB

The thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8479450/no-job-no-marriage-no

And the link to register
https://go.uopeople.edu/full-scholarships-nigeria.html

Credit to
CC Henrycloud
Thank you very much. I appreciate



I wish mods will move the post to front page so that other people can benefit or learn from it.
FamilyRe: 'What Happened The Day I Tried To Change My Sister's Baby's Pampers' by CalmElder(m): 8:28pm On Jul 29, 2025
Kingpele:
And this kind of news is worthwhile in this kind of forum, e even happened long time ago...one day we will read here that someone woke up in the morning brush his teeth ,went to toilet and take his or her shower and head to work or school....
This is family section and then, nairaland is a forum meant to accommodate different kinds of posts on diverse topics. This is not an online newspaper.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 5:44pm On Jul 28, 2025
Onetechnews:
One thing I want you to know is that tech skill does not have age constraint.
you can learn any skill as far as you have the passion and zeal.
Don't feel intimidated go for the skill.
Thank you very much.
I will be starting soon.

The passion is there.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2025
etoluw:
The main issue is do you have what it takes. I have seen several people of various ages who ventured into tech and later dumped it because they couldn't cope.

Tech is definitely not for everyone.
I have passion, I am a very resilient person, plus I never start what I can't complete.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 7:13pm On Jul 15, 2025
I appreciate each and every one who gave me a word of encouragement.

Hopefully, before the end of this year I will enroll for a course.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairaland Forum Scheduled Downtime For Maintenance by CalmElder(m): 10:49pm On Jul 07, 2025
Some mentions with sensitive information like phone numbers can't be deleted by the mentioned.

Please look into that.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 5:27pm On Jul 07, 2025
airsaylongcome:
No do UI/UX. These "new cats" aka young bloods go destroy you there. Look for something most people run away from. For a n00b, someone already suggested System Admin. Allied to Syd Admin is Devops. I would suggest Help Desk->System Admin and ultimately Devops. I be "grandpapa" like you. But this field doesn't care about age. At least not in your 40s. Welcome. And stay the course. You will run into stuff that will make you consider quiting. That's the time to dig into your core and tell yourself why you are doing this. Na escape from poverty all of us dey. Dem go say 46 na old man. But person wey die at 46 die young. Nor let age pressure you. Na when person wake na hin be hin morning
Na wao.
Una just dey wow me with correct correct advices.
I really appreciate. I will research more about the course.
Thanks.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 10:10pm On Jul 06, 2025
Grandfather1:
At 47? My brother, you’re just starting second half. I learned how to use smartphone properly at 52 — now I send voice notes like small pikin. Learning no get expiry date.

UI/UX? Go ahead. If the eyes are still clear and the brain still dey catch things, nothing stop you. Just make sure say you get small patience and steady internet.

When I started learning Excel, I nearly faint from formula overload. Now I build budget sheets for my wife’s akara business. That one na tech too.
grin you are very funny.
I appreciate your input. Now I'm determined about enrolling, but someone suggested I take another course, that UI/UX is saturated already.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 1:29pm On Jul 04, 2025
SKhanmi:
Not too old. Just not UIUX, it has a low entry barrier and the job market for it is saturated. Trust employers to take advantage and offer peanuts, you might as well learn graphics design and be done with it.

Find something harder and stick to it. Cloud, backend or System admin. You can check out other learning paths also or go back to ethical hacking.

And you must have a steady income to back you up.
Thanks. I like your take on the topic.
I will check out the ones you have mentioned.
Christianity EtcRe: Jimmy Swaggart Is Dead by CalmElder(m): 6:44pm On Jul 01, 2025
A mighty man falls seven times but rises up again.
Rest in peace sir.

You overcame personal battles, never gave up yourself. You are worthy to be called a God's general.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 6:33pm On Jul 01, 2025
post=135950306:
How many times this same question pops up. There is no age limit for learning new thing
True.
I and the other ones who asked a similar question only need affirmation, then people's perspective on the subject or experiences that could be of value.
ProgrammingRe: Am I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 6:29pm On Jul 01, 2025
2special:
No not at all....Go for your passion.... Learn whatever you wish to learn for your growth
Thanks. I'm encouraged, honestly.
I'm becoming bored so i need to take on more challenges.
ProgrammingAm I Too Old To Learn A Skill? by CalmElder(op): 2:12pm On Jul 01, 2025
I am 46 years old, going to 47.
I've always wanted to learn a computer skill, and while at it, further my studies.

I am a secondary school leaver and came to Lagos over 10 years ago to learn ethical hacking but dropped out due to financial constraints.
I want to study UI/UX Design.

Am I too old to start?
LiteratureRe: Frederick Forsyth, Author Of The Biafra Story, Dies At 86 by CalmElder(m): 11:32pm On Jun 10, 2025
AustineE1:
Great novelist,he also authored the book 'EMEKA',which is more of a biography of colonel Emeka Odumegwu Ojukwu,leader of the breakaway Republic of Biafra.
As we mourn Federick Forsyth, it is a reminder to us Ndigbo that 'there was a country',an unfilled dream that must remain in our mind,while thriving in our daily endeavors,we should know that Africa and blacks are waiting for that black nation that will bring about true
liberation and emancipation of blacks,we should hopefully believe that as the 'sun rise in the east',so will the oppressed 'people of colour' worldwide fine solace in the 'land of the rising sun'!
Igbos will go if they want to, but I haven't seen a more divided people as the Igbos.

The Nigerian government won't be able to prevent them from leaving if their minds made up.


Una just dey worry us upandan everyday. Una no wan go.
FoodRe: I Got These 3 Rams For 500k by CalmElder(m): 10:12pm On Jun 05, 2025
Your stepmom used the opportunity to show appreciation to you for not getting involved in family issues.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham vs Manchester United: Europa League Final (1 - 0) On 21st May 2025 by CalmElder(m): 8:46pm On May 21, 2025
Gooooooal.... Tottenham.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Ambushes Ramaphosa With Claims Of White Genocide, plays video (video) by CalmElder(m): 8:05pm On May 21, 2025
I don't support violence but if it's true that whites own almost 80% of farmland in SA, let them be magnanimous enough to donate some back to the black.
After all, the land belonged to the blacks before they came and forcefully take over.

Ramaphosa was too gentle for my liking during the meeting.
AgricultureRe: Philosophy Of Crop Production by CalmElder(m): 4:14pm On May 16, 2025
I got a lot of information that will be of benefit.
HealthRe: Young Man Commits Suicide In Benue (graphic Photos) by CalmElder(m): 1:46pm On May 12, 2025
The dead body's state looks like he died before being hanged to make it look like suicide.

A hanged person's body is usually stretched, neck positioned awkwardly etc.
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by CalmElder(m): 12:41pm On May 08, 2025
JomasisTech:
He dropped 2 links to his previous posts at the beginning of his post.
Since you're asking for an introduction, you should try reading it to know where the whole issue started from.
Na very insensitive person. Kai!
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by CalmElder(m): 12:40pm On May 08, 2025
shortgun:
grin grin
Like seriously?
You think people will pause their lives and dedicate all their time to search for your previous post? grin grin
But you expect him to repeat what he has posted before abi?

You are mocking him now but if anything happens, he will be blamed for not speaking out.
FoodRe: Which Category Do You Fall Under? (picture) by CalmElder(m): 7:22pm On Apr 24, 2025
I dip when everyone's watching and soak by throwing bits in the cup and remove with spoon when alone.
CelebritiesRe: Been Broke Attract Long-Term Girls, But Riches Attract Baddies, Why? - Kidwaya by CalmElder(m): 12:04pm On Apr 10, 2025
SmartyPants:
Are there really circles of such or you may just randomly meet such people and perhaps over time for your own circle or get invited into one? Perhaps these circles exist in Uni but once you're in the real world... It almost becomes a lottery who you meet
They exist. They don't just have the time anymore to hang out frequently the way we use to do as kids.

Some people you view as loners aren't at all, they are only mindful of who they move with.

You don't get invited into one, chance meetings and what follows after will determine if you will be a permanent part of them.
CelebritiesRe: Been Broke Attract Long-Term Girls, But Riches Attract Baddies, Why? - Kidwaya by CalmElder(m): 11:19am On Apr 10, 2025
SmartyPants:
Hmm. Where are these circles filled with these good women?
It's the circle where men and women, boys and girls are focused on personal and societal development.

You will notice by the kind of people they ALLOW into their space, the passion with which they chase their dreams, the intensity of their focus the kind of conversations that captures their interest and the energy they radiate.
CelebritiesRe: Been Broke Attract Long-Term Girls, But Riches Attract Baddies, Why? - Kidwaya by CalmElder(m): 10:04am On Apr 10, 2025
Your circle is the issue.
There are a lot of good women to choose from, whether you are rich or broke.
SportsRe: Which Do You Prefer? by CalmElder(op): 6:32pm On Apr 05, 2025
This is why I said that my answer is ambiguous.

At the start of my career, I would prefer to be a starter at a small club. That way, I get to develop my skills, build confidence and increase my market value, before going for a bigger one.

At the tail end of my career, I will, if the opportunity presents itself settle in a big money league (not just club) so as to make quick money before retirement.

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