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Nairaland General › Re: Yesterday Was My Birthday! by CalmElder(m): 5:09pm On Jul 18, 2024
The first six figure salary I got was from nairaland.

Happy birthday.
Food › Re: This Is How I Prepared My Caterpillar Delicacy (video/pic) by CalmElder(m): 10:47am On Jul 18, 2024
I prefer it very spicy or prepared with egusi.
Family › Re: Mother Of 11 Boys And 1 Girl Heartbroken As Husband Reportedly Runs Away (video) by CalmElder(m): 2:09pm On Jul 16, 2024
Sonnobax15:
grin
Omoh,na once the man use July transfer window take japa for him dear life...

A whole 11 gladiators for this regime? grin. That one na automatic burial arrangement na cheesy

Every day,like 3 baskets of garri go dey go down....The day wey the mama go mistakenly cook okro or ogbono soup,na better problem Dem don cause for eba be that cheesy

I wonder why poor people always seem to have problem with family planning undecided. Always getting hornny all the time angry

E good as the man run abeg ..
You fall my hand o.

No be d man dey nack am, abi dem forbid d man to tell d wife say make she do family planning?
Politics › Re: LASG Takes Action Against Illegal Waste Cart Pushers by CalmElder(m): 8:46am On Jul 07, 2024
LAWMA Can't do this alone. I remember when they banned them in Festac Town in 2016 or 17, the place stank like a heap dump because LAWMA Couldn't meet up.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Man Loses On Yoruba Party Election In Peckham UK by CalmElder(m): 7:00pm On Jul 05, 2024
derecho:
And that was why he took a distant 5th position with 261 votes from idiots?
No sane omoluabi will support a brazenly stupid party.

These guys just dey embarrass omoluabis
I also don't support forming a party with tribal affiliations.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Man Loses On Yoruba Party Election In Peckham UK by CalmElder(m): 4:13pm On Jul 05, 2024
Miatta Fahnbuleh has is already very popular.
She was a well known musician in the 80's and a civil rights activist.

Edging past her would not have been an easy task
Romance › Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by CalmElder(m): 9:34pm On Jun 30, 2024
Ladies and gentlemen.
Please if anybody have such worthy topics to contribute as a way to encourage the both genders to see relationship and marriage as team work, rather than competition, post it.

We shouldn't allow those ones that have been attending witches and wizards meetings to push their agenda against relationship and marriage to take over.

They will follow bad boy or a bit of olosho vibe, when they get hurt, they will come here to pollute people's minds.
Crime › Re: Missing Ogun Pregnant Woman Faked Abduction, Found In Kwara – Police by CalmElder(m): 8:26am On Jun 25, 2024
So, if my wife suffers miscarriage, it's the father who has his own problems in his house to face that she will run to? I don't have conscience and have failed as a husband if that's the case.
Romance › Re: Dating In Nigeria Vs The UK: The Harsh Reality Explained by CalmElder(m): 7:45pm On Jun 19, 2024
Lionessza6:
I highly doubt this one grin grin grin grin grin....but then you're a Nigerian dude , you need your women to believe this with everything you have so that they could ....appreciate.....the ......gold ....they supposedly have in you grin grin grin. They must not miss out, you're hot cake on the international scene grin grin
The person you are quoting is a 'she'
Family › Re: 5 Reasons Some Wives Cheat On Their Husbands by CalmElder(m): 6:53pm On Jun 18, 2024
Those of you that believe in God should start praying for yourselves, your spouse and a stable home filled with love because with this kind of bitterness coming from men and women alike, e go bad for front o.
Crime › Re: Why FBI Director Gray’s Visit Matters by CalmElder(m): 5:45pm On Jun 17, 2024
The coincidence of the visit and dropped charges against the binance CEO ehn...e come be like say e personally come threaten our oga at the top say dem go open the file about am for USA if e no behave grin
Family › Re: My Younger Brother Seems To Hate Me! by CalmElder(m): 10:03pm On Jun 16, 2024
Seems like he's a nonchalant person.
Find out how his relationship with the rest of the family, but not the younger ones, it will give you a clue about his personality.

Is being very respectful to older ones a big thing in your family?

I'm the last born with 7 older siblings. I avoided some into my late thirties until I realized that people need each other.
Events › Re: It’s My Birthdayyyyyyyy Yeah…happy Birthday To Me by CalmElder(m): 8:41pm On Jun 16, 2024
Happy birthday ma.
Wishing you many more years, more wins, less stress, with plenty money in your account.
Family › Re: Hetty Green: The Most Stingy Woman In History by CalmElder(m): 2:10pm On Jun 16, 2024
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She took her son to the best hospitals around when he needed treatment, but they accuse her of the opposite.
Business › Re: Sir John S. Pemberton: The Story Of How Coca-Cola Became A Global Brand by CalmElder(m): 2:06pm On Jun 15, 2024
FARA4GA:
Which Nigerian owed company don survive reach 100 years sef?
Alabukun!
Family › Re: Hetty Green: The Most Stingy Woman In History by CalmElder(m): 5:22pm On Jun 14, 2024
Some of the things written about her are exaggerated.

She was a shining example of a smart business woman in her day.

Google her on Wikipedia.
Politics › Re: Who Is Out Of Reality In Terms Of Minimum Wage: FG Or Chatgpt ? With Snapshots by CalmElder(m): 5:43pm On Jun 11, 2024
Abbeytoy:
You dey earn 62k and want to get selfcon, are you serious at all?

What happened to a room in a wing?

We all do what we're not capable of doing most time and we lack self management.

I keep saying it, you have no business with relationships or having children when you don't have enough money.
What if the person is in his forties?
You made a point but you can't avoid marriage forever because of money.
Politics › Re: KEN SARO WIWA Could Not Believe What Happened To Him by CalmElder(m): 9:39am On Jun 10, 2024
Stone03:
Is Trump not succeeding in politics as blunt as he is in words? Corruption and Igbophobia is our problem in Nigeria now, but they're nearing their end
He's blunt but he knows enough to carry certain people along.
For instance, he knows that they have a high number of evangelical christians and pro Israel Americans. He also know that a good number of Americans are anti LGBTQ and openly took sides with them.

He's not "everybody hates Trump" kind of person.

You are alienating people with your utterances, on and outside social media, even people you need on your side.
Politics › Re: KEN SARO WIWA Could Not Believe What Happened To Him by CalmElder(m):
Stone03:
We aren't emotional, we aren't sentimental. If you want to learn, you learn. If you want to ignore history and follow foolish footsteps to the grave, it's up to you. We're not here to pamper anyone
Interesting! Politics is obviously your calling.


Modified
I wanted to say politics is obviously not your calling.
Politics › Re: KEN SARO WIWA Could Not Believe What Happened To Him by CalmElder(m): 8:51pm On Jun 09, 2024
Hehehe...igbos, driven, ambitious and good business people with very horrible PR.

Una no sabi talk.
Politics › Re: 2023 Election: Middle-Belt Coalition Urges Obi To Accept 2023 Election Outcome by CalmElder(m): 10:28pm On Jun 08, 2024
They want to use Peter Obi's name to get Tinubu's attention.
Politics › Re: Tinubu Gets Bill On Regional Govt Next Week - PUNCH by CalmElder(m): 2:57pm On Jun 08, 2024
gidgiddy:
Why would you be sending a bill meant for the national assembly to Tinubu?
You move a motion in the national assembly, who deliberate on it. If the majority of the NASS Agree with the motion, a bill is signed and forwarded to the executive (the president), who signs it into law.

They are in order.
Sports › Re: I Nearly Pulled My Gun' Odartey After DNA Test Proved He Wasn’t Father Of 3 Kids by CalmElder(m): 2:48pm On Jun 08, 2024
jessylaurel:
It also hurts when men cheats and they see it as being polygamous in nature. Forgetting they are hardening the heart of the women and the children the both have.
Men and women have been cheating long before you and I were conceived.

I have seen both genders destroy their homes and relationships (companionship) because of sex.

I'm in my forties and have quietly followed the lives of both parties concerned (several) for years, the cheater and the cheated hardly recover from the trauma for a lot of reasons like regret, loss of reputation and inability to connect with another person like the one they lost.

I've female friends, the relationship of one is being destroyed by a vengeful married man she turned down. He's mocking the lady while the boyfriend is feeling like hard guy, and she's pregnant.
Should I take sides with them because they are men like me?

The truth is we take sides with our genders because of our past experiences but I have resolved not to be bitter with every woman because some hurt me.

I come across good women everyday. You come across good men everyday, we don't give them a chance to be frank.

Make we sef dey ask ourselves wetin dey carry our leg go meet bad guys and girls.
Sports › Re: I Nearly Pulled My Gun' Odartey After DNA Test Proved He Wasn’t Father Of 3 Kids by CalmElder(m): 1:02pm On Jun 07, 2024
jessylaurel:
Women seems to be making big moves in the cheating game. A round of applause 😌😌😌.

No be who first do the pain😂😂😂
Your male relatives can become victims of your gender too.

One way or the other, it affects everyone of us when things go out of order with the society. Except by prayer and God's grace, it has a way of coming around.

Eg. It hurts me when my sisters are heartbroken and vice versa.
Romance › Re: Man Outraged After Lady Rejects Iphone SE Gift He Bought For Her (photo) by CalmElder(m): 8:57pm On May 29, 2024
EreluRoz:
It's a woman's nature accept it like that.
It's a man's nature to not accept that it's a woman's nature.

We sandpaper each other until both are refined.
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Director, Reginald Ebere Is Dead by CalmElder(m): 5:14pm On May 27, 2024
He use to write stories for hints magazine, owned by Dr Ibe Kachikwu.

Tony Kane was colleague.
Romance › Re: Some Women Dey Ment For Head by CalmElder(m): 7:54am On May 27, 2024
I'm happy that you are finally taking charge of your emotions.

Keep building yourself bro. You have more to lose if you don't. Far more!
Politics › Re: How Lawmakers Accelerated, Passed Bill To Change Nigeria’s National Anthem by CalmElder(m): 7:24am On May 25, 2024
That the old national anthem was written and composed by the colonialists is very strong and important reason why we should never use it again.
Romance › Re: Women: Can You Marry A Man Who Can't Get It Up? by CalmElder(m): 3:58pm On May 23, 2024
lululovesblue:
I wonder what response to give to this.

If I say yes, I may be called a sIut who wants to cheat on her husband outside marriage.
If I say no, I may be called a sIut who cannot control her sex drive. Believe it or not, I've had this conversation with someone before. I'll just follow the topic to see other people's responses
Only an insane person will call you a slut for rejecting marriage to a man who has ED.

Sex is a part of life, it warrant insults only when a person, male or female, make it look like it the major thing in life.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 2023/24: Manchester City's Phil Foden Named Player Of The Season by CalmElder(m): 1:14pm On May 18, 2024
The first time I'm seeing a smile on his face.

Very serious looking somebody.
Romance › Re: How Do I Overcome Shyness And Fear Of Women After This... by CalmElder(m): 12:46pm On May 16, 2024
marksonrick:
I don't really have male friends, I find it difficult relating with them too.
Like I advised on the other thread, make male friends and your problem is half solved.

If a guy is feeling down, cheer him up with a few words of encouragement.
Take yourself out, start conversations with quite guys like yourself. Feign ignorance, ask questions, listen genuinely to whatever they are saying, share your own point of view. Keep practicing this and you will endear yourself to guys and later ladies.

Don't practice being a talkative or over socializing because it's not your nature, develop a curiosity, especially of quit people, practice breaking the barriers they put up, forget about yourself and don't feel too bad when they don't open up (you hate rejection).

Being shy and reserved is still attractive, just refine the traits and you are good.
Romance › Re: How Do I Overcome Shyness And Fear Of Women After This... by CalmElder(m): 5:19am On May 16, 2024
marksonrick:
Nothing really important.

I tried knowing where she came from and how long she's been doing her business.
I asked her to come know my place but she refused.



How would I know she was to ask me to zip her up?

Should I have rejected after walking upto her?

Damn

I know I don't just say no.

But I Jones?

Na to change my route be that o. Chai.
You didn't do anything wrong by unzipping her sir.

There likes are always looking for ways to call someone a simp.

If you like ehn, listen to them and don't be yourself, o.

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