my fellow nairalanders please advice me cause am at my wits end.

I have applied for british/uk visa twice and twice have been refused.

The first time they claimed I didnt prove to them that I was related to my Aunt and Uncle because I did not attach their utility bills even though they are british citizens(and i attached a copy of their british p/ports to my application).

Now my scond application has been denied as they claim the utility bills i sent this time along with my application documents are forged.
My Aunt and Uncle are legally living in london as they are citizens and have confirmed that the utility bills they sent to me are genuine.They contacted the corporation servicing their house to enquire if they had been contacted by the embassy and their ressponse was negative so am wondering why they said it was forged.

I am frustrated and confused as everything I submitteed are genuine.
Please advice me as I dont know whether to appeal or re-apply cos I was told that re-applying takes a long process and that I would need a Lawyer? While am scared that if i re-apply I might not be given again as i would be submitting the same documents as thats all I have and not forgetting the fact that I have lost money twice already without obtaining the visa.

WHAT CAN I DO? PLEASEEEEEEEEEEE.

naira people whats going on now.u guys pls help me with recipes abi has non of you ever heard or eaten cocoyam before.PLEASE.thanks guys trust you will respond.

hi guys.i have been told cocoyam is a delicious and healthy food item however i haven't got the slightest idea on what i can make with it.pls dear friends kindly assist me with delicious cocoyam recipes as its in season at my location.thanks people.

hi iyeneobu.thanks for the info.however i cannt seem to find a definite advise from reading all the post under the topic.is it better in the us or uk? could you advise on 1 of the countries.thanks alot

hi guys.please i need some informed advise on which country is best for studying masters abroad.am in a dilemma as to where to send my applications.i would love to go to a country where cost of living is low,schools command respect,racism is low,can apply for work while studying etc.please come to my rescue.looking forward to your helpfull and informative replies.thanks guys.

hi guys.pls i would appreciate if someone could help with tuwo shinkafa and tuwo masara recipe{how do i make them pls}.thanks guys.

hi guys.pls am desperately in need of a solution to these kitchen or is it cooking chore.i love making vegetable sauces,my only problems are peeling carrots and even potato.i find them very frustrating and energy draining.i usually feel too tired to even enjoy the meal after preparing dishes that require either potato or carrots.
pls could you guys help me with solutions or suggest kitchen tools that would finally solve this terrifying experience.


would also love to hear about the foods or kitchen chores you find annoying or terrifying.thanks guys.

hi seun.pls am still appealin for the change of my user name to loveblues.would really appreciate a reply pls.thanks

hi kebab.plssssssssssssssssssssssss if you ever open this topic am still waiting on the diet table.my email is girlsossy@yahoo.com.thanks

hi.is eating fruits @ 1o pm considered eating late at night and pls am still waiting on what the bicycle maneurver is.

hi guys.saw ur replies but as girl2000 said chewing gum does not work.tried it no result.and ekenea i dont understand the sucking part could you expatiate.
pls am still waiting on useful and realistic advise.thanks

hi guys.pls i need help.i have had really chubby cheeks since i was a baby and right now am on a diet to cut some weight however these activities are not working on my face (checks) as they are still very big.pls i need advice and tips (non-surgical) that would help me finally reduce them.thanks guys.

hi.saw ur post on bowel movement however i heard that in as much as the bitter leaf juice is good its intake is dangerous for other organs in the body.so may be you could tell us if there are any side effects in takin this juice.
however i think the best option is to drink warm water.

hi guys. pls i need some clarifications on the leave called spinach. is it the same leave people call green.i heard its very nutritious[spinach] but i didnt know what it looked like but recently someone told me it was the same leave called green.thanks guys

hi.pls i would like 2 modify my password.could you help me out.

thanks leilah.sounds great only hope i can make it as good as u described.however i didn't get the oil part[how much oil do i put?do i turn everything together etc.].i would love those arabic stew recipes as well please.

hi guys.i fell in love with couscous in the northern part of the country unfortunately i have no idea about how to make it.please could someone in the house help me with a couscous recipe(s).thanks

hi kebab,pls could you send me the diet table addy is girlsosy@yahoo.com.will be most gratefull.thanks a bunch.

Hi fire4fire,what exactly is the bicycle maneurver .pls how is the exercise performed.

thanks guys for your very encouraging replys.Ajaofunke once again ur advise is much appreciated especially the recommended meals.i will try them hopefully they will give me the same results you have achieved because i found what you said amazing(3 kgs in a week) wow!!!.
ebumowa and uchetobi,i will try and exercise patience like you both advised but i tell you its really difficult when am looking at the mirror and not seeing the results i want.
then dear gbolio4,thank God you haven,t achieved the weight gain plan because i can assure you its much easier to gain than loose.
will keep you guys posted on my progress.

thanks dear ajaofunke.really appreciate ur advise.however this is naija and i find that we are kind of restricted 2 certain food .could u help me with some recipes which combine wholegrains and carbonhydrates please.will try my best 2 do every other tin u said.thanks again

hi guys.am really desperate and in need of help.i have been trying to loose weight for the past 3months without success .i have tried everything including cutting meat,eggs,food protions,exercised till i have started developing muscles naming a few.yet people keep asking me what am eating that am putting on more weight.
how long does take for weight lose to show or am i doing some thing wrong.