Freshprince91:

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If those reading this are so gullible, I am not one of them.
AXA Mansard is an insurance/pension company and what business have they got with Machine learning and artificial intelligence?
I'm 85% sure your supposed friend is interning in their sales team and he's lying.
Note : I am not saying there's no IT Dept but there's nothing like machine learning and artificial intelligence in that insurance company as of now.
Cut the bullshit!

You’re not a smart person. The amount of data alone that financial service organizations produce should tell you why they need people in those roles.

Don’t open your ignorant yash online, step out of your small world.

No lie in anything they described here abeg. They were even civil.

TruthTella:
Madam I feel for you honestly

The unfortunate thing is that he will cheat to his satisfaction and waste money he should be spending on his kids while taking care of side chics and you will be running from pillar to post borrowing money for him thinking he is under a curse until he gets tired in old age or goes bankrupt and then, you will welcome him back with open arms and thank God for bringing your husband back to you and making you the winner in the end.

Religion is really turning people's brains to mushroom in Nigeria.

The bolded is so true. They will now take 40 years anniversary picture, and people will use them as an example of a good marriage.

No one will know that it was 40 years of suffer and dry fasting, spent fighting off imaginary enemies for the woman.
Madam will be alright last last.

Lol...this woman you’re funny sha.

Your husband is busy sleeping with everything but you, yet na you Dey run up and down looking for solution.

I really feel for women like you sha, maybe one day you’ll have sense.
Nobody jazzed him anything, he just doesn’t get hard for you anymore.

franchasng:
So you are the unfocused guys that stay back in Nigeria lurking around, looking for ladies engaged to guys living abroad to fvck for free ba Kontinu.....karma will soon catch you, magun laced with okokobioko will gum you and one babe soon, I de here de wait to read your story with picture of you crying like a baby




...and to ladies who will have a fiance' laboring in one country day and night thinking he has a reliable woman he would strive to make happy, while she is in Nigeria fucking NFA boys who fry their hair with sagged boxers and ten packs they use to deceive you ladies of easy virtue, karma will deal with you all, what nonsense is this!!

. OMG!!! you’re so funny, see the way I burst out laughing at work. My colleagues look me like I don craze.

Massey27:


Thank you so much..we are no longer friends with the man and his family. When hubby learnt it was his friend that blew the whistle and went to tell my family, he almost had a heart attack. He couldn't believe it. Not until he listened to the recordings my brothers made anytime he called them.

You should be thanking this friend, if not how would you have known? Also, you seem to have absolved your husband who broke his vow, it’s his friend that is now you people’s common enemy.

As for the child, your irresponsible horse-band should own up to the result of his actions. He can do a DNA test if he wants, but that child has a father and shouldn’t be denied that.

You on the other hand don’t have to love this child and that doesn’t make you a bad person, he’ll just be a physical reminder of your husband‘s infidelity. But don’t be the typical evil stepmother either, as the child is innocent of the circumstances surrounding his birth.

Captaintimex:
Nigeria greatest problem is that 13 Boeing 747 cargo planes come to Nigeria daily, offloading cargo, then went back empty. Sometimes, they have to use sandbags to stabilize the aircrafts.

5 out of every 6 ships that berth in Nigeria return to their base empty. The only one which leaves with cargo is filled with charcoal, gypsum salt & sesame seeds.

A country of 200m people eating, sleeping, making calls, voting for mercy of BBNaija and contributing almost nothing to the world. All we do is drill the oil, sell it & bank the money, loot 60%, share 40% of the proceeds. Even the oil is drilled for us by foreign companies.

Our youths in their most productive years are selling gala in the traffic, some are hailing frood, Ike & being tachaed, while other borrowed data to come throw tribal tantrums & defend the criminal of bourdillion on seun's platform

Nigeria think!!!

Don't plagarise, you should have cited your source or included "copied".

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Dinner ~~~ Custard and Milk.... Black Coffee.... Bread and Strawberry Jam.. and lot more

Na wa. This guy you like to do someone long throat...I don't like custard sha,

These girls should better use this opportunity and make money. Sue the guy jare, at least now they have legit case with the evidence on the internet sef.

If their lawyer has sense the person will claim kidnapping, assault, emotional torture and threat to life.

DatechMan:
Guys please let's be careful with our phone plan selection. Especially when it comes to data overage and long distance charges. A friend just got a monthly phone bill of $800. I am sure he is in severe pain.

He should call and tell them he didn’t know that they automatically activated long distance calling, and continued use of data after exhaustion for him.

He should express his displeasure well, and threaten to move to another service provider.
They will most probably reduce it for him, and turn off overages and other things that may not be in his plan. It happened to me, and they reduced the amount...mine wasn’t upto that amount sha.

angeltolly:
Away from my regular Sunday meal

Dinner: Salad with Plantain and Egg

I don’t like soft plantain

giftjoyz:
Someone Help Me Before It Eat Me Up

So what make me to look for aid here is one cream that promises stretch-mark-free(bbclear) is actually a total false cos i just notice some mark on my lower butt again

Please dont yab or insult me for lightening my skin it just a mistakes since 2015

PLEASE HELP ME THIS MARK IS EATING ME UP

I can't post the body pictures here cos it too graphical

You should go and see a dermatologist, don’t use your skin for experiment.

victorian:






Chai! Some people sef!

Were u there when he paid her bride price?

It was introduction they did, not traditional marriage. Chioma is still Miss Rowland. She's only entitled to Davido's heart and not his wealth. She's not his legal wife yet. Even traditional marriage does not make her the legal wife unless court marriage is involved.

Even the traditional marriage u said they did, which we all know is Introduction. I have never seen igbo brides go through such quiet and parlour kind of traditional marriage, no matter how poor the girl or guy is. I have never seen such parlour kind of traditional marriage before. So quit lying and deceiving Chioma she's married. In the real fact she's not married but a babymama.

So get your facts right, before spewing all these lies online.

Don't confuse the facts here.

Were you there to determine that it was introduction? Are they owing the bride price to you? Davido has said he paid brideprice on one of his insta posts, so why are you so bothered with whether he threw party afterwards or not?

People have mentioned here that traditional marriage in Igbo culture is payment of bride price and fulfilling the list, anything else afterwards is just party.

You’re not even Igbo, why do you disregard someone else’s culture? What’s your stake in their marriage?

By the way traditional marriage is legally recognized under customary law, don’t be so proudly ignorant in public.

Ijawwomaninoyo:


Once two families sit together, wedding is done? Can you listen to yourself? Is she Mrs Adeleke now or still Miss Rowland?
Igbos sit in the parlour to do weddings?
Wedding is done in Igboland without paying dowry and traditional wedding?
Traditional wedding is the official handing over your children in people's presence, Court wedding makes you officially entitled to your spouse's properties.
If you do engagement but not Court, you are not entitled yet, this is 2019 but not 1950.
Davido will do wedding without big party?
Please where are you from?

You're misinformed. In igbo culture paying your bride price is the marriage. It can be done under tree, in the parlor, all it takes is for both kinsmen exchange what they should, and agree.
If you decide to have a ceremony afterwards for show that's your perogative. Davido has paid her brideprice, so she is his wife by customary law which is recognized in Nigeria.

You don't even have to be present to be married traditionally, as long as the elders collect and agree that's all.
Just because it has become trendy to change numerous outfits doesn't mean you're not married if you don't celebrate afterwards.

juwoonn:

Calm down my brother. Are you the brother in question? I think we should not jump into conclusions, because we don't know 70% of whatever is happening in the family. Although from what he said on here, his brother has been fairly generous. He sponsored them in school and gave the first born a car and some cash. Some people I know won't find you a job and won't still give you the cash.
Its their money, they can do as they wish. I don't care. I hustle and I'm good.

My brother, based on the info that he provided in his post I'm responding within scope.

davillian:

I have one
He doesn't show support or care about anyone in the family...
The type that can never call you if you don't call then you guys would never talk.
The type that won't support you even it it cost #0 naira..
He doesn't take advice from anyone or listen to anyone...
The most annoying one is that he doesn't even show concern if anybody dies he doesn't care if anybody is sick he doesn't care.
Now e
X-mas is approaching everybody with their families would touch down in Lagos to spend x-mas in the family house this same brother won't show up and he stays in lekki but doesn't even come home to check on mum.
He is not married.

Sorry about that, at least when he marries tomorrow no one will say it's his wife that changed him.

mgh2:

Why are you not working there since shell is one of those companies where one can get into without connection.

You just an embodiment of selfishness, greed, self-centeredness, evil and all sort of acrimony you can think of.

If you like keep your dirty money to yourself and don’t help your family or people close by. Whether you help or you don’t help you will still die and leave your dirty chicken change behind.

Wow, so angry. I'm not the cause of your misfortune, biko go and look for who is doing you.

grandstar:


My dad too was very liberal. There was a time I counted up to 22 people living in our home. The nuclear family was only 4. There was a maximum of 2 househelps. The rest were relations. The house usually swelled up during third term holiday. The burden on my mum was too much but she coped. I did not have a room in our house (6 big bedrooms) until I was 16. I could sleep in any room I wanted to though except the househelps

Many of my dad's relations owe their success to him. He paid over $10,000 to a university in the States so that his younger brother could gain admission after being refused 4 times by the American embassy. That was in 1983. His younger brother (actually half brother from his father's last wife) helped no one at all get into the States. He was also unappreciative of my father's kindness. My father even borrowed $2,800 to send to him at a time and till his younger brother death in 2017 or so, he only repaid a fraction of the money.

When his younger brother came home in 2007, he came to our family house in Ondo. He gave my mum N10,000, gave my dad 20,000. This was in the morning and he left. My dad decided to make pounded yam, prepare nice soup with bush meat. His brother never came back

Shebi the whole point of offering help to family is so that everybody will stand, and the family will be progressive.

If you're not lucky in that regard and have a family that will rather be fed than learn to fish then you'll be burdened forever...the people that my dad helped that made something of themselves are the suppossed outsiders, his own siblings felt like they had a safety net to fall back on, and never took anything serious.

Op can hide under we want his love all he wants, but when you lead with "my rich brother" "doesn't care" "me me me", all i see is selfishness.

grandstar:


The writer of this post johnmba is writing based on his sojourn in Canada. I'm sure there is a deluge of people on his neck everyday asking him for money from Nigeria.

He is probably in the same position as your brother. It isn't easy.

Anyway, that said, it is your duty to make yourself successful and not your brother. That is your motto. Once you feel he isn't keen on helping, then consider that you're on your own. Stop this whingeing and whining and triple your hustle. Pretend he doesn't exist and move on (Read Ecclesiastes 3:6)

Lol...On the contrary, I don’t have a parasitic family o.
Everyone in my family sorts themselves out, and we plenty. We also come together to help with the parents when we need to, not leaving it for one person.

But I have seen my father experience being bread winner, and he taught us to be the way we are.
My father sacrificed his life for his extended family, and until now that he’s retired and we are all adults them never still stand, they still shamelessly ask him for money.

Over the years, money for business, single handedly carrying all family burial so that his colleagues won’t be embarrassed when they attend, paying off his sisters dowry because they don’t care that their parents are being embarrassed in kinsmen meetings, building house and being told after that the land cant go to a sixth son because it’s on prime location.

It just led to jealousy and bitterness from their side, hatred for my mum, accusations that she used jazz to hold their brother, even though he had all of them on payroll from day 1 of marrying her, then it changed that he did blood money so that only him will have money in the family. Where when my father tells you the story of how he got an education after the war, you’ll pity him and wonder what his parents were doing at the time.

Poor woman constantly dealt with forgoing needs because there was one more person that needed help, and it never stopped. Old man still used from his gratuity to send two of his brother’s sons abroad and one of them has come back now and back in same position. It never ends.

I pity people that marry into poor homes, poverty mentality is a disease that doesn’t have a cure when you have entitled in-laws, so this Op forming fake love is just lying.

Hizzy:

are U the guy the Op is talking about

Lol..who knows

aluko360:
Op sounds so bittered from his post.
It's your brother's way so let him be. What if he is not well to do shey all of una no go find una level?

Please drop the idea that my broda na big man so he must bear all the family burden. Life no be so my broda. Even God in heaven does not answer all prayers, so pray make God bless your hussle if you have one.

Very bitter, and he’s covering it up by saying he’s not concerned about the money, but is quick to list out all the things the brother should be capable of doing.

Mentioning big money, but pointing out that the brother only send money once or twice a year.

I’m a family of 7 children if they all take turns to send money on a month by month basis shouldn’t it be twice a year?

He talk about wanting their brother back all he wants, but his post states the true state of his mind and thought towards the brother.

jansonn:
@canadiannaija, I think you're taking this thing slightly personal, there's no justification for his elder not relating with his siblings!! Esp. When they're not always demanding money!! From the way you sound, it seems you've got siblings that you're suppose to assist financially and you're not and now you're seeking a justification for your actions, I get what the op is saying because am right at that spot right now, there's nothing wrong in helping your siblings get on their feet when you get on yours first, its just life.
About his wife, that one is a discussion for another day, because some women ehhh!!! Make God just airpus

From your post and how affected you are by this I guess you’re one of those parasites that suck on the relatives?

Stop being lazy, go and make your own luck...whatever rich relative you’re jealous of right now will be more inclined to help if they see that you’re making an effort.

TEYA:

How did you come about the bolded? Who told you he never applied, who told you his brother can't help him secure his a job even if though he is in management cadre? So a top management person in shell cannot even secure a contract job in shell? Really? Is that how seriously they take merit in Nigeria? Toh let me tell you, in this country you live in, many people will suffer for most of their lives if not all of it because they don't have a hand to raise him. I remember my foolish uncle, a top government functionary that spent many years in service without securing a job for his own blood children. According to him, nobody helped him to get there so he owes nobody anything Based on the stuff I read here, I believe the children should also tell themselves nobody owes them anything. Nonsense, the people that hold onto that silly school of thought are swimming in an ocean of ignorance, that you suffered to make it does not mean everyone around you has to go through same. I passed my uncle the other day, he was standing by the roadside stranded, I could not believe my eyes. I drove past him with my eyes the other way. The guy has nothing!

Hopefully you don’t have a reading disability, else you would have seen where I wrote that if it’s contract work then that another thing.

Read slower next time.

cheeseballs:
I have done alot of study into fish farming in my area. But no one in my area would lease his or her land to anyone (greed of the igbos)

Greed of the Igbos? You should probably have written “igbos don’t give me advise” on your post.

No wonder you’re such a victim.

htweet:
Eboue takes the crown. I don't believe anyone else can so much fall from grace to grass like him till thy kingdom come!!

Very pathetic story i tell you. Watched an interview he gave of how he was homeless and occasionally had to go hide in ones of his houses that the court gave to his wife, and when they found out police was called to evict him.

He isn't evene in contact with his kids from her, she basically took everything he laboured for years to gain in that country. Yet men have mouth to talk trash about African women. The one paining me is that the girlfriend that struggled with him that he dumped to marry her, is who he has gone back to and married.

The idiot still even marry am, poverty is really in her destiny

Nanatrendy:
I can't believe she took him back

The fool did, they had a modest wedding within his means. I guess she doesn't deserve the lavish life, as the struggle lover wey she be.

But his white wife had a lavish wedding, and all the expensive things you can think of. Women just don't learn.

voltron14:


Only 200k dollars a year he pays you say?

You see what I mean?

What do you mean? If na oyibo will he have anything left? If they will not barb his head. Na for african women body them dey get power.

Creamcustard:
@OP
It is shocking how you have downplayed the huge contribution your brother has made to your lives.He is your sibling and not your parent and yet he was paying fees, giving money for business and he even gave a car.You even said he did not deprive himself of anything to make these sacrifices.No wonder he avoids all of you.

Tell am! Maybe OP expects people to follow him and demonize the brother.

God knows how lonely the poor man must be, and what he must have experienced to make him keep everybody at arm's length.

johnmba:


Bros am not asking him to bring me to shell. I wrote shell test severally and I know I passed because I wrote their IT test and I passed. I did my IT there too.

The issue is what do we do to bring him close as a brother. It hurts when you cannot relate with your brother but you see him relating well with others.

The way you write about him here says otherwise. I wouldn't want to relate with you either if i had a sibling like you.

Goodluck to your family.

johnmba:


He did not deprive himself anything. He works with shell(manager) and helps alot of people in the company. Sometimes people he helped wondered why am working in a hospital for someone that read engineering.

He didn't deprive himself of anything? Do you hear yourself? See your mindset, are you in his pocket?

Your brother can not get you into Shell, whether he works there or not.
I know for a fact how rigorous their recruitment process is, especially if it is for a fulltime position.
There're companies that hire contract staff for Shell and others, that one is another matter.

If you finished within the age range for their engineering graduate trainee program why didn't you apply? Was your grade good? Did you pass the aptitude test, and their accessment day?
Their fulltime recruitment is centralized and done from out of country.

It's not a one man's business, you hear that he's helping people what kind of help? Do you know? Have you bothered to ask him?

You seem misinformed, you were all given the same opportunity i don't know why you seem so resentful and envious of him.
Shell is one company at least that you can get into on merit, people without connection do it everyday, it's not your brother's fault that you're an engineer that works in a hospital.

Errrm, please who knows about how one can send some luggage to Moncton from Ottawa?

I have some food stuff and others that needs to be sent to someone.