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Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
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So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
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So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
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Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
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So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Sorry to say.

But you are not that smart man...
You have all the answers you are looking for in front of you...
Meanwhile...you put a girl on 2k daily from your 10k daily...damn...thats even more than 10% tithe churches collect...
Who made the rule that you must fund a girls lifestyle?? Esp one that clearly sees you as a mugu...
Give her the 10k and stop that 2k daily and data nonsense before you do frog jumps wella.

Chilipepper:
₦186k Contribution: Do These Food Items Really Measure Up

not at all..with that amount..you will have change...

ILoveFaith:
A Toyota Corolla 2007 model is available for sale to portharcourt and it's environs.
The car is in perfect shape. First body and has very significant mileage. Engine has never been repaired before and this is only the second user.

Reach out for thorough details and inspection.

why not post price here....or is the price a secret?

Serendipity2023:
If i put password, automatically they can't connect again

I just feel like helping them

Protect yourself first...
Lock it and share the password with those you trust.

Bro Selling 1992 Car Like It Survived the Ark!

₦3.2M for a 1992 Car? Even the Car’s Shock Absorbers Are Shocked! 😭

This 1992 Car Must Come with Time Travel Feature 😭

When You Love Money More Than Common Sense 😂

1992 Car, 2025 Price Tag — Make It Make Sense 😅

Selling 1992 Car Like It Drove Jesus to Jerusalem

₦3.2M? Hope It Comes with Fuel for Life! 😭

This Seller Thinks His Car Is Signed by Michael Jackson

Bro Wants to Sell a Museum Exhibit for ₦3.2M 😆

Joseph1505:
Most of you are still sleeping in web 2, while your next door neighbour is cashing out in web 3.
If you don't understand what i mean.

Download X (Formally Twitter)
Reply Done, I will drop my email so that you can contact me.
No need to register for a course, just come and learn for free and be active.

Or find my whatsapp number below and chat me up.

Where is your number??

Seun...this more characters needed is stressful.

i do not want to tag you to my response cos i am angry with your thoughts of thinking to apologize to her...
i would have said God punish you... but i am not used to cursing people....

You tolerate this once....you will remain a slave to her for a long time

chatinent:
Studying the WhatsApp chat pattern and style, it is clear you are chatting yourself.


You are free to argue with yourself regardless.

Same you who was scammed and needing help is now Interpol?

Just saw your pics post now...that time I did not have the resources I have now...
Right now..I cannot be scammed by anyone..

chatinent:
Studying the WhatsApp chat pattern and style, it is clear you are chatting yourself.


You are free to argue with yourself regardless.

Feel free to claim the award for person with zero comprehension skills for the year ..

FIRDAUS3:
I don laugh😂🤣 tired.... So the useless guy could turn begging for mercy, so funny.

😂 😂 E tire me...he's a small hungry boy..

From scammer to saint in 0.5 seconds .
Went from scammer to Gospel preacher faster than Airtel network disappears ..
He became a scammer turned motivational speaker in record time .. what a career change.
Still thinking of what to do with him .

So ...I woke up to texts of financial request from my friend which was strange to me.
First of..my friend always starts the conversation in a certain way and it's been so for years
2nd . She always takes my call anytime I call
3rd . She has my second line but has never texted me on that line...
So I knew her account has been hacked.
I called the number and the person declined the call...so I requested for the account to send the money they requested on my other line...
After getting his bank details..the rest was easy work...

this car was not sold more than 800k as close as 2018/2019..
honest opinion...no one would buy this for even 3m.
a V6...

laidima88:
Oh sorry
Thats the spirit, we keep trying
This is my second attempt also.
Just request for the gcms note and address the reason

.no more need for gcms notes....they now send ODN with the refusal mail to explain why it was refused ..

obembet:
Premier League, La Liga, Bundesliga, Seria and so on for 2025/26 season starts on weekend of August 16/17, 2025

That start date is 83 days after the end of the 2024/25 season, which the Premier League says provides the "maximum player rest time)." The 2025/26 season will consist of 33 weekends and five midweek match rounds.

On our own Nairaland, we have alot of football fans which give us so much joy, peace, hope, love and passion. Of course there is a time of conflict, football gives us cause to marvel, cheer, support..

Now let know which you represent on this great forum?

Barcelona 🇪🇸 - Culers

Man United 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 - Red Devils

Real Madrid 🇪🇸 - Madridistas

Chelsea 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 - Blues

Arsenal 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 - Gunners

Represent your club and let see which club have the biggest and mature fan on nairaland

As for me Obembet ... I represent th biggest club in the world, MANCHESTER UNITED ( RED DEVIL)

Which club you represent?

Source: obembet

Hala Madrid....oh yeahhhhhhhh...oh yeahhhhhhhh....

laidima88:
Hello
Pls have you seen any updates
I also resubmitted my application June ending and over a month now no response.

And did you submit with upfront medical or you are waiting for them to request it, my school resume September 2 which is less than a month now, yet no info from IRCC

I submitted on July 3rd... biometrics done on 7th and confirmed on 8th..
I did upfront medical
Refusal mail came on July 31st..
Sad...but we move and try again...

Educationalserv:
Working in Health insurance with pay of 600k per month and it hybrid !
About to get into Globalcom a Admin manager
After the second interview and Salary negotiation ( 800k )
How long does it take Globalcom to make an offer ?
What is the working condition for this role ?

I heard Glo has terrible work culture...for it's engineers ..don't know about other depts...
But some financial institution blacklisted their staff from accessing loans...this speaks a lot

franugo:
Hello people. I'm supposed to do medicals for Canada immigration via spousal route. On the IMM form sent to me by IRCC, only Lagos and Abuja IOM medical centers were recognized alongside Qlife clinic but I heard there's an IOM center in Benin. I already booked Lagos for the medical but would it be possible to cancel that appointment and visit the iom center in Benin instead as it's much closer to me. I tried reaching the IOM call centers but we truly have an issue with call centers in this country, they're either not manned or the call doesn't go through at all. Anyone have an IOM call center contact that actually goes through?

Go and do your medicals at the venues posted on IRCC website..Benin is not part of it ..

KakashiJonin:
Good morning @everyone. I recently applied for a study permit in Canada and I have gotten to the medicals stage and I want to ask what's next after medicals...Is it a positive indication for getting the visa or it doesn't matter?

.when did you apply...drop time lines

Bigchris01:
how can I get this test kits it’s been long since I did that, but which test again if I may ask?

Any standard pharmacy sells it..ask for hiv test kit..it is in 2 types..oral or the ones that uses blood...blood own is cheaper..
Or get combined one that checks hiv and hep b and c..

Bigchris01:
Ok I will look for a way to get the combine one

.that one is better ..
It's sold around 4500 to 5500...

Fekumzi123:
Are you sure it is this easy?

.I do this myself and for a lot..
Easy...buy kit . Use the spirit, clean your fingers. Prick yourself. Put a drop of blood in the pallate.. put the solution and wait 10 mins .
That's all ..

sooperrescue:
NAFDAC warned that 99% of the test kits in Nigeria are fake. There's nothing like HIV. If your immune system is weak, eat pineapples.

this cannot be coming from experienced bro like you...
The ones used in the hospitals are presumed fakes you say??

Bigchris01:
how can I get this test kits it’s been long since I did that, but which test again if I may ask?

.the hiv 1 and 2 test kit...
Or you can buy the hepatitis B and c test kit and hiv test combined..

obinnazy:
I saw the kits but I didn't know it was cheap, I did Hiv test last 2weeks, waited for over 30mins for the results which later came out Negative.... I'm relieved, as a guy, don't live a reckless life.

The test is normally in like 15 mins but in 5 mins you should know your result ..

Intent247:
What kind of vaccination please ?. And how often will I do that .

For the test kit , can it be ordered online from Jumia or temu.?

walk down to any standard pharmacy and ask hiv test kit,, easy to do..its same kit used by hospitals...i buy mine for 2500...the one that checks hiv and hep b and c is like 5k or so...

The hep b vaccine is taken 3 times on different occasions from any hospital or health centre and its cheap,..less than 3k per shot

Intent247:
So I met this new girl and all our conversation she has been more emphatic about knowing my health status.
I told her I am okay that we always conduct periodic test in my office every year and that they don't give us the results.
So we had a near sex experience that didn't last for 1 minutes cos she was scared.
The following day she brought up the topic of my health status again and that since our near sex experience she has been restless.

Omoh at that point I even became scare myself. As a sexually active man that has gone into the legs of many ladies . Some with condoms and others without I was visibly scare . The last time I checked my status was in 2020.
The last time I had raw sex was October last year with my ex. Sex with condom was Feburary this year.
I became restless. Had to go out immediately to conduct a test even though it was Saturday.
I asked how long ye test will be ready and was told a minimum of 30 minutes . Omoh I was relieved cos if I was told to come on Monday I don't think I would have survived the anxiety.

Well I did the test and it came out Negative .
Also did Syphilis, Hepatitis.

I will submit sample for my urine culture test tomorrow morning. This one money fear me shaa. Just checking for any hidden infection.

I am so relieved and will be careful going forward

You can buy hiv/hep test kit and do yourself at home...its quite cheap...congrats on your hep b negative status, now go and get vaccinated !!

I feel humans should only do this if they don't plan on birthing kids...cos your kids will definitely question why they don't look as good as their parents

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emmanuellex:
Please I can’t login to my portal what could be the cause? Help a brother

.did you resolve this??
My application did not display this .check all your forms well