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Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

You are still calling her your babe with pride... Oboy.. Move on. She has moved on

this is honda city not civic

willian10:
How is it holding up now?
Is it worth it

currently servicing mine now thou...will update lateer

Babaibeji2020:
I'll set him up and get him arrested...!
Nobody needs a tint permit nor a medical report to drive a "factory fitted " tint. The IGP scrapped that but some unscrupulous cops still demand from ignorant motorists. We got one arrested of recent....hand go touch scammer! I go give am money chop...wetin him go vomit go long........

The discussion was not on factory fitted permit thou.. On aftermarket tints..

Conner44:
It mist be one very big fan. You're even lucky, your own cooling fan connection is the simple type.

Use it like that and go on your way. Don't tamper with it.

thanks buddie..

Conner44:
@captainking

1. You don't have a thermostat in the engine
2. Fans are running via brainbox

You don't have a thermostat installed so your engine will take a longer time to get to operating temperature (if at all it gets there) . The cooling fans are 2, one for the usual cooling of the coolant in the radiator and the other to assist in cooling the condenser when using the ac.

So to be frank, Your radiator cooling fan is not coming on because your thermostat is not installed and your using ac is what forces them both to come on. THIS IS VERY BAD FOR YOUR ENGINE IN THE LONG RUN and you will be looking at replacing it in a relatively short time due to smoking and cylinder compression loss due to excessive sludge (i give you a maximum of 3 yrs to start seeing the smoke for aluminium engines) iron engines don't usually get affected by this issue as badly as aluminium engines do.

Solution? Go to a spare parts market, where your vehicle tokumbo engines are sold and pay for the dealer to remove a thermostat from a similar engine for sale and sell to you.

Fini

My car Fan is just one..

yarimo:
but Incase, Just be observing the temperature meter on your dashboard.

Sure.. I am.. Been doing that for a week now..

yarimo:
the thermostat is still working if not, the fan won't pick. The fan pick based on instructions from the thermostat sensor meaning the thermostat and the sensor are perfectly working

Wow..
Perhaps.. I did not check it thou...
I can rest easy now cos I want to travel with the car in a few days.

Let's be honest here.. This car no matter how clean doesn't go for more than 3m.. Heck.. Last year July I got an offer for this at 1.6m...
I am certain owner doesn't need more than 2.8m for this.. You cum add money you want use complete your house..
Well done sir

PStacks:
Very True..


Thank You

Kudos bro.. It's still not easy in this era

shortgun:
I am guessing your thermostat is still working as it should.

.it suprises me..
Fan turns on only when engine has reached op temp...
Most likely.. The temp is still there and working...

CoronaVirusPro:
Change your windshield

Werey.. 😂

Good evening house..
all the experts in the house.. Please I need your assistance.. I drive a 2003 Toyota corolla.. I took it to an auto expert to help fix thermostat... And he could not get thermostat at that time but he redid the wiring.. After that. The car has been running without thermostat but fan doesn't come on at start or run continuously.. Fan only run when AC is on or when car reaches normal operating temp of about 200 to 210 then fan picks..car has not over heated so far for over a week... Please is this safe to continue driving?? However.. I noticed this evening that the driver leg side was a little hot after 1hrs plus of driving.. Kindly assist or advice. Should I continue driving or connect back fans or still keep looking for thermostat..i need clarifications please..
Note.. Car was not overheating prior to now..
Gazzuzz.. Kingreign.. Autologic.... And other experts please jump in..

You tried. But what you did is a make over and repair.. Not pimping..

whymewhyme12:
I'm so disappointed, but yes, I believe I have inadvertently put someone in a situation that will make her life miserable. She's a coworker, and I feel deeply sorry for her. However, I had the misconception that if you slept with someone without ejaculating inside of them, neither party would contract any diseases.

Last December, after work ended around 10 pm, I took a woman home. However, all attempts to engage in intimacy with her were unsuccessful. I couldn't send her away due to the unsafe nature of the area I live in. Frustrated and thinking it might be because of my d*ck size, I impulsively went to the nearest brothel that night, fueled by drugs and a desire to avoid any non-consensual encounters at home. Unfortunately, the condom burst just as I was about to ejaculate.

I asked the woman if she was clean, and she assured me that she regularly undergoes check-ups. However, a few weeks later, I started experiencing discomfort: internal heat, appearance and disappearance of red nodes, symptoms resembling typhoid and malaria, tingling sensations in my tongue, and a pricking feeling in my foot.

Unable to ignore these symptoms, I rushed to a hospital for testing in March while on an official assignment for my company. The initial test results came back negative, but I am still waiting to undergo a confirmation test in the next three months. Despite this, all the symptoms persist.

Two weeks ago, a new employee developed feelings for me, and we ended up intimate at my new apartment. Yesterday, she showed me a red node, and today, she pointed out two red spots on her hand.

Although I did not ejaculate during our encounter, I am concerned for her well-being. I had wrongly believed that not ejaculating inside someone was safe.

I'm terrified that she may suffer the same health issues I am facing. Although I spent significant amount of money —about 10k—seeking treatment for the sickness she may have transmitted to me."

Run urine msc, urethra swab and VDRL..
You could run HIV along with hep A and B test. But I suspect VDRL... Syphilis..

GAZZUZZ:
OEM belt 13k OEM seals 5k each, will give you a 1year guarantee or 20,000km. Contact me if in lagos and interested. Also OEM water pump 25k.

Modified

I wrote this in 2016.

In 2023 the timing belt is 35k

In 2024..the timing belt should be around 45k now

Queengee:
Currently lives and work a 250k monthly Job in Lagos, recently I got an offer for a 500k job in portHarcourt so am still contemplating whether to accept the offer or not. I heard portHarcourt is very expensive compare to Lagos, so I don't want to make wrong decision.

I live and work in phc.. I also relocated from Lagos.. Believe me phc is not as expensive as most parts of Lagos.. 500k monthly in ph is a good offer.. You will enjoy life here and all those traffic you experience in lag is not so common here..
This should not even be thought about.

Fedup2024:
People of Nairaland. This maybe my last post here. I had to create this moniker in order to keep my identity. My view about this world especially this country is just that nobody loves you, you are on your own. In the meantime, I'm in a loads of debt currently owing people. I thought of this life not worth living anymore. I've read a lot and that made me freethinker. I don't believe in the concept of heaven and hell. To me, I think su!c!de is an option. What is essence of living a life without no solution. You aim but miss. You plan yet fail. Nothing works in this country and no one, no body is ready to assist you or even lend you a hand despite the fact I help people a lot even to my detriment. I discovered it doesn't worth it. I have nothing to fear again. I've passed my fear.

This life is not worth living anymore for me. I need a release.

My apologies to my parents and siblings for failing them.

If debts is your only problem then you don't know what God has done for you.
If you listen to other people's problems, you will thank God that yours is only debt. .
I have nothing much to say.

Olalan:
Dear All please how much is catalyst for honda 2011.

I got a car for someone only to be told the front catalyst has been removed and the one in the silencer has been changed.

The car has the check engine light on, is not reveing when on motion.

Please your response will be highly appreciated.

Oga post the code the scanner showed.. That's what everyone has been asking..

Dadadede:
Ok.
Please give me any name of such drug)blood glucose drugs).
Thanks

Please visit a doc or certified pharmacist first.. Not a chemist shop...they would recommend drugs for her..

Dadadede:
Yes we check her every morning.
Last was 213

213 means she has diabetes nah..thats about 11mmol..
She should be on blood glucose drugs..

chukel:
Do a comprehensive scan on the car. You can drop the VIN here for check. Hopefully they may not be that serious but will need expertise as it seems the car was involved in a front collision and one or 2 sensors were not replaced and properly programmed.

Please boss can you help check this vin number... 2T1BR32E63C743376

Thanks..

Dadadede:
Not diabetic but has sugar bilirubin

has she gone suger test? Cos suger in urine points towards that... While bilirubin points at liver..

They have answered most..
Is she diabetic... I see she has suger and bilirubin in her urine

kingreign..
my 03 corolla has this p0135 thats making it consume fuel. Please how can i get original replacement sensor..One mech has tried like 3 diff sensors but code refuses to go. Location is ph
Thanks..

shininglite:
Nigerian used

Contact mrford here.. He will solve your car issues.

Theanchor:
You mean he has been misleading us here?

lol..
What he posted is definitely not 07 shaa

this is not 07 civic oga........this is 05 and below......

Elizkid:
I've been in Kaduna for some days to pick up a Civic 08.

A mechanic has checked the car and said good things.


But I'll like those who've had first-hand experience to tell me what it's like with the maintenance, fuel consumption, and resell value.

Would love to drive it back to Lagos next week if I'm convinced.

Thanks in advance

.oboy.. You have been exposed as a suspected fraudster.. Do well to refund him in full before end of weekend..

Supersaiyanlord.. Please expose this guy

GAZZUZZ:
What of car was bought?

Typo error... I meant that car was bought...