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ojdollars:
Please can you email me with a contact info so we can talk, since you have medical contact? Thank you Mam

lirusehn:

I Shall respect you till i die

Idowuogbo:
Vote jennimma ooooo.... disciples Kimmmmmmmon!!

Caracta, come oo

See babe now.... jennimma is the key

mezebel:
u are in pain and u are busy replying so fast....

pinkshell:
Caracta abeg leave me!
Am a good gey I no dey fite.
U shld tlk to d oda guy.

pinkshell:
Caleb u are a certified fool!
Dd u see me mention ur name?
U gave 7k, y not go print a banner, tell d whole world, u dd d 1st good in ur life. Noise maker.

eleojo23:
If you carefully read through this thread, you'll see that she has done a lot on this case. You are going to have to apologise to her.

Btruth:
then a/c number then, let see what we can do from the mobile.

Thank you...my account is..0043495762..acces
bank...hamed adelodun

Btruth:
when you guys confirm the ailment, let us know how we can do our little contribution....a kind of a/c to drop something for our guy. "One for all, all for one". Up nairalander!

calebo101:
Does he still needs assistance or has illugunboy settled it all?

Jenams:
Bros I will do u sometin on monday, bank nor work for my location on weekends. @caracta, pls anytin worth doin, is worth doin well. U delayed dis man's help to dis point wit ur ineffective n inpatient verification n report initially ! If u knw u dnt hav enuf time to confirm dis man's story, why did u go to d hospital at all? U really annoyed me wit those silly excuses abt the rains n 30mins of waitin, no calls or text bla bla bla, abi u be salt wey rain nor suppose touch? #nonsense!

datguru:
please kindly put his account details below his post, I cant find it

Thank you ma...my account is..0043495762..acces
bank...hamed adelodun

datguru:
please kindly put his account details below his post, I cant find it

thandii1:
Well done. I appreciate the fact that you took your time to check up on the guy and even though the first experience wasn't a good one, you never gave up on him. That's really commendable and admirable. Now that its on the front page, could you please modify that post so people who might not be patient enough to go through the pages would not be discouraged to help him after reading your post. You could just add that it has been confirmed.

freecocoa:
Yea, you are right.

freecocoa:
Okay, I actually would move on if I feel I'm not getting what I need but just wanted to address the issue of "depending" on your partner as many people clear have it mixed up.

freecocoa:
You said you'd throw the love back in his face, didn't you do that because he didn't care when you were in misery? You felt he should care but didn't hence the throwing of love in his face, what are we not saying?

I do agree however, that it's best to move on than harbor resentment.

UjSizzle:
I'm saying just because you chose not to crucify a person for helping, doesn't mean you weren't expecting the help.
So some people can let go or hide their disappointment, and take other decisive actions (ie. Throw their love back at them), and others like the op of the car thread, choose to speak up.

We keep saying guys owe us nothing when we're in relationships outside marriage, but that doesn't mean we really believe that. We're just really good at pretending we don't walk into said relationships with hopes and expectations; if you really didn't have any hopes, then there would be no need for disappointment.

bobidinc:
Your account details pls

chaircover:
Good morning
My mum has been to see djdola and can confirm that he is genuine
She saw him and spoke to him and his family
I am on the road now and can't write much and even lost my first post
Mum collected some of his documents and photocopied them
I am not in town so will collect them from her and post them in a few days

He is genuine and desperately needs help

freecocoa:
In all honesty, yes I would be disappointed and take it that, the friend never had my best interest at heart because I don't see the sense in refusing to help someone you can for no reason.

UjSizzle:
And this isn't somewhat hypocritical?
It shows you have needs that haven't been met, and that's quite contrary to saying he doesn't owe you anything.



Just saying.

adexsimply:
vote

xynerise:
Erm....you can direct these questions at the Op......or we can simply blame GEJ

freecocoa:
I'm not talking about shameless, jobless beggars my sister, I used firstEva's case as an instance(although I don't know if she's jobless sha) but I'm talking strong, smart, hardworking sister reaching out to her man who is more than capable to help when you need it who in turn might also need help one time or another, ofcourse it doesn't have to be an everyday affair.

The way people go about this stuff makes it look like it's a taboo, hence this thread.