₦airaland Forum

obainojazz: hey sista...one funny thing is dat,in all parts of nigeria..guys call ladies fish brains...where are d scientist in nl..beta start drillin and disectin ladies and fish brains and tell us d similarities...coz sumtyn smells fishy..or lady

I've never been called that all my life. I'm highly respected by my male friends and colleagues. Maybe you guys are surrounded by such girls. I'm sorry about that. Accept my sympathy. You are whom you attract, you know?

special_zobo: when he impregantes you, and denies it,you will care by force..lolz.

Those kind of several-partners ladies you guys sleep with do not get pregnant easily. Oya talk another one.

Mynd_44: It is amusing seeing people get worked up over what is actually a joke between 3 bored dudes

Fear don catch you abi? So na joke now? Chicken!

Ty Lannister: Lmao. Which player is a maga abeg? Player wey go handle you you go sell ya papa house give am money!

So why una dey complain say women dey thief una money? I thought you guys complain about being duped materially emotionally. You never jam girl wey go chop you plus your yeye bait and hook, chop your fishing boots join sef

At least, women are smart enough to affect you guys so much that you all keep opening threads and selling manuals on how to deal and 'deal' with them.

Ty Lannister: Three words: Crazy. Stupid. Love.

You should see the movie by that title. How much does it cost to buy a woman a drink? How much work does he have to do when she's trying to impress him so he can take her number or take her home? Sex? Are you kidding? In this day and age, you seriously think players are out to pleasure women. That's so funny. A player wants his fun. He makes the lady work to entertain him, entertain him and entertain him some more.

The woman drank (no matter how cheap)- she enjoyed.

She doesn't need much work to impress a guy...That's why you have eyelids and well-shaped lips- that's free. Costs her nothing.

While entertaining, she is having her fun...enjoying herself and appreciating her body...exercising her waist and hips by whining them in smooth rhythm

Watching the guy being entertained is in itself, entertaining. She glories in it and enjoys some more.

Ty Lannister: Story! He has screwed you. He can brag about it. End of.

Story! She has screwed him. She can brag about it

iropelebe: I'm not blaming you ,just trying to make you see who is dumber here. In the actual sense,some women would play the dumb card,they know you want to use them to boost their ego yet they play along and get what they want, Money,gifts,attention and so on. What do they offer in the end,sex. Who enjoys the sex most? Women. After playing dumb to guys,she will still come back to get married to a dumber guy who would be her shield for life.

Gbam!

The woman is at the receiving end. Na the maga dey give generously...both in bed and out of bed. Who cares about the bait and the hook? So long as someone is getting benefits...

Fish ko, rat ni. Both parties either have something to lose or gain.

Only the intelligent understands the principle.

Oh my bad! I just checked. Seun didn't allow it. He moved the insensitive thread to FrontPage himself...so the world could see the head of a man that died painfully. What a shame!

RIP to the dead. May God comfort his family.

Gosh! I can't believe what I'm seeing. What kind of insensitive thread is this? Seun Osewa, I'm surprised you allowed this? You guys have no iota of sympathy. Nigerians have lost it totally.

This is someone's son, brother or father lying cold on that floor. How dare you put his pictures up on a forum without even having the decency to blur the pictures?

This is clearly a case undergoing "investigation" as to the cause of death...too bad we have it all thrown at our faces.

Rubbish!

It's a bridal shower cake, duuuh! She is OFFICIALLY breaking the hymen. It could have been broken UNOFFICIALLY but now, it's official.

Gerrit?

The first time i saw this list, i knew it was total crap.

Glo? PHCN? AIT? Tell me something.


Biko, where is Diamond bank?

ikp4succes: Reminds me of Madea

I tell you. I can imagine Madea saying all that.

Ty Lannister: My position is simply that I am not responsible to teach a grown woman what happiness is and how it can be had contnuously. So I will term you a golddigger if you hang with me for money or you leave me for more money. But if I think you're worth it I could go the extra mile to show you what happiness really is and how you can have it continuously.

Basically, that means that I hold that a woman is a gold-digger if it is money that determines her relationships. But I also hold that men are responsible if they chase women with money. If they chase women with money, at least, they should cut that off when they've got them and teach them something better if they'll learn it. But that might be hard because emotional involvement could make it difficult to risk losing a woman whom you can keep by giving her some money (which you have anyway). If you tried to teach her and she doesn't wanna learn, she could up and leave chasing after new money. And that can hurt like a bitchh.

Word!!! I totally agree with the bolded.


However, i think it's wrong to attract a woman with money. Personally, i think it's rude, childish, dumb and unnecessary.

Men chase women with money too o

Mynd_44: a quote won't hurt will it?

Scrolling up to read won't hurt, will it?

@TY Lannister, I supported the OP as regards the bolded in the sense that people are different and perhaps some people find happiness in money. I can't speak for them. I can only speak for myself.

Nice points you have up there.

Sometimes sef money can be a curse!

uj_sizzle: Tyrion you are truly a wise man.
Happiness is the feeling of contentment, and money can buy that. Now whether that feeling can be sustained by money in the longrun is another matter altogether. But can money and all it gets make some people happy even momentarily? Yes it can.

Definitely not mine.

uj_sizzle: The human mind has the ability to see what it wants to see, and not what is truly there

The thing tire me

You really need to clarify the issues raised. Me I don tire o.

Ty Lannister: Real happiness is a strange concept. As far as the op's meaning goes, happiness is simply a feeling that people have because they have something, a pleasant feeling. Call it contentment, call it relaxation, call it gladness ( Isn't that a synonym for happiness? ), call it whatever. It's the same feeling and the op believes that Nigerian women think that money can give it to them.

I don't know anyone who knows what 'real happiness' is. Can you define it?

I can only define my own happiness (perfectly). Serial killers and vampires derive joy in seeing/drinking blood or inflicting pains. So the OP got it right to an extent.

To each his own.

davida222: Ok Carater u got my attention, lets get a couple of thins straight we dnt do fine, and we dont accept thins the way dat they are, and we dont stop talkin, Are u not ashamed, on how other guys over the world think of Nigeerian Ladies? Am here to help out. Am not trying to take the sportlight away frm u on nairaland, i want u on this thread. But u can either get on board or you can get da fuukk outtt.

English please. My eyes hurt

Ty Lannister: @bold: really weird thing to say. You're happy because you found happiness? In something immeasurable and immaterial? That's esoteric shyt, not meant for mortals to understand

You know, emotions or feelings might have different names but they feel alike. The thing you call excitement and ego boost is also called happiness by mere mortals

True that.

People are different. Let the mere mortals enjoy their happiness. A toast to that

Ty Lannister: But there are also people that have money and are happy and who appear to be happier the more they have. Maybe they just knew what shape and color happiness takes and where to buy it and the others didn't know? *shrugs

Lol. It's not the money that makes them happy. Yes, they are either contented, relaxed, excited or glad they can afford basic and non-basic things. But real happiness goes beyond that. Forget what they display on the surface.

Lol @ the bolded. Abi o. Maybe the colour is blue or orange

Material things will not make you happy. They can only get you excited and boost your ego. Just the way i feel about my new shoes. But am i happy because of the shoes? No. I'm happy because i found happiness in something immeasurable and immaterial.

Mynd_44: She did not.

Oh no. I seriously disagree with that point. There are hundreds of people who have money but are far from being happy. Maybe i skipped that part and got carried away with the good points. Truth remains that if you solely depend on money for happiness, you are close to self-destruction.

She didn't say money brings happiness, did she?

Lol @ Mynd. I'll wait for her

Mynd_44: The OP and her supporters just shot all the women on NL in the foot with this thread.

I think you didn't understand her point 9or maybe i didn't). Anyway, let her come first and clear issues before i descend heavily on her

Mynd_44: I did not start "improper generalizations" ma'am, the OP did when she decided to lump men, women, together with hungry skanks who call themselves girls ad children who call himself boys. "They" are the women who have decided to date men based on his pocket because they will be happier. This is the issue at hand according to the OP

Depending on a friend is completely different from what we are talking of here. We are talking of a woman saying she will not date a man except he is of a certain financial status.

That is not depending, that is purposely finding the richest guy from the lot and sinking their teeth into it like a vampire.

Uhoooohhh!

Now when we talk of "Dependability" (wow that's a real word? Cool) it is related with you having a guy who might not even be better off but you know he is there to pick you up when you need help or even put you on an allowance.

Exactly my point! We are on the same page then

Jbluv55: I concur. No two humans are equal. There has to always be a quality of one human that makes them attractive (including cash).

But somethings last longer than others ........ so you may make yourself as butiful as a peacock just so you cud chase after some man's money. If/when the beauty fades, he may chase after another

Its still a two way thing thoh

WORD!!!

Mynd_44: Vulnerable.....that's a good one. Have you ever been in a situation where you are broke and you find another person's money? Now you are broke and understandably, you are tempted but taking it will be wrong right no matter how vulnerable you are right?

So are you telling me that it is every poor girl out there that have this mentality of collecting and being a skank? Is it every woman whose parents put pressure to marry a rich man bow to pressure? What's wrong with the rest?

They are weak and greed have taken the better of their lives which is what? Stupîdity and lack of self pride. They are a disgrace to the woman folk and a disgrace to humanity.

It is what it is

I'm talking in terms of dependability. Not for greed, emotional robbery or whatever. Depending on someone doesn't mean you are greedy. I think you need to let us know the women you are talking about here...because you are coming down too hard and i'm beginning to see improper generalizations. Who are the "they" here?

Mynd_44: Women are their own enemies and they keep falling victim to men who don't care about them but take advantage of their stupîdity

Oh please! What are you saying? So if one is dying, the other must keep flogging? I've heard some really different cases and I no longer generalize or jump into hasty conclusions.

Besides, it's not always stupidity. Vulnerability is another strong factor. So take it easy.

Intent matters sha. Some girls are not empowered enough...and our men are quick to take advantage of that.

It's a two-way thing.