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FamilyRe: Advise Him: He Got This Mail From His Wife by Carius(m): 12:02am On Oct 08, 2012
pro01: Lol. She for kuku marry Prophet T.B Joshua or whoever the Bleep else is a clairvoyant that can read her fickle mind. And by the way, LOL to "be swift in attending to those needs". What can I say? Smh for this self-appointed Queen without a tiara.

Anyways, @ Topic
I read the the post dispassionately. . .and unfortunately, the one thing I am sure of it that that woman is having a passionate affair currently. . .and it's clear she's enjoying it, and that's why she comes home to you feeling discontented with her reality (i.e. you). Only a woman whose heart/mind is in another man's loins can write such a noxious, conceited, impudent letter to her husband. And to be very honest, do NOT underestimate the role money (or the lack thereof) is playing here: If you read between the lines of her poisonous letter, you would see abundant evidence of this.

In any case, it is your decision to make; your cross to carry (or cast aside). The choice is entirely yours.
+1000 likes.
FamilyRe: Advise Him: He Got This Mail From His Wife by Carius(m): 11:52pm On Oct 07, 2012
Why is everyone taking d side of d erring wife?why should d OP be d one to roll on his back and beg d wife to love him?women are capricious,even when they're wrong,they would still want d man to take d blame.a wise woman builds her home with her mouth.i cringed when i read d part were she exchanged words wit u.this means she has started questioning ur authority as d head of d home.don't grovel for her.it would make things worse.i noticed she never mentioned her own faults or occassional failings in her email,meaning she doesn't want to resolve issues.women file for divorce 70% of d time.hence,if she wants to pull down her home,dia's very little u can do.
FamilyRe: Advise Him: He Got This Mail From His Wife by Carius(m): 11:30pm On Oct 07, 2012
If dis were to be a boyfrnd galfrnd rship,d op would av parted ways wit d wife a long time ago.dia is too much resentment,just too much blood-letting.when u use uncouth words and pour expletives on each other,then,THE END is near.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Retains Ihejirika As Army Chief In Military Shake Up by Carius(m): 6:19pm On Oct 04, 2012
Konmight: Nope Bro.....Ola Sa'ad Ibrahim was Course 25 while Onyabor Azubuike Ihejirika was Course 17 at DNA. Ihejirika seniors Ibrahim but it happens like that sometimes(1999 to 2003, VLS Malu and Ogohi). Everyone here at DHQ is surprised that C in C retains COAS cos it has never happened before, but it's The President's call......I wish them all best of luck. I pray that God takes control in Northern Nigeria...Long Live Armed Forces, Long Live Federal Republic of Nigeria.
u're wrong.former CDS petinrin was a member regular course 16,ibrahim is a course 17 officer while ihejirika is a course 18 officer.umar of d nigerian airforce is course 20.
Christianity EtcRe: Nairaland Christian Singles Thread (no Holds Barred) by Carius(m): 8:49am On Oct 02, 2012
A smart businessman would always do his "due diligence".u would neva buy a product without checking it out.All truths are parallel,blind faith would not save u,cos ur faith shoudn't be blind in d first place.better a failed relationship than a failed marriage.just take a look at d divorce statistics.love alone isn't enough.lets not deceive ourselves.its not d big things that are responsible for faile marriages,its d little things.
Christianity EtcRe: Nairaland Christian Singles Thread (no Holds Barred) by Carius(m): 8:30am On Oct 02, 2012
Its very difficult for couples to admit to themselves or to any other person that they are not s3xually compatible.s3x is not synonymous wit sin.a lot of pple enta marriages wit pre-conceivd notions about intimacy such dat it would be easier to teach a pig how to sing than for them to change.i hate unpleasant surprises.it was here that i read d story of a lady who discovered dat d husband has a very tiny joystick that could not satisfy her.which mouth would she use to tell her pastor or her people that she's not fulfilled s3xually in her marriage?pls,don't let your marriage be lyk dis.d shame alone would kill u.
Christianity EtcRe: Nairaland Christian Singles Thread (no Holds Barred) by Carius(m): 8:04am On Oct 02, 2012
My people,lets tell ourselves d truth.s3x plays an integral part in marital bliss."doing it b4 marriage helps u answer certain questions.what if u discover that she would neva giv u a head(bj);or dat he would neva go down on u?u found out that he/she would neva experiment with any other style apart 4rm missionary?that he/she wants to do it only once a week while u would luv it everyday?..dis discoveries is akin to finding out dat u boarded d same bus wit a suicide bomber;u would agree wit me dat its safer to find out b4 entering d vehicle than after u've entered.change is uncertain cos some pple ar obstinate and so fixed in dia ways,infact,it would be easier to fetch water 4rm a rock than to change such pple.
Christianity EtcRe: Your Thoughts On Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Church by Carius(m): 2:44pm On Sep 23, 2012
1 cor 12:14"for the body is not one member,but many." vs17-18"if the whole body were an eye,where were the hearing?if the whole were hearing,where were the smelling?But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body,as it hath pleased him."
CareerRe: 21 Ways Rich People Think Differently From Ordinary People by Carius(m): 6:10am On Sep 06, 2012
Okija_juju: WHAT!!!! Did you read the threads title?!

WAYS RICH PEOPLE THINK DIFFERENTLY FROM THE POOR.

When I was poor, I never could quite understand why I had to hold my fork in my left hand (as I obviously wasnt left handed and my knife in my right) and the case wasnt reverse for lefty's.. I never understood the difference between a salad fork, a dinner fork, a fish fork, a soup spoon etc.. Why not just use the same darn spoon for all.? The rich call it table manners, the poor call it unneccessary gra gra.

Now I am in a restaurant and see this guy eating GARRI with Ogbono soup with his bare hands. that shiit was just ghetto!! Like nigga get a GARRI spoon or GARRI fork for christ sakes!! Thats how the rich differ from the poor eating habit wise.
No matter how rich i am or will ever be,one thing is certain,irrespective of d environs,be it d worlds best hotel or mama nkechi's restaurant;d holy matrimony between my hand and my cherished fufu,garri,tuwo,akpu,amala or pounded yam can never be severed!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Reading (4 - 2) On 22nd August 2012 by Carius(m): 9:55pm On Aug 22, 2012
Why is Essien sitting permanently on d bench?i prefer his style of play to mikel's or orscar.he's d only player who positions himself for setpiece rebounds..
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC/SSC 2012 by Carius(m): 12:55pm On Aug 12, 2012
adabsy :
SSC are to report on 15th of August 2012 @ NDA old site. While DSSC are to report on 9th of sept @ NASME barracks Makurdi .
congrats to u,chiborado,smuhammad and the others who made it.wish u guys all da best.i pray God helps me when i apply next year.
EducationRe: BUK Students Threaten To Shut-Down Kano Over Bursary by Carius(m): 8:40am On Aug 12, 2012
Nigerians and their twisted sense of priority.did this students ever bother to raise placards when their lecturers and fellow students were hacked down in cold blood for no just cause?so,the 'peanuts'they are clamouring for is of more value to them than human life..
RomanceRe: HOW TO AVOID "I WILL THINK ABOUT IT" RESPONSE? by Carius(m): 4:11pm On Aug 11, 2012
*Shollypopz:
Yeah, i would tell a guy i like I'll think about it!! why not??!!

Besides, there are times u are not ready to be in a relationship and this guy seems to present a good case; of course you'll hv to think about it #just saying

"I'll think about it" @times for me is because i just want to take time to know you, make sure I'm not rushing into things, gives me an opportunity to study you and examine myself. In order to make sure i'm entering the relationship for the right reasons. Especially, if u really like d guy, u gotta mk sure ur brain is about to go on this new journey wiv u
if u hav to do all d above then u didn't really dig the guy.he's prolly wasting his time wit u.
PoliticsRe: If GEJ Improves Electricity, Will You Vote For Him In 2015? by Carius(m): 4:53am On Aug 09, 2012
Na waoh!una no dey sleep?
PoliticsRe: KOGI UNDER SIEGE: Four Killed In Fresh Attack On Mosque by Carius(m): 10:29am On Aug 08, 2012
6packs: @all work in okene,was even stranded at office because there were series of shooting going on in town...the two soldiers killed were not guarding any mosque o.
they were stationed at the local government secretariat(those travelling to d eastern part will know dis building very close to the market) when the gunmen opened fire on them.the whole place was filled up wit fumes and d environment deserted.so no body was guarding any mosque o.right now a dusk till dawn curfew is on as a speak wit mopol on patrol
usual 9ja style.medicine after death..
PoliticsRe: Beggars Storm Lagos Assembly Over Removal From Roads by Carius(m): 3:46pm On Aug 07, 2012
Baba Alaji: You see how beggers demanding thier right. But think with your normal sense, those politicains wasting our money like trash and if you and I can make a peaceful protest demanding our right is far better than commenting nonsense in this site. I mean you that you are not a begger can you tell me the deffrnc between u n d beggers in our great Nation? So de r seekin on dia y can u seek urs. Each year we budget on any infrastroktur bt stil wost dan b4. Dia's meni angle I nid 2 toch bt we'r stil stupid in ds 9ja. So cheq ur Akamu brain den think weller my felow 9ja.
waoh!the good lawd knows i couldn't make head or tail from what u posted up there.
PoliticsRe: Beggars Storm Lagos Assembly Over Removal From Roads by Carius(m): 3:10pm On Aug 07, 2012
berem: and is it a crime to assist? Na ur money fashola go use give them?
oh please!assisting ko,helping ni.u can never help someone up a ladder when the person doesn't want to climb it.
RomanceRe: I Am In Hell Please Help Me My Brothers And Sisters In Nairaland by Carius(m): 10:20pm On Jul 27, 2012
Girls and their feelings!must it always be all about u?hav u ever cared for once to know how ur hubby feels?i would bet my allowee money that this (unfortunate)guy is not enjoying his marriage and most definitely not enjoying the sex(dis one is not lovemaking).the OP is the kinda gurl that just relaxes like a log of wood and expects her man to do everything.this kinda experience scares the living daylights outta mua whenever i think of marriage.for once girlfrnd take charge in the bedroom and stop dodging like a scared rabbit.He is prolly regretting why he married you;so,whatever you're planning to do,do it fast...SMH
RomanceRe: I Am In Hell Please Help Me My Brothers And Sisters In Nairaland by Carius(m): 10:09pm On Jul 27, 2012
Girls and their feelings!most it always be all about u?hav u ever cared for once to know how ur hubby feels?i would bet my allowee money that this (unfortunate)guy is not enjoying his marriage and most definitely not enjoying the sex(dis one is not lovemaking).the OP is the kinda gurl that just relaxes like a log of wood and expects her man to do everything.these kinda experience scares the living daylights outta mua whenever i think of marriage.for once girlfrnd take charge in the bedroom and stop dodging like a scared rabbit.He is prolly regretting why he married you;so,whatever you're planning to do,do it fast...SMH
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC/SSC 2012 by Carius(m): 3:29pm On Jul 25, 2012
dolph0205: . @carius, am from ekiti, we left after facing The board for The oral interview. Thanks man.
so what is left nw is d final shortlisting?is course of study relevant in SSC?
RomanceRe: Advantages Of Not Having A Girlfriend by Carius(m): 2:53pm On Jul 24, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]^And since when did sex become the reason for having a girlfriend?

Does that also mean that every girl you sleep with is your girlfriend?

What do you say about guys that have no girlfriend, but have "friends with benefits"?

Think beyond the box.
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I gbadun your reasoning.no too much hassle,just mutual jollification...
PoliticsRe: Motion To Impeach Jonathan Is For National Interest – Reps by Carius(m): 2:39pm On Jul 24, 2012
Mtsheeew...useless REPS;they'd berra not start what they cannot finish.Thieves!
NYSCRe: 749 Corpers Redeployed From Jigawa by Carius(m): 11:23am On Jul 24, 2012
MrNigeria.:
aba! ! that amount is too much na. ..I served in jigawa state this year and the place was very very peaceful. ..
don't really understand why they were that much that got redeployed, infact that is a national record, .lol
Yeah!they're always peacefully until that very day when they take u unawares,and may the gud lawd help u when they find out that you're an infidel...Don't be deceived.The leopard never changes its spots..na today,peaceful indeed!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC/SSC 2012 by Carius(m): 9:22am On Jul 22, 2012
@dolph...hw is it going?which state ar u frm?wish u da best man.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC/SSC 2012 by Carius(m): 9:18am On Jul 22, 2012
emrino: I wish u all d best my frnd. Firstly u'v got to be within the age bracket (very important), den do ur self a fav n mk jogging a daily routine alrdy let it b a part of u. It'll b gud to knw ur BP n blood sugar level ryt now n maintain or balance dem. Be HIV free, pile free, n a GMAT pro. Also study bit mor about d corps u intend to join n u'll b jst fyn. Uh...one mor tn smhw try n get to hv a frnd, senator, honorable, General e.t.c
thanks emrino!i hav started preparing for it.whats the latest for u guys?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC/SSC 2012 by Carius(m): 9:12am On Jul 22, 2012
dolph0205: . The usually pick 4 or 5 per state.
hmmmm!does this figure apply to all the states?or is it a function of individuals performance during d screening?have the done the final shortlisting?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Army DSSC/SSC 2012 by Carius(m): 9:06am On Jul 22, 2012
dolph0205: . The usually pick 4 or 5 per state.

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