Fashion › Re: Mohawk Hair Style by carmelily: 3:05pm On Dec 10, 2008 |
Now, that second pic's what i'm talking about!  cute. |
Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 3:05pm On Dec 10, 2008 |
fayahsoul: Not every female can be a goddess. many are called; few choosen. It is a gift. Most sistas will never wake up. They are just irredeemable, i know that very well. So let readers not get it twisted. I am not out to convert every nubian female but only the very few gifted but unconscious at the moment.
you are not natural if you add any type of fake hair to your natural hair and you do have issues about being real, don't fool yourself.
Stay on the topic: wigs, weaves and perms symbolize self hate.
No, you fooled yourself.
I said i know there are many natural hair styles because i have seen them but that does not translate into: "I know how they are done".
Do you overstand ms einstein?
No i don't, but i do know that there are many natural hair styles out there and also about how to care for my dreads. ya digg?
Meat does decay in the colon(not stomach, nothing decays in the stomach; it's too acidic)take over 90hrs to decay. But it does so in a closed system and it's necessary for survival purposes. You see how dependent these fake sistas are on these hair toxins? They even equate the importance of hair products to that of food. You can even see this depency in nollywood movies. Not only do almost all actresses wear fake hair but there are movies where they show female spirits wearing wigs/weaves.
The soap is unisex. I don't want you to be 'tempted' to doing something. The true are just naturally compelled to take responsibility and do the right thing.
ms thing, do u overstand? stand over what? onye nzuzu. |
Fashion › Re: 20 Things I Wished I Knew Before I Went Natural by carmelily(op): 3:04pm On Dec 10, 2008 |
Comfort86: what website is this? there are 25 statements on the list, not 20.  it's www.nappturality.com. i noticed the statements were 20+ too. |
Christianity Etc › Re: The 10 Commandments by carmelily: 3:01pm On Dec 10, 2008 |
Hello, Chris Everywhere's really boring! Any ideas?  |
Fashion › Re: Mohawk Hair Style by carmelily: 9:19am On Dec 05, 2008 |
iice: [color=#9900ff]LOL i like it, but that's a faux hawk. There is another pic the moderator posted in another thread, that one is banging!
A mohawk is when the sides are shaven bald. Faux hawks is what is what most people carry and i absolutely adore them. [/color] Oh i see. i love short faux hawks, then. I like them on girls when they are done with braids or when the hair isn't spiky. But faux hawks are ALWAYS cute on white guys. |
Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 9:16am On Dec 05, 2008 |
fayahsoul: Once you garner the courage to take that final and hardest step into naturalness you will regain your crown and become reinstated into goddesshood. sorry to disappoint you but naturalness has never been a "hard step" for me. I don't need courage to be natural because i've always been ME! Also, what makes you think i want to join the "goddesshood"? by the way, how close to the final step is abstinence from using deodorants, perfumes and body lotion?  I don't know much about hair styling; you don't?? you almost fooled us!  I don't know what all the "i need moisturizers for my killer dry hair" syndrome is all about. oh now i believe you, you really don't know ANYTHING about hair styling  I don't use any of them. They are both biological extracts therefore both are suject to decay. I don't know about you, but i don't want decaying matter on my crown. My dreads are a year old and coming out strong and black, without the aid of any item that has been heavily process and or intoxicated by whitey's industries hmmm, u harsh o. Do you eat? food could "decay" in your stomach! Anyway, sha, is your Knotty Boy bar soap for women too? And could i see pics of your locks? i may be tempted to grow locks  |
Christianity Etc › Re: The 10 Commandments by carmelily: 9:06am On Dec 05, 2008 |
ah! i been wan fear o!  |
Fashion › Re: 20 Things I Wished I Knew Before I Went Natural by carmelily(op): 8:54am On Dec 05, 2008 |
KarmaMod: why just 90%  yeah, just 90% because i do not agree with everything there. Got a problem with that?  |
Fashion › 20 Things I Wished I Knew Before I Went Natural by carmelily(op): 3:58pm On Dec 04, 2008 |
20 Things I Wished I Knew Before I Went Natural
1. That I would love my hair so much that I would protect it like a mother Lioness over her newborn cubs 2. That my boyfriend and now fiancé would love it and be protective of my hair like a Lion over his Lioness 3. That my mother would apologize for putting chemicals in my hair and say while touching my hair “I never knew it could look like this” and become completely natural cutting out her texturizer 4. That I would no longer be jealous or envious of body else’s hair. I love mine so much I can appreciate theirs for what it is HAIR. Not a symbol of beauty that I could never live up to. Not that some days I wouldn’t prowl the hair galleries and get lost in all the other textures until I would find some one with texture like mine who had grown it out 12 INCHES and I thought I can have hair like that! 5. That I would be someone that other women looked to for hair advice…I had a co-worker whose huge puff I ADORED. She has gone on to another company and now people tell me they ADORE my hair 6. That people would tell me they wanted my hair texture! Me the girl who relaxed her 4c kinky short hair incessantly (with probably explains what it was always short, besides the fact that relaxer is a acid) 7. I would feel sexy, confident and free and people would want to touch my kinky hair 8. That I would have so many hair style options 9. That I would have a 5 min morning maintaince routine (Like a white girl) 10. That my hands would stay in my hair and I would have to chant “ I will not touch my hair, I will not touch my hair” 11. That my natural hair looks like me and fits my features 12. That my fiancé loves to stick is hands in it and hold on for dear life! 13. That my hair would teach me how to care for it if I would listen to it and respect it 14. That my hair styling techniques would get better with time. I would have some rough spots (trying to wear a puff on 1 inch of natural kinky hair, having grease all down my forehead, being up late doing my twists, using too much product and noticing in a meeting that my hair had dirty product balls all through my head, I would get headband headaches for wearing mine too tight, 15. That I would devote 1/2 of my dresser to hair care products, I would spend obscene amounts of money that claim to turn kinky to curls and my kinks would win) 16. That it would take hours to two strand twist my kinky hair and that I would have toned and strong arms because of it and lots of patience 17. That I would keep an emergency relaxer under the sink in a bag in the bathroom for months (for emergencies) and never use it. 18. That I would by an electric hot comb, use it once to straighten one section and have my fiancé act like I was burning him saying almost to tears “ You are messing it up, You are messing up the fro! 19. That I regret not doing it sooner 20. That I would feel a kinship with other naturals I see, meet and know. All of my close friends went natural a year before me and I know that my hair could be longer. 21. That I would be at peace with God and know that he didn’t give me bad hair. He gave me good healthy hair (yes even short kinky off black 4c hair! Can be good hair) 22. That I would get more complements on my hair than ever 23. That men YES even black men love it and find it strangely exotic and as natural as rain 24. That my hair is completely unique and completely mine. 25. That I was fearfully and wonderfully made. From the top of my Fro to the bottom of my feet. And I’ juslovinit saw this on a site. 90% TRUE for me!!!  |
Fashion › Re: Mohawk Hair Style by carmelily: 2:16pm On Dec 04, 2008*. Modified: 1:42am On Apr 17, 2012 |
i love the mohawk. looks kind of funny on girls, sha. Like this:
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Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 2:06pm On Dec 04, 2008 |
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Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 1:20pm On Dec 04, 2008*. Modified: 1:42am On Apr 17, 2012 |
@FUTUREMD and SAVANAHA
could you please tell me what products you use to make your hair manageable?
i still need help!! please include pictures if u can? |
Christianity Etc › Re: The 10 Commandments by carmelily: 12:25pm On Dec 04, 2008 |
Chrisbenogor: Surely kunle you know that keeping slaves is not loving your neighbour as yourself or is it? @chris lol. is kunle a slavetrader?  |
Education › Re: Crazy Things You Did In High School? by carmelily: 12:03pm On Dec 04, 2008 |
*visited all the ashi's joint in uyo. *raped my boarding masters chik *busted peoples nyash many more atros. @makapella disgusting!!!!  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 10:06am On Dec 04, 2008 |
Just got back from a busy week away from NL to meet these words from ~Lady~: I am done with you. music to my ears  Prayers do work lol now i can go back and read up on all the action i've been missing  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 5:48pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
DavidDylan: no one is "forcing" anything down your throat. I'm doing exactly the same thing u've been doing to Lady for the last 5-6 pages . . . showing you and others the inconsistencies in your posts. Lol. Didn't say you were. Read again. My point is, your way isn't logical to me. Mine doesn't necessarily have to be logical to you either. That was what i told Lady when she implied her way was THE WAY. We are all "pointing out inconsistencies" here. Just saying as long as it stops there, COOL. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 5:30pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
DavidDylan: I get the point that you read the bible "selectively" . . . i.e. those parts that agree with your own concocted belief.
I don't get how that makes you read the bible "with your brains" though.
If you think Paul was a heretic then you'd also agree that so was Peter (one of those who ordained Paul), timothy, John, James, Jude and Philemon. In short you don't read the new testament beyond the gospels at all.
Luke was one of Paul's proteges . . . so you must disregard the gospel of Luke too i suppose . . . Look, you say it's my "concocted" belief, right? so it doesn't have to be rational to you, does it? Works for me just fine. You can believe whatever you want to as long as you don't try to force it down my throat, alright with me, dude. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 5:19pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
DavidDylan: this is most absurd. Did you stop reading the bible after St. John? |
Education › Re: Crazy Things You Did In High School? by carmelily: 4:44pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
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Gaming › Re: What's The Most Dangerous Game You Ever Played? by carmelily(op): 4:34pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
texazzpete: @sniperwolf The topic says 'Dangerous', not 'difficult'. So YOU are well off-topic here. hehe  tex, tex.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 4:28pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
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Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 4:26pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 3:51pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=74061.msg3141238#msg3141238 date=1227710064]I speak from the discussions on this board.
Ok, so why do you believe in Christ, if you don't believe in anything he says or does, because you do not. DOn't fool yourself to think that you do. Christ gave power to men, and you don't believe in the exercise of this power, so why follow him if you don't believe in what he has done? Also, if you won't take what the apostles say as truth and won't hae regards for them, how can you take the stories of the Gospel true? The apostles wrote them, how do you know that Christ truly did and say what they say he did and say. How can you have regards towards what Christ did or say, when you don't have regards for those who wrote down what he did or said. They could have easily made it up. [/b]Do you get what I'm saying?
I am saying if you do not hold in regard these people who penned down what Christ said, how can you truly believe that what they said about Christ is true. How can you believe that what Christ said is truly what Christ said?
[b]O wow, so dependence on the Holy Spirit too is also wrong? Hm well you truly aren't a Christian. Please abeg leave Christ out of your mouth, you are not a follower of his. You are against his teachings.
Incase you haven't realised God wants us to be completely and totally dependent on him and for us to be completely directed by him, rather than on ourselves. Now those people who do atrocious things and say it's because of the holy spirit are wrong, the holy spirit won't lead you to do wrong.[b] But I don't get the whole Paul statement in that. [/b]What did Paul do that was atrocious and that he put on the holy spirit.[/quote]Your response is just a mish-mash of false starts and misdirected talk. Especially the parts i put in bold. Maybe you should read my last post again and modify your response. You don't quite seem to be responding to my post. |
Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 3:09pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
@tpia
You no go kill me. I just imagined Obama in the Oval Office looking like these your guys up there. Abeg i no fit laugh. Una no go buy strong goat rope tie fayahsoul? O rue n'omume o! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 2:56pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
olabowale: @Carmelily:« #814 on: November 24, 2008, 09:31 AM » The buhddists, also believe that their "handsome, long haired, lean youth," is devine. Thats what the Christian thinks about Jesus. isn't it, babe? The Buhddist boy performs "miracles" that must hav convinced the "Buhddists" that he is "devine."
Are you getting my drift, now? The conclusion of devinity, according to christians, which is what the Buhddists are making, is that their respective "devined" person performed "convincing miracles!" The Buhhdist guy, by the way was reported to have gone without food or liquid for 3 years, in one stretch. And to have remained motionless for over a year. Yet he is only 18 years old. No mind them!  LOL. The description (looks) do not even match historical descriptions of Jesus. They had Kurt Cobain in mind! anyway, i thought the youngster in question has repeatedly said he isn't divine? Human beings too funny sef. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 1:20pm On Nov 26, 2008 |
Chrisbenogor: Hehehehe Me I am getting skeptical about Paul's conversion. Stop being cute lol  |
Family › Re: Caught My Husband From Cheating :/ by carmelily: 9:25am On Nov 26, 2008 |
okunoba: dear chukwuify, I have to confess to u, having more than one woman is standard amongst most Nigerian men. We grow up seeing our dad`s with multiple partners, hence we end up accepting it as the norm. It only becomes a problem when we come to the Western world and start dating white women, then we realise it`s not the norm here but by then it`s usually too late to change and very few of us ever change. My advice to u is, decide if u can take his cheating like his mom had to with the father or leave him if u don`t think u can take it. I once had a Finish girlfriend but was honest enough to tell her I couldn`t commit to her alone which she understood and we ended up being friends. Nigerians love praying to solve any problem they might have , if that was the solution, your husband would not be in finland where they never pray but in Nigeria where they do. Prayer suggestion is just a way of saying they don`t know what advice to give so leave everything to faith. The REALEST post here so far. So true. So sad. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 9:06am On Nov 26, 2008 |
[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=74061.msg3137399#msg3137399 date=1227641689]And rightly so should it be that because Paul was acting on the authority of the Holy Spirit that what he says rightfully stands. He isn't greater than Jesus, but just because Jesus didn't speak those words does not make them irrelevant. Carmelily is making the word Christian irrelevant because it wasn't spoke by Christ. In so doing she marks the Holy Spirit as irrelevant, because all that was done by the apostles and disciples and everyone, is by the Holy Spirit. If they're words are irrelevant, then so is the Holy Spirit.[/quote]You seem to be getting to understand me in your own slow way. When i read that your "lukewarm" sh*t. I laughed. I laughed because you don't even know me and you didn't have an idea about my beliefs. I've been screaming on top of my lungs, telling you that I stick to what Christ did and what He said. That's what "Christ-like" means.
This blind dependence on the "Holy Spirit" is what has thrown your Christianity into the big, black hole it's in today. I am free to act like a total slowpoke and attribute my actions to the "Holy Spirit".
You, my ~Lady~, are the one who really needs to find herself. I found true freedom when i did. If Christ didn't endorse it, it's not for me. Sorry. |
Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 2:59pm On Nov 25, 2008 |
I don't condone interacial relationship due to the fact that interspecies mixing is unnatural. @fayahsoul o di egwu. |
Fashion › Re: Wigs, Weaves And Perms Symbolize Self Hate by carmelily: 2:32pm On Nov 25, 2008 |
@ fayahsoul where did you get all this superstitious crap from? i love my afro but i do wear weaves sometimes. Not because i hate my kinky hair (in fact i love it. i hate permed hair). but i need to change my looks sometimes. Really, what's self-hate got to do with it? sheesh! what's that 9 and 6 thing? my hair doesn't look like the figure 9!  I hope you walk about the place naked? would be a shame to wear clothes and alter the "spiral" course of nature. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Roman Catholic Is Not A Church, But A Modernised Way Of Idolatry? by carmelily: 10:57am On Nov 25, 2008 |
[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=74061.msg3131364#msg3131364 date=1227550705]Chrisitianity is the name of the belief of the people who are in the Church.[/quote]enh enh? is that so? Christ did not ever use the word Christian either, but the apostles did. And the servant is greater than his master?  English language is not that hard. You may not understand it. You're no longer speaking of the Catholic Church or christianity, you are now trying to defy the english language. Well you may not know the meaning of sect but let me provide it for you. eeeh ya. tisha, tisha (apologies to Fela) Even you are a part of the sect. If you have the belief that Jesus is Lord, then you are in the sect And so are muslims too? They also believe Jesus is Lord. |
Politics › Re: Ribadu Dragged Out Of NIPSS Graduation And Arrested by carmelily: 10:32am On Nov 25, 2008 |
thetruth90: the point is there is no detribalized nigerian. Please, stick to speaking for yourself. |