brightdestiny96:


It can finish the house. Just make sure you do your bill of quantities well. Blocks can be made on site. Plus you have to use long span zinc roofing sheets, no fancy aluminum. Watch the costs, pay for labour direct, negotiate for the whole job instead of daily. That way they will be in a hurry to finish as opposed to daily pay where they will drag the job. You can be done with as little as 1.3 million. I know. We just built in the village.

I love ur idea �

[quote author=Iamgrey5 post=92884718]No it can not

You will have to budget 5 million Naira at least.

Everything from cost of cement to blocks is now expensive due to Coro.


He's not referring to a standard house ., But a quality low budget one.

I think something around 3m wilth personal supervision (strict) monitoring will do the magic.

One of the most insightful analysis ever read about Nigeria civil service ... Big up op!

Human and double mouth.

1... Let's assume the husband is a nairalander
2.. he had created a thread about the woman's discontentment and disrespect.
3.. Landers would have labelled him a SIMP and d majority advice would have been LEAVE HER LAZY, GLOTOONIC, STRANGE BLUED EYED ASS. possibly this same advice was giving to him even offline.

4 ... now story don change for her, and all everyone could rhyme is, he's bad, impatient, this, that... Some said even if she's wayward as alleged it's not worth leaving ... Hmmmmm

5... Well only God knows d best & who's at fault most. But the point are
... There was love at d beginning even with d blue eye.
... Unresolved differences gave room for poverty and family influence to see to their separation
... The wife could be discontent & disrespectful as alleged.
... The husband too is very wrong to have left even d children to no faith.

These are remarkable facts

Hello guys, trying to see if anyone here could guide me through.
Am trying to make a sponsored Facebook (business) page post. But the payment which am doing through my bank credit card is being declined.
Pls is there a way out or an alternative means to achieving this aim? Thanks pls.

This is so deep, so many dying in silence but their ways are wayed.

U understand everything scenerio perfectly well.

She's not really doing it for money,

She feel she's just catching fun.( Addictive mindset)

But business wise she's an asset.
She even said if she didn't get to marry me she will remain a single mum, build a business empire and Bleep whoever she likes when ever she feel like.

The like of iyabo ojo, Tonto & those single celebrity baby mamas are her role models.

That world took over her but her pretentious ability won't let one know early.

Now that I know, I finally made up my mind to leave.

Even if I leave she's forever open to me for sex, but I can't deal. Knowiy that am not d only one entrrint her won't even give me erection.

But I love to keep her as a distance friend (no sex)

oyetpel:
Reading your story, i really feel what you are going through.

If not that i have experienced this with a girl i won't believe you, not my gf tho.

She's still a student, and have a business in school, she has given birth, and shes still young but chubby.

This kind of ladies are driven, most times they don't need guys money.

But they just can't do without deek, i mean it.

She's in a relationship o, but she told me it's an open one, and she fvcks any guy she wants, she too like deek.

Op, keep her as a friend, that's not a marriage material.
Marry a girl that will give you peace of mind, but keep this lady as a friend cos they know how to do business.

Well, am d only one known to her friends and family as fiance, she's also know to mine too as that.

But honestly d advices here had already helped me summon more courage.

Am leaving for d best.


quote author=Raeheemwayne post=91230614]So, In summary; You're just another client, she uses to scratch her unending itches.
Oga there is no future in what you two are doing, In honesty — you're basically dating yourself. All I can say is that, The is no special traits, attributes or whatsoever about her, You're just hooked on the free sexes you get constantly.
Make haste, while the sun sets.[/quote]

tydi:
Keep banging her pvssy with no mercy and never look back nor have pity on it. When you're ready to marry look for a wife to marry. I repeat never turn a h0e to a wife.

Yeah can't marry her, but can't even bleep her again, I don't wanna die young

I never, depended on her for anything financial. I emphasis her industrious ability... Not that am a denpendant on her.
Anyway point noted & sure, I'm leaving.

Crownstar01:
There are lots of girls out there looking for love. Stay away from this woman. She'll ruin you. Also, you need to get into the habit of not depending on a woman for your daily bread.

Noted, thanks pls

Leezah:
There are interesting aspects that you can't get from a regular relationship. Some inside the bedroom, some outside the bedroom. To list off a few

1. Sex would not mean much
The flip side of this is that because sex was such an everyday occurrence - she will not be as excited about it. To her it will be kinda of like "meh".

2. Sex will be hard.
You are nowhere near experienced as her! She will claiming how bad you are compared to her previous experiences. You will be driven to perform better and teach you new techniques to better satisfy her. it will really helped you "level up" in the bedroom game.

3. Sex had Variety

4. Her sense of money will be all over the place
Again, she earned $100/week. She worked about 25 days of the month and worked random part time jobs for the rest of the time. Because she could earn money so fast, she also spent it fast. She'd buy bags on the fly and go do/burn up $600 without lifting a finger not working. The expenditure rate will baffling. So you can imagine the discrepancy with your monthly money.


5. You get educated on the sex industry
You will learned some strange facts. For example - clients at higher end prostitution brothels tend to be rich - and therefore have less STD rates and cause less violence/crime, and is generally respectful. Also a large majority of her clients were apparently all kind of people - and specifically retired doctors who still practiced part-time. They have both high income and spare time to frequent these places.
And yes, virgins do come to prostitutes to gain experience. She claims some were so nervous they couldn't even look at her in the eye the entire session.

You also get to learn why girls go into the sex industry. Primary reasons are

1. Lack of employable skills
A lot of these girls are untrained and have very little marketable skills in the "real world". For them prostitution is relatively quick and easy money. They can work at shopritefor $80/day vs $100/day handling 2~3 clients. This can get tempting for some.

2. Poor parental relationships
Some do it out of spite against their parents.

3. Mental disorders
Somewhat connected to #1. Some have mental disorders that makes them hard to work in the real world. ADHD, Bipolar, Personality Disorder, Social Anxiety, etc.

4. To pay off debt
Again, if you need to pay off a debt by a certain date, prostitution makes it far easier than a normal job.

Anyways - all this is just one aspect of the relationship. You will spent maybe 1% of the time talking about her job. The other 99% normal couple stuff - wake up, make coffee, talk about the day, watch TV, go to the mall, travel together etc. These experiences were not any different from a normal relationship.

Mrmezico:
Just stop seeing her as ur future wife....if she is dat a virteous woman u claim 2 c den y do her baby dady hv 2 let go off her. or re u her 1st, 2nd or 3rd bf nd y do u think none among her men wish 2 wife her except u. i quit if i were u.

U're very much right, thanks

Thanks for this .... U nailed it

Ferdinandu:
Boy it is not about good traits. It is about emotional investment. Once you have emotionally invested in a relationship forget it Quitting will be the most difficult thing no matter the attitude of the your partner towards the relationship. You just have to think of long term aspect of your life instead of short term. When you quit every morning you will feel like running back to her and apologising until maybe you will find a suitable replacement but definitely you will. Marry that girl, start living with her, then you will realise how horrible her lifestyle is even with with her so called one in a million good traits.

I appreciate u

Ibechris2:
Guy,the reason why u are finding her brilliance as next to non is because...u are not exposed enough to know that women are naturally more intelligence than men.

If u maintain this relationship,I bet u,u will just kill yourself without u knowing.

That lady is cursed and her sex drive is times three of a normal girl,hence a recipe for disaster.
The earlier u know this,the better for u.

Zane2point4:

Which would you rather be? Heart broken or dead?
A single concrete reason to leave this kind of relationship is for your health reasons.
She can get hiv from one of her patners and dash u. Then highest she can do is deny or beg u to forgive.
Now u have the time, why dont you run for your stuupid life.

Am doing that ASAP, thanks

Thanks bro, I promise to do that ASAP

genesistearz:

Bro av been there, I even tried all I could to make her change, but d sexual urge in a lady attached to many guys is die hard
D funny thing is dat d moment she sees a new sex partner, she will just cut u off, to her u just like d rest d only reason she’s with now u is bcus u still useful to her, just wait till u ran out of use first
So bro now u can still leave d relationship by yourself please respect urself and leave

egopersonified:
bro, she telling you that your trait is rare because you spend money on her is all part of the game.

Thanks pls ... Noted

Prophetdoctor:
In my little years on earth, i have seen similar and even worst cases. I know of a girl who couldn't stay a day without sleeping with a guy. She was never tired. Her sexual desire was beyond her control. It wasn't actually her fault. She had a spirit that aided her in the act. But it is well with her now.

This lady you have described here is not in her right senses. Something has taken over her, that's why she has no shame in what she's doing. Don't be blinded by the claims of love or the traits she is displaying. They are what the spirit has showered on her as a bait to get men to patronize her. She is a suductress. She isn't as smart as you think. There are lots of smart, intelligent, productive, decent girls/ladies out there. Disengage from her without delay! You will find your wife and your life will be better.

Thanks for ur maturity, advice well noted & taken

mikeget804:
My brother! My brother!! My brother!! If you continue like this, I guarantee u. A very high premium tears await you. No woman is too good that u can't dump her. most expecially d one that is putting ur health at risk and draining ur peace of mind. Just b a man and do d needful. Like what a poster said "in future, u will be glad u dump her"

I appreciate u

Carchoice:


You have been jazzed

No doubt.

She nor go pass Edo or Yoruba woman.

I hope you haven’t started washing her paiint yet?

Lol, I get ur point.

Coder2Client:
I hope you won't kill yourself in the long run?

She is tricking you and you are falling for it. You better wake up.

I appreciate ur advice

sirzee1660:
Hmm this life no balance brother please leave her alone if you want to live long. have you ever thought of achieving those things you want to achieved with her and die Young because of so call marriage... brother she can never stop cheating u might end up fathering someone's child with this kind girl......may God gives you wisdom to see ur digging ur gravy with ur own hands

Thanks for ur advice, I appreciate.

blockgeek69:
Bro, it will end in premium tears

Hmmmmm, May God safe me from this

Guys pls talk but maturely, this girl is everything a man could pray for. But this ...her sexcapes, is frustrating. She has men she's rejecting oooo, but having about 3 sugar daddies, 7fuckmates and still searching for more when u're also in a serious relationship is a worst thing from any responsible lady. When it come to flirting ..she appeared cursed.

But no one will see it in her .. very secretive there. Not even a friend will notice.

I wish God can look me in the eye to tell me d way forward.

I and my girlfriend have been dating for about a year now, it's a distance relationship (badagry-abeokuta), though I have my job and she's an Entrepreneur with about five start up businesses. She's a baby mama and also school. The most fascinating thing about her is that she's very very brilliant and smart. So full of ideas, humble and even cheap to maintain, not the so demanding ( though I never fail in all my manly Responsibilities). She always acknowledge it to my face and behind me that man like me is so so scare. So she's ready to marry me ASAP once am ready.

I also want to marry her and can't even wait, but my twin problem with her are:

1, she's was a coded runs girl in the past and that lifestyles is stil in her. So no matter how much/ or what i do, once she's Hot or just feel like catching fun she will just chat up any guy she likes from her contact, seduce him & bed him.
2.. because she's been hurt in the past by a cheating baby daddy and because she has married men she also cheats with and did know all the tactics in d game, she constantly post it and keep telling girls that men are born cheater and he if didn't cheat now will Cheat as soon as he's rich.

No, she never show any traces of her cheating lifestyle to any one, not even to those she cheats with. To some she pretent to be a starving deserted housewife, to others she pretent to be a lonely, hustling singly mother with no boyfriend or mind to love again. So with her humility and hard-working ( truly she is) everyone believes her and love her too. Plus she's dark and pretty.

I used to love and so trust her too, until late last year when she said for the third time, that we should quit d relationship but later apologise. So I felt something is fishy And i had to tap her phone then I got my shocker.

Funny enough she's so very jeolous though she trust me (atleast for now)

At first I told some councellors (with proof) and they advice me to leave her that she won't stop cheating.

I found it hard to leave her yet because
I still don't have anyone else and am still so obsessed with her brilliance, maturity, humility, hard-working, sense of humour, tolerance, and more of her rare charisma. Just last week we landed an online business that can fetch use about 100k monthly as partners. I believe our partnership as couple can land us greater things in future , we have excellent communication and crave for Entrepreneurship and creative .. so match in many ways ... Sex, social, religion, education, ethnic and all wer'e just so very compatible

THE WORSE NOW IS I start losing my libido to her, why ?

1.. the last time she visited while with me she was chatting one of her sugar daddy and another new (Nigerian) bf in Spain, She sent a naughty pic I snapped her to d guy and that made me lost interest quickly, could not even touch her again till she return.
2.. last Friday she chatted me she was Hot, so I agreed she should come tomorrow Tuesday, but I know she will be up to something, so I quickly went to tap her chat. I realized she sent a semi nude pics she sent to me to about 3 other people, and she's chatting one of her ex telling him she's lonely and Hot because it's cold , so that asked her to come visiting this Thursday. Then yesterday evening her phone was off and when she on it .. I saw she was chatting her Spain bf that she's drunk. .. then I knew she went out with someone yesterday. So someone yesterday, me tomorrow , ex fixed for Thursday, damn .. !!!

I called her today that I couldn't see her tomorrow again that I will be busy. Also made up my mind not to sleep with her again. But her prowess and brilliance and traits. Is rare to find , so am still scared of losing her. What do u advice pls. MATURED RESPONSE ONLY PLS.

meanwhile I once tried to caution her. I started by complaining about her phone being in flight mode and lied I also got infection. But she immediately threatened a quit. So then we settled.... But now am rather ready for the quit because I don't see her changing... She rather feel so smart and that will last until d day I will open book for am.

Simply a substandard project