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autaspakladi:
There is no need for too much argument here...the lady am dating now is a product of a broken family, initially I was having it in my mind to marry her,but now I have changed my mind,because she cannot cook,the only food she can cook is indomie,and even when she finished cooking she will want to leave the pot and plate for me to wash,except if remaind her,in addition to that,she is very poor hygienically,she doesn't removed her shoe if she wants to enter my kitchen....she is also an incurable liar,....those of you claiming there is nothing wrong with ladies from broken family should rethink...

Well I need to answer you cause I'm really baffled at ur line of judgement...so you're concluding dt this girl is like this cos she's from a broken home..I'm sure if she was a spoilt Senator's daughter spoiling u with money nd had ds same xtics u won't complain o...And are u trying to say dr are no people from 'together' homes who can't do house chores I tell u dr are a gazillion of dem so you just can't tie her not been homely to being from a broken home.


But seriously this thread has made me really know how shallow a lotta ppl think...offcos I'm not saying broken homes can't have psychological or emotional effects on kids..but wat of kids dt have used the negative situation to develop themselves nd made them even better ppl....my point is u can't just meet a lady,get attracted to her for a while nd immediately u find out she's from a broken home..u just take to ur heels,anybody u say u wanna marry u take ur time to know the person nd know if she has the values u think are good enough for raising ur future kids nd base ur decision on dt...neverquit said it all there are a gazillion 'together homes' specially in ds 21st century dt are not healthy nd the kids grow up even worse than those from broken homes so don't let broken or not broken homes be ur criteria else u might just miss ur missing rib..know ur woman's character nd let God lead you...
With this imma gerarahere cos some comments are really amazing me dt ppl in the 21st century can still think like dt. Top of the morning to Y'all.

Timbuktou:
It's a risky proposition. Most children from broken homes haven't been taught how to keep a relationship or home together and make one work; and most of them never bother to learn. E no dey hard dem to divorce at the slightest marital inconvenience or check out emotionally. They are usually biased against the estranged parent and the parent's gender due to one-sided accounts from custodial parents.

Anybody intending to marry a product of a broken home would do well to ensure due diligence in determining their marriage ideals and conflict resolution beliefs and methods.

Well....its good u said most but I still object.I've met quite a number of ppl from broken homes who are opposite of wat u just described...cos the know first hand the effects a broken home can have on a child...they're determined to make theirs work cos dy don't want dr kids to pass tru what they passed tru...nd about parents teaching them or not...a lot of ppl learn nd develop character even outside the home...bottom line is dt u need to take time to understand the values of whoever u wanna marry nd wat principles the person stands for,either from a broken home or not..i used to tel guys especially take care of the values of the woman u wanna marry cos she's gonna instill those same values in ur kids nd no matter how hard u try,u rarely can make dem go against wat dr mama tot dem....

tolutweety:
Thoughts of you this day...#I kinda miss you.

Pm me your new number

Tolutweety sha.....
Biko wen u go marry,i wan chop jollof

beau49:
Lmao@ sallah package....
Thanks dear .
Na we we nau....always remembered.

All these testimonies you ppl are hiding....diaris God o

Dcmg2:
I started out with the sole purpose of not getting "distracted" as stated in No 1,but now i don't even fancy ladies anymore or get attracted to them.It's that bad.That's what making my goals/work a priority as made me.

You probably went to the other extreme, the point is dt u shd focus on ur goals but along the line you may find a woman..but now the woman shd not make u lose focus on ur goals...just a kinda side thing...And if you find dt she fits into ur plan then all work for good....the point is just not to get carried away trying to win a woman while reducing the attention u shd give your goals or career...Y'all should listen to Rev Sam Oye's Love nd Career...he nailed the point right dr

kaboninc:
What else does a woman want if not the money and a means to it

Really?? I wanna assume that was a joke...whatever happened to girls dt have dr own money nd dt in abundance...the likes of Linda Ikeji nd Chimamanda or Chidinma,or even those ones we don't know

lezz:
Sorry, you weren't playing the help meet then; You were simply the man in the relationship.

And darn right, many guys - the decent ones too - fill find you less intriguing when you do that.

You modern women know so little about men.

[b][/b]
Not all of us my bro

safarigirl:
nobody is laughing at poor people. The issue here is that most are with a twisted mentality that anyone who isn't poor is rich and vice versa. There are many who are in-between. I don't know why this is an issue because I re-iterate that most guys are interested in gold-diggers. The shinier the better for them, so we who don't look shiny; no fake lashes, no drawn brows, no fake hair and all that never get guys who are interested. So, such discussions are personal for me. You guys say one thing online and another in reality

120 bottles of vodka for this babe. I love the bolded!!!

Krystalxxx:
Well there was this one day that I was as hungry as anything in this world. For some reason the atm wasn't working and u don't eat food from anyone else so I was just helpless and hungrier than I've ever been before. It was at this point that I , so pushed to the wall, asked him for once to please buy me food. He bought the food that day, but he also embarrassed me seriously in public at that eatery. To the extent that some girls came over and asked me questions. So That was the first and last day I switched our roles to me collecting and him giving. This happened in this current year of us being together. So I don't think I'm badmouthing if I say he is rather stingy.

Well as for encouraging him to succeed I have done that. Obviously, because as you can see, he has now graduated before me. I made sure I funded anytime he was broke or anything was needed and I had it.

Babe,i must say u have patience sha...I just pray for you that he's worth it in the end

ronald4lif:
You sound like success and wealth is exclusive to guys.

Okay so he succeeded in overcoming hardship and made something out of his life and now rich, I guess?

[b]During the period you both were dating and he was hustling to enrich and better his life what were you doing? [/b]Relax, rely and hope on him to become rich while doing nothing to improve your own life? Only to moan about later how broke guys abandon their 'loyal' girlfriends once they succeed.

Dating a broke guy doesn't mean you're doing him a favor or he's obliged to stick to you when rich. Relationship is not a business venture where you invest and hope to yield the gains of your investment. It's a game of hearts, not money or comfortability.[b] If your broke boyfriend is hustling to better and improve his life, you do same too. He's working to better his life, not your life. [/b]He doesn't owe you allegiance.

Dude,i can't get the bolded...you're really going out of scope...I didn't see where the lady said anything like she being broke wen d guy became rich or anything like dt...she only said the guy dumped her for reasons wic I don't think are financial...some guys are just like dt...wen dy arrive they'll start seeing flimsy excuses why dt old gf is no longer in their class and dy need to step up or dy just start giving the girl funny attitude as opposed their humble sef wen dy were broke.....
anyway 21st century women....we are wise...you may call us gold diggers but we don't invest our time nd resources on guys who can't take care of us either now or in the future.....men of nowadays even seem to do more of the gold digging
Men shd have something to do/love before looking for someone to love..dts why God gave Adam sth to do before creating Eve...the OP has explained it all...

Defaramade:
The difference between them is the RAM, Infinix hot note has 1gig RAM while hot note Pro has 2gig RAM.

Ok tanx a lot

So it's gonna be a long weekend....who wee take me out?

cc150615:
So please can anyone tell me the difference between Infinix hot note nd Infinix hot note pro, I really can't spot any differences

Please can someone answer this question.

So please can anyone tell me the difference between Infinix hot note nd Infinix hot note pro, I really can't spot any differences

GlorifiedTunde:
Wow!

Op you just described her.

She's awesome

But I must add the fact that egotistical and immature guys usually have problems handling such girls - Intimidation

You're so on point...One sack of guguru for you!

E383:
He he, cc150615. .

Why are u shouting my name on courtyard

SegunMike:
Hi dear, I have been fine thanks, and I trust you have been too.....
I just lost a very close friend, and I am kinda not enjoying my Vacation as expected.......but in all, it's well.

Eeyah sorry abt the loss, try enjoy the rest of ur vacation

SegunMike...how u been?

Bodunde88

E383:
If I didn't want you to I'd never have mentioned David. So, you lot should stop feeling like a super heroes.

We are a Super heroes

Happy birthday Nancy, cheers to a terrific year!

How una dey!

Jamean:
They will change handle and go to another section as if they are Abiku

How are you E383

Right on point with the abiku ish,no mind dem we still catch dem in the long run

Jamean:
Hahaha...

E be like say we be sisters. My relationship at the university was exactly same way. He was 8years older and wanted reverence like a high priest. Although I didn't know about his real age before we started to date, he lied about it until I stumbled on his WASSCE certificate.

He was always quick to give me boring sermons whenever we had a misunderstanding and turned round the tables just because he felt he was too old to be wrong about certain things.


In the same vain, he had so many vices and overlooked them because of his age ego. Anyway he messed up and I dumped his sorry ass.

Lmao @ reverence like a high priest

adeoti01:
smiles,that's y I put 202 or 207.....
be not too forgetful....
how's everything?

I'm okay,guess you're bouncing too

adeoti01:
we both learnt GNS 101, 102&104, 202/207.....remember

Lols,i didn't do 202,nd btw dt one no follow...cos I don forget most of those tins

adeoti01:
is that a phrase, clause or statement?

Sorry I didn't study linguistics

This ppl here sha....

ANIMALS evrywhere

truefact:
Fetish cowards. ..very diabolical set of people. ..ritualistics Scratchfaceds with coneheads. ...Always carrying outdated talking drums here and there...Even with their jujustic rituals, they are not any better than others, rather they even worse if I may say...is brown roofs development? Ritual-killers everywhere

Yorubas it is not by juju...Even with your juju and rituals, you are still cowards

Another yabaleft escapee

adeoti01:
wanna hear your voice

Ok,hope say u don hear am now?

adeoti01:
cc150615

adeoti01:
ma'am

Why u dey shout my name for courtyard?

Trendyprince:
since u rejected codename na..how is work?

Lols,work's fine