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IJOBA2:
THAT NIGERIAN IS IWUCHUKWU AMARA TOCHI

Wrong. That one was killed in Singapore not Malaysia

I'm interested in buying 20k worth of Hydro

somehow:
The same igbos that flaunt money publicly and everywhere?

Honestly, I don't know where this myth comes from, that Igbo people are stingy & miserly. Igbos are one of the most flamboyant set of people.
Just because an Igbo man is extremly business oriented and likes to maximize his profit to the nearest kobo, people misinterpret it to mean he's stingy or miserly.

nicholartsdesign:
judging by his looks he will have to spend a fortune to get girls

Wrong!! Once you're a celebrity, you get girls for free. It's that simple

Bigolly:
this is very bad of him condesidering the kind of money he makes,there is no any reason to use that kind of car when u can at least buy yourself a better car,what is he doing with his money then[b],you have to enjoy your money[/b] when u can,another person that didnt work the money with him will spend the money anyhow if anything happens.

So buying a supercar is the only way a man can enjoy his money?

UchihaItachi:

[color=#009688]So? He's not into supercars, doesn't mean he doesn't spend his money on other things. I'd rather own an Acer Predator 21 X and an Asus ROG G701V than any car, big deal? [/color]

Some people here think buying an expensive car or popping champagne every night is the only way to enjoy their money.

obonujoker:
Man utd is a big club that has produced legends... If we are talking of clubs bigger than Man utd, we'll call Madrid and Barca....

Exactly, as big as Man Utd is, Madrid & Barca are still bigger, so a top player wouldn't move from those 2 clubs to United. It's always the other way around. If Ronaldo was still at Man U, he won't be able to compete with Messi's Barca and win the trophies he has won.
So why do people want Messi to leave Barca & downgrade to another team? It makes no sense for him to leave
Ronaldo has been in Madrid for 9 years now, why do you think he hasn't left the club despite the fact that there are other clubs that can double his Madrid salary?

Hotfreeze:
What a cute animal.

Someone that can kill a bunny and roast it is worse than Judas Iscariot.

Honestly how someone can think of killing such an animal is beyond me

Xisnin:
Ronaldo has played for other clubs, how about your messiah?

Because he started from those clubs. If he started his career in Madrid like Messi did at Barca, you think he would leave the mighty Real Madrid end up playing for Man Utd & Sporting? Look past sentiments for once

Ronaldo can never say a thing like that. Stop spreading fake news on Nairaland. This is becoming pathetic. To even think that this could reach front page.

kingkakaone:
It is in them.
I have a very good friend presently, she's well to do with a very fat monthly salary of seven digits, she hardly allow men lower than her to be her friend because she feels they are lazy.

I made her understood we have to keep people of all levels because we may need them one day. I asked, would u have been friends with me if I'm in the shoes of that guy?

She's not married o, but yet she acts that way.

Imagine if that one get married and her husband is not a rich as her?

That's why the richer a woman becomes, the harder it is for her to get married because she'll keep on eliminating lots of suitors who aren't as successful as herself. Linda Ikeji, Rita Domnic, Genevive are perfect examples.
With men, its the exact opposite. The richer a man becomes, the easier it is for him to get a wife
Women aren't conditioned to be more successful than men, so they can't handle it when it comes.

Daboomb:
Men (most), are DUMB Cockrels!

Did God actually create Women to be smarter than Men, while he created men to be Stronger/Resilient than Women?

If you know what some men have put women through, you won't be saying this. How do you think the term "Yoruba Demon" came about?
Some people are simply dumb and they become zombies once they fall in love, both male & female

Pentools:
You are so right. Asides the drug n other careless behaviors of his, because jay-z has all that still Beyoncé stuck by him and I keeping using Beyoncé as case study here cus tiwa idolizes her, I took a brief look up on t-bills, dude is way too emotional, and emotions n success don't really blend especially when you can't control urs n that was what blew tiwa so so away.

Jay-Z wasn't stealing money from Beyonce to waste on drugs & party. Jay-Z cheated but he didn't impregnate another woman outside. Most women have already accepted that their husbands or bf will definitely cheat on them, but to go as far as getting another babe pregnant? That's too much to take for most women.
Like you said, Tbilz lost total control of himself and no woman will stick around such a man

TonyeBarcanista:
How was he rewarded when she fired him as her manager? What was the handsome reward there?

The dolt's mistake was putting too much hope on Tiwa and making her his focus [b]instead of seeking to produce others. [/b]He depended on Tiwa success because he felt that as her manager and husband he'll hit big with her hitting big. He never knew that women don't reason that way. They will always tag such men "Lazy", " wasteful" and "unambitious" like you just did.

Tbilz was her manager long before they started dating. He did the job he was paid to do, he wasn't managing her for free. When they started dating, he got lazy & complacent and was stealing Tiwa's money to fund his drug habit and extravagant lifestyle. Not to mention that he got another woman pregnant during that time.
He would collect money for shows on Tiwa's behalf and spend the money without even informing her.
Tbilz is a manager not a producer, managing Tiwa's career did not stop him from moving his own career forward or managing other artists.
If he was a producer and he was giving all his beats to Tiwa, then it's a different thing.
I didn't even mention all the debts he incurred in Tiwa's name or the emotional abuse she kept suffering from him and how he kept on reminding her that she was nothing before she met him

Pentools:
Alot of lesson to learn from Jay-z n Beyonce...
Dude was so committed to himself, focused on his art while enjoying his life to the fullest hence Queen b was the one running after him, crying fowl about his infidelity.
T-bills became so comfortable all of a sudden with the knowledge of "she's loyal n I'm the manager that made her" forgetting comfortability is best friends with fall-off.
Who doesn't want to identify with success.

Once u have a thing with someone that's famous n a public figure in entertainment sphere never get too comfortable or play cool as per lover boy, rihanna n Chris brown is another case study to learn a thing or two.

Even some of your male friends will leave you behind the moment they become more successful than you, (Including the ones you've helped before) how much more a woman?
Tbilz only has himself to blame honestly.
Add his drug, infidelity & spending habit, there's was no way any woman will cope with all that, even if you're the one that raised her up initially.

TonyeBarcanista:
So how does your case fit into the subject?

Did you support the babe at YOUR expense? Did you sacrifice your own self for her? Gifting her money or assisting her doesn't count IF it wasn't at your own expense.

So what exactly did Tbilz do for Tiwa at his own expense?
The guy was her manger, that's his profession and he was handsomely rewarded for it.
It's not like he was going to be a musician and he decided to step down for her or something.
He should have used Tiwa's success as a springboard to get better deals for himself, but he was obviously an unambitious & wasteful man

kingkakaone:
You are right again bro.

A woman wants a guy they can adore, someone successful and someone they can look up to and say "I am proud of u" not someone that no longer has hands in their day to day activities even though he was pivotal at the initial stage.

Considering the fact that most of them these says are becoming materialistic.

No offense to the humble women out there.

Honestly my brother, it's really getting out of hand.
Many girls have lost their sense of humanity because of material gains.

kingkakaone:
Gbam!
U last statement killed it bro.
I once told some peeps that if u and Ur gf are in school fees wahala but u have the money to pay for one of u and u truly love her, just pay for urself because by being above her, she will always respect u and u can keep her.

They were so angry calling me selfish but I told them that if a girl is above u, it will take extreme grace for her to be loyal anymore, she will ignore what u did and start moving on with a guy of higher level than u.
#not hating at ladies o, just my opinion.

Very true. Unlike men, women will never go below their level when picking a partner.

Reasonabledoubt:
I guess you have all decided to leave out the part where he cheated on her a lot, and was busy incurring numerous debt for her to pay?

He was a druggie that used her money to sustain his habit, and you wonder why the marriage scattered.

I guess she’s a slut because she doesn’t actually need him to survive, and the fact that she doesn’t fit into the regular scorned woman narrative is what many of you men commenting here can’t take.

If you like cheat on your women, maintain disgusting habits, and see if they won’t leave. Except of course, the hungry ones that need you for sustenance.

You can get away with cheating as far as you're rich (ask Davido).
You can't get away with being broke and depending on your woman. Everything you do or say will start to irritate her once you become dependent on her.
She dated Tbilz for a long time before marriage, you can't tell me she didn't know he was into drugs before.

AreaFada2:
OP made some salient points but he didn't consider the cultural and socio-economic milieu that provide a fertile ground for the way our women behave.

Despite all the Mills & Boon and Telemundo love stories we have consumed in recent decades, we remain Africans. Living largely in Africa ( some now in diaspora). Africa is a place with a precarious socio-economic environment. Therefore survival is the first rule. Lately appearing to be wealthy has been added.

Since time immemorial in Africa, women always wanted a man who can provide for his family even in lean times. While the woman supports him, be in in his farm, orchard or fishing, etc. The man is the MAIN provider.

The very second that role is reversed and she becomes the provider and the man her cheerleader, there's bound to be trouble in Paradise. Only very few women can be main provider without being disrespectful or showing attitude.

It is irrelevant whether you used your money to first set up her business for her, used your cabbie or janitor hard earned money to send her to nursing school in America or however you contributed to her success. If you ever remind her how you laboured to sponsor her, she'll accuse you of being jealous of her success or insecure.

In the eyes of most women, your ability to provide is what makes you a man. Otherwise you're basically "impotent".

For Tiwa, Tbillz lost respect when he began to depend on her or not providing. Not even her good income could change that. Her hubby's contribution to her career rise is irrelevant. Most women are used to things being done for them, so long they open their legs for you once, they consider their debt already repaid.

As a celeb Tiwa was always going to frequently meet economically successful men. Success makes men sexy. Nothing else.

In a way you cannot really blame women. It is the prevailing culture. In the same way women will tolerate their men having many women as long as he's rich and generous.

So much sense in one post. This is easily the best comment I've read on NL in a long time.

salford1:
Here we go again. Is it the same tbillz with 3 previous babymamas or another tbillz

I remember tbillz blaming his father and upbringing for his failed relationships and marriage. No need presenting tbillz as a saint to us.

Also i have never heard of tbillz until she started dating tiwa, but i have heard of tiwa right from when she contested for x-factor back in the UK and wrote songs/backed up for American R&B singers.

So who is actually helping who...

Tbillz has always been her manager from day 1.
How can you say he has 3 babymamas when you yourself just posted that he was married before? Abi having children from a previous marriage is now the same thing as babymama?

Wow, you're extremely talented bro

Xisnin:
No sane country employ and pay criminals.
They lock them up, I can't say the same about third world countries who worship criminals.

Nigerians glorify crime like no other, it's ridiculous

reminiscing:
Nigeria my country,instead of you to employ the smart dude.In advanced countries this dude would have been employed to help the banking sector. i have always know the Nigerian banks are porous to fraud

Only after the criminal has served some jail term. Just because you're smart doesn't mean they'll let you off the hook like that.

Righteousness89:
[s][/s]

Lol Those are Ethical hackers or what we call White Hats. Not every hacker is a criminal

thesicilian:
It takes genius to recognize a genius.

Of which this guy isn't one. He said can withdraw N1b from any Nigerian bank but he couldn't pay for a N25m car. He even claimed he learnt hacking in 2 weeks!!! What a joke.

AFONJACOW:
just negodu how this one just waste her life because of one good for nothing guy, na so dem dey select guys as if they dey bend-down select shop, e get one I dey toast those days, I do all I can just to won her affection na so she dey form for me because she get small car those day's and I no get , one annoying thing if u see the guy she dey fall for, the guy she dey carry all her goods dey dash for free he no even reach me anywhere the ground I stand he no fit stand there, just a common motor park tout, nah so the guy dey panel beat her up and down, e get one day he knock out her front tooth, I took her to the police station to make entry, after the entry the police arrested the EDIOT , this girl later lied that the guy did not physically abused her, the money I take call police just go like that with all the insult I collect from them, na that time I sabi say women get fish brain, the guy got her pregnant and abscond with all her little savings and car...

Don't waste your time on girls like that. They aren't worth it at all.

victorazyvictor:
Yep! maybe the guy must have heard...though she told us that the guy here is married sha! maybe na Calabar prik was sweeting her.

She is wealthy, selfless, born on august. we even prayed for her that she must get married this year during our madam's birthday last February which she sponsored. Till now she still on shock because she don't deserve such death, and she was the only child.

Seems like she was in her early 30s. I just pray her parents would be able to bear the loss. It's really disheartening

victorazyvictor:
She is my friend....she is planning to get married to another guy living in Dubai leaving one Calabar poor guy... Olore we fundly call her. She is industrious and pretty, she drives red Hyundai Elentra and just bought duplex here in Citec. We buried her las Saturday.

Chai. So she was double dating. That means the guy must have found out that's why he killed her.
The story makes sense now, cuz I couldn't understand how he'll just kill her because she didn't give him N1m.

AFONJACOW:
good for her, if they see good and cool headed guys like us they will snub us as if we worth absolutely nothing, I dont know why African girls prefer abusive partners

Honestly I just wonder how some girls think sef, I really wonder. They would even tell you they want a man that's kind, godfearing bla bla and yet they would turn around and date the exact opposite.
I wouldn't go as far as saying its good for her thou. Leaving a violent and obsessive person isn't as easy as you think. Some women lost their lives while trying to leave their abusive partners.

Professor101:
But wait, what did she see in that monster of a guy? Mehnnn some gals can be really weird. RIP fine woman.

Ladies please don't be deceived, if your BF is violent please report him to the nearest police station. #Mytake

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Honestly some women are really illogical. Just imagine the number of guys that must have been begging this babe to give them a chance. Some must have been pleading with her for just a single date.
Yet she choose to stay with a monster in the name of love. It's really sad

deransom:
Before he was promoted to a commissioner, have you asked what happen to the commissioner that was in that state, the commissioner in that state Kano was on the verge of telling the world what happen after the 2015 election that the result was decisive in Kano, before they killed that commissioner whole family, brother the blood of the innocent is disturbing him, when you talk of grace goodluck ebele Jonathan is a man of grace he never struggled to where he got to

Lol that was an INEC commissioner not the police commissioner but I get what you mean