₦airaland Forum

themanderon:
If you love your life and value your future and the future of your unborn children flee from that lady for it will only end in tears I repeat in tears. I have 3 brothers going through this issue with women who have what they call Spirit husbands who belong to various kingdoms. Believe me when I tell you it's not funny what they are going through.

This is one critical area men should endeavor to look into before tying the nuptial knot

During courtships, you should observe if you are sharing her with a spirit husband.

You will notice the resistance through what you are passing through and through your dreams.

If there is, please cut off that relationship, because you will be frustrated beyond your imagination

Some of the trials you will face are

Childlessness
Loss of job
strange illness
Poverty
Hatred and if you are not lucky enough
Death

Kobojunkie:
So long as she has breath, she can act on the red flags.

If she had acted on the red flags she saw,she would have gotten a clue of what is happening now .

And probably taken the right decision to call it quit

Kobojunkie:
It is never too late to bolt after discovering the red flags. The bride should best postpone wedding night and begin looking for a way out of the charade for herself; otherwise, she is likely to regret ignoring this sign in the future.

She saw the red flags before now but she ignored them.

helinues:
Continue depending on Northerners cow as there are no grazing land in the whole southern region.

Educated for nothing Southerners

Wrong. Cows are brought to Nigeria from neighbouring African countries

The north don't have cows

The Nigerian government doesn't take it as a priority to solve this important problem as a priority

Omenlon:
what is wrong with the economy, what are you contributing to the economy?. When Okonjo was there, were states not borrowing to pay salaries or are you from the moon? Is it not under your super economists the govt depleted excess crude account savings to settle fuel subsidy cabals?. Abeg, make una pack well joor.

The economic measures Nigeria needs right now is bet tightening measures .

If Okonjo iweala should start flagging that policy, you will be the first to complain.

Nigerians want to go to heaven but they don't want to die.

What the present government is doing now is plunging the economy into eternal debt and slavery

With the subsidy money plus the huge borrowing plus proceeds from taxes, there's nothing to show as the economy is still going backwards

How many commercial banks do we have in Nigeria.

Please can someone help name them

Some banks are not viable, they need to merge with bigger ones to protect depositors.

dahmie2013:
Africa no dey carry last for this one.

In what area is Africa taking first

Wike talks anyhow,so someone cannot know when he's saying the truth or telling lies

Although Amaechi was a reckless governor.

That weighty accusation need an immediate response but it came late

Since the governor deflected from PDP to APC work has stopped in the ongoing projects.

Has he been infected by the APC virus.

Happy birthday handsome young man , expecting more from you

Agudiama epie
Agudiama ekpetiama
Amakalakala

All in bayelsa state

funkmrflexx:
I bought a car last year and now things has been really rough for me, and the worst part of it all is that I'm in debt of almost a million naira,

I'm married and all my money goes to expenses in feeding, I can't save, and business has been bad this period.

I'm thinking of selling My car, to pay off my debts and probably use the other money to reinvest in my business. (this is a business I can make up to 800k or more monthly)

Right now I don't what to think, my son will soon start school, and my rent will also expire very soon.

So I'm thinking of selling the car and using it to invest in my business

Go ahead and sell it since you can no longer maintain it.

Your reasons are cogent

themanderon:
This reflects the hopelessness and despair that currently permeate the nation. If an entire generation of youths in a society views fraud as the only path to escape a life of despair imposed on them by their leaders, that society is in serious trouble.

you're not totally correct.

There are jobs but these lazy youths don't want to work as they wants quick riches.

Skills acquisition centers are empty everywhere as none of these youths don't want to learn skills like; Electrician, carpenter mechanic, tailor, painting,tilling bricklaying,iron bender Auto mobile sprayer,etc .

These skills are highly sought after, but it's only the older generation that still does it, as they are going into extinction.

When the old generation have gone,there will be nobody to continue because the youths that were supposed to acquire these skills from them were not available.

They prefer to learn how to scam, yahoo because that's where quick money will come from..

To make matters worse, majority of these parents encourage their children to go into yahoo.

Promise47:
na my area be this Uivwe LGA Refinery Road Warri Hk boy's no be Small

is that not Ekpan police station

2cribz:
The NA should be slammed,insulted and slammed to court and fined 10billion naira for damages.
It is not the duty of the NA to arrest suspected Internet fraudsters,no where under the Nigerian constitution was the NA given the privilege to impersonate the anti graft agency In rounding up cyber criminals. No legal backing.Infact see them in court.
What nonsense


I just remembered
The npf play role of road safety
Nafdac plays role of ncc
Road safety play role of vio
Vio play role of npf
Ndlea play role of custom
I mean the fuc k
The list is endless

Is that your problem, they are empowered by law to mention peace and order, they are all law enforcement agents.

If you're law abiding, you shouldn't fear.

Aifrobeats:
On weekends and some other days, I go home to check on my parents, and most of the time, I'll buy fruit for my mom. But it doesn't matter how much I spend on it, she will always find the time to give me food before I head out.

I’ve spent a long time trying to understand why mothers behave this way, and I've come to realize it's unconditional love in its purest form.

It makes you think that it doesn't matter how rich you become, and even if it were the end of the world, your mom is one of the only people who would always make sure you have food.

Are you saying that father's don't love their children.

This is how mother's trickishly win the children's heart while neglecting the real bread winner.

The woman will make the man's labour unfelt by the children.

Men should wise up

Talkisneeded:
Same ways cigarettes companies writes “smokers are liable to die young and bet companies writes gamble responsibly…

You can educate against something that gives insane dopamine…
Better to eradicate it once and for all

Humans are complicated creatures,if you put fire🔥on the way, many people will still walk or run🏃 into it, knowing fully well that they will get burnt

Talkisneeded:
You can’t tell a sovereign nation on how best to protect their citizens from the dangers of drugs…

You’ve seen what drugs has to saner societies





But again,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

killing drug traffickers doesn't mean protecting your citizens,educating them on the dangers of using them does.

When there's no market,the business will collapse.

Womanizing is outdated,there are better and safer ways to enjoy oneself.sex is overrated.

TimeManager:
Met these men at a couple of gala nights, I saw simplicity, no noise. Get money and tame it, don't allow it turn you wild and uncouth.


-Kiss the truth!

People that has real wealth doesn't flaunt it,

It's the poor that really shows off


Empty vessels makes the loudest noise.

When you make or have much money, your aim it to lie low and protect it

Factcheck0001:
with this your response I can easily tell which part of Nigeria u are from

Continue

You will always make wrong judgements unless you pull off your tribal lenses

Factcheck0001:
see how u are excusing crime.

Omo see person mentality, with this your mentality the world will always b in chaos cos u don't believe in peace

How do you define peace,by executing people who commit crime, please educate me

Slytiger:
Trafficking drug itself is wishing death on others.

Yes,I agree,but death sentence is not the best method to control anything.

The should device other means.

There's market for it, hence the continued trafficking.

They should destroy the market and there will no sellers

Magnetic010:
Why are people so desperate to make money these days

Because the society worships money


The young ones were thought while growing up that money is everything

It's already a value system embedded in them.

Nigeria leaders should stop building infrastructures and concentrate on changing the mindset of Nigerians especially the young ones towards money.

The national orientation agency should be resurrected and put into action.

The urge for material wealth now has gone out of control.

Those at the helms of affairs that are supposed to show good examples and also bring out a legislation to control it are worse off.

This is inhuman, humans are susceptible to mistakes.

Nobody,or entity has the right to take the life of another,no matter the offence committed,it is uncivilized and barbaric.

Even these death penalty doesn't change anything


At worst they should be given life imprisonment

gulfer:
Nigeria, will be liberated eventually

Nigeria predicaments is spiritual, beyond human comprehension,so also her cure will also be beyond human comprehension.

Those planning for 2027, doesn't know the will of God.

God allows something's to happen for a reason

It seems those that ruined this country,God is picking them up one after the other.

I learnt Abdusalami Abubakar is also critically ill and he is also in a London hospital

adamkkk:
what about monkey monkey monkey... monkey monkiki

The still see children playing this game around

@eyesoflagos.com you are a game changer, you've just brought something new and impactful to the forum.

These topics are front page materials and should be treated as such

You're a good observer and researcher.

More great and impactful topics are expected from you.

More ink to your pen.

The gal knew that he's her fathers age but still went in for the money and comfort.

She will surely regret her decision following the antecedent of the man

She should fix herself up before it happens

giftson102:
This Is How To Quit Your Job To Start Your Own Business

Most people quit like this:
- Frustrated on a random Monday
- Write a resignation letter furled by emotion
- “I’m finally free!”, on social media.
- Two months later: broke, confused, and back begging for jobs, even taking worse ones.

Don’t be that person.
Here’s the version for those who want to exit like assassins, not amateurs:

1. Stop Romanticizing Entrepreneurship

This is not a movie. Your business will not start printing money in 3 months. You’ll bleed. You’ll panic. You’ll question your sanity. So before you hand in that resignation letter, make sure you’re not chasing freedom, but cash flow.

2. Start the Business While You’re Still Employed

Use your current job as your investor. All your evenings, weekends, and lunch breaks must be used to test your idea. Your goal? Prove your business can make at least 50% of your salary consistently for 3–6 months before you even consider leaving. This is not side hustle season — this is data collection season.

3. Audit Your Monthly Expenses Like a Beast

Before you quit, know how much your life costs per month down to the cent. Cut the fat and all luxury. Train your body to survive on lean mode because that’s how you’ll live for the first 12–18 months of business.

4. Build a 6–12 Month Survival Fund

If your business doesn’t take off immediately (and most don’t), will you survive? Save up at least half a year’s worth of rent, food, transport, and school fees. Or better - make your business pay your bills while you’re still employed. If it can’t do that, don’t leave yet.

5. Tell Only the Right People

Not everyone deserves to know your exit plans.
Most people will project their fears onto you.
Others will sabotage you subtly.
Keep it quiet. Share only with mentors, strategic allies, and your God. Don't put it on social media yet.

6. Resign With Honour - Leave the Door Open

Don’t burn bridges. Write a clean, professional resignation letter. Thank your boss. Leave them with respect. If required, serve adequate notice period. Why? Because that employer may one day become your client, investor, or connector.
Even if you hated the place - leave like a king, not a rebel.

7. The First Year in Business Is War - Enter Like a Soldier

Once you leave, don’t go on holiday or start acting like a CEO. Wake up earlier. Hunt clients. Cut losses fast. Reinvest profits. Don’t eat your seed.
The market doesn’t care about your dreams - it rewards results.

8. Grow Into the Boss You Never Had

If you hated your boss, your job, or how you were treated - good. Now build the company you always wished existed. Be a better leader. Pay people better. Build systems. Don’t just run away from a job. Run toward excellence.

Don’t quit emotionally. Quit economically.
Don’t leave for “passion.” Leave because the numbers say you’re ready. Don’t escape a job. Graduate from it.

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good and encouraging write up.

Being an entrepreneur should be the dream of everyone, you can't be richer than your employer.

Financial independence is the key

3kay945:
Your response shows how smart you are.

This result is not commendable, simple. And the person you defending had made many blunders that brought him into spotlight.

Like me, I don't really follow his name until the blunder he made when representing the budget figures.

All been said, he can succeed as governor if he has good intentions and work for the progress of the state.

He doesn't need good waec to be good governor.

But stop defending bad results..

The godfathers won't allow him to work even if he has good intentions.

He is just a figure head, they dictates what to do to him