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Last last nah northerners be poorest homes.

Increase it to 95%

Tobichuks08:
unfortunately you say, a woman in your shoes is not just only unfortunate but desperate and lose. Shey you expect to be adored with this your shitty post? Nonsense. Partner ko panther ni, money made you lose your sense of entitlement and purpose. Your partner must be really lucky to find a worthless gluttony and rancor being to salvage his hopes on. Next time dont go fetching firewood if you dont want to light it up. Steeeew peeed!!

savage

Fact no need romancing words

AuditCFA:
I have written their test and gone for their interview before now as regards Maersk / APM terminal.
Two things you must know.
1. They recruit via back door
2. Salary package and working condition is very poor.

So be prepared!!!!!

what is the test about pls, like what mainly are they asking about history or current affairs? Am preparing my junior brother on this pls

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noble71:
1.2M for 2009 to 2012 Sienna? You won't even see a good 9ja used for that price.

okay

amdman:
2009 Toyota Sienna LE

No faults reported

186k miles

N2.5m

slightly above budget boss.
Have 1.2m
Pls am still expecting a feed bck.
Is there any one i can get with the mentioned amount pls.

amdman:
What year please?

2009 to 2012

amdman:
Will appreciate feedback please.

I need a sienna any one available?

LeoFish92:
So, about a year and three months ago, I went for the Peace mass recruitment exercise. And I duly shared my experiences.

Link below:
https://www.nairaland.com/4793178/experience-peace-group-recruitment-exercise.


Well, I feel I should update the thread by adding that I've lost that job.

And quite recently so. Happened today!

Well, A little stroll down memory lane.

After that recruitment, which the company tagged: "Peace Executive Trainee", the Executive in the tag had we that were successful drooling with glee. We had lofty hopes of working in well-tiled, well-spaced, air-conditioned offices, as per the graduates we are.

Well, reality hit us hard when employment letters were dished out and we found out that we were having pipe dreams.

We were all posted to the different Peace parks nationwide to serve as ticket sellers and bus loaders.

Yours sincerely swallowed pride, rolled up his sleeves, and started 'agbero work'.

Though we worked for 12-13 hours everyday, the 15 months I worked as a loader were very exciting, utterly absorbing, - and quite intriguing - I must add.

Then, I was still with my parents, so I saved a lot, but lateness to work made me have issues with my manager. I must be at work before 5.30am (I was robbed twice while on my way to work,so, to avoid those hoodlums, lateness was inevitable)

I knew I'd move out from my parents house at some point but I always wanted to have multiple streams of income before that.

Well, the manager of my single stream of income mandated I rent an apartment close to office or risk some punitive measures. I did, and luckily got an apartment.

A room self-con in Enugu city costs an arm and a leg, I spent half a million to rent and furnish it. (had to buy properties cos at 27, man ain't getting no younger)

That was virtually all I had in my account, and after 3 months of moving in, the company sacked me!

And it's even more painful cos, I know nothing about the crime. It's akin to a stray bullet hitting a crippled beggar.

So, here I am, with a beautifully-furnished apartment, not up to 100k in my account, and no job!


Well, I want to appreciate Peace mass transit for the time I had with them. I saw it all there in the park, all manner of people, in fact, I could write an exposé on that, that would be for another day.
With my experience there, there's no Public service job I can't handle.

Tomorrow, I'll wake up to a new reality. From being so busy to being so idle. I'm terrified! Inside life, in the voice of one weed-smoking naija rapper


What next from here? I don't even know. In fact, I'm already having symptoms of malaria.



CC: Lalasticlala

500k kee
No be this enugu or another enugu. Okay which part of enugu you staying?

george31:
Get this nice very comfortable 3 sitter chair at an amazing discount price of 75k. Owner is selling because he is relocating. The chair is in perfect condition.

Call or send WhatsApp message to 08037133612 or 08025646429.

need this but am in the east how can we do it?

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HRHQueenPhil:
u are over free

your digits?

Ndi Ara
They keep chasing shadow's. What has all these added to the life of a common man. Stupid country with stupid leader's.

HRHQueenPhil:
why did u clean all ur. Initial post?

nothing just decided to. Can I chat you up?

Life is beautiful
The proposal
The note book
Hidden figures
The vow
Five feet apart

horlabisi93:
Google pixel 3 xl

something is wrong with ur camera

Why not in the end happiness is all that matters

Buy the job for financial security. Save up then invest

Mariangeles:
A nag you say? You dared to call a woman who chose to speak up and defend herself a nag? Urgh! Well, ain't this about a b!tch!

What do guys of this generation really want in women?
If you want someone that keeps quiet when you talk? Get a doll!
Even a robot wouldn't take that sh!t from the so-called husband

you call this speak up?
Defend herself online? Goan rest
I only blame the hubby who chosed to disgrace himself over trivial issues
you're ignored. Move on

martin231:
Initially I did not want to comment after my post, I only wanted to read but now i have to....Well, I think most of y’ll here got it all wrong I didn’t come to Nairaland to fight her or make her start feeling bad again ,I begged her promised not to verbally abuse her again that was after she forwarded me the messages she have been saving on her phone , those words was actually September 2019 but she saved all of it on her phone and i was surprised when she forwarded all of it to me this January and I begged her and gave her my word not to repeat it again , also y’ll should know that something actually triggered those words even though she didn’t post that part here, but still nothing to justify myself for saying those words to her.......Like I said, I begged her and made up with her, so we sure not fighting more ...... So the reasons why I actually came to nairaland is to seek if there is need calling her father since i have not gotten any calls from him about what happened (My Father in-law) in Quote for those that did not understand “ Now the problem is that my wife doesn’t want to go anymore but she doesn’t have the courage to tell her family that we have settled our misunderstand and doesn’t want to go anymore . She wants me to start calling every member of her family including her father to apologize and reassure them my love towards her again but to me I don’t know how to start the conversation with the father more especially because i believe having issues in marriage is normal and everyone understands that fact and since I have made up with her is their any need calling her family again“ Also why i mentioned about the money part was coz i wanted people to understand the gravity of the misunderstanding that is not really something serious...... All I wanted was advice or how to start conversations with the Father since I and my wife have already made up because she keep insisting that I should call the father, if not she will leave but sadly I don’t know what to him” ( Like should I tell him that I had a fight with my wife and we have made up? That I just wanted to tell him that we had a fight but we’re fine now? �) My captions says it all “I’m inexperienced “

Ring your father in law, keep away all pride that's your second dad man. Greet him well and dont tell him anything about your issues with her daughter unless he asks, and if he does, please dont tell him anything concerning what your wife is doing wrong, just take all responsibilities, apologize and give him reassurance over his daughter's welfare. You can only discuss your differences when you meet him physically and on a good mood maybe outing. Pls dont criticizing your wife over the phone. Good luck.

Gloriagee:
Yen yen yen. Keep supporting thrash! Every man has his weakness and should endeavour on eradicating such before encumbering another person's daughter or what am I missing. Y'all lay so much emphasis on grooming women to be wife's materials but who is grooming you guys to do better. See what a head of a home sent a wife that's battling health issues in her child, whilst he's away.

I wish i had the strength to leave you with a reply that can educate you but then since you're not the subject to this thread I'll pass. Try harder next time. Bye!
Gloriagee you're ignored!
Dont sweat it dont waste your mention.

Danteeee:
Well said and thank you very.. but lemme make one thing clear and final.. my parents are happily married and would never want their daughter to be a divorcée.. most times u just have to look beyond what’s happening now and focus on the latter.. do u think we just work up and say “oya pack up” Don’t u think that this abuse, toxic, lack of respect, insecurity, immaturity and childish behavior has been lingering for a long time!? Do u know how many times the said young man has been given the opportunity to clean his mess?? How would u feel if ur sister, daughter or loved one is the subject of discussion among friends every god dam time there is a misunderstanding at their home Like she’s some sort of a property or what?? Do u know what it means for ur spouse ( man or woman) to keep talking down on u until u loose ur self worth, confidence and emotions Have you ever dealt with an indecisive person before?? We can’t be that stupid to want her to leave her home just for mere misunderstanding cos we really don’t care what goes on in her home.. but when u see that things are getting out of hand then u can step in and save a life since the dude doesn’t want to charge of his home. now take a look a the rampant domestic violence we having these days.. it’s not a day or one time thing.. it’s an anger and abuse that has been building for a long time and it only takes a trigger before it blows out of proportion.. now do u say it’s ok to make “ur wife” a subject of mockery with friends?? And she, rather than doing the same resorted to family?? Honestly we want her to be happy, confident, treated with respect and not a hell in a marriage all because of what society will think of her.. for sure we can’t keep giving her money but will definitely set her up financially more in her growing business.. once again, thank y’all and ur sincere advice well noted!

am not in the best place for criticisms but bro next time you're trying to be your sister protector, ring the young man nd tell him why your not happy with the way he is handling your sis, your parents should come last. Nursing this opinion of leaving her home is not the best considering the differences at hand. Your sis ain't a saint you know?
The young man must have his own share of frustrations too. If your wife tends to report your every Bleep up to your in law you will understand how frustrating it can go, and secondly your sis has already been given this impression by you guys in leaving her home at any slight provocations and you think she will not always capitalize on it? Come on!

Ijeoma1187 you must be the nagging type, posting those WhatsApp chats and all is for what exactly? To be pitted i guess, from who? Online user's, nairalandlers? That's pathetic and mind you no marriage is made in heaven, every man has his weaknesses, some cant abuse you but will ridicule you emotionally, some won't ridicule you but cheat on you massively infant no need typing much. But leaving your home will not make you any good based on this issue, secondary am suprised at the type of family you have. How can you father and parents expect you and ask you to come home especially your dad without giving this young man any opportunity to correct his bullshit. Your husband is an emotional idiot who is controlled by his emotions and not his senses, is your dad a saint? Are your brothers saint?, every man has once in a while stepped out of place. Now the only thing i can tell you is if you cant for the sake of your child make peace in your home as the neck of the family then you clearly should not have been in marriage in the first place. And if you eventually pack out your husband will freely adapt to the society not you regardless of what your parents says and brothers they will not be there for your at all time, and once you start giving them responsibilities expect them to complain. Let your brothers allow you to face your challenges at home.
I wish i cant qoute that your immature husband who has given away his power and masculinity for the sake of emotions and insecurities that nigga needs to sound slap.
But i will still write this here so you can see incase you somehow gets to have a glance at this,
Men dont argue with a woman, in arguments women are always 100 and 1% right. Secondary when in marriage any money you give to your woman count it as a loss in other words if you have 400k to give start by giving it bit by bit cause surely demands must come, even you as a man spends more than budgeted sometimes not to talk of women, and for the sake of christ stop abusing your wife nigga, what will abusing her add to you? Do you think you can have abusive words more than her if she decides to engage you on one? Why on earth will you tell you friends shit about your wife can you defend her in the cause of insults from them? Friends are not your family dude, and how ever you wish to handle your marriage always remember misunderstand is guaranteed how you handle it is what makes you a man and earns you respect not your rants and abuses. Know the difference between pride and taking responsibilities. As a man you must know that your wife should be your priority because a happy wife is a happy home. Anything else friends her brothers and father is all distraction focus on your wife.

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NgeneUkwenu:
So the 8 Members of AA are not of the APC, when Okorocha and His Inlaw had already crossed over to the APC?

Where would they sit to carry out the impeachment?

Who will provide Security for them? Ipob I guess?

Kids everywhere!

you lack wisdom

Scam of a governor.
Worst governor in the history of enugu state

Please who has any info about Switzerland.
My brother just secured thier Visa.

jookunlaja:
Don't forget that with less than 1000 AED you can travel to Georgia Europe and get visa on arrival. The 1000 dirham includes flight, hotel and visa fees on arrival in Georgia

throw more light on this pls