Gradually this topic is derailing! Lets go back to the original discussion. Why is it that ladies hardly contribute in a relationship?
1. First of all I believe a lot of ladies have a wrong orientation about relationships. Just like everyone above me have been saying, they believe that a relationship is a short cut to financial freedom.
2. From my own observation a girl be it a student, or worker can really contribute a lot in a relationship. An average man is a baby and needs a lady to care and pamper him both physically and psychologically, its only a lady who truly loves you that will do things like cooking for you, arranging Ur house with a smile on her face despite the sweat dripping down her face!!
3. A lady without money can wake up in the night and pray for the upliftment of her man, sow seed in the church for his sake! Even send him links to job advertisement she saw. So Pls if a lady isn't contributing to a relationship it's either she isn't mature or plain selfish. Am not here to bash ladies but here to educate them on how to increase their self worth.

@op you have a point or should I say points however I believe everything boils down to the lady's true intention towards you

Some ladies avoided sex due to the bad experiences they have had in the past such as abortion. Ofcos they may not tell you but will keep mentioning how scared they are. But just like the guys have said a lady who has once given her ex has no moral justification to say no to you.

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Watch it he has a fiance somewhere and doesn't want to be tied down emotionally with you. Be content with been a friend to him

Bro listen to my advice. It may not sound sweet but it's the fact. A lady who breaks up with you doesn't deserve to come back and claim that number one spot in ur life.
Don't cloud ur judgments based on the little helps you get from Kate, Sarah will do the same if she could.
From your story it can be deduced that your not ready to settle down soon and as such Sarah offers a better option compared to Kate.
A lady who is innocent, having you as her first love and obviously a 'V' will give you the best undiluted love and loyalty. Bro u have struck gold don't make the mistake of substituting it for bronze!

What about on Sundays?

Yeah it is. However this your 3 stories aren't set in a typical Nigerian setting

okparaugo: .
That is why ladies keep sharing their phone numbers like a farmer scattering seeds during planting season..

I couldn't help but laugh. U don't know the seed that will germinate

One thing i seem to notice about ladies is the fact that they love excitement and adventure. so far u can always give them something to look forward to then they will remain with u. its not about how nice u are or how bad the other guys are

i don't understand how a lady will want u to give her attention, assist her, flex her and even help her find a job yet technically turning a blind eye to the fact that ur showing signs that u want her. isn't that deceit?

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willyfrench:

Well deserved attention . Yea I rooted mine, what's the point having an android device if not to maximize its potential . Sadly its only got 3G on sim 1 but that isn't an issue cos you can simply toggle on airplane mode and interchange the sims without turning off the phone. Lenovo ought to have made both slots 3G capable tho. Sense them no get! LoL.

please can u carefully explain how u rooted urs

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RED BULL:

Congrats o. did u use free shipping for both? how come dem arrive separately? lol it's kinda funny...like ur car keys arrived before your car

lol very funny comment

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You can give me a call and we can see how you meet me or my partners in your area.

i wish u were steady online perhaps i would have ordered mine tru u, hope its not late do u mind dropping ur number so i can call and make my booking

kenyarttar:
Nope, it's a very valid request. Trust is built not given freely. If he demands to know his office then by all mean send him the physical address and invite him over. This is strictly business no sentiments attached.

am glad u see things the way am seeing it, let me take my time and make it very clear, i appreciate the fact someone has volunteer to buy the phone in bulk for all those clamoring for the lenovo p780, i too am very much interested and willing to pay.But its natural at least to know a little about the person ur paying the money into, this is an online community and ur dealing with thousands of people nationwide and internationally, imagine tomorrow i say "hey guys pay to me and i will get u the phone" without leaving behind any address or identification then that means you are gullible. Like you rightly said this is business and no sentiments is attached to it!

Ogetogeo: I have a couple of people already placed orders through me for this phone and some more would do in the course of the week.
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1, can i order for 16gb TF card instead of 8gb
2, where is ur office located cos one needs physical proof to where he is paying his money into

08127869658. only decent ladies in lagos should call

ceny6@yahoo.co.uk

gals probably have too many male friends that they try to keep at the same time so they spend the credit maintaining each and every one of them.if she doesnt call u this month, then ur turn may be next month lol!

Wu Zetian:
LoL, why don't you copy and paste it inside your brain first and let your babe learn from you.

Typical scenario of a lady defending a fellow lady. did i give u any impression that i didnt read it? Admit ur just acting on impulse!!

This is the best relationship advice i have read on nairaland. Wish i could copy and paste this inside my babes brain!

Mine was i was about to travel, so i bought a motivational book and a newspaper (had no intention making any friends in the bus) now as i boarded the bus i sat next to a cute young lady, as a gentleman i looked at her and noticed she looked lonely and i offered the book i bought

That happened to be what made her trip for me. When i noticed the green light was when she insisted i eat her banana and groundnuts ( more like forcing me)

the journey was abt 4hrs and before i got to my destination something funny happened, we had already exchanged numbers and emails, she sent me an email and guess what she sent while in the bus??
I LOVE YOU!
The rest as we say is history!!

no matter how loud his earphone could have been sounding he cant miss the HEAVY vibration of the train even if he was sleep walking, so no pity for this dude!

there was this lady that i once dated, we lived a little far apart, so i paid her a visit and she took me out, paid the bills and even went ahead to pay my transportation! thats the best a gal has ever done for me

can i get in touch with u @jimovia ceny6@yahoo.co.uk

DailyNews: An over ambitious girl is a
potential cheat! Any girl who
is too ambitious to be
financially buoyant is a
potential cheat cos she is
ready to do anything to achieve her diehard target.

Your words make me to remember a certain lady

DailyNews: An over ambitious girl is a
potential cheat! Any girl who
is too ambitious to be
financially buoyant is a
potential cheat cos she is
ready to do anything to achieve her diehard target.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
all your points are complete NONSENSE......it is just filled with IFs & MAYBEs and nothing "concrete".

so here is MBJs list for you to show you that you can come up with any BS with IFs and MAYBEs:
1) a girl who has NO close male friend may also cheat simply because the minute some guy will give her some attention, and bring some "fun" into her life, she will easily be vulnerable and fall to the pleasure it brought to her life (since she had no close male friend to know how men trick women into bed).

2) a girl who have NO gfs who cheat on their men may also cheat simply because she doesnt know the damage that such action brings to a r/ship. so she may actually think it is ok to do so. remember, having friends who live such lifestyle is a good way to know the pitfalls of such lifestyle.....and prevent you from making the same mistake. just because they are your friends doesnt mean you have to indulge in the exact lifestyle the are in.

3) a girl who doesnt need attention may also cheat simply because she likes money and rich men have been known to entice gullible women with their wealth.

4) a girl who is NOT materialistic may also cheat because her man doesnt provide her with the sexual attention that she requires in the bedroom.

5) a lady who doesnt enjoy sex may still cheat if the sex is attached to something she view higher than sex. example if she loves to sleep in fancy hotels but can only do so with her sugar daddy OR she likes money but she is poor and having sex with strangers is the only way to make extra cash.

6) a girl who lives a safe life may also cheat when she finds a person who will make her feel that it will be absolutely safe to do so......example husband is away on business and cheating partner will creep at the dead of night etc.

7) a girl who DONT get bored easily may also cheat, as we all know that infidelity is not a hobby. many people cheat out of different reasons , so whether bored or NOT it is irrelevant.

8 ) a lady who has NEVER been cheated on may also cheat. cheating is not a contagious disease that can only happen when you get "infected" with it.

so as you can see, with "may" we can come up with a lot of nonsense online. so stick to reality, which is: ANYONE can cheat, there is no standards for cheaters, no signs, no IFs and MAYBEs, no warning signs......and especially not when you are some low self esteem guy who look at your woman as a cheating disaster waiting to happen. the sad fact is that you CANNOT prevent cheating, not even if you tie your partner to the bedpost every morning!

I totally disagree with u mr brown jay. U cant call this write up nonsense every guy knows point 5 is so true.i will give u a classic illustration,why do gals easily fall for guys that call them on the phone several times a day?

this ladies pic looks like animated cartoon to me!

she probably aborted the child cos 1:she was never legally married to the man so she and the baby have no legal right over his inheritance and also the stigma that comes with been a B*st*rd
2: with the love of her life gone , its expected she starts a new life..... Though abortion is bad!