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elantraceey:
Seriously woman , I'm now wicked for being against divorce and advocating for peace and love to prevail, are you serious? If God punishes you for all your misdeeds ,do you think you'll think you'll still be alive? Come on let love prevail.

madam please just go and hide in shame because your inner person isnt even right with God, it would have been thought a pardonable mistake if you posted once, but all your post are thrash.

and stop misquoting the word of God...madam Gods lawyer

the word give a reason for divorce.

its easy for you to sit on your system and talk about love, when the person that swore in front of God to love her husband for ever is giving him cause for suicidal thoughts. now put yourself in the mans shoes........its hard for you to feel the mans pain beacuse you seem to have a very dirty past that requires all the forgiveness in the world.

elantraceey:
What do you intend to gain from using cuss words on a fellow woman like you? Please don't judge her at least not yet.



@Op I took the time to read all you posted and I can't help but notice how the guy is so immature and your wife too. Please first let go of any thought of divorce in your head as what you have now are just assumptions.


She's your wife and you've been with her for 10years so you should know how to get the truth from her and I'll say you should use love not anger. Ask her questions like if she isn't satisfied with you or where you've missed it or something,.make it seem like the fault is coming from you even though its not and she'll most likely be comfortable and she'll begin to open up. Be ready to forgive no matter how bitter it turns out at least for the sake of your children.


Make sure she deletes and block those guys and try to resolve whatsoever reason she'll give.


#Myhumbleopinion



Lalasticlala help this guy get good advice.

your opinion is very irritating

1) so because your woman if a woman does wrong you will be in support good or bad?

2)how old are you? if your an adult am sorry you think like a child, ISNT IT OBVIOUS SHES CHEATING??

3)she should delete those guys? com on use your brain God gave you, did any one force her to save their contatcs? didnt she save them by her own will? ......do you think a marriage ring stops people from cheating? its a personal decison and not by wearing ring or deleting anything.....am short of words for you. your post is too upsetting


@op

like some one mentioned...catch her red handed and in the act because evidently she isnt LOYAL AND DIVORCE HER.

i can help get security cameras or recorders to help you. better yet am sure there are private detectives in lagos that can help you out

lebesgue:
Na lie. Ask our thieving politicians.

Lol

Crime never pays....youll always be caught by the long arms of the law

Olamides recation on stage was immature...in as much as he didnt mention don jazzys name, it was an indirect diss to all parties involved in the nomination, kiss daniels,organisers and mavins....where i come from if u give me a sublimal or indirect diss, ill be a coward not to take you on or defend my own. In other words don jazzy replied olamide in amore direct and fealess way...olamide should have been direct, if he has the liver he claims,


And olamide pls grow up...you think this is newyork or La or you think your a blood or a crip?....mr man man u de lagos, western part of african, what do you mean by you run mainland? Ur an entertainner and better let it stop at that.their killers all over lagos and their not dancing shakiti bobo

Eziachi:
Boko Haram would never had grown wings if it was properly and severely dealt with at its infancy. Instead Jonathan spent almost the first 4 and half years of his government telling us that Boko Haram was about northerners not wanting him to be president but insanely forgot that Boko Haram predates his presidency and he decided ignored the threat as something far away from Abuja.
That allowed them to freely recruit, get financed and grown beyond control, only for Jonathan to wake up from his slumber 3 months before his dreamed re-election. But the gene is already out.
Once the gene is out of the bottle, it is difficult to put it back. If this Shiite group is not eliminated now, the next phase will be Shiite v Sunni (Boko Haram).

You sound confused and evidently chauviniist bigot..... Bokoharam started under obasanjo.....he he "muderd" their learder, which is akin to cutting a tree branch and not expecting it to grow....fyi the north used bokoharam is a political strategy to fight jonathan, google is your friend. Afterall your change agent is the same person that declared that" war on bokoharam is war agaisnt the north.

alienvirus:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTob4qSUTys

Hello Celebrity,

Thanks to the Almighty for giving you your wealth and making you whatever you have become. You have wealth, you have made your money, you live anyhow you like, you travel all over the world, you live like kings and queens. Lo and Behold, You show off your belongings.

Know that more than 50% of your kinsmen live in abject poverty. There are people out there that die in hospitals because of NGN10,000. So many children are out of school with no direction in life because they have nothing. They live from hand to mouth. We know the history of many of you. How quickly have you forgotten?

Even if you have no religion that will tell you what ought to be done, you have emotions moral inklings.

I have made my own money but most times, I see poverty of the streets. Take a stroll on other places, apart from your Banana mansions, Lekki areas, someday and watch people's faces. You will definitely see poverty written all over them. Take a walk around Somolu, Ajegunle, Okomaiko, Ikorodu, Epe, Badagry and outside Lagos.

Of course, you made your cash based on your hardwork. But look back and remember where and how you were brought up. So many need crumbles from you. Try to help them and do not be so haughty by looking down on others or pretending like you are not aware.

Learn a good thing from David Beckham in the video above and do the needful.

https://www.nairaland.com/2782400/checkout-fabulous-life-obafemi-martins

https://www.nairaland.com/2672266/linda-ikeji-inside-new-house

oga pls how much have you in your little way helped the needy in your environs?.......africa is backward due to this dependence mantality.

ask bill gates how much hes living for his MOST LOVED ONES......or you think he loves the charity children more than his biological ones?

andresia:
typical mentality of a black man! Never concerned about giving to humanity. Take a cue from the Bill Gates & Max Zuckerbergs of the world.

mister man pls just shaataaap ....

you firstly take a cue from the people you quoted....abi there are no poor people in your own evirons?

what have you done for them?

what have you done for the poor and needy okada people in your family or neigbourhood? .......oo your money never reach right?

then youhave no right to tell another man how to spend his money

typical african mentality of dependence ....is the bane of our underdevelopment

ask bill gates how much hes living for his children

better free your self from this poverty and entitilement mentality

Adaure4ever:
@OP.. Did you both use protection? Or you slept with a stranger with no protection?
- Next Time, Have a self control.
-#team_dignity.

did you graduate from isl?

jedyjedy:
They were trying to tell u that u are an Ancestor.

. U wicked oo

slimzypink:
i m fimer.than his wife.biko

All things are posible to them that believe,lol

Adaure4ever:
Okay.. White girls loving our Black men.

he probably didn't see you on time...or else no show for sonia, lol

valencia25:
Great but 500k final price sir.

450 and ready to go.........

?

30k and willing......

CaroLyner:
that first guy...

somebody likes good things.....


i agree too, the first guy...

Hope You had a nice night....

CaroLyner:
thats so funny.lmao

lol

i think youd look angelic, when you laugh your butt out ........id love to see that

CaroLyner:
oh thanks loads

u welcome


lemme know when u turn around

CaroLyner:
still not getting.
you could clear the air

ook

the post is misleading, nothing damaging was said by derele, in the said video....

Op is just being mischevious


is that you on your dp?
i can tell a fine girl when i see one ...even from the back

CaroLyner:
thought they were bestys?

read between the lines

MzzTega:
story.

Linda is becoming MORE famous. congrats to her.

Haters continue.

Leave the mumu people...of a truth if u check her site, her advrets are now more.

Their bitters will only make them poorer....and they say the rich keep getting rich they don't their their the masters of their fate, when the mind is filled with such dustbin, it only produced more shitty materials.

The otondo old granny kemi doesn't know dan foster was complimenting linda the other day.

what ive learnt from all these is linda is getting richer

visit her blog and see that ads have increased.....

if you offer a coy 240 million to do adverts for you ......only an an idotic company will reject it.


i dont believe all these allegations ...so haters keep hating and the rich will keep getting richer

Zoharariel:
@OP - Pls be sincere and tell me your boss is not an Igbo man.

They will never see anything wrong with the administration of Ebele - The accursed & Clueless inspite of the can of worms being opened by the EFCC.

ej is accursed..?

He will received pensions in millions till he dies
The world is celebrating and honouring him for his peaceful nature, u are here filled with bitterness, oga who seems Cursed?

Some one rightly asked you if you own a business? Ill leave you to deciper the wisdom in that question, if indeed you can.

If his boss is an igbo man so what?

Forgeting that many yoruber people voted jonathan.

Keep staying bitter ....for its the chains that have locked you in the misery u call life

Erronous post

nyben4eva:
Hello nairalanders,a very good friend of mine came to me a couple of days ago with a detailed epistle of the trauma he faces with his job and how he's opted to quit,but insists on my advice before he hands in his resignation letter:

"I got my job six months after my NYSC and March 2015 was my eight years of working for the company.As an engineer,the job isn't my kind of job as it exposes me to lots of dangers and keeps me away from my family for at least six months every year.
My salary is more than half a million per month,yet I don't find joy doing what I'm been paid to do.

Thinking of my kids each time I leave home for work and how they cry to go with me is such a feeling that makes me wish I never had the job in the first place and at the same time,the thought of how they would fare if I quit without laying a proper foundation for their future makes me reconsider my decision and keep telling myself that I have to keep on going.

Though,I have most of the necessary things to make life a bit easier,but I'm always sad whenever is time to go to work.My wife on the other hand,tries to convince me before I'll finally make up my mind.It has been like this right from the onset,yet things aren't changing.
The most annoying aspect is that of my employers,an American company.They drain every bit of my energy and always remind me of how jobs are very scarce in Nigeria.

Right now,I have a business that could be fetching me at least two hundred thousand naira per month with lots of rooms for expansion and I feel so delighted that I'm going to become my own boss.
The happiness I derive from trying to do my own business is so boundless,but my problem is this: I don't want to go back to the same job once I quit".

Should I ask him to quit or continue with the job?Is happiness more important than pay?I need very intelligent answers, please.

I've been in almopst similar shoes before....he should look into his thoughts, he thoughts are on negative things and things that depress him.(Thoughts of leaving his family behind)

Let him change his thoughts.....joy and happiness is a choice and its not dependednt on outward things or material things but based on quality of our thoughts.

No guts to glory, he should venture into the new biz, a biz that can fetch 200k a month can potentially be 1 million a month.

His present employers once started out like him

nyben4eva:
She looks too artificial.

Lol... I go with you. I saw a pic of her when she was young and NATURAL, she was cute. But now she looks like that american talk shpow lady that gossips a lot.....what's her name.....wendy williams.

Toke be natural and ud be more beautiful

Nig4Greatness:
These people should stop insulting our intelligence.....why is Dickson crying rigging in an election he has won ? And if truly federal govt is involved,how can he win ?.PDP keep crying foul where there's nothing.

i didnt listen to the tape
but oga what is wrong is WRONG!

he won so he shouldnt expose wrong doing? your speech has exposed the fact that as long as your belly is full the world can burn.

infact the fact that hes leading and still had this to say is the more reason why its truthful......because he isnt using it as back up for failure.

finally what is wrong is wrong, it isnt only wrong when it doesnt favour you.

oglalasioux:
We are saying the same thing now. So if all spirit is one why do I need to be a Jew?

Lol bro Ill try to explain as much as I can.

Jew was gotten from the name isreal and isreal means "prince with God" it was the name God gave the child of abraham......later on they became many, thousands and became knnown as "jews" which means people of God, Gods chosen people etc.(All in the old testerment).

In this era and new testament, accepting Jesus as your lord and svaiour, makes you a jew(person of God), but its your spirit that is saved and renewed when you get born again, but you can't see your spsirit, but God can, so your spirit now belongs to God, and when you leave this earth and are buried, your body turns to dust, but your spirirt is very much alive and goes to heaven. But your body decays in the grave yard. And the your spirit is "realler than your body". In other words you don't change anything physical about you...what changes when you get born again si your spirit which gradually begins to tell in the way you physically do things..so if were yoruber before you got born again..God sisnt asking you to start doing igbo things after being born again...

Its all built on faith.that's why Jesus kept on criricisng the religious people of his days because they were very clean on the outside, but animals within...Jesus was after them changing their spirit and character( for character is what u are when people don't see u doing the things u do)

oglalasioux:
Thanks for the observation. But are you saying God made a mistake of giving us black spirits and wants to change it to Jewish spirit through Jesus? If your answer will be that it is the devil that gave us black spirit I'll ask you; why was the devil allowed such power and why has he has it for millennia and counting? If you ponder these two questions you'll see religions do nothing but mock God. They make Him helpless and gasping. Once you emancipate yourself from the religions, you'll begin to appreciate God and His works.

Lol @ black and jewish spirits
Thanks for engaging me interllectualy

My answer to your query is this

All spirits is one...even the bible says so.

Ie using coke as an example all cocacola is the same wheather its in london, america, yaba(mans spirit) and all coke bottle is coke bottle irreaspective of where its found, containers may differ, be it can, bottle, plastic (mans body).so man differs in color, race etc but his content is essentially the same

For man is PRIMARILY a SPIRIT and his spirit is contained in a body

EreluY:
PILE OF RUBBISH. I BET YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW THE BIBLE WAS PUT TOGETHER AND HOW BIBLE STORIES WERE ADAPTED FROM ANCIENT FOLKLORE AND MYTHS LIKE THE EPIC OF GILGAMESH, ETC.

I've told you before your bitter and bittners is atoll of the devil to blind people....for you said you wre once a christain....so something painful happened and you felt God abandoned you, hence your bitterness.

What ever the case..if you soo doubt what is being said here as trash, why come into the midst of strash and stain your beutiful cloths?