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Well in the end itcwill be up to you weather or not she uses you. If you like giving away your money fine, but if you had none would she still be your friend. Look at it that way. Don't tell you about you money situation. I wish I could find a guy that was so nice for nothing in return. Alot of women would love that. But all in all there is no nice way for telling someone to stop using you.

Wow this was something else to read. I read in another post about a man woman cheating and everyone was condeming her to shame and telling him to get rid of her and all kinds of thing. This was coming from men and women. Why is it any different here? Her man cheated and that only makes him less of a man in a world over there where woman have it so hard. Girl if you could do it on your own in that world I would be outta there, men don't change offten even thou we always hope and make excuses for them. The maid is not a good women that's for sure, whichever man she ends up with will gave problems. Leave her and him to God to decide thier fate. You need to find ya a good whole hearted man.

I do believe that any woman can become faithful, they just have to work out the issues of why it happened if the first place. Woman who cheat have selfesteam problem. If men knew why they did it in the first place they can fix it. The only problem I find is we don't know how to be straight about thing so men can understand. Women are very complex men are just basic. We say things that we think is to the point and it is always all around the point.

Why are you worried about her feelings? If your not in something serious with her then ni biggy. She don't seem to be embarassed to contiually ask you for your money. She will be fine, she was before you and should be after.

Over here in Canada people just cheat fir cheating sake. I have learned that Nigerian do have a thing about having male babies. But for a man to wanna beat his wife for something that is not by her choise but by his makes no sence. Does he not know that it is his sperm that determines weather it be male or female?

Well nothing wrong with her, seems you are the one with insecurity problem within yourself. Only men that worry that way are those that might have thought of possibly doing the same thing they are worried about.

If she's an ex why don't ya keep her that way ex! I would be uncomfortable, would you like it if she brought you over to her exs bday party? Always put yourself in the others shoes. That usually will answer your questions for you

Why does anyone cheat? It's all the same all over the world. Just the consequences are different for Women Then men.

Toronto has a large popultion of nigerians but the province of Ontario is one of the hardest to get into. Quebec and down east is the best bet. The goverment has made alot of changes to immigration this year so ya better check into it good.
Good luck to ya

I read everything everyone said, I am from Canada and there was a coment about feminism, that is not what it is, it's just equal rights. Women have the same rights as men. It is a good thing, if a woman hits a man it would result in the same thing, but to just slap someone either a man or woman no you wouldnt just end up in jail it would have to be alot worse than that. For a man or woman to slap each other us just a sign of weakness and a feeling of lack of control in a situation. No one can control someone elses body or choises if it comes to being physical maybe they should not be together cause thier love is not truly love. If I said I loved someone why would I hurt the very thing I love. I know that our culture over here is very different then over there. If women had the rights that we had here they would be very different. In light of this all no one should slap no one in a perfect world.

Wow that is a terrible place to be. I am not from that part of the world and know thing are delt with differently. It is a rough spot to be in , if she lies about it all and the husband believes her over you it means the end of your friendship. I know people cheat both men and women over missing things in thier relationship. Her love for him must not be that strong. But when you get involved you not only destroy their marraige but that of the kids too. I am sorry I can't help with that it is a bad situation to be in you may lose either way. Leave their marraige to God he will settle it in the end.

Good luck

Is there that many people in the world that believe that things come stress free or just that easy would be true. There is no easy way to get a visa, especially over here in Canada.

I am not sure if you information is correct.  Getting into Canada from Nigeria is pretty hard now days. I would look deeply into that.