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galatico (m)
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Re: What Exactly Do Women Want?
« #18 on: November 12, 2009, 04:28 PM »
Women are full of shit!!! they want MUMU damn it!!! The world would have been a better place without them .
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And if we weren't here that would make you all what? Gay?
It all comes down to who is right for you. Young and old are also different. Younger girls have not decided completely what they want. They think they do but it is usually based on looks, money, the perfect man. Which don't exsist, and men that they can't have( most women not all ) and usually want all the attention. as women get older they want things entirly different. They want someone they can relate with looks no longer are a concern it more about what is inside and what they have in common.

That is the weirdest thing I ever heard. All women have their period once they reach womanhood, like someone said above from 10 and up sometimes even younger depending on the womans body development. What in the world would sex have anything to do haveing your period? As you get older sometimes woman that wait a long time don't even gave a hymen no more, or even a fall can sometimes break that. Man you guys need some sex education.

Hey just remember this is not about you.

Hello
I can not advise you as to what to do but let me tell you something. I had a baby 14 years ago, as the same to you I ended up taking care of her on my own as well. I am married now and my husband decided to adopt my daughter as his own. 7 days ago I also got a call from her dad which I have not spoken to in almost14 years. I too was in shock, the feeling all came back with rage which is something I thought I had gotten over years ago. Now here is how I handled it. I talked with my daughter and asked her what she thought after all these years. To be honest I left it up to her to decide weather or not she wanted to do this. She seemed interested but not totally joyed about. She told me it didn't matter one way or the other because she doesn't even know this guy. I too feel he is totally selfish in what he is doing but I decided to not be like him and to leave the option to her because this is not about me. Don't get me wrong I also had a few things to say to him which included stay away if this is all about his regrets and he is not planning on going through what he is about to start.

dogmafree (m)
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Re: How Do I Get Him To Notice Me
« #13 on: Today at 03:12:30 PM »
You can start with talking to him and finding a common interest. Then ask him out on a date. It could be casual. If he says no, just move on.


This I think was the best sugestion that anyone said. I think you should listen to this guy.

Does anyone notice these articles say Nigerian not any type of tribe? It sucks thou, for all them people trying to make a go of it over this way have it hard, our goverment sees this 419 thing before even meeting someone. It is concidered the fraud capital of the world over here. I hate the fact that I have been fighting more than two years to get my husband here and without saying so I know they take that sterio type into concideration. A few bad apple ruin it for everyone.

Hey my daughter uses a flat iron amost the same. Just make sure u use one that is ceramic. And as for the roots you just gotta try to get close. She only flat irons her her once a day unless she's going out then she will do it again. It doesn't seem to be hurting her hair. Yes there is stuff to buy that will protect your hair but I am not sure what it is called because she says it does not straighten good enough if she uses it.

Why would you as an ameriacan care if they can speak English corectly, can you speak theirs correctly? I an not American butCanadian, and the way I see it we all over here on this part of the world, we don't even speak it right. So who are we to chop up someone elses way of speaking when we don't even do it right with all of our slangs,( pardon me we are also not the same) just so people know American is not Canadian big difference there!

@diggle. Your attitude is the exact reason Nigerians have a hard time trying to relocate over in North America, being sterio typed. Maybe your woman slaps you eh?

I was just thinking that if she could go to the UK with him it wouldn't be such a big deal because of the life style there. Yes being in Nigeria as a woman without no family I am sure would be very hardbecause all she would have would be her man, woman over there I find need their famillies. What a terrible situation to be in. I wish them luck

I too had that experience once. It does feel totally non connected if you leave your eyes open, not the same passion. But I guess some people do leave there eyes open. I was in shock the time I noticed that as well, just seems weird or not as deep.

Well her has made a stand for her. I also think she should make a stand. Does he live in Uk? Will she go to him there?

I totally agree with" godmothers comments"

This is truly so sad. Over here is so different because of way of tradition and stuff. When I married my husband it was hard as well. His family made it hard too. He told me that if his father were still alive he might not have married me because of the old school way. That is why I find it such a sad thing for her. I hope she sticks with her man as long as she knows he is the real deal I would go for it. Does his family have a problem with it? She will be forgivin in the end.

Why would ones parents use the bible in the first place to make her give up something that might be of Gods will in the first place. That is 2009 and people need to change. I think if she knows he is the right man for her she should stick with him. People are forgiving for anything they ask forgiveness for. ? Here let me ask this, are her parents gonna ask to be forgave for using the bible to thier favor?

really? Hope ya marry a family with a good looking younger brother.

bluenubian (f)
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Re: Some Body Help Me
« #9 on: May 26, 2006, 02:45 PM »
boy i will tell u to stick with her, but beware to every rumor there is an ounce of truth to it, so look out and dont judge her, the truth will eventually come out, u wont even have to look
psych!!!!

I think this one has the best point.
Rumors always come from somewhere. Weather it's all the truth is a different story. Just think if your having problems before you get what will be after? And then you gotta live with it. A relationship should just fall into place if you have to work with doubt is it gonna be worth it. I would take the marrying thing slowwww.

I can not remember the name of the tribe but I know it's in Asia somewhere , they usuall marry all the brothers from the husband familly. I am not sure that sounds so good but having many men does. Lol

You know what, you best not say anything cause it will come back on you anyways. It's been how long and you knew? Now it will be you knew all this time and didn't tell me? Best leave it alone. You even have it recorded that's worse, he will be pssed with you no matter how thing turn out. If ya were gonna tell you should have told him right away v

You don't take her to the doctors for that at 7 unless you know somethinghas happened. That is trumatic for a girl at 7. Kids know alot without doing things these days. Just go with the flow, to get an internal would break her hymen. Don't listen to that unless you know something is wrong with her.

@simplychic
true enough. It's such a hard thing to go through. I have been fighting immigration for at least two years to get my husband here. Believe me I am Canadian and have a hard time over here doing things as well. I am looking at another two years in federal court to get my husband here dealing with immigration. It's a drag but they always hold all the cards. I truly wish your sister well in the future. Good luck to you and she.

Both universities are good ones. Victoria is in British Columbia which is in Canada and I think ya said Saskatoon this is a city in saskachawanwhich is right next to British Columbia. Both schools are good.  If ya want better weather as well you might want Victoria great weather. You would love it. It has a higher population of native Indians they are big cities and a wide variety of cultures.

I would just tell her that it is for adults. People have sex and need to use this to be careful from all different kinds of bad diseases and to keep someone from getting pregnant. All in all she will hear you but still not understand you completely. As long as you inform her of what it is and that is something you do not go without she will remember. As time goes on she will learn to ask you things which is good. 7 is still kinda you to know everything anyways. But she will hear thing and stuff at least she will come to ya. It's kinda uncomfortable at times in explaining but it's good for them to have your opinion rather than someone elses.

Girl stand proud.

Just put it this way, I was told 120 days for what I am stoking on from the Canadian immigration office and it's been 6 months so far. I have even asked a lawyer about it and it us only a guideline. Rule only apply to us not to them. So you'll have to call on the time frame issue I think.

Can she not call to see how much longer? And just tell them the situation.

I am not sure when you said all them " cheats" was implying everyone. Your so wrong if you ment me. I don't degrade no woman. She is the same as I am. I believe women should always back each other in a world that is ruled by almost all men.

Quote from: Charchar on Today at 11:04:48 AM
I do believe that any woman can become faithful, they just have to work out the issues of why it happened if the first place. Woman who cheat have selfesteam problem. If men knew why they did it in the first place they can fix it. The only problem I find is we don't know how to be straight about thing so men can understand. Women are very complex men are just basic. We say things that we think is to the point and it is always all around the point.

answer this, ow do u expect someone basic to fix someone complex.


Well that was good! I don't know that answer, but I had a great laugh. Thanks lolol