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https://passionresolve.com/2016/07/04/business-opportunities-amid-nigeria-economic-crisis/

From: https://passionresolve.com/2016/07/03/the-way-to-attract-money/

Two men went hunting for wild pigeons on a lush meadow where the birds played. The first man was very stealth in his approach; carefully sneaking up to the pigeons and then swinging his net in a bid to capture them. He snuck, swung and flung but the wild pigeons kept escaping his net, which frustrated and exhausted the stealth man. But he didn't give up so, eventually, he captured two big birds in his net.

The second man had a totally different approach to the task; he walked freely among the wild birds, held up a palm-full of bird food and waited patiently. The pigeons were skeptical at first but later threw caution to the wind and began eating away at the man’s palms, allowing the man to easily capture them.


In the real world, money behaves like those wild pigeons, and most people behave like that first stealth man; toiling and striving just to earn a living or get by. If only they were aware that they could actually attract money just by changing their orientation and playing the game differently.


Most people unconsciously view money as a necessary evil. Their heart doesn’t speak well of money like the heart of a dissatisfied slave won’t speak well of his master, and the heart of a sex-starved wife won’t speak well of her husband. Most people reckon that they just must have money even though it has ruined so many lives in the past, caused so much carnage, wreaked catastrophe on the world several times, stolen spouses from spouses, and even paraded itself as the root of ALL EVIL for several millennia. To them, money is some kind of tyrant whose authority is absolute, because money answereth all things. Most people blame money for all the hardship they went through at some point in their life, but since they don’t want to go through further hardships they must now do WHATEVER is necessary to acquire that bastard thing called money.


But all this bad blood does nothing but further repel money from people, thereby causing more lack and scarcity in the society, and having people work very hard like the aforementioned stealth man. It’s an unfortunate cycle; a catch-22.


But in order to begin to attract money more easily, one must first earn the right to have money. This right is not given by society or any institution, but solely by the individual who wishes to attract money. He or she must become friends with money by vehemently denouncing all conscious and subconscious negative notions against money that has been fed to them since childhood. He must lay down these weapons and end his personal war with money. He must learn the healthy way to love money by appreciating money for what it is at its core; freedom from material lack and limitations.


One must begin to view money in positive light- an unbiased force like fire or electricity- that responds well to whosoever understands it. Once the negative prejudice is gone, money would come.


If anyone would work on imbibing this new positive belief about money, he or she would break their mental barrier to financial abundance, and consequently begin to have access to more money more easily.

Read:
https://passionresolve.com/2016/07/03/the-way-to-attract-money/
https://passionresolve.com/2016/07/02/4-valuable-lessons-from-the-millionaire-mentor/

Let me take this moment to quickly write this to you young ladies, virgins, and any girl who is still struggling with the concept of decency.

I know that we live in the YOLO age where everyone is taught by the media to be crazy and to "have fun" but believe this; sometimes the price for some kinds of fun is too high- and that's what the media won't tell you!

Now before you think this is some kind of preaching, lemme warn you that it has nothing to do with all that puritanical bullshitt- as I hate such hypocrisy myself. Besides im not writing in the hopes of hearing a thank you from you; Im writing this like a warning from the future so that you wont one day wish you could turn back the hands of time and change your orientation. So this is some very real advice.

Please ladies, for your own good, dont take sex with that careless attitude that the media encourages in our society today. Do not see it as "no big deal" or " let me enjoy my life" nonsense. Even if you date or hook up a lot just for fun or for their company, try to limit your actual sex partners to only a few. As few as possible. You will be very happy you made such a decision later in the future when u understand the logic behind it. Oh and don't mind all those big aunties or older ladies who convince you that a woman's sex count is nothing, that a guy who truly loves her won't mind, that a modern woman is free to live anyhow she pleases etc. Truth is most of such people only say such things to convince themselves and anyone who cares to listen that they have no regrets. While in reality they may be crying each night whenever they remember that great guy that had to leave them for this same reason of careless sexual past.

The thing is, you may have met a lot of douchebag guys in your life. Some of them might have cheated, lied, beaten you, etc. And this may have affected your orientation and caused you to be more careless about your sex life. But when a real guy with integrity and strong principles (the kind of guy you would want to marry by all means because you can trust him and he would never betray you) falls in love with you, it might become important to him to inquire about your past, as he would need to ascertain whether he can also trust you. The problem is that you should not lie to him because if he ever finds out that ure lying it would probably be the end- as such guys hardly forgive such lies. But if u straight up tell him the truth that you've seen 101dickks and 100 out of them have been inside your vagina, he may be very cool about it and even tell you its no big deal- just to put your mind at ease. But you will see the pain in his eyes. He may be able to suck it up and proceed normally with you, but thats very rare. Chances are, even If he loves you sooo much that he hasnt sneaked out and run away that same night, u would start to notice some slight changes in his behavior: you may catch him just staring at u sometimes with a deep sadness in his eyes. If u ask him wats wrong he'll quickly fake a smile and say its nothing (just so that u don't get worried). Or u may notice that he doesn't seem to trust u as he used to before- now he's stylishly asking who u were talking to over the fone or where u went yesterday. He's more concerned about who your friends are. He may just ask u certain personal questions that u think are irrelevant. And the saddest part is u may notice that he is gradually losing faith the relationship. And you would love him soo much because his type is very rare. You would want him to know that u are not that person u used to be ever since u met him, that he can trust you, that you will never betray him no matter what anyone may have to offer. That your love for him is stronger than anything. But no matter how much he tries to see you as you ARE, the person u WERE will keep hunting him from time to time. You would know that he is trying to ignore but its still hurting him- its killing him from within. And that's when u wud wish u could go back in time and not have sex with All those many guys- not because you regret your past, not because it wasn't fun, not because u didn't know what u were doing, not because u think it was a bad thing, no! But just because u see that it all came back to hurt this man whom u truly love. If it means to keep your relationship/happiness with this man, you would be ready to sacrifice all those 100diccks. But it won't be possible at that time, and you may eventually lose that one-in-a-million man.

Some people may say it is insecurity or that he's afraid he wont measure up to ur past lovers thats why its bothering him, and that if he truly loves u it shouldn't be an issue. But trust me, that's just another lie they tell u. Real guys with real integrity simply don't believe in cheating or lying. So to them, you have a loose past means you have questionable integrity, and they simply can't trust you! No matter how many great qualities u have or how much he loves you, if he can't trust you then it will eventually come to an end.

I should mention that this doesn't necessarily apply to the majority of guys out there who try to "score" with girls by sleeping with them in order to feel somewhat validated or cover their insecurity. Such guys may not even bother to ask about ur past because they too probably have messy pasts. Neither does it apply to those nerdy guys that are afraid of a naked girl- no. This applies to the few deeply confident guys who are themselve and dont need any girl or anyone to validate them. They are usually intelligent, straightforward, principled, loving, and very trusting. They are the type u never want to lose because u may not find another like him.

Someone wrote an article about why a girl's many previous lovers is no big deal, and many commenters (mainly guys) condemned that article by pointing out some real facts. These are just two of the comments:


Terrible article.
Believe it or not, not all men and women are promiscuous, and it’s partly because we consider something like that to be important. Therefore, it might surprise you that the same standards we hold ourselves to we’d want in a partner.
Crazy I know!
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I rolled my eyes when I read that the reason men were turned off by promiscuous women was because they would feel inadequate to her past lovers. I was saddened and shocked that a man wrote that crap. Men have evolved to run from highly promiscuous women just as they’ve evolved to run from tigers. Very promiscuous women likely have drug problems and psychological problems. Who would want those traits in their offspring?
And men are not impressed by their friends who mess around. Most men joke about it, but inside they know their male friend is dealing with problems such as insecurity. These highly promiscuous people are not more socially evolved. They have problems. It’s not a good trait to have.
I just recently dumped a girl who I loved because of her past – 62 people. I don’t need that drama in my life, and I don’t want to find myself married to a women with that kind of history. The sex was great for both of us, but lets be realistic. Sex comes to an end at a certain point. You have to be your lovers best friend to make it work, and that’s going to be very difficult when you can’t understand the reason they made such poor decisions.


So please don't let the media or anyone fool you. Go on dates, have your fun, but dont ever confuse casual sex with fun. For the sake of your future, Maintain your dignity, avoid messy relationships and keep you sexual partners as low as possible so that when you are dealing with the real man, a worthy man, your (loose) past wont get in the way. Plan it well now so that in the future u won't cringe, fidget or lie when that man asks that very important question (to him).

Advice from the future!

From: https://passionresolve.com/2016/05/14/help-im-sexually-attracted-to-my-girlfriends-friend/


Hi Lex, I’m new to this site but please hear me out on this and give me candid advice on what to do.

So my girlfriend is currently staying with me and I love her soooo much. The problem is that she has this curvy friend who just moved into the area and likes to visit a lot. Since the first day my girlfriend had introduced us I have been unable to get my mind off her. Ofcourse I play it cool by not showing any signs but it’s eating at me I swear. What’s worse is that I sense she’s kinda

into me too because she always gets nervous when I’m around and I sometimes catch her staring and I suspect that if I make a move on her she would respond. To be fair to this girl, she has never tried to signal me or seduce me or anything. She’s a cool friend to my girl. It’s just that I can feel that sexual tension between us. But I don’t want to hurt or lose my girl. She trusts me so much and I love her. Please help. These days the urge to initiate something is getting out of hand. Last week I almost couldn’t stop myself from grabbing her ass when she walked past me toward the door and my girl was in the other room. I can’t even imagine how awkward things would have become if I had given in. I feel very bad for even harboring such thoughts. Please advise me! Thank you.

Stephen, Calgary, Canada.



Hello Stephen, welcome to the site! I understand what sort of temptation you’re going through. I go through such all the time at buffet parties when the first urge I feel is to stick my raw fingers into every bowl of food on display and taste the goddamned variety before making my choice. But I always weigh the consequences and ask myself if the corollary humiliation would be worth it. So eventually I just serve myself and leave. Oh and other times when I see someone driving a car that I admire, I get that powerful urge to walk over to the driver’s side, open the door and yank the nigga out of the car, take his seat and speed off into the wilderness. But unless you’re Jason Statham in the CRANK movies, you wouldn’t want to actually do that. So yeah, don’t beat yourself up for feeling any kind of urge; that’s pretty normal. What may be abnormal is if you’re stupid enough to actually play out all those urges.

Now you seem like a very decent guy and I think your girlfriend is a very lucky girl. So here is the thing; you already know that it’s a bad idea and that if you do get with the girl you WILL eventually lose your girlfriend over it. So I wont bother telling you that. What I would tell you is how to not do it:

1, COMPLETELY SURRENDER THE POSSIBILITY OF IT EVER HAPPENING: The reason you’re feeling guilty at all is because inasmuch as you don’t want to do it, a part of you is stealthily making plans and considering the possibility of doing it. There is a big debate going on in your mind about whether or not it’s possible to Bleep her discreetly without any consequences whatsoever. Or maybe she would make a better girlfriend than your current girl. What if you misread her signs and she’s not into you at all and you end up losing both girls? What if, maybe, perhaps! You need to end that debate in your head, Stephen. Silence that mind. Give her up for good. Take a deep breath and conclude that she is absolutely off your sex radar, you will not find an excuse to be around her or miss her presence, and you will NOT have sex with her. Period! If you do this you would notice a calmness dawn on your mind and that guilty feeling would vanish

2, TALK TO YOUR GIRL ABOUT IT: once you’ve dealt with your intentions as stated above, your conscience would be cleared and you can then confidently discuss the matter with your girl. So when you two are alone and in a good mood, tell her that even though her friend has been very cool to her and to you, you would appreciate if she meets the girl away from your home because you may find the girl attractive and you don’t want any unnecessary “feelings” coming between you and your girlfriend. I guarantee that your girl would take it up from there and she would trust and respect your arse even more.

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rose54321:
It's the bitter truth though, alot of people cheat, over 50% are sleek and don't get caught. You only hear about those that get busted.
Though I am tougher than you think, I will know if you cheat and being a gem that I am, you will hate to lose me.

Yeah I think that should be the point people should emphasize on; that one would simply lose them if one cheats. Instead of shouting don't cheat, don't fvcking cheat, capisce??!! Because that wud just make rebellious people like myself feel like cheating

whogoscam:
The fact that everyone imagine to be fvcking someone else.

Yeah it sucks. But like u said; Fact!

rose54321:
For me CHEATING, we all lie mehn, atleast one lie per week. Then again, it depends on the level of lie, as we have different categories of lie.
But overall, I think I can forgive a lie, but a cheat, the relationship ends the day I find out.

wow. Dating you would be fun. You're like; I don't care if u put your deek in another girl's poossy, just don't ever let me find out about it, okay?? I'm like:

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]OP awon bashers dy come for you no 1 and 5 will not go down well with them[/color]

hehehe. But did it go down well wiv you? Ehn?

grossintel:
Op money can't buy love, but it surely will improve your chances over 80%

That lie that says money can't buy love has been traveling for centuries. Nonetheless, it is a lie

Good looks have bought some people love, good character bought some people love, bravery bought some people love, power bought some people love, luck has bought some people love, and money has bought some people love.

Open your mind!

firstking01:
I dare you to be wrong...that no 1 is a big fat lie

and, may we hear your argument?

Hillzy:
The both go hand in hand cos they are inseparateable, if u are a cheat definitely u have to be telling lies to cover ur act n if u are not a cheat I don't see any reason why u should be lying to ur partner!

Don't quite follow ur logic. There are tons of things to lie about besides cheating. Wife; honey, so how much did they pay you for that deal? Husband; just 300k. Peter: Hello Sir, Good Morning! I was just passing by and I happened to hear ur conversation with your wife. Husband: Saint Peter! Omg! I...the whole world thinks youre dead! Peter: Shut up and Listen, Mister man! Im not here to crack jokes or drink palmie or even fellowship with you, I'm here to remind you of that nigga Annanias from the bible! You remember him ba? Good. So, how much did you say you were paid again?! Husband; ah! Is 500k Sir! I bin wan hide the 200k before because dis my wife ehn, she sabi throway money. If i do mistake tell am sey i get any money na how she go trick me collect am spend am she go begin dey reason. Abeg no vex Sir!

You see! This had nothing to do with "cheating" did it?

basbone:
All cheaters are liers but not all liers are cheaters.

hmmm. I know someone who cheats but never lies about it. He's a douchebag though, but it works for him

LeeFreezy:
z lieing jare ...we dey used 2cheatin aspect alreadi

So u won't boil ur boyfriend's deek in ogbono soup for cheating. That's good to know

whogoscam:
I disagree with some points..

do share

From: https://passionresolve.com/

https://passionresolve.com/2016/05/15/cheating-or-lying-which-is-deadlier-in-a-relationship/

From https://passionresolve.com/

Beware; this is a list of certain nakedd truths you might not want to believe, so feel free to keep living in denial by disputing it!

1. Money can buy Love
2. Most guys would rather not “settle down” if not for the social pressure.
3. Every lady, good or bad, appreciates a little rough-handling in bed from time to time.
4. If everyone was completely totally honest with their partner, there would be more divorces than weddings.
5. The mind of woman is dirtier than that of man
6. There is no sure way to tell the TRUE mileage of a deek or poossy
7. Nobody is immune to being cheated on
8. It’s easier to turn a straight woman lesbian than it is to turn a straight man gay.
9. No matter how loyal you are to your partner, there have been times when you’ve imagined or thought about or pictured yourself fucking someone else.
10. No matter whom you are in this world, there are some people you are just not good enough or eminent enough or rich enough to date.

Any more blunt truths that haven't been told yet?

Don't miss this: https://passionresolve.com/

Lol. Funny song. Very nice beat tho.

Buddah:
who's this nonsense? We beg u make u come read am before?

Mehn I like this nigga. Guy, u just get ur way sha. Ride on, I dey ur back

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kilokeys:
bubbly.. colbie caillat

Love....Love...Love.

egbedore:
Jazz and Blue eyes soul wasn't included? Why?

Possible causes of this anomaly:

1. oversight
2. O.P's Myopia.

I vote for 2

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FrenchyL:
I am doing my MBA online and have also done a couple of the moocs.

Hmmm...

FrenchyL:
Yes they are recognized . The education has gone virtual and you have a lot of sites that offer MOOCs ( Massive open online courses). Sites like Coursera and Edx come to mind , where you can do a course which is not a degree course in itself but is a part of the work load or course work for either a degree or Master degree course.
Other online courses offered by foreign universities are recognized worldwide , but you have to prove that you actually learnt something.

I hope this helps.

hmmm...thanks

But wait o, you have not actually done it have u?

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To Nigerians home and abroad (black, half caste..... and even Chinese caste **kidding** But seriously, what's your opinion on online study generally? If you've acquired any degree online, is theres any discrimination against it in the real employment world or is it equally respected. Pls share your experience?

Her retired-soldier father unleashed their dog on me after a rather civil conversation. I ran with the hope that he didn't actually unleash the dog; that it was a mistake...until I saw him emerging from the house with his rubbish shakabula gun and what was she doing? Crying...just crying #datsall. I could have been shot

Anyway, the bullet hit their forking dog instead.......oh and I'm not sorry

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firstEVA:
hello

hi

I see. its like the word "pet" is a synonym for "dog" on this thread

whatever happened to cats or rabbits or even parrots.