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prettythicksme:
Nice write up op! charles4075 na u carry me come here!

You're highly welcome

Op, these words when used to describe a person (usually a woman, although they could all be used for a man too) these words do mean the same thing. The most important difference between them is register, or the degree of formality in the communication.

"Hot" can mean "sexually attractive", but it is sometimes also used to suggest that a woman likes or wants sex a lot. Sometimes it suggests the girl is "easy", so use that word with care. It does not typically have this meaning when used to talk about men.

"Hot" is a slang word, and so it is very informal. A person 30+ might sound silly and immature using the word "hot" to describe a person. "Sexy" is a more formal word and isn't used as much by younger people.
Hot can be used for things too (a hot movie, a hot clothing trend, a hot sports car) and it just means popular and desirable.

"Sexy" has more to do with appearance and doesn't suggest anything negative about how the woman behaves. "Sexy" can also be used to describe clothing and a person's style and behaviour, not just his or her body.

One thing to remember is that if you say a person is "hot" or "sexy", you usually mean YOU are attracted to them.
The expression "sexually attractive" wouldn't be used in conversation. You would see that in a science book. However, "attractive" is used in conversation and is a safe word to use. You can tell a lady she is attractive, or comment that a man or woman you see is attractive, and that is a compliment. You are not necessarily saying YOU are attracted to them, but only that many people would agree they look good, dress well, and behave in a way that people think is appealing, like a person someone would like to date or marry.

None of these words are necessarily offensive. They just need to be used very carefully, especially the word "hot". You can tell your wife you think she's sexy, if you want, but you'd probably only say it in private. If you're not sure what to tell your friends about a lady you met, you can say she is attractive. I can say prettythicksme or misspicy are attractive ladies (they are) and no one minds that. But if I said they were "hot" or "sexy" people would think I'm very, very strange.

mrofficial:
Like you guys are embedded with HIV.

10,000 likes for you. When Naija guys start insulting her, she'll open a thread on ''Naija Obsession with South Africa''. Ode like her-Oloriburuku

Op, to be sincere with you all what you just posted is so conflicting and deceptive. My reasons for saying so are;

1. The guy who resides in switzerland is like more of a ''Play store'' to you than a boyfriend. You said earlier- Quote( ''I have a boyfriend who lives in Switzerland and we have been dating 3years now (before he left Nigeria for his masters) and we love each other (I think).'' After 3 years, you're still thinking if you love me. Sister, do yourself a favour and just let that dude forge on

2. The yahoo guy in your school definitely is a ''Bullseye'' for you and you're like ''He's so romantic, he's introduced me to his parents, my sister; gone are those days when a lady is been introduced to his guy parents. It's just a political facade to get in between your treasure cove.

So my advice is to you is to be truthful to yourself first, then you'll know the right path to follow otherwise you'll live in hell for the rest of your life.

redcliff:
May God continue to deliver us from women who their mouths and thoughts are faster that their brains. May God also continue to protect us from women who cannot read and or comprehend before commenting on a post!

Amen

Hahahaha.. Rotfl . Bros, you wicked. Take it easy on her na. We all make mistakes.

True or False

Op why na You wan cause trouble here abi?

gabinogem:
do u think everyone love snooping through other people's profile... if that's the case, why not check through male profiles instead of opening a thread just to see male pics.

Epic reply.

cruzita:
*can't believe I finished reading all that*oboy see sweat na

So, what's your fetish miss?
Do you have a fetish for Doctors, Artisians, Engineers, Stylists or Lawyers?

wristbangle:
Oga Charles, u understand very well that I like front and back ministry.

Your own gud self. Tosyne2much own na worse pass. Him nor dey take eye see front and behind.

The reason I decided to create this thread was due to a certain Nairalander who happen to have a weird fetish for ladies armpit.

Most people just want to know if they fall on the sexually“normal”spectrum, typically to justify what’s going through their mind when they are fantasizing. The truth is, there is no normal when it comes to sex; the only constants are diversity and variation, because we are all different in our sexual desires! As long as there’s mutual consent and satisfaction with your partner, it really doesn’t matter what you chalk up to normal

So, what’s the difference between a fantasy and a fetish? A fantasy is something you spend a good amount thinking about while having sex or masturbating. Some of these fantasies are high up on your sexual bucket list and some you’d prefer never to see the light of day. A fetish, however, is something that HAS to be present for you to achieve arousal and orgasm. So while you might fantasize about a party, you don’t need two other women in the bed with you (though it could be a good time every once in awhile.) But if you have a fetish for tattoos, better make sure your partner is inked or you’re going to have some trouble staying sexually focused.

With that important distinction all cleared up, here are some of the most common fetishes:

1. FOOT FETISH
If the smell of raw feet does nothing but makes you want to take a cold shower, you’re probably not going to fall into the foot fetish camp. Every detail about the foot can get this particular person going. The majority of foot fetishists are men and they often like to smell, lick or taste feet and require some interaction with any part of your foot to experience orgasm and overall sexual satisfaction.

2. VOYEURISM
Voyeurism is a fetish that revolves around getting turned on by looking at people having sex or staring at naked bodies, wherever they can find them. A lot of people have this fetish for observation; they might just be unaware of it. But since 30% of all data transferred on the Internet last year was porn, it’s safe to say the voyeurism is actually at an all time high.

3. LATEX
This fetish describes those who experience immense sexual pleasure when their partner wears latex, rubber, vinyl or other shiny and tight materials. Rubberists, as these fetishists have also been called, experience the presence of such slinky materials as a type of bondage. For others, simply the smell or feel of latex is enough to get them revved up.

4. DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION
Dominance and submission are part of the acronym, BDSM, which has become part of the common vernacular, thanks to the recent explosion of 50 Shades of Grey. It stands for bondage, domination and submission, sadism and masochism but it’s really an umbrella term for couples who engage in any kind of dominant submissive power play during sex. For this to be considered a fetish rather than just a part of a healthy sex life, one or more of the participants must require this type of play in order to feel sexually stimulated.

5. BODY PIERCING
This is a quite popular fetish and incorporates everything from pierced belly buttons to eyebrows, joysticks and nipples. People who have piercings are often drawn towards other people who have pierced themselves just as provocatively. Just the look of another person with piercings might be enough to turn them on, but it can also be the feeling of the cold metallic object rubbing against their body that spikes their adrenaline like nothing else. To be honest, I do have a fetish for ladies with body piercings and also gothic looks.

6. BREASTS AND BEHINDS
Who doesn’t love a great behind or some amazing breasts? But does that make you a fetishist? Let’s find out. Evolutionarily speaking, men are wired to focus on these areas as a sign of fertility. In the bedroom, you’ll know which one you're into if you find yourself constantly wanting to flip her around to doggy style or you’d rather watch her bounce around on top to get a nice view of her breasts during cowgirl. While any man can appreciate these lovely assets, men with these specific fetishes may find it difficult to reach climax without plump breasts or a firm behind in direct view. E.g Tosyne2much and Wristbangle

7. HAIR
Hair is another surprisingly popular fetish. Whether it’s tied in ponytails, braids or pigtails, on a blonde, brunette or redheaded woman, every guy has his own specific preference. Bottom line: the innate sensuality of hair does it for guys on many levels. This fetish could also be more focused on specific styles. When hair is styled in a ponytail, it can easily resemble a whip or provide you with something to pull while you’re in the heat of the moment. Hair is also synonymous with youth, so a woman with pigtails can fulfill a fetish for younger women. And hey, as long as she’s not actually a schoolgirl, there’s nothing wrong giving her a hair tug when she’s late for class.

8. CROSS DRESSING
This one is more common than you’d imagine and involves the fetishist needing to either wear clothes from the opposite sex or be sexually intimate with someone who is. This fetish is common among both straight and gay men. For many guys, knowing they’re wearing even just an item of clothing that is forbidden to them and could be caught doing so, can spike the arousal factor.

9. WATER, THUNDER AND LIGHTNING
Water is popular fetish with both men and women. Just the sound of running water is all the magic they need to get going. A shower, a faucet or even rain storms all work to fulfill this fetish. Some women might even find themselves getting turned on by the sound of thunder and lightening. Those random acts of gigantic flashes of light in the sky can be enough trigger their desire for sex.

10. FURRIES
There exists a subculture of people that call themselves“furries.”These people get together a few times a year to dress up in furry animal costumes as a form of expression, whether sexual or otherwise. These aren’t always your average woodland creatures, either! If you visited a furry convention, you might also see a life-sized kitty with long, bejeweled eyelashes or a pastel bunny rabbit with sumptuous breasts. If this sounds a little out there, you can do what many others have done and search“furry porn”on the Internet to get a better idea of what I’m talking about. It is important to note that not all members of the furry lifestyles participate in a sexual way, much like with the world of cosplay. But of course, there are some who do have a full on furry fetish and prefer furry sex (which does not always involve actual intercourse) to everyday lovemaking.

NBS: No matter what you or your partner is into sexually, keep in mind that there is something out there for everybody. It’s important to stay open-minded and never be afraid to try something new. You never know, you might find that feet, pigtails or women’s panties could take your sexual experience to the next level, and there’s nothing wrong with that!

Op, So, what’s the difference between a fantasy and a fetish? A fantasy is something you spend a good amount thinking about while having sex or masturbating. Some of these fantasies are high up on your sexual bucket list and some you’d prefer never to see the light of day. A fetish, however, is something that HAS to be present for you to achieve arousal and orgasm. So while you might fantasize about a party, you don’t need two other women in the bed with you (though it could be a good time every once in awhile.) But if you have a fetish for armpits, better make sure your partner is clean and nicely shaved or you’re going to have some trouble staying sexually focused.

With that important distinction all cleared up, here are some of the most common fetishes:

1. FOOT FETISH
If the smell of raw feet does nothing but makes you want to take a cold shower, you’re probably not going to fall into the foot fetish camp. Every detail about the foot can get this particular person going. The majority of foot fetishists are men and they often like to smell, lick or taste feet and require some interaction with any part of your foot to experience orgasm and overall sexual satisfaction.

2. VOYEURISM
Voyeurism is a fetish that revolves around getting turned on by looking at people having sex or staring at naked bodies, wherever they can find them. A lot of people have this fetish for observation; they might just be unaware of it. But since 30% of all data transferred on the Internet last year was porn, it’s safe to say the voyeurism is actually at an all time high.

3. LATEX
This fetish describes those who experience immense sexual pleasure when their partner wears latex, rubber, vinyl or other shiny and tight materials. Rubberists, as these fetishists have also been called, experience the presence of such slinky materials as a type of bondage. For others, simply the smell or feel of latex is enough to get them revved up.

4. DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION
Dominance and submission are part of the acronym, BDSM, which has become part of the common vernacular, thanks to the recent explosion of 50 Shades of Grey. It stands for bondage, domination and submission, sadism and masochism but it’s really an umbrella term for couples who engage in any kind of dominant submissive power play during sex. For this to be considered a fetish rather than just a part of a healthy sex life, one or more of the participants must require this type of play in order to feel sexually stimulated.

5. BODY PIERCING
This is a quite popular fetish and incorporates everything from pierced belly buttons to eyebrows, joysticks and nipples. People who have piercings are often drawn towards other people who have pierced themselves just as provocatively. Just the look of another person with piercings might be enough to turn them on, but it can also be the feeling of the cold metallic object rubbing against their body that spikes their adrenaline like nothing else. And to be honest, I have a fetish for body piercing and gothic looks.

6. BREASTS AND BEHINDS
Who doesn’t love a great behind or some amazing breasts? But does that make you a fetishist? Let’s find out. Evolutionarily speaking, men are wired to focus on these areas as a sign of fertility. In the bedroom, you’ll know which one you're into if you find yourself constantly wanting to flip her around to doggy style or you’d rather watch her bounce around on top to get a nice view of her breasts during cowgirl. While any man can appreciate these lovely assets, men with these specific fetishes may find it difficult to reach climax without plump breasts or a firm behind in direct view. A good example is Tosyne2much and Wristbangle

7. Hair
Hair is another surprisingly popular fetish. Whether it’s tied in ponytails, braids or pigtails, on a blonde, brunette or redheaded woman, every guy has his own specific preference. Bottom line: the innate sensuality of hair does it for guys on many levels. This fetish could also be more focused on specific styles. When hair is styled in a ponytail, it can easily resemble a whip or provide you with something to pull while you’re in the heat of the moment. Hair is also synonymous with youth, so a woman with pigtails can fulfill a fetish for younger women. And hey, as long as she’s not actually a schoolgirl, there’s nothing wrong giving her a hair tug when she’s late for class.

8. Cross Dressing
This one is more common than you’d imagine and involves the fetishist needing to either wear clothes from the opposite sex or be sexually intimate with someone who is. This fetish is common among both straight and gay men. For many guys, knowing they’re wearing even just an item of clothing that is forbidden to them and could be caught doing so, can spike the arousal factor.

9. Water, Thunder And Lightning
Water is popular fetish with both men and women. Just the sound of running water is all the magic they need to get going. A shower, a faucet or even rain storms all work to fulfill this fetish. Some women might even find themselves getting turned on by the sound of thunder and lightening. Those random acts of gigantic flashes of light in the sky can be enough trigger their desire for sex.

10. Furries
There exists a subculture of people that call themselves“furries.”These people get together a few times a year to dress up in furry animal costumes as a form of expression, whether sexual or otherwise. These aren’t always your average woodland creatures, either! If you visited a furry convention, you might also see a life-sized kitty with long, bejeweled eyelashes or a pastel bunny rabbit with sumptuous breasts. If this sounds a little out there, you can do what many others have done and search“furry porn”on the Internet to get a better idea of what I’m talking about. It is important to note that not all members of the furry lifestyles participate in a sexual way, much like with the world of cosplay. But of course, there are some who do have a full on furry fetish and prefer furry sex (which does not always involve actual intercourse) to everyday lovemaking.

NBS: No matter what you or your partner is into sexually, keep in mind that there is something out there for everybody. It’s important to stay open-minded and never be afraid to try something new. You never know, you might find that feet, pigtails or women’s panties could take your sexual experience to the next level, and there’s nothing wrong with that!

Hold on mister, are you saying you, your gf and her ex all live under same roof Wtf is that Seriously, tell us more about this your awesome story.

I don't understand the media obsession with cleavage. Someone shows cleavage and it's news but when our youth show intelligence, it isn't news.

At last, irunboo posted something reasonable even though it(he/she) was drunk at the moment.

Laveda:
Sometimes the major cause some girls go into lesbianism is just due to the number of heart breaks they've experienced.. They feel a man just can't love them for real.....they just feel he's using her for sex or so....

And yeah she runs into lesbianism

I really doubt that sis. Yes, heartbreaks seldom motivates one but not the major cause and probably 1 percent true.

Op, that's not entirely true. You see, the different ideas of the 'cause' of homosexuality are difficult to reconcile but it would be fair to say that we do not know why some women have Intimate thoughts and feelings and may enjoy sexual behaviours with a person of the same gender. The only major difference between a homosexual woman and a heterosexual woman is that the former has a sexual preference for a person of her own gender.

The sexuality of a lesbian is far from what you just posted there op, there are 3 things you need to know about lesbians

1. The sexual response of heterosexual and homosexual women is similar but lesbians reach orgasm more frequently and each episode of making love lasts longer than in heterosexual women.

2. Lesbians are no more likely to sexually abuse children than heterosexuals.

3. Older lesbians have less anxiety about being less attractive, but more anxiety about loss of independence than heterosexual women.

And you'll be surprised to find out that most lesbians form happy, stable relationships and lead full, contented lives, though a few have emotional problems, but these only differ in degree from the emotional problem of straight women like you. The increased threat to a lesbian's emotional health is due to society's condemnation of homosexuality, which increases her insecurity.
It is intolerable that a civilised society should single out a group of people for disapproval, aggravating their problems. Like I said earlier, the only difference between a homosexual and heterosexual woman is her ''Intimate PREFERENCE''.

I hope you get my point op, though morally, it's wrong and society frowns at it but we should let them be and at the end each being will answer for him/herself on the last day.

RexKex:
OP, are you related to the late Sam Okwaraji

Lolz. Guy you're wicked, I swear.

That's deep bro. Way deep

Nairalanders will never cease to amaze me with their comments. But on a more serious note, let's analyse this situation thoroughly.

First, morally speaking these guys are just being naïve and it's so so wrong and like some peeps mentioned earlier, saying they're immature, low self esteem, poor thinking, big fools- Yes, you guys are right and you're definitely entitled to your opinions but on a second note, we shouldn't judge others just because we sin differently from them. So let's be considerate in dishing out insults to these guys.

Also let's look at it from another perspective and I believe we are familiar with the word called ''Balling''. Yea, these guys are definitely balling and if I should scale it on 1-10, I would rate them 2. Op, I'm sure you've not seen when a real dude hits the jackpot particularly here in benin city. Lemme share an experience with you guys

Last year november 2015, 3 guys came to my shop and decided to get for themselves 3 Toyota Venza and 3 Honda Evil Spirit for their girlfriends. I was so happy because I really did made a healthy profit from it and being one of the guys a former class-mate of mine back then in elementary school, I decided to ask him privately how come he got so much money and why wasting it on material things rather than investing them on something profitable, he told me we'll talk later and that I shouldn't spoil the fun.

After the paperworks and all that, we went to a bar at G.R.A(Name withheld) and Op, you wouldn't believe how these other two guys lavished this raw cash. If I can remember correctly, those guys spent a roughly estimate of 2 mill that day and after the whole charade, I finally got a chance to speak with my friend and it turns out that he was smarter than his 2 colleagues. As I'm typing this right now, he has a 2-bedroom flats and his colleagues are even squatting with him and dead broke and he opened a boutique for himself.

So my point exactly is that we shouldn't categorised all these yahoo guys as junkies or fools or bastards, some are actually smart and have a good life because they knew where they started and where they're heading to. Though some are reckless, rude and annoying especially when you happen to be in the same bar with them. But some are smart and are living a good life and I can count a few I've encountered.

Finally, Op if you want to know what yahoo money is all about, kindly pay a visit to Benin-City. It's never a dull moment with those guys here. Trust Me.

Nairalanders will never cease to amaze me with their comments. But on a more serious note, let's analyse this situation thoroughly.

First, morally speaking these guys are just being naïve and it's so so wrong and like someone mentioned earlier, they have a

Mitrovic, please one more goal.

IamLEGEND1:
I sight u,brotherly.

Make we just dey observe bros.

Op, since you're new i'll help you out.

Lala$ticlala can be defined as a robotic E- monitoring machine that automatically prohibits you from any activity here when you make silly comments and very rigid with the male folks but fragile with the female folks.

Just joking ohh before I get ban of life.

Op, the more attracted a woman is to a man and the more comfortable and safe she feels, the more she will want his attention. The closer and more intimate a relationship becomes with a woman, the more of your time she will require. When you understand how women get love and support from their fathers when they are little girls, you realize that women are already preconditioned and trained to pursue the men they love and desire.

The more safe and comfortable a woman feels with a man, the more comfortable she will feel pursuing him. The more things a guy does right with a woman, the higher her interest level will go and the more she will chase him. The less things a guy does right with a woman, the lower her interest level will go and the less she will chase him.

The very act of chasing a woman, calling her when she does not call you back and trying to force progress by initiating excessive calling and texting, communicates to women that you don’t understand how attraction works, or how to interact socially with women. Needy and insecure men who chase women trying to force things, are the guys who become stalkers and violent boyfriends. That is why women will purposely not call a guy back right away, or not respond to his text right away. It’s a defense mechanism, and a prequalification technique women use to screen out bad relationship/sex playmate candidates.

Hope you get?

IamLEGEND1:
5). They are gold diggers

6). They have protruding bellies (even the slim ones)

. They are short

Absolutely correct!

'A short girl with fat stomach feeling like she deserves a rich guy' is the quintessential definition of ur everyday Nigerian girl.

Ma nigga.

Op, Before I get into the etiquette of poking and prodding your friend snorer of a husband, I want to make sure you know that while snoring is generally considered a minor “social” problem (though a major marital one), it can also be a serious health issue. It’s correlated with a heightened risk of both heart attack (snorers have a 34 percent greater chance of having one) and stroke (67 percent). Other problems include sleep apnea, drowsiness, irritability, lack of focus and decreased libido. In short, it’s important for her husband to determine why he’s snoring so much and the most helpful thing she can do is push him into making an appointment with a specialist for a sleep study.

And here’s my advice for anyone sharing a bed with a snorer:

1. Remember that snoring is a medical condition, not a personal failing. Don’t exacerbate your sleeplessness with an outburst of anger.

2.If “occasional” snoring has become nightly, consider together whether there have been any changes in a partner’s health or behavior that could contribute to the increase. Regardless, be gentle with your spouse and discuss this in a non-confrontational manner—and not when you both are trying to get some zzzs.

3.Wear earplugs.

4.If the snoring continues to bother you, consider sleeping separately.

I would only add this: Occasional prodding and poking are fine, but if you’re counting on a long and happy marriage, beware the resentment and shoving. Get to the heart of the matter as quickly as you can.

Where the pics na

Good Evening my gallant bosses in the house. Please this thread is a survey I'm working on and I would really appreciate each and everyone's opinion, male and female. And please, no bashing.

So, my question to the Guys is-- Can you marry a lady who can't cook, wash and do the needed chores of a housewife?

And to the ladies-- Will you permit your brother to marry such a lady?

Please, for the sake of love, let's not insult one another. Just drop your suggestions and I'll be gladly okay,
Cc Wristbangle
Tosyne2much
Decker
Cutehector
IamLegend
Durrent
Obiorathesubtle
Estherfabian
Misspicy
Adanna28
Prettythicksme
STFUareyouGod
MrCork
Vizkiz
Vanqay

iceberylin:
Mehnn...i love the guy's Confidence

My brother some ladies can form posh but in reality, --

There's nothing wrong about two sane beings mutually and intimately enjoying each other's company.

Op seriously, if you can't see her as your wife don't waste her time making her your girlfriend. There's no point going from Jss 1 to Ss3 if you're not going to write waec.

Same rules apply to the ladies too. Stop giving him hope and false alarm.