Suigeneris93:

Dora the explorer

EverLily:

Okay, people are different. I am different. It's okay to walk away when you aint feeling the relationship or when you have a concrete reason. You talked about breaking up for a silly reason and I said and still mantain that I will shuk him knife I don't just go into a relationship with the mindset of exploring alone. Yes, I want to learn but for me to even agree to be with you over time, I would want something more. Breaking up must be on a solid reason and not because he has a cough and cannot continue the relationship.

If I don't see a future with someone, I'd make it clear, everything mutual. I won't waste the person's time and hurt that person at the end. That's selfish and wicked.

I still believe in Karma. If the person asks for God's forgiveness genuinely, I think all is forgiven. Afterall, what you sow, you must reap

6fit:
Must every R/ship lead to marriage? If d two adults involve decides to date just for d purpose of fvcking each other, dont think it wrong

davidmark4naija:


dis ur "shook him him knife" line don make me laff skara.

U be warri babe?

Okay. I totally agree with you except the karma part. If karma was out for everyone, u'd be probably be in coma by now for all the wrongs u've done in ur lifetime, plus all the innocent guys u've hurt too.

ShakurM:
I don't buy your analogy, comparing cup of tea to human?

ShakurM:
I don't buy your analogy, comparing cup of tea to human?

perkynoble:


making a cup of tea u won't drink is a waste of beverage , dating a girl u won't marry is a waste of time

EverLily:

Lol
I be confam nwa Igbo

You're probably right about the karma ish...to an extent
Innocent guys ke? Cry me a river. Guys are not innocent anything. They can deceive anyhow plus I haven't hurt any 'innocent' guy Are you innocent?

6fit:
Must every R/ship lead to marriage? If d two adults involve decides to date just for d purpose of fvcking each other, dont think it wrong

davidmark4naija:


U dont get it at all.

I was gisting with a friend and she was complaining dat her bf left him "after everything". All she wanted was for me to join her and condemn the act. How do you guys even define dis "after everything" sef?

But I saw it differently. Anybody has the right to change his mind. I think the only time anybody looses his right to walk out of any relationship just like dat, is when both parties are legally married. Even at dat der is a process called divorce.

I think our problem is we attach so much importance to "dating-relationships" like there is a constitution dat it MUST be permanent.

Pls is there any law like dat?

About karma, wot abt all the female gold-diggers? Wot does karma do to them? The ladies dat aborted dia babies severally and still got pregnant several times afta and gave birth to lovely kids for their ignorant husband, wot did karma do to them?

Der is nothing like karma in dis regard my dear, cos its not within her jurisdiction

davidmark4naija:


So you have bin heartbroken abi? Deceived by a guy abi?

Eyah! Sori abt dat. So wot were his crimes? If u dont mind sharing?

MzLarem:
Na this kain place dem go always see u.

davidmark4naija:


So you have bin heartbroken abi? Deceived by a guy abi?

Eyah! Sori abt dat. So wot were his crimes? If u dont mind sharing?

davidmark4naija:


Babe! Why u day attack me like dis na? Abi u see me for dream?

Besides, why is it dat its always okay with you guys when a lady leaves a guy she was dating becos he's not ready for marriage, but its neva okay for a guy to leave a lady he was dating becos he's not yet ready for marriage? Huh?

DharmyYinks:

Dats not "Dating". Its "friends with benefits". And its wrong,inappropriate.

EverLily:


Not really. I just know some guys that are not loyal at all. I hate that they take advantage of a sincere love.

I asked you before. Are you innocent?

davidmark4naija:


Why u no want talk true ehn? Dem don break ur heart before abi? Der is no shame in admitting. U can always talk to daddy. Daddy will take good care of u.

Abt ur question, I am not innocent. I am just a guy dat tries to be nice sometimes and treat others nicely. Doe I do a lot of bad tins sha. Do u like bad tins?

davidmark4naija:
Wots wrong with dating someone you cant marry?

Wots wrong with dating someone you know you won't marry?

Wots wrong with dating someone with no future plans in mind?

Wots wrong with continuing to date someone after you realise you guys just cant have a future togeda?

Anytin wrong with any of the above?

MzLarem:
Well done..caught u red-handed.

MzLarem:
..Call me when u're 40 nd still sampling.

MzLarem:
1st,who are d 'you guys' ..what u pple don't seem to understand is dat we're different individuals with preferences..wats ok for lady A might nt be ok 4 lady B..so stop generalizing..

Nd for ur question,its all a matter of communication..if u not ready 4 marriage cos of valid reasons not cos u're a chicken who is scared of commitment,talk to ur spouse nd know what u're both going to do..Nd stop changing gf/bf like u're changing pant.

EverLily:

You're right daddy. I've had my own share of heartbreaks, mild ones though.

I like some bad things sha. I embrace the bad things depending on which appeals to me

DharmyYinks:
Lolz. Its u ladies dat should worry most abt "AGE"

MzLarem:
Ok..wait till 70 b4 u start thinking of marriage then.