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Joavid:
No where in your post did you mention seeing a doctor.

and if you haven't, then am ashmed of you.

after BSc and MSc , after so much education, you don't know your way to the doctor's office or atleast do a thorough research on your situation.

instead you're saying it's spiritual problem.

smh

No mind d op, he's just been stubborn. When I was facing Sam problem no 1 offered help, had to remove shame from my face n sought help.
I overcame d problem many years ago n today am happily married with kids.
Advised him on another thread on how I went bout it but its like his mind is made its spiritual, good luck to him.

helpforever:
I can remember early 2015 or late 2014 when I went to a popular brothel in Bariga to try out my luck again. About 4 prostitutes came to meet me so I will pick them, they were all flaunting their body around me. Then immediately noticed the way I looked helpless and confused and started feeling my joystick. Speaking edo language to themselves. I'm not sure, but I think they noticed something was not right or so and they all left to look for another customer

Your problem is; u think ur problem is spiritual. Won't blame u tho cos I came to that point when I was having same issue n let me repeat it here; Your problem is NOT spiritual! You've not seen d doc, not done any test, not stopped taking sugar, yet u believe ur problem is spiritual. No p, continue .
I already offered u my advise in d other thread which u obviously don't take serious.
I've bin in ur shoes many years ago n I finally overcame it (after some fraudster chop my money wella. Today I enjoy regular sex with my wife with 2 kids Maybe after dem chop ur money u go learn

cokegee:
Guy that is not negative energy, he is owing months of salary as we speak and I was owed 7months before I left Global Fleet, at least before I left people died become they could not have hostipal bill.
I don't know why people are congratulating him

This is really sad. JIMOH Ibrahim is a fake billionaire & a huge debtor.
U refuse to pay salaries but you're showing off with a 300m car, chai! Blackman hate seeing his fellow broda rise, enjoys seeing people around him suffer, why?
U guys shld com together n report to d relevant authorities: nlc, efcc etc if nothing happens (like I know) then make it a social media protest. I bet u he'll be forced to settle u guys

Phiniter:
Hmm three hundred million is more than enough to fund research centers that will look into the cure of one of the mumu disease's that plague Africa ordinary Ebola and the whole country will begin to panic meanwhile over three hundred million is being exported in exchange for an ordinary car smh

U said it all, d tragedy of d Blackman!

Happy sunday

babadee1:
Viagra was made for this kind of situation. I don't know what all the fuss is about. They need to just visit a doctor and get a Viagra prescription for ED. Simple matter.

viagra is not d permanent solution, just temporary. He needs to treat d cause first; could be an infection, excess sugar, psychological etc

helpforever:
It cannot be STD because I have never had sex in my life even before the prostitute encounter. I was a virgin.

Never say never! Do u know u can get bacteria infection like staph from public toilet?
Taking a lab test is to confirm/eliminate that angle

helpforever:
I also have this issue and its really bothering me for over 5 years. Mine is complicated and I think its spiritual.

It all started in 2011 when I was 20 and was ready to have sex. I went to a popular brothel in Lagos with a friend to try it out.
Though I was very nervous because I was a virgin and my heart was beating very fast.

We actually went in and two women approached us. A young woman of about 28 and one of about 40.

I am my other virgin friend had eye on the one of about 28 cause she was very beautiful. My friend immediately held on to her. The other one of 40 now held on to me that I should carry her lets go do it. I angrily said "You be my mama mate na", she got angry and left.

Then the younger one said, if I and my friend wants, we can take turns with her.

We left for her room. I entered first and was very nervous and sluggish even in removing my cloth.

She said, "e be like say u be virgin...so na me go disvrigin" you. She started touching my di*k, but it didn't get hard.

Time started to waste and I got tired and asked her to refund my money. She started shouting that its not possible, that the fact that my dick did not rise is none of her business. I asked that my friend should use the money and attempt, she said no. that he must bring his own money.

We left the building and started the arguments outside. Other prostitutes came to her aid and started asking what was wrong. She explained to them that I tried to have sex with her and my thing did not rise and now I want my money back, they started shouting and said its not possible that we should better get out of her.

At one corner, the older woman of about 40 that I earlier rejected started giving me the "ntoor" look and was saying "You see your life"

I got very scared and left for home immediately.

I tried to watch porn to see if it will get up, I can't really remember if it did.

Long and short, I have not been able to have sex since then. I have not even had sex in my life. I have never tried to have sex with a real girl before, so I won't embarrass myself. I have never had a girlfriend. Though girls keep flocking around me, since I am doing well both academically and business wise, but I never attempt to have sex with them and they keep wondering whats wrong with me. One of the unilag girls that seduced me and I did nothing concluded that I was impotent because she feels no man in the world would have resisted her seduction since she was very hot.

I have tried to have sex 3 more times, with prostitutes, but still same thing happens. No erection

In 2012, I spent the whole year going to church everyday. Nothing happened. I have stopped now and accepted my fate.

Only my best friend knows about this, he keeps saying its not a spiritual condition but medical condition due to the fact that I started
masturbating right since I was 17.

He says I might have had the issue right before the prostitute encounter. Sometimes he says that it is a psychological condition.

But the thing is, how can a young boy of 20 then have Erectile dysfunction due to masturbation.
Many young boys masturbate and nothing happened to them.

I was sad for a while, but now it seems I have accepted my fate. This issue have made me focus on my studies and business and now, at 26. I have finished my BSC, and my MSC

Whenever I am Hot, I masturbate and I think that has worsened my issue. I have been masturbating since 2011 when this happened

Lots of order thing happens in between that confuses me. Like 2 years after the prostitute encounter, when I was in my 3rd year, one beautiful edo girl who really loved me was making out with me and flirting around me and I got a rock solid erection 100%. Very hard. Also, in 2014. A girl who liked me came to my house and she was fliting with me, though she didn't plan on having sex with me. Only the flirting alone made me hard. The erection was 70% hard. But then, those are the only occurencies.

Whenever I watch porn, I get semi erection - say about 60% hard.

Whenever I jerk my joystick, it gets hard - about 80% and within minutes, it deflates again.

Lot of different things have happened along the line which is too much to type. Long and short, I don't get erections when I wakeup again. I used to before all this issues.

Or is it the excess sugar I take, or the belly fat I have gotten due to the way I eat carelessly and spend on myself. (Since I don't have any woman to cater for) that is the cause.

Is it spiritual, medical or psychological?

Is it due to masturbation? Is it an infection?

Because I can remember in late 2012 or early 2013. When I tried to urinate, I had and felt a sharp pain.

I happened for about 2 days and stopped by itself.

I am getting older and my mother is already reminding me about marriage. I don't think I will marry until this issue is resolved. I can't
subject any woman to emotional pain.

At some point, I thought I was gay, but I am in no way attracted to men. But I am attracted to women. I tried watch transgender porn to confirm if I was gay (since I couldn't stand real gay porn). I actually got aroused and had a mild erection. But come one, transgenders are women who just have a joystick.

I have put up my issues on a foreign site (because other people who have put up their problems on nairaland gets abused, mocked, insulted and bullied) and I was advised by the whites to see a doctor and counselor. They didn't even understand what I meant by spiritual issue. But they have been very concerned and helpful

I don't need to see any counselor because my case would confuse who ever I tell.

I have been living in frustration. No sex life and no real social life. I keep falling out with female friend because I don't make any move towards them.

I keep falling out with male friends, because they keep wondering "why this their guy no dey nack woman like them". They feel I am weird because they 100% know I am not gay and wonder why a normal guy will be avoiding women like this.

I hope my issue is resolved.

But if its not, I would live the rest of my life like this. Probabaly keep on masturbating and never get married.

It might actually be my excessive masturbation that might be the cause of this. I don't really know. Only God knows.

I am depressed. But suicide is not an option for me. God forbid.

I feel ur pain (I've been there). My advice to u n any young man out there with similar issue is: Don't Hide Your Problem, Else Your Problem Will Hide U!
Your problem is not a big deal, its a combination of: psychological, excess sugar, n probably std. First thing first: go to a lab n do a test or better still, see a doctor, he will recommend a lab test.
If infection is present treat it asap. Next, cut off sugar entirely, no soft drink, no sugar in ur tea/garri. Take bitthers (eg Ruzu or Beta bitters).
To combat d psychological problem, u can take libido boosting drug like Reyouth root (herbal with no side effect). Its not a spiritual prob, I faced same problem b4 I got married, today I am happily married wit 2 kids.
(Plz see also advice I gave d op above, cheers)

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Your bro Inlaw is not impotent if he can have an errction but loses it just b4 penetration, it could b any of 2 reasons: 1.psychological 2.std .
This is a prob a lot of young men face n surpassed (urs sinerely inclusive) while In their teenage to 20s n even 30s.
1st thing I'd advise: let him do a lab test to confirm presence/absence of bacteria/viral infection. If present, he shld treat with Orthodox method n follow up with any good bitters or agbo, cos some Infection cld be stubbornn they usually cause ED.
Next, he can tackle d psychological prob by taking libido boosting drug like Re-youth Root (Chinese herbal product). I(i recommend herbal products with no side effects.)
This will ensure he has hard erection b4 n during d act, he can stop using it when his confidence returns.
Pls help ur bro Inlaw, its not a big deal, it will only be if he has never had an erection in d past.. Don't advice ur sis to live her marriage, pass this info to her let her pass on to her hubby, u guys shld help him, cheers.
Let me also add this: let him run away from sugar! No soft drink/beer, no sugar in tea/garri etc. Sugar causes weak erection n also creates an enabling environment for bacteria/virus to thrive n multiply exponentially.
He shld also take lots of fruits like: water Mellon, cucumber, banana, lemon, groundnut etc

Phinity318:
Bobo look into what u can offer with ur MSc/Bsc(2.1) and not what u can gain...I tell u in naija connect works faster than brains. be ur own boss. Bless

So we shld fold our arms n allow injustice to continue? Do u realise this same corruption is in all sectors? Be ur own boss no be beans! D environment is not biz friendly; no bank will give u loan, no light, rent increments etc SMEs are dying @ a fast rate.
Not discouraging anybody out there contemplating going into biz, been an entrepreneur for like 10yrs, just saying it as it is.
If we d youths don't rise up n take back this country from this criminals, our kids will question us! They'll never give u ur rights on a platter of gold, u have to fight for it n take it by force!
Bitter Truth: even God will not fight this battle for us, time for a revolution n d time is now! Let's start it from here, leverage on d power of social media, united, we can get whatever we want.
Rotimi amaechi once said to uniport students; until d youths start stoning them, they'll not stop stealing! Think about that.

Abaje195:
List Of Apostle Suleman’s False Prophecies:
Omidiran List of Apostle Suleman’s false prophecies as shared by ABAJE…….Relics of Apostle Suleiman’s prophecy:>

Presidential election will be inconclusive,but Jonathan would be declared winner. APC Pray!— Check today’s date… GEJ is ex-president>

El Rufai should go and sit down. For abusing Jesus, he will not win Kaduna election… who is gov of Kaduna today?>

Anti-preaching bill: El-Rufai will die – Mr Johnson Suleiman. El-Rufai asked mr suleiman to tell him the day he will die? Nigerians are still waiting>

”I see a woman becoming the president of America, but her health needs attention. . . who is president of America? Trump na woman?>

President Obama needs serious prayers for his health . . . Obama today has turned Mafia in America, giving Trump serious migraine. Hale and Hearty>

Britain needs prayers because of her Queen . . . Prayer for a 90 years old woman? To live to 200? (Nonsense, who doesnt know a 90 yrs old woman can die anytime?)>

2015 presidential election will be rigged, marred by violence and end up in court . . .There was no violence nor court case ooo.>

Rochas Okorocha; I saw him moving to PDP . . . Okorocha today is the one taking people into APC.>

And now you accept sending money to awoman you call a stripper and initially denied knowing . . . abi she de manage orphanage?In spite of all these, the multitude keeps growing. Some are so irascible in their convictions that even a cow can lead them. Christ never said we should jettison our brains!The matter is in court! Let’s give all parties chance to prove their innocence!

D apostate is a cheap frauster, I can make better prophecies. They'll make 100 prophecies, 5 comes to pass n u c d gullible sheeple jumping upandan pointing @ d 5 as proof he's a true mog n forgetting d 95 failed prophecies. 5 over 100 is an spic failure.
Next Yr d vicious cycle starts all over again,

DrUche3:
Are you this jobless
Are you a saint from heaven
Can't you people just free these men who put on the same flesh with every other person but divinely anointed as gospel preachers

I just wonder why people(some so called believers too) can't see clearly that the goings on are devices of Satan to paint this man of God and his divinely orchestrated ministry black!

If you truly knew this Apostle; the values and impact he's brought to humanity, you wouldn't open ur buccal cavity and spew whatever comes into ur mind.

Rather than castigate him and his followers, sir/madam, GO ON YOUR KNEES AND PRAY FOR THEM! this is Satan at work!

Before you quote me this is my stand: whether or not he is guilty doesn't change the fact that he's God's servant so stop judging him and allow God alone to do so!

It won't be out of place to call u a mumu n I don't mean it as an insult, just to reset ur sincere but ignorant brain. U defend another man like he's ur lord, like u no everything bout him.
Do t cry louder than d bereaved, let d apostle defend himself

JustinSlayer69:
He's looking at the cake the way he would look at Otobo's..... I no talk anything ooo

Happy birthday, Apostle. More tithes to your elbow... more meows to your tongue


Only a blind man won't see he doesn't look happy but seriously depressed

This is what he said on his birthday, nevertheless....

Why he go happy, wen jealous people like u don spoil him runs. Birthday wen guyman don plan spend wit Daniela for 1 Greek island to ease stress, make e no for lost.

OneManLegion:
Lol. You can't use something's claims to validate it na.
You can't use the bible to validate its own authenticity and Christianity any more than you can use Ifa folk-lore to validate the yoruba accounts.

We'll need something more provable and empirical.

Just goes to show how ignorant & dumb most xtians are

dammytosh:
That is a man of God.

Unlike his Nigerian counterparts. Mogs in Nigeria shld learn from this pastor.

yorhmienerd:
Why do you like supporting second fiddle clubs ehn? Join the best club i.e Bacelona This champe, na Barca e dey come whether by hook or by croook

Thank god say u know ur club dey win by crook; d way u beat PSG wit 2 soft penalties

kingfriday:
Let God fight for us my brother. I didn't even see my name (FCSC-2016-210902-0004948) but it is well as God is still on the THRONE.

This right here is our problem in this country; God will fight for us, live it for God, only God can help us etc. Oh Nigerian youth, who has bewitched u? Open ur eyes n rid yourself of ignorance. God Has done more than enough for us already: mineral resources, good weather, fertile land, no natural disaster etc yet we still want god to com n do our duties.
If u send ur child to school, pay his fees, buy books, pay for extra mural lesson, yet ur son keeps telling everybody; 'my daddy will write my exams for me cos he loves me'. What will u do/say to him?
Even Israel, so called God's own people, don't wait for God to fight their battles, kill 1 Israeli n they'll kill 10 of u! We must fight our battles ourselves if we 1 2 c real change.

If u no get connection, no hope, same rich people/politicians will fix their family n friends there, shey na dem get dis country? After stealing our common wealth we still allow them steal our opportunities.
If nobody here find their name on d list, we have to do something, we've to protest.

DeRay98:
Their competitor is advising on how to win in the battle for their men but their pride and jealousy will not allow them see the reality in her statement.
Married women become complacent and secured after marriage and forget to keep up the game that won them their men.

True talk. This roman goddess can make even d pope commit! Imagine as a big boy, babes like these wey dey strike for manchesster n that Daniela babe wey be top striker for arsenal dey tempt u, chai! I no blame d apostle o

babyfaceafrica:
Kemi the talkative will eat kuje beans for a long time..next time ,she will know when to talk and when to keep kwayet...aproko

She's an investigative journalist, Aproko is her job, do u have 1?

BrutalJab:
Animal, na u next. That ur leaky mawt will close soon. Mr Ovasabi

For ur info, fela said more than freeze. I'm sure if he was still alive u wld say worse things bout him
2moro may be ur turn, 1 big man wld oppress u for fighting for others/exposing some wolf in sheep clothing/criminals. And people wld stand by n mock u.
Kemi n freeze are journalists, their job is to talk, say it as it is, like fela. Not cower in fear @ d mention of some corrupt politicians/clergy.
Agreed, sometimes they may cross d line, but you'd agree The society needs fearless journalists like them

weedtheweeds:
say what you want I can see dirt once the light is turned on. You worship men and not God. Let him defend himself. He is still alive. He should come out and purport opposing facts if he has any LOL. yeye day smell. Ashewo men. You cannot bury secrets forever. It will be spilling one by one. God is exposing y'all durty

D apostate even lied to his sheep that miss Otobo has confessed n d whole church was celebrating. Smh

bebe2:
Ok

Wen they successfully shut all the journalists in this country up, u pple will know.

This is a sliding slope to hell,

There are tabloids journalists everywhere, they expose celebrities and political figures who are not practicing wat they preach.

Worst u can do is sue them if u think they lied but naija don involve police and prison even before judgement has been passed.

Don't mind all these pastor worshipers running their mouth here. D so called mog is using his money n power to oppress a courageous investigative journalist, (which we seriously lack in this country by d way) Investigative journalist curb d excesses of politicians & religious leaders.
How are we even sure there's no iota of truth in d story?

conact us today!

2shur:
Scam.
A cripple legs supposed to look malnourished and very lean.
This guys legs are fat and healthy.
Crippled persons from the waist down are normally skinny.
Abegi scam

1m likes for u. This is a poor attempt @ damage control.

Osasnidas:
alright... but from the screenshot below... the ingredients in fanta are sodium benzoate and ascorbic acid which means it is unsafe to drink it since this two things are already present..

This is serious, nbc must be sued, they've been giving nigerians poison!

beatcoins:
A man without beliefs is a man without anything to live for. Believe brings hope, hope brings faith, which births life. Again I ask you, what is a life without belief? I'm delighted you called me a sheep. That's the best compliment you can give a Christian. Jesus was our ultimate sheep.

Some of d richest people in this world don't have any beliefs. If u must believe something, let it be d truth. Get out of ur comfort zone n seek d truth, d truth outside d bible.
Start from here; if u were born in d core north, there's 99% probability you'd be a Muslim 2day, defending Islam with everything you've got.
Almost all of us didn't choose our religions, we were born into it, ask yourself; y do I believe what I believe? Is it cos I've done my research n concluded without fear (of hell fire, I may add) or bias, that this is d truth or cos I was simply born into it?

Pastafarian:
SHOW ME A COUNTRY...

Show me a country that respects its Pastors, Imams, and Rabbis more than it respects its Farmers, Teachers, and Scientists, and I will show you a doomed country that will forever be the laughing stock of the world.

Tell me the name of the country that puts bible above brain, faith above facts, prayer above proof, churches over schools, rapture above reason, invisible gods over visible goodness, life after death above life before death, tithing above thinking.

Tell me the name of that country and I will tell you the name of a country whose children will grow up to be children---mental cripples.

Does that describe your country?

Credit: Joseph1013

U just summarized everything wrong wit this country. Tempted to say, like we always do, only god will help us, but I won't, cos I know he won't. Only we can help our selvesselves in this country.

beatcoins:
We all know that men of God have power in their tongue. We as Christians have seen God in action or heard testimonies of prayer points fulfilled when in church. Some of you have even have answered prayers. Yet, when prophesies are shared, you doubt and make mockery. God cannot be mocked. If the Islamic Allah does not know who YHWH is, then they need to understand why true believers fight with their knees. They need to know that the most dangerous terrorists on the planet are the gentle christians they trample on daily.
With great power comes greater responsibility, christians may be gentle but pray they never invoke God's wrath on anyone. The walls of Jericho collapsed because God's people sang, danced and shouted. Gideon won a battle with only 300 soildiers when then made noises against their enemy. When Apostle Suleiman prophesied, I knew God will honour the word of his servant but he also provided grace period for El'Rufai. I guess the time ran out.
My prophet in Jos is a radical man with so much fulfiled prophesies. Just on sunday a prophesy he gave about Buhari not being on seat and will be missing was reviewed in sunday service. I was shocked. All in all. Never critise or judge anyone. Never provoke anyone to say a negative prayer on you. Never insult God's oracle and run from threads where Pastors are insulted. Call me sheeple! Whatever, to enter God's kingdom one must keep his wisdom aside and be like little children. Obey, is all God ask of you.

Be like children that believe in santa & superman n believe anything u tell him, hook, line & sinker, right? Thank God u no who u are; sheep

omenkaLives:
We would wait until the return of dinosaurs and we won't get any!

That was how that issue just got swept under the carpet. Same way synagogue building collapse got swept under the rug. Same way this would get shoved aside and forgotten.

Nigeria is a country with boundless supply of eternally enslaved and gullible religious fanatics.

1000000000000 likes!

nwakaibeya1:
Pray and tell the mantle of GOD to move with the cutlass of heaven and all the weapons of heaven and invade every evil church that you must have entered knowingly or unknowingly that the kingdom of heaven should slaughter any evil man of God that has hands in your life and destiny and prosperity and deceiving you and prophesying evil that appear real that the mantle of God should expose and disgrace them and put them on chain from heaven for you to be set free, for example evil prophets ,evil pastors,evil evangelist,evil elders ,evil apostles,evil bishops,evil deacons,evil deaconesses,evil reverend fathers
Pray against any curse or curses the enemies have placed upon your life ,tell the mantle to strike those curses to death,that curses have eyes ,that they can see

Pray and tell the mantle of GOD to reveal to you about the kingdom and the mantle and the light that has come

Pray and tell the mantle of GOD concerning every hidden ,evil world upon your life,such as evil marine world,spiritual husband,spiritual wife,tell the mantle to strike them to death and put them on chain

Pray and tell the mantle of GOD to move with all the weapons of heaven and locate all your evil villagers your evil uncles your evil relations your evil brothers and evil sisters and evil husband ,evil wife and your evil neighbours and evil landlords and evil landladies ,that the mantle should expose them and slaughter them to death and put them on chain from heaven for you to be free

Pray and tell the mantle of GOD to strike every witches and wizards to upon your life upon your business upon your expectations,that the mantle should strike them to death and put them on chain for you to prosper

Pray and tell the mantle of GOD your hearts desire ,your hearts desire can be healing of your sickness,,breakthroughs,,promotions in your working place,or you desire a wife or a husband name it every good desire of yours

Pray this prayers like you have never done

Just wondering, sincerely, why this same prayer didn't work against BH, ebola, corrupt/criminal govt officials/pastors/imams?

Page 2017! I feel gooood!