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The healing ministries of Jesus testified to the fact that He was the Messiah. As our compassionate Redeemer, the saviour was concerned with alleviating human suffering. But He was even more concerned with the salvation of everyone He touched with His healing grace. The purpose of Jesus' ministry was to "seek and save" lost mankind.

Miracles were an outgrowth of Jesus' redemptive ministry, but they were not the main reason He came to earth.

False revivals often place their major emphasis on miracles. Genuine revivals focus on ministry. False revivals emphasise spectacular signs and wonders; genuine revivals recognise that the greatest miracle is a changed life.

In other words, spectacular signs and marvellous wonders can never take the place of understanding and then following God's word. Obedience to God is primary; signs and wonders, if and when they come are always secondary.

See: 2 These. 2:9-12, Matt. 24:11-13,24; Rev. 19:20.

@tpia@, there are professional counsellors in Nigeria. I am one. A member of the Counselling Association of Nigeria (CASSON). Feel free to reach me on counsellorchi@gmail.com Thanks.

Yes people. I am a practising Counselling Psychologist with specialization in vocational, rehabilitation (I.e from substance abuse) and marital counselling. You can contact me on counsellorchi@gmail.com Confidentiality is my watchword. Look forward to hearing from you.

About three months really cos I gave birth before P.O.P in June. So I had to stay home for the 40days rest. Counting from July, its just about three months. God favoured me.

What the h3ll!!!!!!!!!

kulyie: just very recently a friend of mine was talking about this same issue this thread is adressing and she said she practically paid her own bride price in the sense that she gave the money to him and he got all the list her people asked for.as of that time,he wasnt earning much then and they really wanted to get married asap so she agreed with the guy that when he earns more,he will refund her money after marriage.you know,so they got married and things were going on smoothly for them and along the line,he had a disagreement with her because she was asking for her money and the guy kept posting her give me time,next month,next 2 months etc and before she could say jack robinson,the guy turned it into a fighting matter and he said i am just managing you because you paid for your own bride price yourself.did i personally use my own money to pay.you are a higher level of iyawo sara na.you were desperate to marry and you agreed to the terms,the woman was like tayo,so you can say this to me,he said of course na,di i force you or threaten you,was it not willingly you decided to give yourself cheaply and when she said ok she wants a refund of the money today, since the matter has been after 5years of marriage you havent returned the money,he said he doesnt have and even if he has he cant give her because they already have kids,whats the point,its not even as if i even married you as a virgin so why are you feeling important.omo i clapped my hands in amusement and shock.that was the day i knew many men have short memory,when they have not gotten what they want,they are all over you and when they finally get it,you are nothing to them again.i was like bimbo since this issue is causing rift forget it and dont ask him again.if he gives you,fine,if not bone it,you are the one that has made the mistake from the onset,if you had stood your ground that no matter what,you have to pay everything to the last letter,you wouldnt be treated like crap.if he cant save up to earn his bride,then he doesnt love you enough to be patient and disciplined to earn you and if he cant be patient,he should look for his wife else where,yorubas say the water that everybody will drink will not pass them by.it also said everyone eats breakfast,its the time that is always different


but we women,when we are in love,we let sentiments take the better part of us.some men will not have finished or even started paying your bride price,you will be going to his house to play wifey.wash clothes,cook,have sex with him and all.do you think he will be eager or willing to pay the bride price even if he has the money but he is getting it free of charge.wo abeg.smh...issshh

What the h3ll!!!!!!!!!

kulyie: just very recently a friend of mine was talking about this same issue this thread is adressing and she said she practically paid her own bride price in the sense that she gave the money to him and he got all the list her people asked for.as of that time,he wasnt earning much then and they really wanted to get married asap so she agreed with the guy that when he earns more,he will refund her money after marriage.you know,so they got married and things were going on smoothly for them and along the line,he had a disagreement with her because she was asking for her money and the guy kept posting her give me time,next month,next 2 months etc and before she could say jack robinson,the guy turned it into a fighting matter and he said i am just managing you because you paid for your own bride price yourself.did i personally use my own money to pay.you are a higher level of iyawo sara na.you were desperate to marry and you agreed to the terms,the woman was like tayo,so you can say this to me,he said of course na,di i force you or threaten you,was it not willingly you decided to give yourself cheaply and when she said ok she wants a refund of the money today, since the matter has been after 5years of marriage you havent returned the money,he said he doesnt have and even if he has he cant give her because they already have kids,whats the point,its not even as if i even married you as a virgin so why are you feeling important.omo i clapped my hands in amusement and shock.that was the day i knew many men have short memory,when they have not gotten what they want,they are all over you and when they finally get it,you are nothing to them again.i was like bimbo since this issue is causing rift forget it and dont ask him again.if he gives you,fine,if not bone it,you are the one that has made the mistake from the onset,if you had stood your ground that no matter what,you have to pay everything to the last letter,you wouldnt be treated like crap.if he cant save up to earn his bride,then he doesnt love you enough to be patient and disciplined to earn you and if he cant be patient,he should look for his wife else where,yorubas say the water that everybody will drink will not pass them by.it also said everyone eats breakfast,its the time that is always different


but we women,when we are in love,we let sentiments take the better part of us.some men will not have finished or even started paying your bride price,you will be going to his house to play wifey.wash clothes,cook,have sex with him and all.do you think he will be eager or willing to pay the bride price even if he has the money but he is getting it free of charge.wo abeg.smh...issshh

I am also choleric and my husband's dominant personality is choleric but other times melancholy. Its not exactly the best recipe for a good marriage but we've been trying to work things out tho sometimes im misunderstood as say, putting my work above my home or being stubborn and refusing to say i'm sorry. Anyway, we're working things out and taking things one-day-at-a-time.

Nairalanders,
Kindly advise on how to make the most of a Blackberry Playbook and most important how to browse and BBM without Wi-fi. Thanks.

Nairalanders Kindly advise on how I can use my Blackberry Playbook without Wi-fi. Is there a way I can do that. Your suggestions are welcome. Thanks.

She's on point with this one. Madam Patience how far na?

chinamims: 20th may taurus. Any may in d house.

yaaay!!! thats mine May 20. Didn't think I'd find any. So pleased to meet you

I'd just share my own experience with you. I experienced real pain but after the fourth day, i xpressed some milk cos i was feeling like I had stones in my chest. After that day, it felt better and everything is k now. This is not more than two weeks ago by the way. Take paracetamol if the pain persists.

The driver guy earns more money than some graduates doling out yabis to him on this thread . Go away with ur A/C office. The trucks are air - conditioned FYI. . I work in the air-conditioned Dangote office so I know better. Big ups to you guy.

How does that affect global warming and poverty? *smh#

Nice one @ op. Really appreciate this.

@
op this is so true. They are on d roads again from Babcock junction to
Ijebu-ode, they lie menacingly in waiting for one meal ticket who wud
buy breakfast, lunch and supper for them. What a shame!!!

Guys and married ladies what r those in-law issues? Bring it on!!!!

Nice one @ OP. These r practical lessons. I've learnt so much. Thanks for sharing.

Please is the postgraduate admission form for Olabisi Onabanjo University out yet? Please this is urgent. Thanks.

I dön't think that a woman's brandin can seriously make a man cheat. I'm married and i believe as young as i am, i should take care of myself but even at that, there are times my hubby says he's tired n stuff. If a man is inclined to cheat, he most likely will. It's usually an ego fn. Sme men v vry young, pretty wives @ home bt still cheat in order to add to their list of CONQUESTS.

@ poster, I think you majored in some minors. You didn't even talk about blood group, genotype, rhesus factor, blood sugar and all. This should make the first five on the list. Wat if ur partner sails tru d ones u earlier outlined but later, complications arose due to diabetes, or complications during pregnancy? Marriage is very important and I suggest intending couples to go for these tests before marriage and then get adequate counselling. I did.

@ poster, I think you majored in some minors. You didn't even talk about blood group, genotype, rhesus factor, blood sugar and all. This should make the first five on the list. Wat if ur partner sails tru d ones u earlier outlined but later, complications arose due to diabetes, or complications during pregnancy? Marriage is very important and I suggest intending couples to go for these tests before marriage and then get adequate counselling. I did.

@ Dyt, dis isn't about me. I want to know guys are there things you can never break up with a girl about? Jus wondering.

Thanks y'all it dnt happen to me though. Buh I av a question for d guys. U always say gurls "form" but when they try to act "human" you complain y?

R there ishz guys won't break up with ladies over? For example, wat if ur gurl fart5 during a snuggling session, is that enough to warrant a break up?

I dated my fiancee's friend and I'm gettin married soon. My fiancee cud consider marrying me cos his friend didn't av s3x wit me during d period. Also, he knew the issues dat led to d break up was his from his friend's side. Though I know my case is peculiar.

@ sexylogan that's it! Thanks!

Not necessarily

Oh M̶̲̅Ɣ!@ advocator wht really is ur point?

@ advocator excuse ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ?