Urgent vacancy
A school located around Oil Mill (Port Harcourt) needs the services of the following:

Upper Primary teachers
Qualifications
1. Applicants must have B.Sc/B.Ed
2. Applicants must be able to teach Math at Upper Primary level

Lower Primary teachers
Qualifications
B.Sc / B.Ed /NCE

Interview Date: Saturday, May 22
Interested applicants should call 07067456363 for more information.

A reputable Private School located in Stadium Road, GRA, Port harcourt, Rivers State needs Nursery and Primary teachers urgently with relevant skills and experience.

NURSERY/PRIMARY TEACHER (CHRISTIAN FEMALE)
B.Sc or B.Ed.
Age: Not more than 40
Computer Skills is a requirement
Salary: 60K and above

Apply to: pcrestschool@yahoo.com

Interested candidates must be ready for interview immediately.

I forgot to add / emphasize some key elements:
1. The woman should make sure to create an alkalinic environment to receive the male sp. The v and uterus areas are naturally acidic. To create an alkalinic environment, the woman must have two phases of 0rg@sm. The first, before d actual int3rc0urse and the second 0rg@$m after.

2. The best position for deeper penetration is that which d woman goes on all fours and the man gets in from behind.

I hope I have been able to help some families.

Thanks.

I believe that information like this that can help families stay together the way God intended should not be hoarded. I received it freely that's why I shared it too.

The steps to ensuring continuity of male lineage is not easy but practicable. It depends on the aptness of those carrying out the instructions.
First, the woman involved has to make a chart to determine how frequent or long her cycle is.
After that, she can plan her month such that before the day she ovulates, she can stay on alkalinic diets.
The man MUST abstain from int3rc0urse for a minimum of four days.
The female must monitor her body for signs of the onset of ovulation. Some women observe that they have lower pelvic pain on d left or right side. Some may use a thermometer to check for the basal temperature. Generally, the beginning of ovulation comes with clear, thick mucus like discharge; sort of like what comes out of the nose after crying. It must be CLEAR!
Once the woman is sure that ovulation has commenced, she must get her husband to make love in a position that ensures deep penetration. Male cells r usually weak but proper positioning ensures that the sp reaches the egg faster.
After this, the couple should abstain from int3rc0urse for 3-5 days after which they can continue.
You must not also discount the power of prayer.
I wish you all the best.

PS: This worked for me. I have a two month old son.

Getting advanced tech to combat d BH insurgents is just one step to take towards ending the crisis. Hope the military has restrategised to attack? Anyway may God grant you wisdom to go about this and bring it to a conclusive end. God bless Nigeria!

this couple is putting themselves in a difficult situation. 1. If this lady made a vow to God about chastity, she cannot afford to break it. 2. You don't want to trade the joy of a real honeymoon for anything. 3. Did the girl's parents chase her away from home cos they've paid her bride price? She should stop visiting that frequently and for that long. Otherwise they will be mounting intense pressure on each other. Do not trade a lifetime of joy for a moment of pleasure. 4. As for the chilled beer, that's crap. You don't need it. Real men don't.

Dear Mother, I am going to speak from an educational psychologist point of view. In child development, there are several factors that affect learning. Maturation is very key. some activities of a child like walking, crawling and speaking depend on the development of the innate potentialities of the child. Frankly speaking, it your child is not ready to learn letters and numbers, he won't learn. That does not mean you should get discouraged. At this stage, children learn by association. If u can get sing-along videos that teach numbers and identification of alphabets, that would be good. You could also get charts and pointers for your child and ask him to teach you. Don't rush him. If he feels rushed, he won't learn. Motivate him when he gets any right. Say "good job!" or ask him to clap for himself. Its almost impossible but I'm going to ask you not to compare your child with any other child.

Oya now! APC people, bring it on. People have come together to contribute for the form and you guys said na wash. I'd rather have people donate to his cause than have a leader who borrowed money to get into power. who said the latter won't sell Nigerians to the highest bidder if he can take a loan to contest. GEJ till 2019!

Oya now! APC people, bring it on. People have come together to contribute for the form and you guys said na wash. I'd rather have people donate to his cause than have a leader who borrowed money to get into power. who said the latter won't sell Nigerians to the highest bidder if he can take a loan to contest. GEJ till 2019!

The story isn't complete. Why does she "bully" you? Are you cheating on her and being financially responsible? Are you showing her that she comes first in your life? No woman who gets married to a man wants to feel like number two. With regards to your mum in the hospital, do u still give your wife attention? Or has your mum's illness become the be - all and end - all of your marriage? If you want your wife to love your mother and care for her unreservedly, love her and care for her unreservedly. She will know that your mum - I'll or healthy is no competition of hers. My two cents!

Thanks Parisienne!

@Snazzy and hispinkolo, I identify with you oh! In my case, I am much younger than my in-laws especially because of the age gap between hubby and I. Most times I'm treated like the small girl who doesn't know anything.

O master let me walk with thee,
in lowly paths of service free.
Tell me thy secret, help me bear,
the strain of toil, the fret of care.

Help me the slow of heart to move,
by some clear winning word of love.
Teach me the wayward feet to stay,
and guide them in the homeward way.

Teach me thy patience still with thee,
in closer, dearer company.
In work that keeps faith sweet and strong,
in trust that triumphs over wrong.

In hope that sends a shining ray,
far down the future's broadening way.
In peace that only thou canst give,
with thee O master, let me live.

@poster I know how u feel. I've been there. Trust me. My situation is different but not quite. My suggestion is ti discuss ur concerns with your husband when he is relaxed. Express your fears to him as cautiously as possible. Don't raise your voice. Afterwards, rest ur case and start praying any other attempt at a Discussion will be tagged hatred for his family.
This too shall pass my sister!

Esteem or lack thereof stems from both nature (parental upbringing ) and nurture (environment ).
Parents have a responsibility towards ensuring that they teach their children self-confidence. Not only that, listen to them and spend some time with them. It's only by doing this you find out if he or she was bullied at school, jested or called names which is where the environment comes in.
When you teach your child self-esteem without following up on the child's application of the self-esteem to his everyday situation, then it is not complete.
Parents please endeavour to spend quality time with your children.

honey, don't feel So bad. How about forgiveness? Then try to do things that won't make him beat you. there's So much you're not saying. You're either stubborn or timid and your brother is a bully. Just stay off your brother's radar for now and then let's know exactly what d situation is.

My husband is 12 years older than I am. I wasn't comfortable with it initially But he enjoys having a younger babe by his side. Now he has two babies to take care of - our daughter and myself. I still look slim. Sometimes, there r things i could joke with a younger person that he would feel bad about cos of d age difference but since i understood that, weve had things better. People think I'm his younger sister (Last born) but the Best part is he feels lucky and I feel great! The disadvantage is some of his friends and my bosses hit on me codedly and openly! if You're a guy that can't stand another man ogling ur wife regardless of How decent She looks, no try am oh!

@Ifloxy, you shouldn't have sent him the link. A lot of men don't like to be told they're wrong. Just don't compare him to what you've read so far. Instead encourage him identify things he does specifically and say "so and so you did makes me feel extra special and makes me want to love you more". Just keep being appreciative and before long, things will change.
That being said, my hubby was very supportive. I didnt have morning sickness and all.But he went with me for most ante-natal sessions. He was d only man there. We as always went shopping together and he made me feel So sexy and pretty. We had the most experimental of love making sessions while I was pregnant. So glad I wasn't treated like a porcelain piece.He was right beside me through labour which was Really sweet. I didn't cook till four months after our daughter was born. I thank God for that experience.

Thanks Misterman! So many people need this.

My hubby was there against d advice of my dad. He sang for me and had this brave look always. He prepared for the moment and through the five hours, he kept singing, rubbing my back and saying I'll be fine. He didn't want to see the crowning though and he took the time check for when our daughter was born. Men, please support ur wives. Some men might change their minds about the number of children they want to have. Till today my husband says women are the hardest workers on earth!

It shouldn't stop. My parents help me once in a while. I am working, married and with a child but they feel this need to still "take care" of me . I'm not talking about money but things that can be measured in monetary terms. They get offended when I ask them to stop because they claim its not everyday they help. They rarely do these days because I'm better paid and can take care of them too . I would take care of my kids too even when they are married not because they can't afford it, but because those RARE moments will be cherished.

It's rather unfortunate that some women reduce themselves to drabby looking hags just because they got married. Though I blame it on some men who want their wives to look as unattractive as possible so that other men won't look at them lustfully. On the other hand, society expects married women to dress "decently" especially after having children or getting pregnant. This has changed considerably as women now look trendy so as to keep their men . This percentage of women are few as the others are living in another world

Age six. Was called to responsibility at such an early age because my elder bro was falling hand and everyone had high expectations of me. They always talked about it as though it were a fantastic achievement

Been married two years. It's been a bumpy ride but some marriages start that way. The typical story of "OMG U GUYS LOOK GREAT TOGETHER!!!" or "YOU HAVE A CUTE BABY" and all. Without knowing what goes on inside . We are getting better with each day like FINE WINE learning TEAMWORK and hard work in the marriage and this has further increased our desire to be together.

It's basically insecurity. They want to assert themselves as being the first woman in their son's life and will do anything to make sure that the wife takes some notes on who the "boss" is.
I remember when my husband's mum came after I had my child He would ask if I wanted him to buy for instance orange and pineapple juice as usual and she would say no "you people are consuming too much sugar, or no I want mango juice" and he would either not get any at all or get ONLY mango juice. And she has this "Are you a learner?" look on her face.
Like most people have said tho men should untie themselves from their mother's apron strings and MAN up; not supporting the wife when she is wrong but protecting her from being "downtrodden".

Efe, you did not provide any solution to the issue raised. Instead, you compounded the problem to create traffic on the thread. As to whether I am a "Counsellor" yes i am a certified professional. But as far as ethics go, I may not handle the issue from a balanced viewpoint because i'm related to the lady in question. That's why doctors don't carry out major procedures on their close relatives. She is not my client so I had to refer her to a colleague.
By extreme advice, i didn't mean a divorce. I am married too and would not advocate for that yet.
Thanks to all who have made constructive contributions.

Nice analysis @ OP

The truth is that most couples don't plan. A man replied after having a fifth child in the face of glaring economic crisis in his family that "it seemed the right thing to do at the time" Imagine!
The children will eventually suffer for their parents sins. .

I have just one child and she's a year and some months but people have been saying "is she not old enough to have an aburo and all?" But who cares?

Children are gifts from God and not a symbol of productivity. If As a parent your conscience is clear that you are giving your child the best and can cope, by all means keep having children.

@ Jidegirl the wife in this case does not earn more. Her hubby probably feels she can take responsibility since she is "madam organizer". Like I asked earlier if a husband neglects his responsibility as a man is the woman supposed to sit and watch especially when children are involved?

The story is not mine though I have a very close family facing the issue. Left with me, I might give her an extreme advice because she's too nice to be going through this headache

Later they would start talking about how women are parasitic. He's suffering from FIV Financial Irresponsibility Virus.

To further compound the problem, they had a very brief courtship.

Thanks for the responses but there was no agreed formula for sharing responsibilities. Obviously the man is supposed to take most of the responsibility for the expenditure in the home but where he feels he can use "his money" the way he likes and there are children involved what is the woman supposed to do? Sit back and watch the children starve?

About the other issue of who comes first, is a husband supposed to give top priority to his siblings above his family especially when those siblings are all graduates and are fit to take up paid employment?

Imagine a scenario where a man's unmarried elder bro borrows most things from his married younger bro's house and the wife must not make any input?

Dear Nairalanders,

Especially married folks is it right for the woman to bear the bulk of the responsibility of bread-winning and making MOST of the purchases in the home while her husband is engaged in full-time employment?

Also who comes first to a husband? - his siblings and parents or his wife and children?