Princek12:

I figured they do that in UK, too, but when I write I am cognizant of the fact that many NLs do not live in Yankee or the UK, so I try to elaborate further so as to prevent them from having to draw too many inferences when reading my posts. Back to the topic, she admitted to being psychiatric and I guess that the anti depressants helped her. I am, however, not a doctor, but my point is that taking anti depressants is something that should be disclosed to your partner when in a serious relationship.

of cus she should have told him

cus its a very big issue

you dont want your wife to slice your mothers head one day when you are not home

after how many round bi that one?

Progreen:

Doing this does not save the trouble in marriage.

at least it save the core medical balava in the marriage 
The couples should only be considering medical attention  for normally illness like, malaria, typhoid   feverish condition etc etc etc.

All of the above!

peelovee:


at least it save the core medical balava in the marriage 
The couples should only be considering medical attention  for normally illness like, malaria, typhoid   feverish condition etc etc etc.

What happens if the wife or hubby cheated after marriage?

justwise:

What happens if the wife or hubby cheated after marriage?

The topic is not about wife or hubby cheating after marriage
it all about knowing the medical wellbeing of the couples 

But in case you are so concerned:
Maybe CHEATING TEST should also be introduced        but i am considering the specimen that will be use for that (Cheating Test = CT)        

Pls stay tuned!

peelovee:


at least it save the core medical balava in the marriage [/b]The couples should only be considering medical attention  for normally illness like, malaria, typhoid   feverish condition etc etc etc.

peelovee:

[b]The topic is not about wife or hubby cheating after marriage
it all about knowing the medical wellbeing of the couples 

But in case you are so concerned:
Maybe CHEATING TEST should also be introduced        but i am considering the specimen that will be use for that (Cheating Test = CT)        

Pls stay tuned!

I asked that question because of that comment u made: ''at least it save the core medical balava in the marriage''

So i asked: What happens if the wife or hubby cheated after marriage.

CHEATING TEST should also be introduced (Cheating Test = CT)

peelovee:

CHEATING TEST should also be introduced (Cheating Test = CT)

CT scan

peelovee:

CHEATING TEST should also be introduced  (Cheating Test = CT)                

many good cheater will pass the test with flying colours

peelovee:

CHEATING TEST should also be introduced  (Cheating Test = CT)                

Hmmmm sometimes those lie detectors have proved not to be 100% accurate

        you never can tell what cheaters can be up to,  na only God go deliver person

peelovee:

          you never can tell what cheaters can be up to,  na only God go deliver person

Especially women, _{they are good liars} . . they will pass the test sharp sharp

Applicable to both sex
are smart cheaters you never can tell

peelovee:

Applicable to both sex
are smart cheaters you never can tell

Hmmmmm . . . i know men probably cheat more BUT men are not good at covering up, women top the table on this and will pass any test easily

how do you test for erectile dysfunction

Test before marriage, when guys are busy drawing against uncleared effect

Yes, even very important is God's approval and confirmation the couple would fit. We'll have different shoe sizes.

Thats the point of dating. dating someone before marriage gives you not only a glimpse of who they are or what they may turn out to be in future but also allows you glimpse of their past. An adults past reveals a lot about who they are or what they may become in future that may affect your life as well.

It's very important, you neva can tell,

Yea it is very important

@ claremont, Successful marriage is an entirely different subject. Are you married? I doubt, 'cos you should know that physical examination is vital to know your blood group, Genotype , e.t.c and that of your intending spouse,

claremont:

A relationship that will break-up will do so irrespective of the number of medical exams done prior to the relationship/marriage. There is no evidence that having medical exams prior to relationship/marriage will make it work better than couples who did not have such a medical exam. We should learn to reason objectively and ask for hardcore evidence, rather than just jumping into the mass bandwagon of senseless argument.

Where in the hell is the evidence that couples who do a medical exam prior to their relationship/marriage, fare better than couples who do no such thing?! The absence of evidence is the evidence of absence!

I can tell that you failed reading comprehension in school. I never said that couples who undergo a medical exam before marriage fare better than couples who don't. My post is directed at whether it is good practice for couples to do so for, perhaps, obvious reasons: know your sickle cell status so you can weigh the risks of having a baby born with sickle cell; the risk of HIV; and so on.

yes in this times that we r in.

I don't get the diabetes part though

Anti depressant doesn't mean she's crazy, infact it could be a non issue, until you guys stop stimatizing depression and mental illness in general people are not going to talk about it. the fact that she's using meds MEANS she wants help, what about the millions who aren't getting help?
By the way anti depressants are used off label sometimes. it could have been prescribed for anxiety, or even an eating disorder.

@ poster, I think you majored in some minors. You didn't even talk about blood group, genotype, rhesus factor, blood sugar and all. This should make the first five on the list. Wat if ur partner sails tru d ones u earlier outlined but later, complications arose due to diabetes, or complications during pregnancy? Marriage is very important and I suggest intending couples to go for these tests before marriage and then get adequate counselling. I did.

@ poster, I think you majored in some minors. You didn't even talk about blood group, genotype, rhesus factor, blood sugar and all. This should make the first five on the list. Wat if ur partner sails tru d ones u earlier outlined but later, complications arose due to diabetes, or complications during pregnancy? Marriage is very important and I suggest intending couples to go for these tests before marriage and then get adequate counselling. I did.

Running a Hepatitis test is of more importance to me than the HiV even though that is ver necessary. The diabetis, I consider irrelevant. The Genotype is very important also