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SPRINCE001:
That was how an FIRS controller told me to pay 3million before they could offer me employment into the ministry 😞😞😞😞

Nigeria my country, those that have the money to pay was employed, Even if you study Agric you will be employed into a post that a mass communication student should occupied.
Are u serious or u just kidding? 3milliom for Firs in 2023!!!!
Imagine an Agric student given a PR(public relation) post over a well experienced PR/mass comm candidate

Are u for real 3m for Firs in 2023!!!
Omo e cheap oooo!!!!

BreezyRita:
Sorry. We'll be fine

Small thing. Time heals n unvercomes everything

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Jewessgratitud3:
You'll sha move on. .

We all feel and can handle pain differently! Some people can snap out of it in just a few days and some can get trapped in it for a much longer time,for some it could even affect them mentally.. As for me i have learnt to build the muscle and threshold to absorb and move on. E no easy sha but, all of us go dey alright Las Las

NACE13:
My last 3 relationship/situationship I ghosted them all. I don't need to be told before I can read their intentions.
One tried it and came back to beg. I asked her, "If Bobo didn't break your heart, would you have thought about coming back?". She was all about the lies and shii- Telling me she was with another guy while thinking about me and it was obvious she wasn't over me, that's why the other Bobo broke things off with her.

The next one stood me up when I had already made plans for our dinner date. She didn't even call to apologize. I just deleted her number straight and cut communication. She called and called, sent me multiple texts. I just replied her with "I am busy, I'll talk to you later".

The one that just ended this year, I was noticing some funny tones and behaviours when we talk on phone. She hardly replied my texts, always telling me about guys wooing her just to fill her ego-meter and trying to make me feel jealous. I just shook my head and smiled to myself. I just went "Willy-Willy" mode on her. She got the message after calling me a few times and I was cold in my replies. Told me she missed me, wanna hear my voice and I was like "Oh, really? OK, you've heard it,are you OK now?".

I learnt to smell their BS from a mile away and take off before they even realise I'm gone. They most times come back if they notice that you don't really give a damn.
I'm not a redpiller but I learnt a thing or two from Ubunja

Its funny how this just happened to me last month and I am just getting over it after some weeks
Mehnnn, Ghosting dey pain oooo!! Especially when u know u did everything right and were doing your best to tick all the right boxes then Boom!!! Somebody just disappears nafter getting so emotionally attached, going out on dates, spending money and probably falling in love that thing cuts like a knife!!
In my case we could talk from now till forever, never got tired of each other, connected on the same wave length, liked each other, went out on dates and i was beginning to tell myself "e be like say i don find wife oo! If we can work it out I go just propose!!! Hmmn!!!
I noticed something about some ladies, some can easily be carried away by the most trivial things. Most times when a lady ghosts u, there's a very high tendency she's already talking to someone else and carried away by rubbish but they don't realize it until it blows up.
If u were genuinely interested and vested in someone and had great plans for the person and the person ghosts u, just take it, ITS FOR YOUR GOOD!! it's gonna hurt for a while but u gotta move.. The wrong person has to go for the right person to step in.
One day they will look back and regret, u will also look back and be glad they ghosted u..
Shalom

Jewessgratitud3:
Which one is ghosting again?

I don't think anyone has ever done that to me. However if anyone should ghost me, I'll move on now. It's not a do or die affair. It's just like a break-up. So, you move on.

Easier said, if u weren't emotionally involved/attached to the person but if u were trust me that thing dey pain ehn!!??

BreezyRita:
Happened to me last month. I'm still reeling from the effect.

Same happened to me too last month, I was mentally sick for some weeks.
I still wonder what I did till today

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