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yetty247:
lol
I don't know till situation calls for it

it is an expression of love if you can do that. That she used my toothbrush doesn't mean that she is a dirty girl but because she loves me but I just can't. I shared toothbrush with my immediate elder brother till we separated(live differently) but I know I can still use his toothbrush even today.

Why are we so concerned about Pokemon Go that is not even available in our country? Everybody Pokemon Go, Pokemon Go. From what I read about itn it is for kids and I lived my childhood life very well that I wouldn't like to visit it again.

I went somewhere with my girlfriend and she forgot her toothbrush. We live separately. That is, we came from our own separate homes but spent the night somewhere. So, when I went to brush my teeth she told me she forgot her brush, though I didn't say a word, I was going to ask her to go outside the house and buy a toothbrush but before I was done, I have forgotten that and went outside to chat with a friend who noticed that I spent the night in their lodge. When I enter the room, she had used my toothbrush and was about to drop it. I was lucky to see it. I didn't talk but I know I won't use the brush again. We kiss but when it comes to brush, it is disgusting. Do you share toothbrush with your partner?

hakeem4:
you didn't put the part where God said we should work hard in proverbs 22:29

The topic is on blessing and being content with what you have, and not seeing a downfall as the best punishment for your perceived enemies. Being content doesn't mean you're lazy. It means you appreciate every stage of your life and sees God as He who gives and not what you do. When people says the best revenge is success, many people missinterpret it and thinks that before you pull a stunning revenge you must be more successful than the person that wronged you. No, that is not it. When you are in position that you will never need his help, you have pulled all time revenge. But why revenge? Live, and let live. When you are preoccupied with the thought of how to revenge your enemy, it means your enemy keeps winning you and has made your life dependent on how he lives his. I know you wouldn't want such situation. Don't let people hurt you continuously, learn the act of forgiveness and contentment. But I must say, if you are a christian and the wealth of non christians or those that don't believe in God surprises you, you need your head examined. We don't know religion. Religion is an idea and everyone has his but whose idea is the best is still a debate that will see generations upon generations come and go and still very hot like no other debate.

Some are just keeping records of Buhari's mistakes. Well, just be ready and steadfast because I don't see him becoming any better soon.

Adaure4ever:
is it just me or i don't understand this thread.

exactly what I expected from you.

Sudan defeat Nigeria? Unbelievable Buhari

mrwonlasewonie:


I remember the thread

I can never forget that thread. The guy na dummy

Just sleep in his kitchen for one week and you are good to go!

taryur:
I agree with u totally with no 3 as an exception
I could fix d date again.that would be a problem.

When a girl disappoints me I do think may be I imposed date on her. When such happens, I prefer asking the girl one word question, "SO?" With that she will tell me when she will be free for me. That is why included the number 3.

foolinlove:
"Twerking on your deek" happens in a strip club where men manage to control themselves daily.

What you wear is an entirely different proposition.

If you are suggesting a society in which people carr about and respect one another, then this applies to men also. Caring about and respecting women as well as other men.

I am fighting a patriarchal society, not society in general. Society is made from men AND women. Patriatchal society puts pressure on women to adapt to men, makes women responsible for men's bad behaviour, hampers their careers etc. It makes things generally difficult for women.

I care what I want and I care what other women want. As a man, your needs and wants are largely taken care of so you see no problem. Women's are not.

You have male privilege and it's about time you recognised it. Women are half the population of the world and deserve to live a life as easy or as hard as a man does. They deserve to define their own destiny free of stupid judgements based on gender stereotypes alone.

Interestingly, freeing the world of negative stereotypes of women also frees men from equally harmful gender stereotypes.

Dear, I am the OP and have followed your comments from page 1. Women influence men a lot. Both with words and appearances. That is why how women dress matters. They are very influential. The recent increase of 'fap farmers' are due to how women dress. How you dress as a woman may not affect you but it can affect another woman. Yes, another woman. It causes rape(I know you would say, 'perverts') but it is true. The sight of cleavage turns an average man on. Some may deny it but it is true. Any man that sees an open breasts gets preoccupied with sexual thought and may result to rape. You may not be at the receiving end but what of the defenceless teen girls? Why do I complain about women baring the breasts? I complain because it affects me. It affects our collective value as human beings. It affects women. These day men don't love again not because women are not loyal but because men see women as sexual objects that have no feelings. When a woman tells a man how she loves him, he thinks that may be she is dying for his sexual dexterity. We degrade ourselves.

You can turn me down a day before or even that same day but not when I call you with my phone. How to turn my invitation down without me being angry: (1) Do it 2days or at most a day before the D-day (2) Be the one to call me or text me for the change of plan NOT when I call you to ask you where you are(hoping you are already on your way), you start telling me how aunt and her husband visited and insisted you take them to your grandmother's house (3) the next date will be fixed by you, and you alone.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Na government work? [/color]

I tire o! From correct CV to correct kissing. The highest respect I have given to Kiss was to close my eyes.

RIDICULOUS REASONS WHY ADULT CRY: They are scoring us and we haven't seen their keeper

deebsman1:
pls next time you see one, abeg snap for us make we see.

That is the most disgraceful work I have ever been given since I was born. It all depend on where you stay.

U haven't seen mine. Mr Randy

Efuu Abuja. Can't even count them with calculator

My case with Buhari anytime I set my eyes on him. (Pictured). they only concerned about revenue generation without giving a Bleep about the plight of the masses. How can you think of taxing the citizens at this stage of mass poverty? The revenue which even a blind and the deaf know that it will never be used for anything productive. Nigeria is broke, nigeria is broke. I hope Buhari is not trying to break Abacha's Record as the highest looted president of the federation. It seems he wants to do the looting alone.

That is why it is not good to hire somebody to keep an eye on your girl because the person will surely find something even when at distance.

Please include pictures. I am also interested.

vislabraye:
If you were a woman, who you do what she did or would you sllow your wife to do so ? The fact that other people dance worse dance doesn't make her wise.

She wasn't there to discuss how US economy will double that of Russia or to discuss the ethics of ideal housewives and suddenly started dancing. You judge people according to their career. If you look well, you will realise that dancing is not a bad idea there. If my wife should be a celeb, why not? Respect everyone.

vislabraye:
Foolish woman.

how she take foolish? Many people have had wardrobe malfunctions one way or the other. Nothing is wrong with her dress compare to what I see people wear everyday. Nothing is wrong with her twerk compares to most dance moves I see everyday.

missrock:
you dont know the basic of our relationship, i cant be dating a guy and within four months having sex with him, dont you think is too quick?

it is not even safe to have sex till marriage; but the question should have been better left unanswered. My opinion.

When you are in relationship, don't think you are doing your partner a favour. If you think so, just withdraw your supports for him or her and watch them thrive like never before in another relationship. If your partner gives you something, appreciate it and don't think it is his/her responsibility especially when you are not married to each other. OP, Not every person has the ability to read people's minds and that is why you should be verbally thankful to him. Sometime we do something for people just to see the person happy, extremely happy. It turns guys on. When you are happy, you are giving him importance and the reason to do more. Op, you don't need to answer every question. Somebody asked you if you do have sex with the guy and u said NO. You just denied him like peter did to Jesus. You don't really love him.

I don't celebrate govt officials. If they like make them train their children in heaven. Nonsense country

Unbelievable. The states that hardly pay their workers salaries are now been asked to repair roads owned by the same Federal government that they(the states) run to for bail out. It does not add up. I think this government is filled with people that count their fingers before they add up.

Piptoes:
I've been going through heartbreak for a while now. So after much thought. i've decided to apply the " no contact rule...and by so doing, I've had to delete my boyfriend from all social media platforms, which seemed almost impossible. The truth is, It's almost like a druggie trying to get off smack....When you are so used to talking to someone everyday and being so close to someone, it's very hard to disconnect from them. Especially for a long period of time. I also know it's imperative that I should apply the "no contact rule". After all, it has been proven to be extremely effective over time. And it will also give him a sense of feeling that I'm gradually moving on. Cos I know the primary aim of the no contact period is to sort of get over him. I said "sort of get over him" because I know it will be very difficult for me to get over him. Pls for those who have practiced the " no contact rule", Is there is a good chance that your ex bf/gf contacted you during the no contact period or even tried to win u back?
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I am not against you seeking for advices, just be careful. Not every idea is consumable. I just read somebody saying authoritatively about an idea he knew nothing about. He didn't even ask you what happened between you two(u and ur boyfriend) but have concluded he would use u and dumb u again. My advice: you know his offence and the kind of person he is. That will guide you when adopting any rule. If actually u love and would like the guy to come back to u, please look for another rule that will help u. Note: most guys mistake 'no contact rule' for BREAK UP. Don't give him that idea if u really love him. I don't want to prove read my comment, manage it.

ItzChinnex:
Dear Editor, please kindly help me publish this on your platform.

I am a girl of 25 years. I hailed from Kumasi in Ghana but was born and brought up in Nigeria.

I am tired of nursing this pain in my heart. I think it is high time I poured it out.
I lost my mum while I was barley eight months so I grew up with my dad and step mother in our one-room apartment here in Lagos.

My dad remarried nine months after my Nigerian mum died; to enable someone look after me.

It was in that process that my step mother took in. She delivered my half-brother nine months after, so we both grew up together here in Lagos.

My dad struggled to send us to one of the best schools in Lagos.
However, things became worst after we gained admission into the same university so my dad and step-mother had to return to Ghana.

My dad, before leaving the country asked us to stay in the same room due to cost since there was no enough money.
My step-brother is the type of guy every girl would love to hangout with. He’s cute, tall, dark and handsome. He looks older than me though I am his elder sister.
I am this type that sleeps completely naked. I felt he was my brother and had nothing in mind.

He’s so protective that he doesn’t like seeing me around any guy on campus.
One day, I woke in the middle of the night only to see my brother caressing my breast. I tried to scream but he asked me not to.

That was how it continued till I lost my virginity to him.
Now, I am finding it difficult to date another guy.

He’s so jealous that he fights any guy that tries to come near me on campus.
We virtually have ‘it’ everyday. The truth is that I don’t have any feeling for another guy. I am addicted to him.

My conscience is pricking me. God, I can’t imagine myself sleeping with my own blood brother, not even that, my junior.
I am tired of this nonsense. The worst thing is that if I dare tell my dad, my step mother would not turn the whole thing against me.
Please help me out.

Your Advice can Go a long way

Source: https://chinnex..co.ke/2016/07/true-confession-help-im-tired-of.html?m=1

Lalasticlala, Seun, Mynd44 Please help move to permanent site.
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Addiction has two solutions, they are: 1) God's grace; 2) getting another replaceable addiction. I am ready to offer you solution two if you can not see yourself achieving number one solution. I am ready to be your addiction. The moment you were describing your brother, I thought you were describing me in terms of physic. The only difference is that I do not 'do' my relatives and I don't fight or police a woman. You see, with me you are free to flirt. So, how about that?

unngraduate:
Please is that grammatically correct? English students please help. "The countless man hours..."

OP please, on behalf of all the super lions and lionesses, I plead with you to change your monica. Hear my cry, OP

OP got this pic from somewhere but didn't understand the joke. THE ONLY THING THAT IS BAD ABOUT WHAT PMB WROTE IS THAT HIS WORDS HAVE COME TO HUANT HIM.

vedaxcool:
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Keep rationalizing violence against women it only goes to shows how less of a man you are

come on, get to work! U have been idle all your life and you are becoming a nuisance to those that reason. Just look through your window for 5mins and you will see underage girls hawking, that is abuse. How have you been protesting for them? The very issue that requires protest right now is your living standard, not Remi something. The money spent on printing the shirts and inscribing all those sh*ts on the placard can make one person in Nigeria better for life.

vedaxcool:
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Keep rationalizing violence against women it only goes to shows how less of a man you are

come on, get to work! U have been idle all your life and you are becoming a nuisance to those that reason. Just look through your window for 5mins and you will see underage girls hawking, that is abuse. How have you been protesting for them? The very issue that requires protest right now is your living standard, not Remi something.