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@ poster, i really dont think so, ladies differ a whole lot, whether in europe or states or nigeria, u can get a worse girl evn in 9ja and find a better one in europe, u just hve to be with the right one and knw wat u want. You also find girls on 9ja who are interested in jst ur cash! and not all ladies in europe are in search of money, actually, some come to syudy , finish with it, get a work n ride on, Dont let u friend tell deceive u, go for wat u want. Dont be discouraged at all. There are good girls everywhere. U hve to be in right places to meet them.

@ poster, am also in a distant relationship and knw how u feel abt gurl B, but u hve to trust her, distance brings so much doubt, but teh love u hve for her shld keep u going. Ure not bringing her over to UK to get married to her immeditely, so u still hve time to watch n get to knw her better, but from all uve said i can say shes a good girl. As for Girl A, u shld try to talk to her like an Adult. let her knw nothing serious can happen btwn the both of u, if necessary u shld talk with her with ur gf, let her knw ure sorry i u gave her opes or made her think u guys were in some kinda relationship, n dat girl B is really the one u love and that no matter wat she does to tear down the relationship, she cant win ur love, am sure she will understand, and also u n ur gf shld be prayerul, cos from wat u hve said she can do just anything to make sure she gets at u. Evn if it seems like she understands n forgives u n ur gf, u shld keep a distance n not get too close telling her stufs, cos she could just be pretending, all d best with ur relationship, cheers.

@ poster, actually i dont stay in 9ja at the moment and i am interestd so how do we go abt this?

@ Poster
  Mr man, i don't evn think u love this girl friend of urs. Wats love to u? imagine u say that man shall not live by i love you alone, so u just say it for the fun of it and not really because u love her.  So question to u, did u really ask her out because u thot she was this gurl u want to have in your bed or did u ask her out because u thot she was smart, your dream girl, pretty and thrz just smthn about her u can't explain, or maybe its just the way u dicuss with her and shes just the only 1 who understand u and bla bla bla,  my guy u shld think twice before u ask girls out, u sound like one of those BOYS that will make a girl fall in love with them just to break their hearts because they can't get all they want for their SELFISH interest. You need a re think!!!!

Abortion is so not the best optio now. By the way, my guy wats the point of osting this topic whn ur friend has got everythn all planned out? As a matter of fact its not like a pblm its more like a solution.
Anywayz, if u seriously need an advice, tell this friend of urs, not to spend all his money and crs and house o! Cos whn the baby comes, the baby will sure need to wear clothes and change dipers, and they sure dont cost just a kobo, n mama and pikin must chop!!! So if hes not ready to run back to his parents or evn send the gurl to her own parents.
So if he wants to be independent he has to be independednt FULL TIME!!!!

Thanks evri1, i tried d dusting powder n vaseline n blve me it reduced but d blck heads r just very unbeareable to look at. Wax is sooooo painful stil considering dat. Thx y'all!!!

@ Bigdee
My broda, i rilly feel ur pain. Sounds very much like ma relationship sme 6months bck. This exact thing happened, n it wasnt easy. I thank GOd for his love n for forgiveness. It will take tym for ur gurl to win dat trust back n u need lot of hard work n not words. DOnt try buyig her things to please her or do watever u hvnt bin doing cos dat will seem like ur trying to buy her love, n it makes a lot of sense n meaning to an independednt gurl. I'll tell u one thing, gurls dat r independent, as d name goes dont nid nothn from u, but ur full time n attention n most off all. Love n affection. NOT UR MONEY OR MATERIAL GIFTS. I must say u hve a rilly gud gurl, whn dis exct thn hpnd to mi, so many ppl said i was only too stupid to hang in there but my man learnt his lessons just as u hve n is not going to trade me for gold. Dats it! So do wat u can spend more tym wiv her n show her u love her not just tell her1 Be gud!!!

Men! i love dis thread like mad! Who thot of dis? Igbo kwenu, rienu, nwounu, kwezuonu!!!!! Am from Imo state Mbaitolu LGA Obazu mbieri.

very true!

I learnt to hang in there evn whn it gets tough!

Hang in there n follow ur heart, unless therz more to d story. Imean ur ex boyfy doesnt play any role in ur new relatnshp does he? So y fret?

I'll watch dem till its all over n walk out expressionless or with a i shlda known it smile n dat will b it! I mean DONE wiv him!!

U guys are so funbny, how come every1 of u get to meet a demanding gurl? Or is it a new law in 9ja 4 gurls to b demanding? i blve in independence, am a student n my guy works n evn whn am broke n he wants to send me money i always tease him into not taking it frm him, its still my pblm till am married n my parents still drop cash 4 mi without looking for help. SO wats d big deal? Go get a gud gurl 4 urself or simply talk sense into ur gurl if u think u love her enuf to change her!!!

This is really serious How can ppl out there call ibo gurls? Look am an ibo gurl n i must say dat if one or two ibo gurls out there have been so dmenading dat doesnt mean all ibo gurls are demanding. Now guys, all gurls are not demanding, i hve a boyfy n am proud to say its a 50/50 thing. I pay his bills when he has nothn on him, i i cant count how many times av done dat n evn contributed for his flight fare, so pls look out there for nice gurlsn dont sit down there and conclude dat ibo gurls or all gursl are demanding!!!!

I think its my personality and also my physical look n my ability to hang out wiv ppl of any kind. And whn u get to know me, my voice

Thanks to y'all for the comments, i'll try dem ASAP!

How can one get rid of shaving irritations? Pls Naira landers help!

U have to change! It aint rite to be gay! Hell is real, n any homosexual who doesnt change now will be going straight to hell after death. Pls dont think u were born like dat u can change dat feelings of urs. Trust me, all u need to do is hang around gurls mostly and ask GOd to change you and help the feelings stop.

@christino
Thanks a lot! Dats how ppl fall for some make-ups!

You need to talk to her seriously about this and make her know wat u think about it!

I think u better stick to 1. Av bin in dis situation b4 n i musttell u, d guy actually liked the both of us, but, when i got to find out abt d 1st one it wanst a joke, n d 1st relationship was a distance one too. He got soo fund of me dat when he left to 9ja to see his 1st gf in abuja too. He found a fault in everything she did n dat made dem break up, cos he kept comparing her to me n she knew me already, n we had already broken up too n dat left him with no one. Anyway, we r back now n he has learnt from his mistakes, but i must say its difficult cos i know. Just make up ur mind n weigh all the weighables,