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Freestainworld:
Mr op, your write up is as sweet as horney, pleasant to the ear but misleading, no matter how you want to view sex, the truth is that, it is meant for married couples, not even for courtship people, don't justify a sin out of ignorance, if everyone should get married as a virgin, believe me, the sexual relationship in marriages will last, and the marriage sustained, but because we have tasted every dick and Tom, and every pussycat, that is why it becomes a problem, rethink again.

You"ve spoken very well my dear. God bless u!

I LOVE MBAKA VERY MUCH... HE'S ONE OF MY FAVORITE PRIEST. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS AND GUIDE HIM, AMEN!!!

larryking540:
That's is why you have to learn how to be patient with a guy who u kw is trying his best to make sure u are alright,,,I kw of countless girls dat turn guys down because e pocket no heavy or he no touchhhhh reach davido ,,

I kw of a girl who lost a 4 years relationship just because say the guy no day package well ,dress well ,,,

You ladies have to learn wat patient is and also teach your daughter the spirit of patient

@ Mr Larryking540, don't push blames to ladies alone. i know of a very good and loyal girl, infact, she was faithful to the core but was used and dump by her so called boyfriend cos the guy told her face to face that she shouldn't wait for him that there are other guys out there. This same guy was the one that dis-virgin the girl. Most men really don't know what they want!

Tripitaka:
"I told him to"
"I want him to"
"I warned him not to"
"I advised him to"
"He wouldn't listen to me" and all the other stuffs.

It appears to me that you are foisting your opinion, choices and wishes on your partner. You want him to live his life your way, pursue his dreams following your chart and run his race with you as guide. Perhaps you want to be the Kapellmeister while you lead the orchestra that is his life.

If he were to follow your advise and it backfires or doesnt yield the expected fruit, who would take responsibility? There is something some of us do not acknowledge which is that not everyone wants to be wealthy, some people just want to be successful at what they do, some people just want to lead a simple and fulfilled life.

I also find your intentions questionable. Do you have all those "nice thoughts" for him because you love and wish him well, or because you want him wealthy enough to marry you next year and give you "the life"? Its a shame that you say you're not proud of someone ou claim to love and painting him as some loser.

There comes a time in the life of a man when he wants to do things his own way, steer his own ship, make his own mistakes and celebrate his own little victories.

I would have asked you to talk to him, but I believe you guys have talked about this over and over. So, the choice is yours to walk or stay

God bless you. you just said my mind

SirKomA:
There's nothing you saw on her phone that you wouldn't see on 99.9% of other ladies phone, especially ladies that are not married. Some few weeks ago a friend went through her personal girlfriend's phone and what he saw was much more horrible. He saw text messages of his girlfriend exchange words with a Guy, the guy was like I'm glad I didn't ask you to leave the pregnancy, used and dump. while the Lady was like who will even give birth for a wretched and a hopeless man like you.

See my brother you don't have to kill yourself for a lady you're dating, cos you're not even married to her. Any guy can have their way in as long as they are interested in her and never give up pursuing Her. Some it might take a day, some a week, some a month while some might take a few months, as long as you don't give up chasing after any Lady that's not married, regardless of she being in a serious or Unserious relationship, you will surely have your share of her Congo. Dem dey even shine married woman Congo how much more a single lady in a relationship. It's either you're married or you're single. The word relationship is nothing but a big scam. Man up Bro!

You need to change your psychology about ladies. All ladies are not the same. you using 99.9% is totally wrong. we still have decent ladies out there, it's just that most Nigerian men don't value them. They even call them village girls or jew. what most guys don't know is' if you really want a girl, you can as well make her what you want her to be. if you don't like her dressing, go to the market and buy her what you would like her to wear, be open up to her, tell her what you want!

tyson99:
To even marry sef dey worry my soul

All ladies are not the same! just relax your mind

I pray for all men seeking for a comfortable life, that God will bless them richly. whatever be their wish and desires, may God Almighty grant it according to His holy will, Amen!

Numero9:
Cheating is for whoever decides to cheat. I personally do not care if my partner cheats. Shes serving. Na her life (and body) not mine. I choose to live my life the way I feel is right and embraced by the society.

Las Las there are implications to whatever decision we make in life.

Correct!

So sorry dear. i pray you get a better job!