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EyezofGod120:
this life no balance at all me wey I fine with fresh light skin still dey toast one gel wey dey learn tailor for 2months now she never free,,and this man get 3rd wife,,OK o

taiwo92:
I have 1.5m and I plan to marry soon. Have been away from Nigeria for a while now, what n what will u advise me to do and don't.

Gentew:
My Final interview with Head HR of Access bank .... I reduced my age by 5years on my CV. Then the interviewer started asking when I finished my Primary school, secondary school and at what age. I was speechless and felt so ashamed of myself. Since then, I no dey apply for bank job again.

ospido:
The Trinity doctrine says that there are 3 God's in one,God the father,the Son and the Holy Spirit and that they 1. CO-EXISTED, are 2. CO-EQUAL and are 3.CO-ETERNAL. But the Bible disagree with this concept.

1. CO-EXISTED.
Jesus is a CREATION.
God Almighty (Yahweh) created Jesus first b4 creating all other things. After his creation he joined God in creating other things just like an apprentice. Colossians 1:15; Revelation 3:14; and Proverbs 8:22-30.
So how can the CREATION co-exist with the CREATOR? Impossible.

2. CO-EQUAL.
i. At John 14:28, Jesus himself said "the father is greater than i am."
ii. At John 20:17, Jesus calls the father his God and the disciples God too. So Yahweh is God over Jesus and us in same way.
iii. At 1Corinthians 11:3, when discussing the hierarchy of headship said that the head of Christ is God (Yahweh).
iii. At 1Corinthians 15:27, everything is under the feet of Jesus except God (Yahweh).
iv. 1 Corinthians 15:28, Jesus himself will subject himself under God (Yahweh) that God will be all things to everyone.
v. Acts 3:13,26 says Jesus is a SERVANT of God (Amplified version: see the screenshots and reference below which is omitted in the king James version).
vi. At John 17:3, Jesus called God (Yahweh) the ONLY TRUE GOD. When you say something is "only" it means alone, "only one" and in verse 5 he prayed that God should glorify him(Jesus) side by side with God (Yahweh) the way it was b4 the beginning. Being side by side means they're 2 persons not 1 person.
vii. At Luke 22:41,42 Jesus prayed and begged God on bended knees exactly the way you and i do when we beg God on bended knees. This confirms the superiority of God over Jesus and that Jesus was helpless. Have you read anywhere where God was praying to Jesus?
Viii. Acts 7:56 After his ascension to Heaven Jesus was seen at the right Hand side of God showing that they were two persons not three. And they were seen side by side. This also confirms his earlier prayer in John 17:5 cited earlier.
In all of these how can they be equal to each other? Don't you think?

3. CO-ETERNAL.
They cannot be co-eternal because Jesus died but God cannot die.
Your illustration of Amoeba doesn't apply because if the Amoeba splits through the process of mitosis the splitter don't reunite with the parent one. But from your analogy Jesus reunited again with his father making 1+1+1=1. In Your previous comment you agreed Jesus is not Almighty God but you check this post am replying to now, you said that Jesus is Almighty God. You see, the more you try to defend the Trinity, the more you confuse yourself.
This is confusion.
And at 1Corinthians 14:33 the Bible says "God is not a God of disorder."
The Trinity doctrine is not scriptural.

sonofElElyon:
I have explained to you my own views about the doctrine of Trinity vide my post which you last mentioned. please stay out of my mentions from now.. I've spent enough time on this.. i have other things to do.. if you don't agree with me and want to continue in your error it's your choice.. I have said my piece.. we've been on this since yesterday.. I believe you people are heretics and I stand by this.. "Jesus is angel Michael" is the most ridiculous thing anyone can say.. but it's your right. your view to you and mine to me..

pretydiva:
Lost a potential relationship because of no 1. He doesn't want a no sex relationship

FRANKOSKI:
FOR MEN, SHE WILL LOOK LIKE YOUR SENIOR & IF YOU ARE NOT RICH...... NO RESPECT!!

Zombiekiller010:
My wife is a year older than me, she has never disrespected me or call me by my name even during courtship. (e ) in yoruba is always attached to my name.

Tom05:
From my experience; Better you quite at early stage before they stole your future from you. I worked Monday to friday in Victoria island as a contract staff earning below 60k. As ND holder I tried as much as possible to start my Degree in computer science which I finally graduated some years back. But during the period while I was working I can hardly thought of any other things to do with my life, because the work is overwhelming infact I go to office Saturday's if need be.. Please, I can never allow my enemy to work as a contract staff in banking industry. No benefit when you are leaving, your pension may be is 2k monthly multiply it by 10years self.. I have quite while am doing some professional courses now in IT to boost my career. Use your time wisely..

Ade3131:
@Confusedgirl869

I hope you read the comment made by this wonderful man below. I'm recommending you take his advice wholeheartedly bcuz he somehow touched on my story without knowing me. Am currently living in regrets of my past mistake with my ex. If only I had done more, if only I had showed her kind of zeal for marriage at the time....if only I had known I will be the one who can't live without her.

My dear, just like am counting my losses, your Mr. Perfect guy will remember you when you're long gone in your God destined husband's house seeping tea with honey. He will most likely realize all this thought of "baby mama" thing as just being childish.

There comes a time in a man's life when all that matters to him is family....to see and have people around him that he can call his own. He thinks he will remain a youngman forever. Old age will teach him the lesson of his life but trust me it will be too late. And what makes it worse at that age is being in the company of those he detest but can't confront them to tell them of his dislike for them when he realizes he's married the wrong person.

Like I tell people, life is a bad teacher. You fail but never get the opportunity to right your wrongs. It's just one life. Get it right now or regret every moment of your life. Please go for someone who shares your values about life, particularly those of marriage and family. Peace

LordOfTheGame:
Different people with different problems. Men like us are seriously looking for a serious and sensible girl to marry and settle down with while some others are running away and looking for only baby mamas.
Life shaa....

Confusedgirl869:
Ha, see as you whip me. Thanks dear, truth is hard. I appreciate.

Confusedgirl869:
My sister, I tire o. To think that he is the first man I fell hopelessly for. I have always been cautious of this love thing not getting to my head. It was just different with him and worst is I'm not sure I can move on with someone else.

Confusedgirl869:
It's going to be hard. Thanks dear

Goddys:
@OP your boyfriend position is well-founded. I have come across many girls that are seemingly angelic, calm, well-nurtured who turned out to be a torn in the life of the man years later after marriage.

I have already started rethinking and reorienting myself on the institution of marriage. It doesn't worth it for some guys. Women are unpredictable even to themselves.

My girlfriend said she would wait till I am ready which I know I may not be. She will be the one to advise herself to break up and move on at the right time. I won't do it myself.

Marriage is a favour to women which in most cases turn men to a working robot, not having time to advance themselves spiritually and otherwise.

Advise yourself and seek out men who consider marriage a priority in their list.


Please, if you really love this girl and mean well for her' break up with her peacefully.

Any woman I may eventually go legal with must personally acknowledge I am doing her a favour if marriage is her priority

Mayng01:
Truth is bitter, if only you would accept and execute it. Request for some rooms to breathe from him , keep that for a while like that, & make sure sex too isn’t involved anymore during the task. If truly you’re meant to be together, he will come back for you & tell you he is ready, if he does not, God has not destined you for each other. Pray to God for your man and he will surely locate you. Unleash yourself from infatuation & face reality, the fact remains from his comment, you will be used and dumped................ a word!

Ningen:
This is a man that doesn't want to marry you.
But you want to coerce him into it.

Are you that desperate for a ring?
A superficial deception to paddle a lie??

You talk about wanting a good home;
But here you are, ready to build one on a straw.

If you have to BEG and CONVINCE him to marry you, then surely he DOESN'T see your worth. It's all a facade; He will never be committed to you.

Your goals do not align. Find a new path.

Louder plssss!!!!!!!! Ladies needs to know the truth!
There are men out there that'll tick your box.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Lose your good man?

In all honesty, he's not as good as you make him out to be.


No responsible person will opt in for babymamaism.


So paddle your boat elsewhere.



Current generation are so scared of commitment. They want all the goodies of a thing but not the baggage that comes with it

Numero9:
With great pride, most girls these days loose thier sense of morality. They dump common sense like it's toxic. They choose to be lied to and brainwashed like it's the best and only option in the market. They want a good and honest relationship, but they wanna take advantage of it. They've made it a custom to attract men with nudity /indecency, but they do not realize, nudity (big bress, big yansh, figure 8 and other nonsenses) doesn't keep a man!

Ladies need to realize they only attract respect buy being modest, and responsible.

Getting attention online and offline won't help them, and will never be enough!! It only leads to heartbreaks and depression!

If life is a competition, nobody is a winner!

Learn to be at peace with yourselves

Learn to talk/caution yourselves regularly.

Do not be negatively influenced by by friends and society at large.

Let your happiness and contentment come from within.

There are good men out there, there are good ladies out there! But bad eggs don overshadow the good ones.

Lastly,

As we live each day, let's spread Love and Common Sense. The world needs both!

Peace!!

Abasman007:
If you like behave yourself, I still don't trust you!!

Never will I trust a woman, never!!

chiemmanuel:
I don't understand this report
The lady was buried,
And the corpse was deposited in the mortuary,
Very shallow reportage

Ningen:
You're an irresponsible man.

You don't have the resources or courage to face responsibilities yet you refused to zip it up or make use of contraceptives against pregnancy.

I don't have anything against abortion but I am against stupid people abusing privileges. Now you're a father to ‘several’ dead children. Sicko.

If you don't want to lose her, then marry her.

You both should use your ‘fertile energy’ and get a job that'll take care of the financial challenges.

The society doesn't want a dysfunction family.